我為公司盡心工作十一年後被裁員了!為什麼我認為失業對所有人來說都是遲早的事? !

Gary 智享會
29 May 202410:35

Summary

TLDRThe narrator recounts their unexpected dismissal after 11 years of dedicated service at a leading commodity consulting firm. Initially believing a meeting with the Chief Revenue Officer and HR Director was for a promotion, they were shocked to be let go due to restructuring. Despite strong relationships with top executives, the narrator reflects on the harsh reality that personal ties don't guarantee job security. They advise viewers to always be prepared for job loss, emphasizing the importance of good performance, realistic expectations of workplace relationships, and diversifying income sources.

Takeaways

  • 😔 The narrator was unexpectedly dismissed after 11 years of dedicated service, with the reason being unimaginable to them.
  • 📧 The dismissal was initiated through an email invitation for a video meeting, which the narrator initially thought was for a promotion.
  • 🏆 The narrator had an outstanding performance record and was a consistent top salesperson, even being well-known at the company's headquarters.
  • 🔄 Despite the narrator's excellent performance and relationships with top executives, they were let go due to company restructuring.
  • 😕 The narrator felt betrayed and confused by the decision, as they had a close relationship with the company's president and other executives.
  • 🤔 The narrator was informed that their position was being eliminated and that the new Asia President role required someone with more experience.
  • 💼 The dismissal made the narrator realize that performance and relationships alone do not guarantee career advancement.
  • 🤝 The narrator advises correctly recognizing the nature of relationships with superiors, emphasizing that work relationships come first.
  • 🚀 The narrator highlights the importance of always being prepared for job loss, suggesting that no job is absolutely stable.
  • 💼 The narrator recommends developing skills to be marketable and creating multiple income streams to mitigate the risk of unemployment.
  • 🌐 The script reflects on the broader context of job security in large corporations, mentioning recent layoffs in major Chinese e-commerce companies.

Q & A

  • Why did the protagonist initially think the meeting was about a promotion?

    -The protagonist believed the meeting was about a promotion because it included high-level executives, such as the Chief Revenue Officer and the Asia-Pacific HR Director, which indicated a significant discussion likely related to his expected promotion given his outstanding performance and close relationships with top management.

  • What company did the protagonist work for and what was its main business?

    -The protagonist worked for a UK-headquartered global leading commodity consultancy company, mainly selling global commodity market research and customized research services.

  • How did the protagonist perform in his role at the company?

    -The protagonist consistently achieved outstanding sales performance, being the global sales champion for many years and having his name well-known at the London headquarters. He also managed the sales team as the Asia-Pacific sales director.

  • What was the protagonist’s reaction upon learning about his dismissal?

    -The protagonist was initially shocked and disbelieving, as he had not expected to be dismissed given his strong performance and relationships with top executives. He felt a mix of sadness, humiliation, and anger.

  • What reasons did the company provide for the protagonist’s dismissal?

    -The company cited the restructuring needs and the belief that the new Asia-Pacific president position required someone with more experience, which they felt the protagonist lacked, leading to their decision to dismiss him.

  • How did the protagonist cope with the dismissal initially and subsequently?

    -Initially, the protagonist struggled with emotions of resentment and disbelief. However, he quickly secured offers from three other companies within two weeks, and over time, he reflected on his experiences and learned valuable lessons about career resilience.

  • What are the three main reflections the protagonist shares from his experience?

    -The protagonist’s three main reflections are: 1) Outstanding performance is necessary but not sufficient for promotion; 2) Recognizing the true nature of relationships with superiors, prioritizing professional over personal bonds; 3) Always be prepared for potential job loss by honing skills and diversifying income sources.

  • Why does the protagonist emphasize the importance of diversifying income sources?

    -The protagonist emphasizes diversifying income sources to mitigate the financial instability that comes with job loss, suggesting investments and side businesses to ensure financial security even if the primary job is lost.

  • What broader lesson about corporate loyalty does the protagonist illustrate with his story?

    -The protagonist illustrates that corporate loyalty is often conditional and that companies prioritize their interests over individual employees, regardless of personal relationships or past performance.

  • What does the protagonist's story suggest about the stability of high-ranking positions in companies?

