Case study clinical example CBT: First session with a client with symptoms of depression (CBT model)

Judith Johnson
23 Oct 201413:54

Summary

TLDRIn this emotional dialogue, Lucy, a university English student, opens up about her struggle with persistent feelings of sadness and low motivation. She reveals her sense of isolation, difficulty in confiding in friends or family, and the pressure of high academic and parental expectations. Lucy's downward spiral began with exam stress and her parents' marital issues, leading to a cycle of negative thoughts and feelings of unworthiness. The conversation highlights her internal conflict and the challenge of coping with mental health struggles while navigating university life.

Takeaways

  • 😔 The individual, Lucy, has been feeling down and unmotivated for several months, with her condition worsening recently.
  • 🏥 Lucy was referred to the service by her GP three months ago, indicating her prolonged struggle with her emotional state.
  • 📚 She is an English student at university and lives away from home with friends, but feels isolated and unable to confide in them about her feelings.
  • 🤔 Lucy's low mood seems to have started during exam preparation, compounded by her parents' marital issues and her own academic stress.
  • 😔 She feels guilty and believes that if she performed better academically, it might have improved her parents' situation.
  • 📉 Lucy's academic performance did not meet her own high standards, leading to self-criticism and a further decline in her mood.
  • 🚫 She experiences difficulty in reaching out for help, feeling that no one would understand or listen to her struggles.
  • 😞 Lucy's negative thoughts include feelings of worthlessness, believing she doesn't deserve to be at university, and that her efforts are pointless.
  • 😡 Along with sadness, Lucy also experiences anger and frustration, likely directed at her situation and herself.
  • 🛌 She has lost interest in activities she once enjoyed and has a lack of motivation to even attend lectures, which she finds stressful.
  • 💤 Lucy's physical state reflects her emotional state, with feelings of being drained, lethargic, and struggling with sleep.

Q & A

  • Why was Lucy referred to the counselor?

    -Lucy was referred to the counselor by her GP because she had been feeling quite down and hadn't been feeling well for a while, and she thought it was time to see someone about it.

  • How long has Lucy been feeling down?

    -Lucy has been feeling down for quite a few months before seeing the GP, and it has gotten worse in the past few months.

  • What has been the impact of Lucy's low mood on her daily life?

    -Lucy's low mood has led to a lack of motivation, making it hard for her to do things she used to enjoy and causing her to isolate herself from friends and family.

  • How does Lucy feel about her friends' understanding of her situation?

    -Lucy feels that her friends are lovely and she gets along well with them, but she doesn't feel they understand what she's going through, so she hides her feelings from them.

  • What was the initial trigger for Lucy's low mood?

    -The initial trigger for Lucy's low mood was the stress from revising for exams and her parents going through marital problems around the same time.

  • How did Lucy's parents' marital issues affect her?

    -Lucy's parents' marital issues added to her stress and affected her emotionally, making her feel guilty and responsible for trying to fix things by doing well in her exams.

  • How did Lucy perform in her exams?

    -Lucy did not perform well in her exams, which added to her feelings of guilt and failure, as she had put a lot of pressure on herself to succeed.

  • What are Lucy's thoughts about her self-worth and abilities?

    -Lucy has high standards for herself and feels unworthy and inadequate when she doesn't meet those standards. She also feels she doesn't deserve to be at university if she can't perform well.

  • What emotions does Lucy experience when she has negative thoughts about herself?

    -When Lucy has negative thoughts about herself, she experiences sadness, anger, frustration, and embarrassment.

  • How does Lucy's physical state reflect her emotional state?

    -Lucy's physical state reflects her emotional state as she feels drained, lethargic, and struggles with sleep, which is indicative of her overall stress and depression.

  • What coping mechanism does Lucy use to deal with her negative thoughts?

    -Lucy uses avoidance as a coping mechanism, trying to push out negative thoughts and not think about them, which she finds somewhat relieving but acknowledges might make things worse in the long run.

Outlines

00:00

😔 Struggling with Depression and Isolation

The speaker, Lucy, discusses her feelings of sadness and lack of motivation with a healthcare professional. She mentions that her feelings of being down have been ongoing for several months and have worsened recently. Lucy feels isolated, unable to talk to her friends or family about her feelings, which adds to her distress. The conversation reveals that her depression may have been triggered by the stress of exams and her parents' marital issues, which she tried to alleviate by doing well in her studies. However, her efforts did not improve the situation and only added to her feelings of inadequacy and guilt.

