4 Things Men Do That Woman Think are HOT
Summary
TLDRIn this video, the host discusses four attractive traits that girls find appealing in guys: spontaneity, as shown by planning unique dates; the 'push-pull' technique, which involves creating and releasing sexual tension; a focus on personal style, emphasizing the importance of a well-matched and wrinkle-free appearance; and strong social skills, like being friendly and approachable in social settings. The video also promotes a dating coaching program to help men improve these aspects and enhance their dating lives.
Takeaways
- π Spontaneity is attractive: Planning unique and unexpected dates shows effort and can create a sense of adventure.
- π Leading with confidence: Taking charge during a date, such as spontaneously attending a game, demonstrates control and initiative.
- π€ The push-pull technique: Creating sexual tension by alternating between closeness and distance can be very appealing.
- π· Maintaining a relaxed demeanor: Displaying a calm and collected energy during a date can enhance attraction.
- π The importance of style: Putting effort into appearance and dressing well can subconsciously signal cleanliness and attention to detail.
- π The social proof of style: A well-dressed man can make a woman feel proud to be seen with him, providing a form of social validation.
- π‘ The simplicity of improving style: Following basic style rules and staying trendy can significantly boost attractiveness without needing to be a 'style wizard'.
- π€ Social ability matters: Being able to interact with others in social settings, such as at a gym or a bar, signals confidence and likability.
- π Building rapport: Knowing people in social environments and engaging with them shows a positive social image.
- π The impact of social skills: Being sociable can help a woman feel at ease, knowing that others find the man attractive and approachable.
Q & A
What is the first trait that the video suggests is attractive to girls?
-The first trait mentioned in the video is spontaneity in a guy, such as planning a unique date or making last-minute plans that show effort and excitement.
Can you provide an example of spontaneity from the video?
-An example given in the video is a guy who, during a date, checks his phone and discovers a Celtics basketball game is on, then spontaneously decides to buy tickets and take the girl to the game.
What does the video mean by 'taking the lead' on a date?
-Taking the lead on a date, as per the video, means the guy is in control of the interaction, making decisions and guiding the date without making the girl feel like she has to plan or accommodate.
What is the 'push-pull' technique mentioned in the video?
-The 'push-pull' technique is about creating sexual tension by getting close to the girl and then pulling back, such as leaning in for a kiss and then stopping abruptly, which drives up the anticipation and attraction.
How does the video describe the importance of a guy's energy during a date?
-The video emphasizes the importance of a guy's energy being calm, cool, and collected. It suggests that a relaxed demeanor, letting the girl do most of the talking, and not appearing overly eager or hyped is attractive to girls.
What is the Beast dating coaching program mentioned in the video?
-The Beast dating coaching program is a service that claims to help men transform their dating lives by providing live coaching calls and advice on improving dating skills and confidence.
What kind of testimonials does the video provide about the Beast dating coaching program?
-The video includes testimonials from men who claim to have seen significant improvements in their dating lives after joining the program, experiencing more dates and a more vibrant social life.
Why is a guy's style important according to the video?
-The video suggests that a guy's style is important because it shows effort and can subconsciously communicate that he is clean and puts effort into other areas of his life. It also allows the girl to feel proud to be seen with him.
What does the video suggest about the impact of a guy's style on a girl's perception?
-The video implies that a guy's style can significantly influence a girl's perception, with a well-dressed guy being seen as more attractive and desirable, and potentially being a deal breaker if the style is lacking.
What is the role of social ability as described in the video?
-Social ability, as described in the video, is the ability to interact comfortably with others, such as knowing people at the gym or being friendly with service staff during a date, which can make a guy seem more attractive and normal to a girl.
How can an introvert improve their social ability according to the video?
-The video suggests that even if a guy is introverted, he should push himself to be more social, such as by saying hello to people and maintaining a friendly demeanor, which can make a positive impression on a date.