    -The protagonist’s story suggests that even high-ranking positions are not immune to corporate restructuring and layoffs, highlighting the importance of being prepared for sudden career changes.

Outlines

00:00

😔 Unanticipated Dismissal: The Shocking Truth

The narrator, having devoted 11 years to a leading global commodity consulting firm, recounts the unexpected turn of events that led to their dismissal. Initially excited by an invitation to a video conference with the Chief Revenue Officer (CRO) and HR Director, they anticipated a promotion to the role of President for Asia, given their stellar sales record and strong relationships with the company's executives. However, the meeting took a dramatic turn when the CRO announced the cancellation of the narrator's position due to business restructuring, followed by the shocking news of their termination. Despite their disbelief and emotional turmoil, they received a severance agreement and began to grapple with the harsh reality of their situation, reaching out to the Chief Marketing Officer for clarification on the company's decision.

05:03

😢 Reflections on a Sudden Career Shift

After the initial shock and emotional struggle, the narrator secured offers from three companies within two weeks, reflecting on the experience with a sense of betrayal and resentment towards their former employer. On their last day, they were deeply moved by the farewell from colleagues, which included a song dedicated to their journey. Despite securing a new role in a more renowned company, they harbored resentment for half a year before beginning to reflect on the lessons learned from their 11-year career. They concluded that excellent performance is a prerequisite but not a guarantee for promotion, and that personal relationships with superiors, despite being amicable, should not be overestimated in terms of career advancement. The narrator also emphasized the importance of always preparing for the possibility of job loss, suggesting the development of skills for quick re-employment and diversifying income sources to mitigate the fear of unemployment.

13:48

😠 The Reality of Corporate Layoffs and Employee Relations

In the final paragraph, the narrator discusses the broader context of corporate layoffs, citing examples from major Chinese e-commerce companies that have undergone significant staff reductions. They highlight the stark contrast between the camaraderie displayed by company executives during prosperous times and the lack of empathy when economic downturns or business challenges arise. The paragraph reflects on the harsh truth that employees are often dispensable in the face of corporate interests, and it criticizes the insensitivity of some executives towards their staff's well-being, as evidenced by public statements from company representatives.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Chief Revenue Officer (CRO)

The Chief Revenue Officer is a senior executive responsible for driving the company's revenue and growth. In the script, the CRO plays a pivotal role in the narrative as the individual who informs the protagonist about the company's restructuring and the subsequent dismissal, highlighting the theme of corporate hierarchy and decision-making.

💡Restructuring

Restructuring refers to the process of reorganizing a company's structure to improve efficiency or profitability. In the video, the company's decision to restructure leads to the protagonist's dismissal, illustrating the impact of business decisions on individual careers and the unpredictability of the corporate world.

💡Sales Champion

A sales champion is an individual who consistently outperforms others in sales within a company. The protagonist's status as a 'global sales champion' underscores their professional success and raises the irony of their dismissal, which is a central theme in the video.

💡Dismissal

Dismissal in a corporate context means the termination of an employee's contract. The protagonist's unexpected dismissal is a key event in the video, serving as a catalyst for the narrative and the ensuing reflections on career and personal growth.

💡Promotion

Promotion is the advancement of an employee to a higher position within a company. The protagonist initially believes they are being promoted, which sets up a dramatic twist when they are actually dismissed, emphasizing the theme of misperception and the harsh realities of corporate life.

💡Performance

In a business context, performance refers to the level at which an employee or department operates in terms of productivity and efficiency. The protagonist's excellent performance is highlighted as a reason for their confidence in a promotion, yet it does not guarantee job security, a key point in the video's message.

💡Relationship with Management

The protagonist's close relationship with top executives is presented as a potential asset in their career. However, the video reveals that such relationships are often secondary to business interests, leading to the protagonist's dismissal and a reflection on the nature of professional relationships.

💡Career Reflection

Career reflection involves looking back on one's professional journey to learn from past experiences. The protagonist engages in deep reflection after their dismissal, leading to insights about the importance of performance, relationships, and preparedness in one's career.

💡Job Security

Job security is the confidence that one's job is stable and unlikely to be lost. The video challenges this concept by showing that even high-performing employees can face dismissal, prompting a discussion on the precariousness of employment in the modern workplace.

