Lecture 9 Nervousness
Summary
TLDRIn Lecture Nine, the speaker addresses nervousness and anxiety in public speaking, emphasizing the importance of viewing these feelings as experiences rather than suffering. The lecture delves into the prevalence of glossophobia, or fear of public speaking, and offers strategies to manage it, such as planning, preparing, and practicing. The speaker also advises against admitting nervousness to the audience, as it can distract from the message and increase one's own anxiety. Tips for reducing nervousness include choosing topics wisely, visualizing success, and releasing tension through deep breathing or meditation. The lecture encourages embracing imperfection and welcoming the experience of sharing information with others.
Takeaways
- π Nervousness and anxiety are normal experiences, and the speaker prefers to 'experience' rather than 'suffer' from them, as it's a learning opportunity.
- π Glossophobia, or fear of public speaking, is widespread, with 27 million people in the U.S. experiencing it, making it a common concern.
- π The lecturer encourages students to embrace the learning opportunity from nervousness and to view it as a tool for personal growth.
- π€ The importance of not admitting nervousness to the audience is emphasized, as it can increase one's own anxiety and distract the audience from the message.
- π« The script strongly advises against telling the audience about one's nervousness, as it can undermine credibility and focus.
- π Three key strategies to manage nervousness are presented: Plan, Prepare, and Practice, which are crucial for reducing anxiety.
- π The script discusses various reasons people may feel nervous, such as fear of failure, rejection, or the unknown, and the importance of understanding these triggers.
- π― Visualization of success and choosing topics wisely are suggested as effective methods for managing nervousness.
- π Making eye contact and smiling at the audience can help release tension and create a positive atmosphere.
- π ββοΈ The lecturer insists on not apologizing during presentations, instead using 'excuse me' to correct any mistakes, to maintain authority and credibility.
- πͺ Embracing imperfection and welcoming the experience of public speaking are encouraged as part of the personal development process.
Q & A
What is the main topic of Lecture Nine?
-The main topic of Lecture Nine is nervousness and anxiety, specifically focusing on nervousness related to public speaking.
Why does the speaker prefer to use the term 'experience' instead of 'suffer' when discussing nervousness?
-The speaker prefers the term 'experience' because it frames nervousness as a natural and potentially beneficial part of life, rather than something negative and burdensome.
How many people in the U.S. experience a fear of public speaking according to the lecture?
-According to the lecture, approximately 27 million people in the U.S. experience a fear of public speaking.
What is glossophobia?
-Glossophobia is the fear of public speaking.
What are the three P's mentioned as strategies to reduce nervousness?
-The three P's mentioned are Plan, Prepare, and Practice.
Why should you never tell your audience that you are nervous?
-You should never tell your audience that you are nervous because it can increase your own nervousness and distract the audience from your message, causing them to focus on your nervousness instead.
What are some common reasons people experience nervousness when speaking in public?
-Common reasons include not liking people staring at them, fear of failure or rejection, fear of the unknown, and past negative experiences.
What is the Personal Report of Public Speaking Anxiety (PRPSA)?
-The PRPSA is an assessment tool developed by Dr. McCroskey to measure an individual's level of anxiety related to public speaking.
What should you do if you make a mistake during a presentation?
-If you make a mistake during a presentation, you should say 'excuse me' and correct the mistake without apologizing.
How can nervousness be beneficial according to the lecture?
-Nervousness can be beneficial because it indicates that something matters to you and can propel you towards greatness if you harness it properly.
Outlines
π Embracing Nervousness as a Learning Experience
The speaker begins by addressing nervousness and anxiety, particularly in the context of public speaking. They share their personal experience and preference for the term 'experience nervousness' over 'suffer from it', emphasizing that every experience is an opportunity for growth. The lecture aims to discuss not only the nature of nervousness but also its causes and potential solutions, with a focus on reframing the concept of 'fixing' anxiety. The speaker introduces the topic of glossophobia and poses a question to the audience about the prevalence of public speaking anxiety in the U.S., revealing that approximately 27 million people are affected based on data from 2017.
