Why Women Constantly Change Their Minds

Summary

In diesem Video-Coaching-Newsletter von Coach Corey Wayne wird das Thema 'Warum Frauen ständig ihre Meinung ändern' erörtert. Er erklärt, dass Frauen emotionale Wesen sind und sich im Moment auf ihre Gefühle konzentrieren. Ein Zuschauer berichtet von seiner Erfahrung mit einer Frau, die zwischen ihm und ihrem Freund schwankte. Wayne betont die Wichtigkeit, bei Beziehungsentscheidungen standhaft zu bleiben und zeigt auf, wie die Unsicherheit des Mannes die Frau dazu brachte, ihre Gefühle und Entscheidungen zu wanken. Er empfiehlt, klare Grenzen zu setzen und nicht in Beziehungsdramen involviert zu werden, um Vertrauen und Klarheit zu bewahren.

Takeaways

• 😀 Frauen sind emotionale Wesen, die sich auf ihr momentanes Gefühl und das Verhalten anderer im Moment konzentrieren.
• 🔒 Ein wichtiger Punkt ist, dass Frauen Vertrauen in das 'männliche Kern' eines Mannes entwickeln, wenn dieser seinen Standpunkt beibehält und nicht nachgibt.
• 💔 Die Geschichte des Zuschauers zeigt, wie eine Frau zwischen ihren Gefühlen für zwei Männer hin- und hergerissen ist und Schwierigkeiten hat, Entscheidungen zu treffen.
• 📵 Der Zuschauer wurde von der Frau zunächst kontaktiert, nachdem sie eine Beziehung mit ihrem Freund austesten wollte, aber später wurde er von ihr ignoriert, als sie zurückkam und sich liebevoll mit ihrem Freund zeigte.
• 💬 Die Frau sendete dem Zuschauer später Nachrichten, in denen sie ihre Gefühle für ihn äußerte, aber dann widerrief sie diese als 'Moment des Schwächen'.
• 🤔 Der Zuschauer war verwirrt und fühlte sich manipuliert, da die Frau ihre Gefühle und Pläne ständig ängte.
• 🚫 Coach Corey Wayne betont, dass der Zuschauer an seiner Grenze festhalten sollte und nicht in die Beziehung der Frau eingreifen sollte, solange sie mit ihrem Freund zusammen ist.
• 💡 Wenn eine Frau in einer Beziehung ist und einem Mann ihre Gefühle für ihn offenbart, sollte der Mann auf seinen ursprünglichen Standpunkt bestehen, dass er nicht involviert sein will.
• 🤝 Die Frau versuchte, den Zuschauer in die Freundschaftszone zu bringen, aber er lehnte dies ab und sagte, dass er lieber kein Vertrauen mehr in sie hat.
• 🔄 Die Geschichte zeigt, wie wichtig es ist, in Beziehungen standhaft zu bleiben und nicht in die Manipulationen anderer zu verfallen.
• 📚 Coach Corey Wayne bietet Coaching und Bücher an, um Menschen zu helfen, ihre Beziehungen besser zu verstehen und zu führen.

Q & A

Was ist das Hauptthema des Video-Coaching-Newsletters von Coach Corey Wayne?

Das Hauptthema des Newsletters ist, warum Frauen ständig ihre Meinung ändern.

Welche Rolle spielen Emotionen in der Entscheidungsfindung von Frauen gemäß dem Video?

Emotionen sind entscheidend, da Frauen sich auf das konzentrieren, was sie im Moment fühlen und was der andere im Moment tut.

Was ist die Situation, die der Zuschauer in der E-Mail beschreibt?

Der Zuschauer beschreibt eine Situation, in der er mit einer Frau, die bereits einen Freund hat, emotionale Verbindungen aufbaut und später Schwierigkeiten hat, Entscheidungen darüber zu treffen, ob sie mit ihm oder ihrem Freund weitermachen soll.

Was passierte, als die Frau nach ihrer Rückkehr aus Europa zu ihrem Freund zurückkehrte?

Sie kehrte zurück und war liebevoll mit ihrem Freund, entschied sich, mit ihm weiterzumachen und zu sehen, ob es funktioniert.

Wie reagierte der Zuschauer, als die Frau ihm später eine Nachricht schickte und ihn ignorieren sollte?