💡Income Diversification

Income diversification is the strategy of having multiple sources of income to reduce reliance on a single job. The protagonist advocates for this approach after their experience, suggesting it as a way to mitigate the risk of job loss and to gain more financial freedom.

💡Corporate Culture

Corporate culture refers to the values, social interactions, and working environment within a company. The video touches on the idea that corporate culture can be influenced by decisions such as dismissals, and how these decisions can impact employee morale and loyalty.

Highlights

Employee's 11-year dedication to the company and unexpected termination.

Initial invitation to a meeting with high-ranking executives, mistaken for a promotion opportunity.

Employee's assumption of promotion based on past performance and relationships with executives.

Shocking revelation of dismissal during the anticipated promotion meeting.

Employee's disbelief and emotional turmoil following the termination news.

Reflection on the unpredictability of career advancement despite strong performance.

Realization of the limitations of personal relationships in corporate decision-making.

Employee's quick rebound with job offers from other companies post-dismissal.

Emotional farewell from colleagues and the impact of the dismissal on personal relationships.

Employee's struggle with resentment and the process of coming to terms with the situation.

Deep reflection on the importance of recognizing the primacy of professional relationships.

Understanding the corporate decision from a broader perspective of company culture and interests.

The necessity of always being prepared for job loss in an unpredictable job market.

Importance of developing skills for quick re-employment and diversifying income sources.

Employee's venture into creating a YouTube channel as a new income stream.

Cultural shift in corporate attitudes towards employees during economic downturns.

Case studies of major e-commerce companies in China and their裁员 practices.

Transcripts

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在公司尽心尽力的服务了11年之后

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我被开除了

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而开除我的理由啊

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是我这辈子都不可能想象到的

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今天呢我会详细的和你们讲一讲

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我被开除的整个过程

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背后的理由

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还有我之后做出的深刻反思

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星期一的早晨啊

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我接到公司人力资源给我发的邮件

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邀请我周三下午去参加一个视频会议

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那会议的邀请对象呢

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有我们全球的Chief Revenue Officer(CRO)

