ONLY ME - RUTH KADIRI MAURICE SAM MOC MADU VICTORY OPARA

Summary

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Takeaways

• 😞 Husband loses job and struggles to find a new one, causing marital issues
• 😠 Wife gets frustrated having to be breadwinner and do domestic work
• 🤬 Husband cheats on wife with friend's girlfriend
• 😢 Wife finds out about husband's infidelity
• 😤 Wife kicks husband out after finding other woman's items
• 🙁 Husband moves in with ex, but she rejects his advances
• 🥺 Husband tries to reconcile, but wife refuses
• 😌 Ex-girlfriend seeks husband's forgiveness
• 😊 Husband and wife agree to downsize lifestyle and rebuild trust
• ❤️ They reconcile and agree to try for a baby in 3 months

Q & A

What led to the conflict between Alisha and Chy?

Chy lost his job which put financial strain on Alisha. This led her to resent him for their expensive lifestyle that she now had to solely support.

Why did Chy cheat on Alisha?

He felt neglected physically and emotionally. After not being intimate with Alisha for 3 months, he gave in when pressured by his friend to cheat.

How did Alisha find out about Chy's infidelity?

She found another woman's underwear in their bedroom. When confronted, Chy admitted to cheating.

What caused Alisha to initially pull away from Chy?

She was exhausted from being the sole provider and felt Chy expected her to still handle all the domestic duties despite working long hours outside the home.

How does the script portray gender roles and expectations?

The male characters expect the women to handle domestic responsibilities like cooking and cleaning regardless of their careers. The women criticize the men for not providing financially.

How do money problems affect relationships?

Financial stress can damage intimacy and respect in a relationship. It caused Alisha to resent Chy despite her initial commitment to stand by him in poverty or wealth.

What leads Alisha and Chy to separate?

After learning of his infidelity, Alisha no longer trusts Chy and asks him to move out. The accumulated resentment from their money issues also fuels the breakup.

What brings Alisha and Chy back together?

Time apart makes them realize they still love each other. They agree to reconcile, communicate better, live within their means, and rebuild intimacy and trust.

How does the script portray different perspectives in relationships?

Through multiple storylines, it shows how different backgrounds, assumptions and expectations between partners can lead to conflict if not openly addressed.

What is the overarching message about relationships?

Communication, compromise and understanding are vital. While challenges will emerge, with continuous effort relationships can evolve to become stronger.