Er ignorierte die Nachricht und entschied, sich abzuwenden, da er mit dem Vorgang fortfahren wollte.

Was ist der Kern der Empfehlung von Coach Corey Wayne für Männer in ähnlichen Situationen?

Coach Corey Wayne empfiehlt, bei seinen Worten standzuhalten und nicht nachzugeben, wenn eine Frau in einer Beziehung ist, da sonst das Vertrauen in das 'männliche Kern' verloren geht.

Was passierte, als der Zuschauer der Frau nachgab und sich mit ihr traf?

Die Frau war ihm kühl und distanziert gegenüber, bestätigte ihre Beziehung zum Freund und lehnte eine weitere Beteiligung ab.

Wie erklärt Coach Corey Wayne das Verhalten der Frau in der Situation?

Coach Corey Wayne erklärt das Verhalten durch die emotionale Natur von Frauen und die Tatsache, dass sie den Mann auf seine Stärke und Konsequenz testen wollte.

Was sollte der Zuschauer gemäß Coach Corey Wayne getan haben, wenn die Frau ihm später sagte, sie habe Gefühle für ihn?

Der Zuschauer hätte darauf bestehen sollen, dass die Frau ihre Beziehung beenden muss, bevor er mit ihr weiterkommt, und nicht in Konflikte oder Drama involviert sein möchte.

Was ist die finale Empfehlung von Coach Corey Wayne für den Zuschauer in Bezug auf die Beziehung?

Coach Corey Wayne empfiehlt dem Zuschauer, klar und standhaft zu bleiben, dass er nicht in eine Beziehung eingreift, solange die Frau mit jemand anderem ist, und entweder auf eine Kontaktaufnahme zu warten, wenn sie single ist, oder sich auf jemand anderen zu konzentrieren.

Outlines

00:00

😔 Wechselnde Gefühle und Entscheidungen

Coach Corey Wayne diskutiert, warum Frauen häufig ihre Meinung ändern und wie Emotionen und gegenwärtige Situationen ihre Entscheidungen beeinflussen. Er referenziert einen Brief von einem Zuschauer, der eine emotionale Verbindung mit einer Frau entwickelt hat, die bereits einen Freund hat. Die Frau zaudert zwischen ihrem Freund und dem Zuschauer hin und her, was auf ihre Schwierigkeit, Entscheidungen zu treffen, hindeutet. Corey Wayne betont die Wichtigkeit, bei der Kommunikation mit Frauen standhaft zu bleiben und nicht in ihren Wunschy-Washy-Verhaltensweisen mitzugehen.

05:00

😠 Die Folgen der Schwäche und der Test der Stärke

Der zweite Absatz behandelt die Konsequenzen, wenn man nicht standhaft bleibt, was im Fall des Zuschauers zu Verwirrung und Misstrauen gegenüber der Frau führt. Corey Wayne erklärt, dass die Frau den Mann auf seine Stärke und sein Festhalten an seinen ursprünglichen Aussagen testet. Ohne diese Festigkeit kann die Frau nicht verlassen, was wiederum zu einer unklaren und schmerzhaften Situation führt. Der Coach empfiehlt, in solchen Fällen immer klar und entschlossen zu bleiben, um nicht in das Spiel der emotionalen Unentschlossenheit geraten zu dürfen.

Keywords

💡Emotional beings

Dieses Konzept beschreibt, wie Frauen emotionale Wesen sind, die sich stärker auf ihre Gefühle im Moment konzentrieren. Im Video wird darauf hingewiesen, dass Frauen ihre Entscheidungen oft basierend auf ihren momentanen Emotionen treffen, was zu Veränderlichkeit führen kann. Ein Beispiel ist die Frau, die ihre Meinung über ihre Beziehung während eines europäischen Aufenthalts ändert.

💡Momentan

Das Wort 'momentan' bezieht sich auf die gegenwärtige Situation oder das, was im aktuellen Moment passiert. Im Kontext des Videos wird es verwendet, um die Schwierigkeit zu erklären, Entscheidungen zu treffen, da Frauen ihre Gefühle im Moment berücksichtigen, was zu einer Wechselhaftigkeit in ihren Entscheidungen führen kann.

