WOMEN with REAL DESIRE will pursue you THIS WAY in a relationship (MODERN MEN don't know this)

Summary

In this video, the speaker discusses the dynamics of genuine desire in dating, emphasizing that women pursue men who satisfy both short-term and long-term emotional needs. The key idea is that men should focus on their own purpose and success, as this will attract women who will initiate communication, set up dates, and show authentic interest. The speaker explains that most modern men fail to recognize the difference between superficial dating experiences and the deeper connection women seek. Ultimately, the video advises men to enhance their attractiveness to experience this type of genuine desire from women.

Takeaways

• 🔥 Women show genuine desire by actively pursuing men they truly like, initiating most of the contact and plans themselves.
• 💡 Many modern men mistakenly focus on tactics to secure dates or sex instead of fostering genuine emotional attraction.
• 👑 Women are hypergamous, meaning they seek the most emotionally and socially fulfilling option available to them.
• 📱 If a man constantly initiates communication and plans while the woman only responds, he is the pursuer—not the one being pursued.
• ❗ Genuine desire from a woman is clear through her eagerness—she will text first, call, and suggest plans when truly interested.
• 🚀 Men should focus on their own purpose, goals, and self-improvement; when they do, women naturally become more drawn to them.
• 💬 Women express affection and connection primarily through words and communication—they build relationships via consistent verbal engagement.
• 💞 When a woman genuinely likes a man, she initiates physical intimacy and seeks closeness without the man needing to make the first move.
• 🧩 Men who have never experienced genuine female desire often mistake low-effort relationships for normal interactions.
• 🏗️ A woman will choose one man out of many potential options who best satisfies both her emotional and primal desires.
• 🔑 If a woman isn’t reciprocating effort, communication, or interest, the man should move on immediately instead of chasing.
• 🎯 To experience high-level desire from women, men must increase their attractiveness, value, and focus on personal growth.
• 💬 The speaker emphasizes that this dynamic can be learned and replicated through a structured process focused on mastering female psychology.

Q & A

What does the speaker suggest is the biggest mistake men make in dating today?

The speaker suggests that the biggest mistake men make is focusing on getting another date or sex, rather than optimizing for genuine, raw desire from women.

What does hypergamy mean in the context of dating?

Hypergamy refers to women’s tendency to seek the best possible mate, one who can emotionally satisfy them and meet their desires, even though they may have many options.

How does the speaker describe the typical modern man's experience in dating?

The typical modern man constantly pursues women, asking about availability for dates, and makes all the offers to meet up. Despite this, he rarely feels reciprocated desire and often ends up feeling ignored or rejected.

What is the difference between a man who is pursued and one who is always pursuing, according to the speaker?

A man who is pursued is seen as a higher-value individual by women, as his focus is on his own goals and purpose, rather than constantly seeking validation or setting up dates.

What happens when a woman genuinely likes a man, based on the speaker’s experience?

When a woman genuinely likes a man, she will initiate most of the communication, including setting up dates and checking in on him. She will also want to spend more time with him and invest emotionally.

How does the speaker suggest men should behave to attract women’s genuine desire?

Men should focus on their own goals, passions, and purpose in life, essentially becoming obsessed with their own vision and success. This behavior naturally attracts women, as they are drawn to high-value men.

What role do words play in a woman’s emotional connection to a man?

For women, words hold significant emotional weight. They use words to build relationships and can be deeply impacted by what is said to them, as words can shift their emotional state for the entire day.

What does the speaker mean by ‘hypergamy’ in relation to a woman’s choices in men?

Hypergamy, in this context, refers to women choosing one man who satisfies both their short-term and long-term emotional needs, even though there may be many potential suitors.

How does the speaker advise men to respond when they notice friction in communication or a lack of interest from a woman?

If a man experiences any friction in communication or notices a lack of genuine interest, the speaker advises him to move on and quit pursuing that woman, as it indicates she does not view him as the one who satisfies her primal desires.

What does the speaker say about the importance of attractiveness in receiving the right type of treatment from women?

The speaker asserts that if a man has never received the level of attention and desire described, he needs to make himself more attractive, focusing on both his physical and emotional appeal to attract the right type of attention from women.