π Extra Credit Opportunity and Public Speaking Fear
The speaker presents an extra credit question related to the lecture's content, instructing students to send their answers via canvas inbox with a specific subject heading. They stress the importance of individual effort and discourage sharing answers with classmates, advocating for fairness and personal commitment to the course material. The due date for the extra credit is mentioned, and the speaker reflects on their own experience with public speaking anxiety, despite their extensive teaching background. They also mention a tool developed by Dr. Procter for assessing public speaking anxiety levels and share their experience with the paper-based version of this tool from their student days.
π Transforming Nervousness into a Path to Greatness
The speaker discusses the potential positive aspects of nervousness, suggesting that it can propel individuals towards success if properly harnessed. They argue against the idea of 'fixing' nervousness, instead advocating for an understanding and utilization of it as a natural response to something that matters. The speaker also introduces the concept of never admitting nervousness to an audience, explaining that doing so can increase one's own nervousness and distract the audience from the message being conveyed. They emphasize the importance of not drawing attention to one's nervousness during public speaking.
π The Importance of Planning, Preparing, and Practicing
The speaker outlines three key strategies to reduce nervousness: planning, preparing, and practicing. They discuss the importance of understanding assignment instructions, knowing one's audience, message, and time constraints. The speaker shares an anecdote about a student who failed to follow instructions, highlighting the need for careful planning and preparation. They also stress the importance of practice, mentioning that thorough preparation can significantly reduce anxiety levels and improve performance. The lecture concludes with a reminder that practice makes perfect and encourages students to embrace the learning process.
Mindmap
Keywords
π‘Nervousness
π‘Anxiety
π‘Glossophobia
π‘Public Speaking
π‘Experience
π‘Extra Credit
π‘Collaborative Work
π‘Plan, Prepare, Practice
π‘Authenticity
π‘Asset vs. Liability
π‘Visual Aids
Highlights
The speaker prefers the term 'experience nervousness' over 'suffer from nervousness' to emphasize growth and learning.
Nervousness is a normal experience for many people, including the speaker, and is not necessarily a negative thing.
Glossophobia, or fear of public speaking, affects a significant number of people in the U.S., with 27 million being the estimated number.
Public speaking anxiety is considered one of the top phobias, even greater than the fear of spiders (Arachnophobia).
An extra credit opportunity is provided for students to define 'glossophobia', encouraging active engagement with the lecture content.
The importance of not revealing nervousness to the audience is stressed to maintain credibility and focus.
Admitting nervousness can increase self-awareness of it and distract the audience from the message being conveyed.
Three key strategies to reduce nervousness are emphasized: Plan, Prepare, and Practice.
The necessity of understanding the assignment instructions and the importance of details in planning a speech are discussed.
The speaker shares a personal experience of not completing a teaching demo within the allotted time and the emotional impact of it.
The value of practicing speeches multiple times to ensure familiarity and comfort with the material is highlighted.
Reasons for nervousness, such as fear of failure or rejection, are explored, along with strategies to manage it.
The speaker advises against apologizing during presentations, suggesting the use of 'excuse me' to correct mistakes instead.
The importance of audience engagement through eye contact and smiling is discussed to help release tension.
The speaker encourages embracing imperfection and focusing on delivering the message effectively rather than aiming for perfection.
A final note on the value of the speaker's experience in sharing information that is unique to them and the importance of self-confidence.