💡Entwicklung emotionaler Verbindung

Dieses Konzept befasst sich mit dem Aufbau einer emotionalen Beziehung zwischen zwei Personen. Im Video entwickelt sich eine starke Bindung zwischen der Studentin und dem Mann, obwohl sie ursprünglich nur für Studienzwecke zusammenarbeiteten. Diese emotionale Verbindung führt zu einer Komplexität in ihren Beziehungsentscheidungen.

💡Wunschy-washy

Dieser Ausdruck beschreibt jemanden, der unsicher oder unentschlossen ist. Im Video wird dies verwendet, um die Verhaltensweise der Frau zu beschreiben, die Schwierigkeiten hat, Entscheidungen zu treffen und ihre Meinung ständig ändert, basierend auf ihren Emotionen und dem, was der Mann sagt oder tut.

💡Männlicher Kern

Der 'männliche Kern' bezieht sich auf die Festigkeit und Stabilität der Überzeugungen und Entscheidungen eines Mannes. Im Video wird argumentiert, dass, wenn ein Mann seine Meinung ändert oder Schwäche zeigt, eine Frau dies als mangelnde Stärke interpretieren könnte, was zu Verwirrung und Unsicherheit führen kann.

💡Freundschaft

Im Video wird 'Freundschaft' als eine Option präsentiert, nachdem die Frau ihre Beziehung mit ihrem Freund beizubehalten entschieden hat. Sie schlägt vor, den Mann als Freund zu behalten, was jedoch von ihm abgelehnt wird, da er kein Interesse an einer befreundeten Beziehung hat, während sie eine Beziehung mit jemand anderem hat.

💡Veränderung der Meinung

Dieses Konzept beschreibt das Phäomen, bei dem eine Person ihre Meinung oder Entscheidungen ändert. Im Video wechselt die Frau ihre Meinung mehrmals über ihre Beziehung und ihre Gefühle für den Mann, was zu Verwirrung und Misstrauen führt.

💡Stärke

Stärke ist ein Schlüsselbegriff im Video, der die Fähigkeit eines Menschen beschreibt, bei seinen Überzeugungen zu bleiben und Schwäche zu zeigen. Der Mann im Video wird ermutigt, stärk zu bleiben und nicht nachzugeben, wenn die Frau ihre Meinung ändert oder Schwächen zeigt.

💡Emotionale Unentschlossenheit

Dieser Begriff beschreibt die Schwierigkeit, eine endgültige Entscheidung aufgrund von Emotionen zu treffen. Im Video zeigt sich die Frau emotional unentschlossen, indem sie ihre Gefühle für den Mann und ihren Freund wechselt und Schwierigkeiten hat, eine klare Entscheidung zu treffen.

💡Tests der Stärke

Im Video werden 'Tests der Stärke' verwendet, um die Situation zu beschreiben, in der die Frau den Mann auf seine Festigkeit und seinen Willen prüft, indem sie ihre Gefühle und Pläne ändert. Der Mann soll zeigen, dass er stark genug ist, um bei seinen ursprünglichen Entscheidungen zu bleiben, unabhängig von den Versuchen der Frau, ihn zu beeinflussen.

Highlights

Coach Corey Wayne discusses the emotional nature of women and their tendency to change their minds.

A viewer shares his experience with a woman who developed feelings for him while in a relationship with another man.

The woman's indecisiveness and her fluctuating behavior towards the viewer after a trip to Europe.

The importance of sticking to one's word in relationships to maintain trust and avoid mixed signals.

The viewer's confusion and the woman's contradictory messages after expressing feelings for him.

Coach Corey emphasizes the need for emotional strength and consistency in dealing with indecisive partners.

The woman's attempt to rekindle contact and the viewer's struggle with her mixed messages.

Coach Corey advises on how to handle a situation where a woman is testing the viewer's resolve.

The viewer's realization of being used for attention and the woman's subsequent attempt to friend-zone him.

Coach Corey explains the concept of 'friend zone' and the importance of not compromising one's standards.

The viewer's decision to distance himself from the woman and focus on his own well-being.

Coach Corey's advice on maintaining boundaries and not getting involved in someone else's relationship drama.

The woman's apology and the viewer's acceptance as a means to move on from the situation.