Outlines
π Spontaneity and Leadership in Dating
The first paragraph of the video script emphasizes the attractiveness of spontaneity and taking the lead in dating. It suggests that planning unexpected dates, such as cooking dinner together or spontaneously attending a sports game, can be very appealing to women. The speaker recounts a personal experience where a date bought last-minute tickets to a Celtics game, creating an exciting adventure. The importance of a man taking charge during the date to maintain the interaction and create opportunities for spontaneity is highlighted, as it demonstrates effort and leadership, which are seen as attractive qualities.
πͺ The Art of Push-Pull in Dating Dynamics
The second paragraph discusses the 'push-pull' technique as a dating strategy to create and maintain sexual tension. It advises against being overly eager for physical contact or kisses, as this can diminish the tension. Instead, the speaker recommends creating a sense of anticipation by leaning in for a kiss and then pulling back, or engaging in intimate conversation and then creating distance. This approach is said to drive women wild and increase their desire for the man. The paragraph also touches on the importance of maintaining a calm, cool, and collected demeanor during dates to enhance attractiveness.
π The Impact of Style on Attraction
The third paragraph focuses on the significance of personal style in attracting women. It argues that a man who puts effort into his appearance, wearing a well-coordinated and wrinkle-free outfit, not only looks more attractive but also subconsciously signals that he is clean and attentive to other areas of his life. The speaker mentions that women appreciate being seen with a well-dressed man, as it reflects positively on them. The paragraph suggests that even a basic understanding of style and following simple fashion rules can greatly improve a man's dating prospects.
π€ Social Ability as a Dating Asset
The fourth paragraph highlights social ability as an attractive trait in men. It describes how being able to greet and interact with people in social settings, such as at a gym or a bar, can make a positive impression on a date. The speaker shares an anecdote about a date who knew everyone at the gym, which demonstrated a sense of community and confidence. The paragraph encourages men, especially introverts, to push themselves to be more social and approachable, as this is seen as a desirable quality by women.
Mindmap
Keywords
π‘Spontaneous
π‘Push-Pull
π‘Lead
π‘Sexual Tension
π‘Style
π‘Social Ability
π‘Beast Dating Coaching Program
π‘Testimonials
π‘Confidence
π‘Rapport
π‘High Value Men
Highlights
Spontaneity in planning dates is attractive to women.
Setting up a surprise like cooking dinner together can show effort and spontaneity.
Impromptu plans, such as attending a sports game, can create excitement on a date.
Taking the lead on dates is important for creating a sense of control and spontaneity.
The push-pull technique in dating can create sexual tension.
Leaning in for a kiss and then pulling back can drive a girl crazy.
Maintaining a calm and collected demeanor during dates is part of the push-pull strategy.
Being overly eager can kill sexual tension on a date.
The Beast dating coaching program helps transform men's dating lives.
Testimonials from the Beast dating coaching program show significant improvements in dating life.
Paying attention to style and appearance can subconsciously signal cleanliness and effort.
A well-matched outfit and good grooming can attract more women.
Style can be a deal breaker for some women on a date.
Social ability, such as knowing people at the gym, can be attractive.
Being social and having rapport with people can signal normalcy and likability.
Introverts can improve their dating life by pushing themselves to be more social.
High value men's behaviors with women are explored in another video.