Transcripts
all right and we are back so this is
lecture nine
election nine is talking about
nervousness and anxiety
and to be honest even I still suffer
with that
but I don't really like to use the word
supper I prefer that I experience
nervousness
I don't like the word suffer because
when we use the word suffer
it's like something that weighs down on
us it's something that comes to hinder
and to block into Joe stories whereas
if we say that we experience
every experience is meant to help us to
help us grow to help us learn something
to teach us something about ourselves
most often and then sometimes about
other people as well so I prefer that I
experience nervousness instead of saying
that I suffer with it and perhaps that
will give you something to think about
also so
nervousness is normal okay a lot of
people experience it and that's what
we're going to talk about in lecture
unless you're not not only are we going
to talk about nervousness anxiety but
why it happens and what we can do to
fix it and notice that I put fix in air
quotes because again it's not something
to be fixed just earphones
all right so I'm going to share my
screen I think that I'm going to use two
different
PowerPoints for this one I think so
let's just let's baby
one more
this one
what's that
hold on
okay let's see I have for several okay
yeah so this one has them though or
whatever
okay so let's share
Thunder rainbow
all right so
all right so let's talk about nerves
okay and the first thing that I want us
to talk about is glossophobia this word
is pronounced glossophobia
glossophobe
you don't have to look it up at the
moment this word is going to come up
again later
on stage
so we're talking about nervousness and
speech anxiety
my question is simple how many people in
the U.S suffer from public speaking
anxiety what would you say is the right
how many people in the U.S suffer from
suffer with
speech anxiety or my preferred question
is how many people in the U.S experience
public speaking fear or public speaking
that how many people in the U.S have a
fear of public experience
experience fear of public speaking how
many people United States
experience
4 million
12 million 18 million or 27 million
excuse me I want you to think about it
for a moment
and if you chose the 27 million you
would be correct now given this number
this information data comes from around
2017.
so the numbers could have increased or
they could have been decreased but what
is given is that public speaking Remains
the top 10 things that people feel
in fact is considered one of the top
five phobias and in some studies it has
been shown that public speaking is a
greater fear than Arachnophobia to fear
spirals
so there's a quick question and an
opportunity for extra credit
you know the drill send me a message via
canvas inbox and accept candles and
subject heading should be lecture nine
extra credit
lecture nine extra credit and here's the
question
what is
philosopher
what is glossable
that's what you should tell me in your
canvas inbox message remember the
subject heading should say lecture nine
extra credit and you should provide me
with the answer in the body
million times
while I believe in collaborative work
with our with our co-workers that only
believe in it I expect it in this course
I don't think however it should be fair
that you take your 20 25 30 minutes to
watch the lecture
and do the work or have access to the
extra credit
and then simply just tell your class
that it's available tell them what it
means
I I believe in collaborative effort but
I also believe that equity and it would
be unfair for you to do all the work
to make a commitment to make the time
commitment to make the time sacrifice to
watch the video and then to just give
the answers to your classes so I'm
asking them
allow your classmates to either find
or to miss
these opportunities that are embedded
Within
the course lessons all right all right
so let's continue remember
have one there
subject line lecture nine extra credit
is due by Saturday June 17th 11 59 pm to
be counted
Saturday June 17th 1159 p.m. to be
counted okay and the answer simply was
told me what is possible
okay let's continue so again if you
answer d27 million people experience
public speak fear than you would have
been correct now my question is are you
in that 27 note do you have a fear of
public speaking
now
I don't have a fear of public speaking
however I do still get butterflies in my
stomach you know still get nervous to
think about it in my stomach every time
it's time to give a present
okay
excuse me I've been teaching since 2000
I've been teaching longer than many of
you
oh right many of you have not even 18
years old yet some of you have not even
reached 20 years old yet and here I am
I've been teaching or pay
since the year 2000 January to be
precise
okay so that's a long time and even with
all this public speaking I've done as a
restaurant lecturer
as a coach and trainer other public
addresses that I've made career day
speaking dressing
speeches
eulogies are made or presentations I've
made in funerals other places
still give butterflies
but it's normal and it's natural
it can serve you will