Coach Corey's final advice on how to deal with emotional tests from potential partners and the importance of self-respect.

The viewer's confusion and anger about the woman's intentions and the perceived manipulation.

Coach Corey's explanation of women's emotional testing and the importance of emotional strength in response.

Information on how to contact Coach Corey for further advice or to book a paid coaching session.

Details on how to get a digital version of Coach Corey Wayne's Kindle ebook for further reading.

Transcripts

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hi I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my

video coaching newsletter and the topic

of this newsletter is going to be why

women constantly change their minds well

women are emotional beings and they

focus on what they're feeling in the

moment and they also focus on what

you're doing in the moment that's

important an important thing to

understand about women and I've got an

email here from a viewer who basically

he and this girl that he's going to

college with I think they're PhD

students or something like that she has

a

boyfriend so they were he didn't think

anything of it but they were spending a

lot of time together just for studying

purposes and obviously they started

developing emotional connection and

obviously there were feelings developed

between the two of them and a very

strong bond and she was talking about

leaving her boyfriend and then she goes

off to a trip to Europe and when she

comes back she's all lovey-dovey with

her boyfriend and says I want to give

it a shot with my boyfriend to see if

it'll work out and he says well hey give

me a call if it doesn't work out and so

let's pick up and see what has happened

since then he says Dear Corey since my

last email I returned to the university

and three weeks ago I saw her in

lectures but she was stuck to her

boyfriend like [ __ ] to a blanket it's

good analogy I didn't approach her as I

was moving on well good for you that's

the only thing you could have done in

that situation he says however a week

ago I received a text from her saying

she wanted to see me and she had not

been honest when we last spoke she

followed this with please ignore this

message moment of

weakness so she sends this text and then

a little while later she sends another

text oh just ignore that one so this is

a girl that's obviously going back and

forth in her mind and she's having a

hard time making decision and so when

you have a woman that's in that position

you have to stick to what you say want

cuz if you say one thing and then your

girl the girl gets to you to Cave or to

give in then she's going to be like that

she's going to be wishy-washy and she's

going to go back and forth because she

doesn't trust your masculine core

because you're basically sending her

mixed signals you're saying one thing

but you're doing another and so he says

I ignored it and then two days later she

messaged me again saying that she didn't

mean for me to ignore her message and

wanted to meet I replied that I would be

free at the end of the week she agreed

but as the wait was too long long she

messaged me the following I hate that we

don't speak I found my soulmate and

you've died I feel like I had to tell

you I had no feelings for you in order

for you to not think such things and not

disrespect my boyfriend the truth is I

have feelings for you without you I feel

like someone has cut out part of my

heart I think about you all the time I

dream about you every night and I miss

you so much it makes me sick my

situation hasn't changed so I feel like

a [ __ ] and he says I think the

situation referred to is her

relationship he says I'll never or she

says I'll never speak to you again and I

wanted you to know this I told her I

talk about this when I'd see her and

where you're making a mistake is she's

still with her boyfriend but now you're

agreeing to see her because what you

originally told her is like hey if it

doesn't work out give me a call and you

should have stuck to your guns but now

you've caved in in a moment of weakness

now you're agreeing to meet her why

because you like her and you want her

and you obviously been thinking about

her but now she's texting you and

telling you all stuff what I would have

said is like that's really wonderful and

I really appreciate that you say that

but at the end of the day you're with

your boyfriend and like I said before

I'm not interested in getting in between

you and your boyfriend and and involved

in some kind of drama so if you really

mean what you say leave your

boyfriend and once you're out of that

relationship and if you still want to

see me give me a call because I'd love

to get together but I'm not getting

involved with you because you're in a

relationship with somebody else and

that's what you should have said and so

that's where you [ __ ] up

he says when I met her she was cold and

distant and told me to forget the

message as it wasn't going to change

things with her

boyfriend she denied most of the content

and stated in other words of her text

and stated that how she felt in the past

but it's not how she felt right now

despite writing it in the present tense

she downplayed everything yeah because

in that moment she was having doubts

because she was doubting your masculine

court because you originally said give

me a call it doesn't work out and I'm

moving on and I don't want to get

involved

and now she clearly tells you hey I'm

still with my boyfriend and then you're