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🤯 High Expectations and Academic Pressure

Lucy shares her experience of the exam period, which was particularly stressful due to her high standards and the pressure to perform well, not just for herself but also to potentially improve her parents' situation. The outcome of the exams was not as expected, leading to self-criticism and a sense of failure. She acknowledges that her parents have instilled in her the belief that she should always strive for the best, which contributes to her feelings of inadequacy when she does not meet these expectations.

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😖 Negative Thoughts and Emotional Drain

In this paragraph, Lucy delves into the negative thought patterns that have taken hold of her mind, including feelings of worthlessness and the belief that her efforts are pointless. These thoughts are accompanied by emotions of sadness, anger, and frustration. She also discusses the physical toll these emotions have taken, describing a state of constant tension and stress that has recently transitioned into lethargy and a lack of motivation. Lucy's struggle with sleep and her tendency to avoid confronting her negative thoughts by choosing to numb herself to them is also highlighted.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Depression

Depression is a common mental health disorder characterized by persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a lack of interest or pleasure in activities. In the video, the individual expresses these feelings, indicating they have been feeling down for several months and have lost motivation, which are key symptoms of depression.

💡Motivation

Motivation refers to the psychological drive that influences a person to engage in activities to achieve a goal. The script reveals that the individual is struggling with a lack of motivation, as they express an inability to find the energy to do things they previously enjoyed.

💡Isolation

Isolation is the state of being alone or separated from others. The person in the video mentions feeling isolated and not having anyone to talk to about their feelings, which is a common experience for those dealing with depression and can exacerbate their condition.

💡Self-Pressure

Self-pressure is the internal stress one puts on themselves to meet certain standards or expectations. The individual discusses the pressure they feel to perform well, particularly in relation to their exams and parental expectations, which has contributed to their feelings of depression.

💡Parental Expectations

Parental expectations refer to the hopes and standards that parents have for their children. The script indicates that the individual feels a strong need to meet their parents' expectations, which has added to their stress and feelings of inadequacy.

💡Academic Stress

Academic stress is the tension and anxiety that students experience due to academic demands and performance concerns. The individual's struggle with exam preparation and the desire to do well academically are sources of stress that have contributed to their depressive state.

💡Marital Problems

Marital problems refer to conflicts or issues within a marriage that can cause distress to the individuals involved and their family. The script mentions that the individual's parents are having marital issues, which has had a negative impact on the individual's emotional state.

💡Self-Worth

Self-worth is the value and esteem a person holds for themselves. The individual expresses feelings of being unworthy and not deserving to be at university, indicating a low sense of self-worth, which is often associated with depression.

💡Emotional Drain

Emotional drain describes the depletion of emotional energy that results from stress or negative emotions. The individual describes feeling drained and lethargic, which is a manifestation of the emotional toll their situation is taking.

💡Sleep Disturbance

Sleep disturbance refers to disruptions in the quality or quantity of sleep. The script mentions that the individual is unable to have a satisfied night's sleep, which is a common symptom of depression and can further affect mental health.

💡Numbness

Numbness, in an emotional context, refers to a lack of feeling or emotional response. The individual describes feeling slightly worse but then numb, indicating a form of emotional shutdown that can be a coping mechanism in response to overwhelming negative emotions.

Highlights

Patient has been feeling down for several months and it has worsened recently.

Patient visited GP 3 months ago but depression has not improved since then.

Patient struggles with motivation and finds it hard to get things done.

Patient feels isolated with no one to talk to about their feelings.

Patient is an English student living away from home with friends but doesn't feel able to confide in them.

Patient has high standards for themselves and feels unworthy when not meeting them.

Patient's depression began around exam time 6 months ago when also dealing with parents' marital issues.

Patient felt guilty, thinking they could improve parents' situation by doing well in exams.

Patient's exam performance was not good, adding to feelings of failure and self-blame.

Patient avoids social activities with friends to not bring them down.

Patient has difficulty sleeping and feels physically drained and lethargic.

Patient finds it pointless to attend lectures when feeling unworthy and unable to perform well.

Patient feels embarrassed discussing their emotions and finds it uncomfortable.

Patient's negative thoughts lead to feelings of sadness, anger, frustration, and embarrassment.

Patient copes by trying to avoid thinking about their problems, which provides temporary relief but may worsen things long-term.

Patient's depression has significant impact on daily life, motivation, and emotional well-being.