remember that public speaking anxiety
material and you who experience it not
crazy
for those of you who may be interested
message me and I'll send you the link
um there is a public speaking anxiety
link that is available a tool that's
available by Dr prosecutor and they
developed this tool where you answer
receive the questions
and then once you answer all the
questions and the assessment it'll tell
your ranking on the scale of anxiety now
when I was a speech student years and
years and years ago
this only appeared books in our
textbooks are in our workbooks so it was
a paper assessment she had all the
questions for the handwrite your answer
the responsive questions then you had to
go and you had to count up all the
numbers and all that and do it all by
hand
and I don't think it does it anymore
if you go to this particular version so
I'm going to try to click it and see if
it'll take us to it
just so that you can see it let's see if
it's still there
yes it is the personal report of public
speaking environment brps I just call it
the person
right berksa and so it asks all of these
questions
um if you agree or strongly strongly
agree or strongly disagree somewhere in
the middle with your answers too and so
it asks you these theories of questions
and then at the end when it's all done
Advanced at the mall you add up certain
scores to get one answer when you've got
up another set of scores
um to get another answer and then you do
the formulation calculation then down
here it'll tell you where your anxiety
level Falls depending on what your score
was on
so if you're interested in knowing your
personal assessment I used to make this
a part of a required assignment
and actually you know I think I might do
this
make this assignment some of you are
going to be smaller assignment
in order to
in order to leverage out when you don't
do as well your assigned
hold on a second and you know what you
would probably couldn't see that give me
a second
oh yeah you probably could because it
was part of my presentation so you
probably can see the person so I am
going to assign this to you guys
to get done
this week so that you can know your own
level of anxiety and
in public speaking level of public
speaking okay so I am going to assign
the purpose of for you guys this one
okay so just stay tuned for that
okay
so let's talk about anxiety can be an
asset
if you know how to treat it or it is a
liability if you don't know treat it in
this little image here says that assets
feed you liabilities I just I don't know
if this
a bar here is no way it's in my way but
I don't know
if it's in the way guys
so
assets feed you liabilities
and so let's think of anxiety as an
asset that can serve us and not as a
liability but how do we do that
so first of all
we have to see nervousness as something
that can Propel us towards what I say
this all the time
nervousness can fulfill to Greatness
breakdown I bet you're gonna see that
nervousness can Propel me towards
greatness if you know how to harness
your nerves
it can move you into success why because
nerves mean that something matters to
you and we're nervous about something it
usually indicates that it matters such
that we want to do a good job such that
we want to do our best such that we want
to be at the top of the field or what
happened so nervousness is here to serve
us when we harness our nerves and we
furnish those things
we acknowledge them for what they are
and then we figure out ways to
minimize someone to try a lot of stuff
now one of the things that I want to
tell
it's a big no-nose
and you may have done and I doubted but
other people were before but this is an
absolute No-No I suggest you write this
down because you will speak
write this down we'll see it again okay
expected
you never ever
ever
not once not ever
tell the audience
you never admitted your honest they are
nervous about your public speaking mode
never do that
honesty is the best policy thing
perhaps
be authentic they say
perhaps
but in that you never tell the audience
that you're nervous
question is why
why don't you tell the audience that
you're nervous why don't you just
acknowledge it and admit it to them and
put it on out why don't you do that if
we were together I'd be expected lots of
people throwing out answers yeah
well perhaps
one of you have already said it to
yourselves and you bought it that once
you announce your nervous it does
several things one
it makes your nervousness more high for
you
generally speaking what we mention or
what we call attention to or what do you
focus on tends to expand
okay so that means that the moment that
you acknowledge to others that your
nervous
it is to just shine a light
more onto the nervous
creating more nervous right telling
people that you're nervous or
acknowledging and saying it only serves
to a harm and strengthen it it does not
General dimension okay
additionally
secondly when you acknowledge that
you're nervous to your audience and you
tell them oh God I'm so nervous I'm so
nervous you guys oh my God I'm so
nervous when you say that to your
audience it also now distracts them from
paying attention to the message
it distracts them from paying attention