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也就是我们的首席营收官

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还有我们亚太地区的人力资源总监

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和我总共是三个人

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收到这个邮件的时候啊

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讲实话我刚开始是欣喜若狂

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因为平常啊

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如果是我

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和我们首席营收官单独通话的时候呢

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通常聊的

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都是关于亚太地区业务发展的事情

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周三的会议

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让人力资源的总监参与进来

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那会议内容啊

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一定不是和业务相关的

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而是和人事变动有关

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那确切的说呢

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是关于我职务晋升的人事变动

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为什么我会以为这个会议

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是关于我职务晋升的呢

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我和你们来讲一讲我们公司啊

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是一家总部在英国的

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全球领先的大宗商品咨询公司

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2010年的时候

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我大学毕业

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就进入了这家公司

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亚太地区的销售部门

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销售的主要产品

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就是全球大宗商品市场调研啊

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定制化的这种研究服务等等

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我连续多年啊

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是我们全球的销售冠军

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那我的业绩突出呢

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以至于

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我的名字在伦敦的总部都很响亮

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后来呢我又被调到了另外一个部门

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做了这个部门亚洲区的销售总监

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管理一个销售

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团队在我工作的这些年啊

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我们母公司先后收购了多家的子公司

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而全公司的人都知道呢

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母公司将来会整合

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所有收购来的子公司的业务

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并在亚洲呢

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设立一个总裁

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负责集团公司的所有的业务

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我当时业绩突出

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又有跨部门的管理经验

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那竞争这个总裁的岗位呢

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是很有优势的

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当然除了我本身的工作经验之外

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我和我们公司的总裁

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首席营收官

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首席战略官

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首席财务官等等

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关系都非常的好

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好到哪种程度呢

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这么说吧

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在工作上啊

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关于亚洲地区的所有事务

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我们总裁都会跟我打电话

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问我的意见

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私下里呢

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每次我们总裁访华

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他都会单独带着我去酒吧

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我们两个聊到开心的时候呢

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他甚至会跟我聊聊他的家庭

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和他年轻时候怎么样泡妹子的经历

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要知道我们总裁啊

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平时永远是一副严肃认真的样子

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那几乎是不会开任何玩笑的

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凭借我在我们公司

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有这么强的人脉关系

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这么丰富的工作经验

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和这么卓越的业绩

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我想将来亚太地区总裁这个职务

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一定是非我莫属

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一年之后啊

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我终于等到了母公司发布公告

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要开始整合我们所有子公司的业务了

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所以啊当人力部门给我发邮件

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说周三

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和我们首席营收官视频会议的时候

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我几乎确定

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我是要被晋升成亚太地区的老大

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视频会议开始了

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我们首席营收官如往常开会一样

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一脸严肃

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当着我们人力资源总监的面

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开始给我介绍起了

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公司即将进行的合并重组

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我看着他认真的样子

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有点想笑

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心里想都是自己人

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你还跟我装啥呀

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我们首席营收官说到啊

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由于业务合并重组的需求

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我现在担任的职务呢

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将被取消

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但是将在亚洲区设立一个总裁的职务

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听到这里的时候

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讲实话啊

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我忍不住嘴角上扬

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兴奋的手都有点颤抖

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我心想啊

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这些都是我预料之中的事情啊

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你就赶快宣布我晋升的好消息吧

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然后我们首席营收官咳嗽了一下

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说道所以

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经过公司的研究决定

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我们将对你进行遣散

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遣 散

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不再做其他任用

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一瞬间我的脑子蒙了

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我没听错吧

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我被开除了

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我一个11年勤勤恳恳的老员工

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又和总部的高管们关系这么铁

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这怎么可能呢

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过了好几秒啊

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我才隐约意识到

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我们人力资源的总监

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要和我沟通具体的离职事宜

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我魂不守舍的回复他

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我说啊好的好的

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回到座位上

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HR已经把我的离职协议书

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发到了我的邮箱

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我完全没有心思去看协议书的内容

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整个脑子都是懵的

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一刹那我在想

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我是不是应该联系我们总裁

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让他帮帮我

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但是很快我就否定了我的想法

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因为遣散我

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一定是得到我们总裁允许的

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不然公司不会通知我离职

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一时间悲伤羞辱委屈

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愤怒各种情绪涌上了我的心头

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过了好几个小时啊

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我的心情才慢慢的平复了一些

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我还是给我们首席营销官

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发了一个邮件

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想单独和他聊聊

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我想搞清楚公司为什么决定遣散我

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就是死也要死个明白

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我们首席营销

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官很快就跟我打来了电话

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他跟我解释说

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我目前的职务

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在新的公司结构重组中将被取消

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而亚太区总裁一职呢

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需要更有经验的人来担当

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他们认为我目前的工作经验不够

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所以无奈只能把我遣散

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讲实话

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我当时是完全不接受他给我的理由

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但是既然公司已经决定了要遣散我

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那我也不必继续纠结

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和HR谈好了离职条件

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我在两周之内

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就拿到了外面三家公司的offer

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给的薪资啊

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都还不错

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那转眼呢

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到了我在公司工作的最后一天

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我到现在啊