Transcripts

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hi Lucy nice to meet you hi um so I

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understand that you were referred here

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by your GP because you've been feeling

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quite down recently yeah I thought I

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should I've been feeling quite bad for

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quite a while so I thought maybe it's

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time to see someone about it because I

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don't want to feel like this anymore

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okay so um from your notes I saw that

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you saw the GP about 3 months ago yeah

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um so how long have you been feeling

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down all together um quite a few months

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before that as well actually but it's

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gotten pretty bad these past few months

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so that's kind of why I came okay so has

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it got worse since you saw your GP yeah

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okay so tell me him how how are things

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at the moment um well it kind of started

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just feeling a bit low and wound up

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about things but I don't know just

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recently I I just can't really be

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bothered to do anything at all I kind of

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find it hard to get motivated for things

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and I want to be I really want to be

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better but it's just kind of reaching

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the end now where I just I want to do

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something about it okay so so you said

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that you're feeling really down really

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sad yeah and you feel like you haven't

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got any

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motivation um but are you okay yeah fine

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sorry okay um and you haven't got any

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motivation but it sounds like you're

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putting quite a lot of pressure on

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yourself to try and feel a bit better

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yeah I just it's kind of hard as well

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because there's not really anyone to

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talk about so I just kind of stay on my

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own trying

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to I don't like to think about it but I

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just know okay so you've you say you've

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been um you feeling quite isolated

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there's not many people around yeah

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there's no one I can talk to about it no

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one would listen or understand anyway

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okay so um I'm just going to try and

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find out a little bit more about you so

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I understand that you're an English

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student at Uni yeah and um you live away

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from home with some friends is that

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right yeah I live here okay so you don't

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you don't live far from the uni um but

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you say you feel like you live with your

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friend but you don't feel like you can

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talk to them yeah I mean they're lovely

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I I I get on really well with them

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but I don't know I just recently

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whenever they want to go out or stuff I

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just I don't want to bring them down I

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can't they don't understand what I'm

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going through they kind of I don't know

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they don't make fun of how I feel but

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they don't really understand what it's

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like I just I don't want to go out with

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them and bring them down or stuff okay

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so it sounds do you try and hide the way

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you're feeling from them I guess I

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mean it's easier to hide it than to try

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and explain it all the time when no one

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really wants to

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know okay so it sounds like you've been

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feeling down you've been feeling

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unmotivated um you feel like you want to

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be better but actually it sounds like

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you feel like you can't reach out for

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help you can't speak to anybody no I

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don't really talk to my parents a lot

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either so that's kind of hard okay I'm

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just going to go back in time a little

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bit I suppose I'm just wondering when

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when did all of this start you said it's

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been going on for quite a few months

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yeah

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um I

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guess kind of

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started uh when I was actually when I

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was revising for my exams um I guess the

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stress I put a lot of stress on myself I

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think I've always wanted to do well for

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me and I guess for my parents so the

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stress of exams and it was also kind of

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hard cuz my parents were going through a

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bit of a

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a troubled time then so okay so this

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would be like last March last April uh

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yeah I think I think so around that time

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so about 6 months is and it sounds like

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a lot was happening so you had a lot of

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uni pressure on and um and you you said

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that your parents were having marital

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problems okay and it sounds like that

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was a real shock to you yeah I guess it

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was hard as well because I wasn't doing

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well at Uni I I guess I just felt a bit

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guilty I know it sounds silly but I felt

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like maybe if I could do better then

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they would get better but I it just

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wasn't really happening okay so sounds

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like you were trying to work hard and

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yeah and be more successful because you

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thought that that would make them

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happier and try and fix things yeah I

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wanted to make them feel better but it

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just kind of P fired a little I guess

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how did it

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backfire it just ended up with them

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getting worse and I've just been feeling

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worse since

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then okay so after the summer um after

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the exam period um and how did that exam

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period go for you in the end not very

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well okay that's an awful lot of

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pressure to put on yourself that you

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supposed to think it's just annoying

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because I know I should have done better

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and I just didn't and I guess I beat

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myself up a lot about

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so you say I know I know I should have

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done better yeah I mean I suppose

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hearing it from my perspective I'm

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thinking it sounds like you had an awful

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lot going on at the time it'd be

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understandable absolutely that you

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wouldn't do as well as normal I suppose

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I'm just wondering if you have very high

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standards for

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yourself probably maybe more than other

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people my parents have always kind of

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taught me not in in a loving way I guess

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but

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that you should do your best but also

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get the best and I agree with it I think

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that's the right thing to think but when

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I don't do that I don't know it annoys

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me a lot and I worry that it annoys them

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so it sounds like you feel you should

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always do your best is that the word you

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used yeah um and that there isn't any

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kind of exceptions for that but no okay

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um so I can I can see then that was a

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really difficult time for you and that

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was when your mood started to get lower

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and things are still quite bad now I

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mean what's the situation with your