to the person because now suddenly they
have something else to pay attention to
you know what it is
they are you but they're not paying
attention to you to get the content and
the message they are now paying
attention to you because they're trying
to point out
all the ways in which they see that
you're nervous
now they're focused on watching you're
sweating
they're looking to see
if your hands are shaking
they're listening to hear if your voice
is shaking
they're looking to see maybe you're
tapping your feet or tapping your
fingers against your thighs
now that you have told them that you're
nervous
listening to your content has now become
secondary because now primary is their
ability to be salutes to be
investigators to determine all the ways
in which you are demonstrating that you
are nervous and undoubtedly at the end
they're going to say oh I knew she was
nice
I knew she was nervous because I saw her
handshake
I knew she was nervous because I saw her
turning red I knew he was nervous
because I saw him sweating I knew he was
nervous when he saw him
I knew he was nervous I saw that
paperwork
so he never ever ever acknowledge to
your audience that you're nervous
because here's the truth guys
if you are nervous enough
we don't need you to tell us we can
already see it
right
that phrase always applies here too the
phrase never let them see you sweat
that always applies here for me because
one if they see you sweat then they
already know you're nervous
and if they didn't know
that you were nervous now they do
right so you don't have to point out
within the artists
and if it's not obvious why point it out
so you never ever ever tell the audience
that you're nervous for two weeks one
because it will likely increase your own
level of nervousness and two it will now
take the audience's attention off of you
and your content and now they will
extend be focused on seeing your
nervousness in action
I hope you took notes on that
so what are your three best strategies
to reduce things
the three p's come into play
plan
prepare and practice you see
these three things go a really long way
into
reducing and in some cases eliminating
your nervousness to present
oftentimes
it is the lack of planning that has or
nervous
a lot of times students know that they
have not properly planned
they haven't taken the amount of time
necessarily the best one
they haven't done enough to prepare
their assignment
excuse me according to the instructions
they haven't fully read the assignment
options
for example last semester I had a
student who continued to turn your work
to me that was not meeting
the basic
instruction the basic instructions were
not being followed I mean forget about
speech was the amount of time it was
supposed to just basic things like how
to prepare the doctor wasn't being
how to submit the dot dot Bob
when the document was due turn it in
like
and I finally asked the student did you
read the instruction
and he said
I glanced over them this is what he said
he said I glanced over them now you guys
I'm here to tell you this right here
right now
my class is not the kind of class that
you're going to ask by simply glancing
over things
think about it in several of these
lectures I have embedded extra credit
it came in different points
and it's not in every lecture right so
if someone says oh I'll just go to the
end just to see I'm not always putting
the extra credit opportunity at the end
right I'm moving it around in different
places and I'm not providing it in every
lecture so even then you can't believe
that you know some kind of um
pattern that I have and so you're going
to trick me trick me or trick the system
by just doing what you think the pattern
calls for no you have to actually watch
the video the video lecture in order to
know if there is an opportunity where
does it fall right
and so
instructions for my assignments is
particularly the speech assignments is
the same way the instructions the same
way glancing over there will have you
missing specific points and points that
will cost you the grading process
as they say the uh
the devil is in the detail right I still
don't try to understand where that came
from but yeah it's in the details so you
have to do that so part of your proper
planning is to know that you understand
the requirements know that you
understand the execution know that you
are following the instructions in
addition to that part of planning you
also have knowing your audience knowing
your message and knowing your time we've
already talked in previous lectures
about knowing your audience knowing who
they are what they think what they
believe how they behave uh what their
world leads are what their demographic
background is we've already discussed
audience analysis
message the message is simply are you on
message for the audience that you have
or for the topic that you have you
provided the proper information
to share with this audience at their
level whatever that is right
so that's important and then time time
is so critical
as a speech maker it is your job to
present your message in the time that
has been a laugh
let me say it again as a speech maker it
is your job to present your message from