going okay well that's me so now you've

gone against your word you've gone

against what you've told her and so

she's not trusting your masculine core

and that's causing her to feel

wishy-washy about you that's why she's

hot now all of a sudden she's cold on

you he says I was confused at why she

felt the need to message me at all and

call her soulmate if she decided I

wasn't an option for her she then said

her life was good and she didn't want to

change things I said to her that I had

walked away from her when she told me

this before and that it was her request

to meet up now the thing is you didn't

stick to your gun so it's you're you're

the one to [ __ ] this up

dude he says I challenged her as to why

she had sent such a pro profile message

if she was working on a relationship she

said the message was a mistake it's not

that it was a mistake she was simply

expressing what she felt in that

particular moment but moments later few

days later a few hours later whatever it

was she felt differently because you

displayed weakness in set of strength by

not sticking to what you originally told

her he says I wished her well and I was

feeling like [ __ ] and then we parted

ways I was confused by what had occurred

I messaged her saying that I felt she

had used me for attention from the

beginning I like no it's like you just

acted weak and so that's why she acted

the way she acted she replied saying

sorry I hurt you I just wanted you to

know that you were not alone in your

feelings but I would be happy to keep

you in mind as a friend and now she's

trying to put you in friend zone and

getting get you to go along with it and

if you were to go along with that then

she'll never leave her boyfriend with

you because now you've completely gone

back on your work he says I replied you

treated me like a stranger today and I

think that is what I would prefer to be

now as I don't trust anything you say

she called in a night saying she was

upset and couldn't sleep because of the

situation she then said I told you I had

no feelings for you when I explained I

was working out things with my boyfriend

after the Portugal trip I became angry

with him because she never said this but

I had respected her wish to remain with

him at the time and so what she was

doing was she was testing she was

testing the waters she was testing to

see if you're stronger than the man that

she's with and if you stick to your guns

and you stick to what you originally

told her a couple of months ago

eventually she probably would have left

the relationship and then set them

available and as long as you stuck to

your gun saying I'm not getting involved

as long as you're with that dude I'm

serious about that when she sees it you

she can't get you to Cave or bend to

what you said or she can't get you to be

in congruent with your words then

eventually she'll leave him and then

she'll she'll tell you that she's

completely free and then you can get

together and live happily ever after or

whatever's going to happen for however

long it's going to happen with

her he said it was also went against her

need to contact me in the content of her

soulmate message and I told her I feel

like I didn't know her anymore and that

I wasn't interested in Friendship either

well good for you for at least saying

that she then apologized for sending me

the message and plead it for friendship

and here again she's trying to get you

to Cave which it's a test test it's a

test of your strength it's a test to see

if you really have the balls to say what

you mean and mean what you say he says I

accepted her apology to get her off my

back I told her she should just focus on

her relationship and not ever bother me

again good for you that's all you could

say Cory I'm confused and angry I don't

know what she wanted I feel completely

gamep played and feel my entire time

with her was a lie no it wasn't you got

to understand women are emotional beings

and she tested you and she got you to

Cave and that's why she backed up he

says I was touched by her message but

the actions that followed suggest it was

all [ __ ] do you have any ideas of

what happened here yeah you simply

displayed a momentary moment of weakness

because you didn't you weren't

emotionally strong and when when you

tell a woman something you got to stick

to it you don't go and chase her after

you tell her that you're walking away

and so if she reaches out to you from

this point forward you still got to

stick to your gun you say hey you're in

a relationship work it out with him if

it doesn't work out give me a call I'd

love to see you and that's all you got

to say and every sign time she reaches

out to you she'll probably test you and

you got to stick to your gun you say I

was very clear and you're trying to get

me to go against what I want it's like

I'm not getting involved with you when

you have a boyfriend I have my life's a

drama free zone and I have no interest

in it so if you're ever single and

you're no longer with him and you're

officially broken up and done with him

you're not I think you said this she was

living with him or something like that

or she's very close with him or whatever

but she needs to resolve that situation

before she gets in contact with you and

as long as you're always clear about

that one or two things will happen

she'll you'll either get rid of her

boyfriend and then give you a call or

you'll never hear from her again and

either way you'll either get her or

you'll be able to move on with somebody

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