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parents at the moment

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um I think it it doesn't sound good I

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don't really talk to them a lot but I

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don't think they're going through very

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good I don't like to talk to them about

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it because it just makes me feel worse

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okay but I don't think it's getting any

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better were you home over the summer uh

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for little bit Yeah MH and how is that

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uh not very

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fun no um it was quite tense all the

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time stress me out more than relax me

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over the summer I guess MH

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okay okay so it sounds like quite a lot

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has been happening you've been feeling

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very low you've had uh uni pressure on

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um you've had uh problems with your

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parents' marriage and sounds like you

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feel like you can't really reach out to

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to any one like you can't understand

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where you can't really reach out to your

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parents right now you can't really

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confide in your friends um so I suppose

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I'm just wonder if you can tell me a bit

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more about how you've been feeling I

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mean say this past week

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um really not good to be honest um I

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actually if I don't have to then I don't

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really leave the house or get out of bed

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I just I can't find the motivation for

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the things that I used to join I used to

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love doing sports or going out and now I

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just prefer to lie in bed and not really

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do anything okay I missed a few lectures

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this week that I should have gone to but

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right so I suppose I'm just wondering

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then let's see if we can think about one

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thing say a lecture what kind of

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thoughts do you have about going to that

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lecture before it happens I don't really

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see the point anymore if if I can't do

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as well as I should be doing then what's

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the point in putting myself in those

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positions I just I can't be bothered

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anymore to to try it just stresses me

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out more than I needs to okay so it

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sounds like the kind of thoughts you've

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got on your head are it's pointless um

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it's not worth it yeah do you have any

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other thoughts in your head when you're

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just at that point before you go to the

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lecture feel

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like I don't know I I I don't really

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even deserve to be here if I can't do

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well enough I see all these other

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students are are doing well and doing

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better and want to be

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there I don't know why I'm here even at

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youi to be honest so it sounds like you

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feel like you're not as good as other

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people here yeah okay um I'm just sorry

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is it okay if I take notes as we go

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through it's just I'm trying to um I

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guess understand what you're telling me

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and it helps me just to write it down

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and I'll share this with you later um

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okay so it sounds like those are those

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are some quite negative thoughts to have

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you're kind of saying you know it feels

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like it's pointless it's more effort

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than it's worth um and I I don't deserve

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to be here I mean when you have those

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thoughts how do you

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feel

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very unworthy probably would be the best

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way to put it kind

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of I don't know

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just lower than normal because then it

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makes me think about all the things that

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I should have been doing better okay so

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what you described there then you said

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I'm unworthy I should be doing lots of

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things better um those are kind of what

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I would I would call thoughts actually I

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suppose I'm trying to understand what it

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feels like in your gut what kind of

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emotions do you feel happier do you feel

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sad do you what kind of emotions are you

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feeling when you have those

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thoughts

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sad not

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happiness no sad I I

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bit of kind of anger and frustration as

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well

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okay I know just when you're kind of

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telling me this and I know this is quite

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heavy topic um but you're kind of

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laughing and I suppose I wonder a little

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bit of you a bit you know how do you

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feel about having these

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emotions talking about these emotions I

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guess embarrassed I'm MH but is I I've

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never yet to talk about it so it's quite

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uncomfortable to be this situation okay

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well you're doing a great job because I

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know I know that this can be difficult

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um okay so it sounds like some of the

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thoughts you're describing are it's

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pointless it's more than it's worth I

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don't deserve to be here I'm unworthy

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and those kind of thoughts it sounds

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like they just flip through your mind um

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and then you kind of describing

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different emotions that those lead to

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you're kind of describing sad anger

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frustration embarrassed what about in

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your body what

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happens how do you feel kind of

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physically I used to be I think from

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those emotions very wound up very kind

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of stressed all the time but recently

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it's just been a lot more draining than

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anything just quite lethargic

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and just can't be bothered anymore and

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it my body reflects that but then when I

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try and sleep I just can't seem to have

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a satisfied night sleep it's really

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really

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time as you said focusing on those those

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thoughts those negative thoughts how do

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you feel after that do you feel better

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or do you feel

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worse I guess I feel a slightly worse

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but

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then a bit numb in a way kind

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of once you felt that cuz I do feel

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tired all the time I just try and push

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it out and then you don't really think

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about anything and it's almost nicer

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that way than to keep focused on how

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much you're getting wrong and how much

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you can't do stuff sometimes it's better

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just

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to not think about it at all so it

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sounds like in some ways it's a bit of a

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relief to do that yeah but in other ways

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maybe you think it might make things

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worse probably in the long run

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yeah

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