the time that is relaxed
I generally Finish class on time for a
few minutes early
unless it's Speech day which sometimes
goes over because the lack of planning
generally speaking I do not keep
students past time and I am not still
talking after the bail rings
in college anymore
I don't keep talking
I make sure that I craft my day's
lecture such that it can meet the time
parameter that's been assigned to me
because if I'm late stopping
it could then please prevent the next
Professor from coming in and getting set
up which is now potentially going to
throw her or his class off in what they
need to do timing is important timing is
critical respecting the time of your
audience is so very important true story
recently I had a job interview and when
you are teaching I don't know about K-12
within the college study you have to do
a teaching demonstration that's standard
practice and I would assume it probably
is for K-12 also but don't quote me I've
never taught in that Arena
for college
the um
teaching demonstration is required
and so
um in that regard you have to do your
demo within a certain time time limit so
recently I prepared a lecture and I was
like gosh this is just not coming
together they only gave me 15 minutes
most teaching demos are between 30 to 45
minutes they want you to practically do
a whole class but in this particular
interview they only gave me 15 minutes
you guys my feelings were so hurt when I
did not complete my demo within that 15
minutes that was devastated such that I
cried at the end of the interview
as soon as that was over he thanked me
for my time and they said that um you
know HR would reach out with whatever
information was to come in I was so
devastated I cried
I was also shocked a week later when I
got a call that I had moved on to the
second round so luckily they saw
something in me beyond foiling the
15-minute time frame that I had I would
not advise that don't do it do it within
the time allowed
prepare make sure that you've prepared
for your speech make sure that you have
done adequate research make sure that
you are well organized make sure that
your outline follows the flow or the
format that is required when this class
should be doing a lot of organizing and
applying that's going to come in another
couple of lectures or about week three
we're going to definitely be working on
organizing researching make sure that
you've done this so that you know the
information and that you know what
you're talking about and so that you
have good information to provide to your
audience that is critical so prepare and
then of course practice practice
practice practice practice practice
practice practice practice practice
practice
I can't say it enough right so you
practice you will just practice you
repeat practice you would just practice
you repeat you practice and repeat
practice and repeat in the last lecture
I talked about practice as necessary
right when we're talking about
especially extemporaneous speaking
practice is necessary for the speeches
in this class you should be practicing
no less than three full times start to
finish with a timer the timer some kind
of timepiece so that you can see how
long it takes you to get your speech
done
ideally though your textbook suggests
practicing five to six times
okay five to six times is adequate for
speeches of these the links that we're
going to do in this class but I tell you
that if some reason your schedule does
not allow five to six School practices
you should do at least three full
practices from start to finish that
means you trip no cars as well as use
your power points so that you can get a
sense for how much time it's going to
take to complete the practice
okay
all right so
that's what I wanted to say about
nervousness now there's something else I
want to add
okay this is going to be one of the
longer videos you guys one of the longer
lectures it's not going to be super long
but it is going to be longer than the
others actually as long ago
but I want to show you
something else okay
I want to give you some other tips and
hold on one second let me just hold on
one second
I wasn't sure if you guys could hear my
aunt shoot
so let's see
and one more thing I want to show you
guys as it relates to
dealing with our nerves
so in addition to practicing and
preparing and all those things
let's talk about why people are nervous
so some of the reasons that people say
that they're nervous is because they
don't like people staring at them they
are fearing that they're going to fail
or they may be rejected they just don't
know what to expect it's fear of the
unknown maybe they've had a past
experience that didn't end well for them
during the speech making up
experience or that they've experienced
anxiety you can ignore the things at the
bottom of course those don't apply to
you but these are some of the top
reasons why people experience
nervousness okay now
again you have to learn how to manage
your nervousness and manage it properly
so here are some things that you can do
of course you want to choose your topic
wisely whenever choosing a topic is
available to you you want to prepare as
I mentioned before you want to avoid