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都还记得

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那天我有好几个同事都哭了

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他们还集体站在工位上

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给我唱了一首朴树的平凡之路

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我也再也忍不住流下了泪水

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11年我从来没有想过

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我会以这样的形式离开公司

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说实话啊

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我不是胸怀宽广的圣人

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在离职后的半年里

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虽然我又有了不错的工作

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而且新公司啊

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在全球的名气

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比之前的公司还要大很多

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但是

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我依然对我之前的公司充满了怨恨

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我真的恨不得他赶快关门倒闭

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直到半年之后啊

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我才能够心平气和的去复盘

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去反思我在这11年的职业生涯中

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应该吸取的经验和教训

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我的第一个反思啊

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就是优秀的业绩

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是一个人在职场中晋升的前提

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但不是保证

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你想要被晋升

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首先你需要有好的业绩给公司

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证明你是一个有能力的人

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但这并不代表机会一定就是你的

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以我自己的经历为例啊

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我业绩很好

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但是赶上公司重组被裁撤

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我只能面

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临下岗甚至呢

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有时候你业绩很好

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但是你的人际关系很差

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你依然是不可能被晋升的

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所以在工作中

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升职加薪这个事情啊

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我真觉得是七分靠实力

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三分靠运气

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我的第二个反思啊

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就是我应该正确的认知

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我和老板之间的关系

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我是一个反面的教材

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我高估了我们高管之间的关系

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对我职业生涯的帮助

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当你在工作中结识了你的领导

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即便你私下和他关系很好

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你也应该认清啊

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你们之间的第一属性关系永远是同事

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是工作和公司利益让你们走在了一起

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那第二属性关系呢

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才可能是朋友

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我这个朋友啊

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还要打一个引号

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所以

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当你认为你和你领导的第二属性关系

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强于你的第一属性关系的时候

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那你就很傻很天真了

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平时岁月静好的时候

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作为领导可以和你把酒言欢

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但是当你的个人利益

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和公司利益冲突的时候

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一个合格的领导

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肯定首先应该保护的是公司的利益

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当时啊我们公司结构重组

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被遣散的不止我一个人

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那如果领导层因为个人的关系

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去袒护我

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那势必会引起其他被遣散同事的不满

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也会严重的破坏公司的文化

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所以从这个层面上来讲啊

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我也似乎能够理解

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我之前公司对我做出的决定

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那我的反思三

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就是永远要为离职做好准备

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我之前公司的结构重组

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导致了很多之前的同事都失业了

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我本以为啊

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这可能是企业的个例

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但是我在新公司工作这两年多里

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我们中国区因为业务调整

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也先后解雇了很多人

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甚至包含了我们中国区的总裁法人

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还有一位工作了20多年的老员工

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这些经历啊

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让我深刻的领悟到

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这个世界上

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没有什么工作是绝对稳定的

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一个成熟的职业心理人的心态呢

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应该是随时为离职做好准备

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那怎么准备呢

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我认为有两点

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在现有岗位上锻炼好技能

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第一个就是你在你现有的工作岗位上

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锻炼好你的技能

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如果有一天你被公司开除

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或者你想要主动离开

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你可以迅速的找到下家

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我就是因为我在之前的工作中

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业绩优秀

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所以在公司决定遣散我的两周内

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我就拿到了三家公司的offer

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而且没有一家比之前的工资低

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那第二点呢

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创造多个收入渠道

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就是尽可能的创造多个收入渠道

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那这些收入渠道呢

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可以是股票投资

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房产投资

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也可以是做副业

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为什么我现在开始做YouTube

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那其实就是因为我的工作经历

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让我对靠领工资这种单一的收入来源

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产生了深深的不安全感

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虽然我的工资应该比绝大多数人都高

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但是呢如果有一天

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我因为某种原因再次丢掉了工作

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而我没有其他的收入来源

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那我就瞬间没有了所有的收入

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可是你想啊

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如果有一天

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你靠自己的投资和副业赚到的钱呢

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也可以保证你的基本开销

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那你

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是不是就不那么害怕失去工作了呢

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你的人生

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是不是也会多了很多的选择呢

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其实啊

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我在写今天这期视频文案的这几天里啊

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中国的几大电商巨头都在进行裁员

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那个天天称呼自己员工是自己兄弟

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的京东总裁刘强东

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这些天啊

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要求他的员工

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每小时都要汇报工作进度

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听说连员工上个厕所的时间

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都要在工作时长中扣除

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有人就说啊

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他这就是在变相的

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逼员工主动提出离职

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而另外一个电商巨头阿里巴巴集团

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在过去两年裁了54,000人

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马爸爸忙着给公众解释说啊

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他这个不叫裁员

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而是叫为社会输出

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阿里培训的优秀毕业生

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那比起马爸爸的虚伪啊

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百度的公关总裁璩静

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则要真诚很多

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她直接发抖音说

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自己没有义务去关心员工的生活

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只要有员工因为私事想要离职

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她秒批

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所以你看啊

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当经济形势好的时候

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资本家

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一个个演绎的都像是你的好朋友

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像是个慈善家

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但是呢当经济形势不好的时候

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当企业遇到问题的时候

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你的失业

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不会让你的老板有任何一丝丝的同情

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