memorizing as I've mentioned in lecture
eight
you want to visualize success visualize
your yourself doing doing successfully
doing a really good job just because you
are shy it does not give you an excuse
not to be a dynamic presenter remember
it's all about the audience Center the
audience okay
attention to the audience make sure that
your primary job is to be there to give
the audience this information whether
it's to inform to persuade or to provide
some other entertainment or motivation
or what have you okay it's about the
audience and the information that you're
bringing to them plan your visual aids
and your media properly make sure that
it's all working before it's time to get
started make sure that you understand
how to use their AV Equipment their
systems Etc make sure that everything is
working all the links are working
properly do all of that before and you
may do like a test run at the facility
or on that equipment just to double
check practice practice practice
remember I said that before and I'll
continue instead release the tension
find ways to release the tension maybe
you need to pray or meditate perhaps you
need to do some deep breathing exercises
or counting perhaps you need to go
listen to your favorite music or
something like that read a favorite
scripture or an affirmation speak an
affirmation but whatever is going to
help you to release the attention you
want to do that you want to pause before
starting as soon as you come up to the
left turn or to the podium or the stage
you don't have to jump right in you can
just take it all in for a moment pause
look around
think about what you want to say and of
course take a breath if that always
helps
stop think pause resume and then begin
again it's okay to stop don't tell on
yourself Remember You never tell your
audience that you're nervous you never
ever ever apologize this is critical
this this goes along with don't tell on
yourself you never apologize when you're
making a presentation if you mess up you
simply say excuse me so if I were to say
so all of your assignments are going to
be due Wednesday
June excuse me your assignments are all
due on Sundays
June 11th June 18th June 25th see how I
did that I didn't say I'm sorry or I'm
sorry I didn't say that I said apology
said excuse me
your assignments are and then I
corrected myself so when you mess up
something you never apologize you simply
say excuse me
and then you state the correct
information when we apologize during
speech making it has the potential to
reduce the level of credibility and the
level of preparedness by which our
audience has already considered us so if
we start saying I'm sorry we we're seen
as not capable we're seen as not
authoritative we're seen as people who
mess up
Etc so you simply want to say excuse me
correct it and keep moving
don't be phased we all experience some
level of nervousness even Oprah after
all of these decades still experience
nervousness when it's time for her to
get up and present in front of others
I hope that you guys don't hear my aunt
okay look at them look at the audience
give eye contact and also smile do you
know that when you smile at others
generally for most people they will
smile back and once we smile it releases
the tension not only on our face but in
our bodies in our emotions so smile and
look directly at the eye except that you
are imperfect there's a shirt that I
wear to class on Speech day it says
perfect is boring be imperfect because
I'm not looking for perfectionist or
speech teacher I am looking that you are
getting the information and I'm looking
to see that you are adopting and
incorporating the tools and the skills
that you're learning in this class I am
not looking for perfection
okay and then of course welcome The
Experience welcome the experience to
share this information with others
consider this consider that without you
the audience would not know fill in the
blank of your topic right without you
they would never know that fill in
whatever the blank is we need you we
need you to give us this information and
no one can give us this information the
way that you can no one can present the
information like you keep that in mind
and these are my tips for managing nurse
all right so this has been
all right this has been lecture nine
about nervousness and anxiety and
learning what it is
how to deal with it and
how you can use it to your advantage I
hope this lecture has helped like I said
it's a little longer than the others but
I do hope that in this lecture you have
gotten some valuable information that
you'll be able to use for this semester
and beyond in order to manage any
nervousness that you have and while
someone may not have speaking anxiety it
is possible for them to just feel a
sense of nervousness when it's time for
them to present I know I should do but
after a few seconds I've warmed up and
I've gotten into my space into my room
and I'm ready to take on the world and
make that presentation and I hope the
same thing all right it's been lecture
nine and then of course we're moving on
to lunch again thanks so much I'll see
you again in a minute
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