Transcripts
welcome back to my channel guys and
today I want to talk about four things
guys do that girls think are so hot
number one a guy that is spontaneous
girls find this so attractive when a guy
plans a date and sets everything up so
she doesn't have to for example maybe
it's your second date with a girl
instead of just doing the typical thing
that most guys do is like drinks or
let's go for a walk in this city or
things like that you could be like no
let's go back to my place let's cook
dinner and you bring the wine you have
all the ingredients already ready at
your house when she shows up your house
is clean you have a candle all these
things just show that you like put
effort in but it's still spontaneous I
remember one time when I was on a date
with this guy and we were hanging out
having a drink and he looked at his
phone he's like hey there's a Celtics
game going on for all of you guys that
don't know that's a basketball team in
Boston and he was like you want to go to
the game right now like I'll buy tickets
and something about that was super
exciting we were like on this adventure
together and I was like yeah let's go
part of this is a guy that takes the
lead because if you're not taking the
lead on the date the girl feels like
maybe she needs to plan it or she has to
accommodate you but it's more like
you're taking the lead you're
controlling the interaction and you're
being spontaneous with her it's taking
the opportunity in different moments you
guys are together to do something a
little spontaneous whether it's like you
see a sign that's like you know you're
on a hike and you see a sign that says
there's a waterfall and be like oh I
know we're supposed to go on this hike
but like how cool would it be to check
out this waterfall and you kind of like
change plans and do that girls just find
this really attractive so be spontaneous
number two is the push pull so when
you're on a date with a girl if you're
like show eager so eager to like touch
her or so eager to go in for the kiss
you kill that sexual tension and she's
like oh it's just like everybody else
that wants to sleep with me you know but
if you add this push-pull element so
maybe when you're talking to her on the
date and you lean in close and you look
at her lips and then you pull back smile
at her take a sip of your drink you're
playing with this like sexual tension
girls find this so attractive or another
example is like you go in for the kiss
and you can tell she really likes it and
you just abruptly pull back nothing
drives a girl more crazy than this
because you have to keep in mind all the
other dates she's gone on all the other
guys just do that typical thing where
they go in for the kiss they enjoy it
and they just keep going and you have
like a five minute makeout session but
if you can Master this energy this push
pull it comes across as super attractive
and it's gonna make the girl's sexual
tension like wanting to bring you home
or wanting to sleep with you so much
more part of this Push Pull is also your
energy so if you're bringing this like
calm cool collected energy you're
sipping on your drink you're letting her
do most of the talking and you're just
seeing very relaxed this is also part of
it if your energy is like oh my God like
and you're bringing kind of this
feminine energy and you're kind of hyped
and you're like talking a lot and you're
laughing like that's not the energy that
girls find really attractive another
example of this if you guys are sitting
next to each other you can kind of like
lean across her and like break touch her
shoulder with your arm and then like
pull back and then these are all
instances of like you're getting close
to her but then you're pulling back and
you're not giving her that satisfaction
same thing can happen in the bedroom if
this is something you struggle with
whether it's getting on dates or going
on dates and having second dates or just
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three is your style and I know
everyone's like it's so cliche like we
always talk about that but you have to
keep in mind when a guy puts effort into
his style whether he's wearing a
matching outfit or his style is on point
if not wrinkly it doesn't look like you
just threw it on there's an effort that
goes into that that a girl notices and
if you're putting effort into what you
wear it's also gonna subconsciously tell
her that you're clean you're somebody
that puts effort into other areas of
your life also girls secretly want to be
on a date with a guy that's wearing
clothes that look good because then she
can have all these people around her be
like yeah I'm with this like really
attractive guy on a date right now like
he chose me to be on this date and
that's how girls think and I think a lot
of times guys like style doesn't matter
or like she should just like me for who
I am or I'm not really into style but if
you become into style it's gonna help
you attract way more girls girls find it
so hot when a guy puts effort in and she
wants to show you off to more people I
can't tell you how many girls I know
they're like yeah I had a great day with
this guy he's great but like I just
really don't like his style or he has no
style and that can be a deal breaker for
a girl and it's something so simple that
if you just fixed it and you had basic
things in your wardrobe that you can
pull on and you don't have to be this
like style wizard if you just follow
simple rules to style and stay on Trend
it's super easy to just always look good
and let me know in the comments guys if
this is something you want me to make a
whole video breaking down Style and what
guys should wear on a first date number
four is your social ability if you are
at a gym do you know people there like
you don't have to be best friends with
everybody but like if you saw the
trainer you were just like hey what's up
or the person at the front desk like
you've built rapports with people she
notices these things whether you're like
going out on a date and you just like
say hi AI to you know the bartender or
even if you don't know them but it's
like you're going out of your way to be
more social if you're somebody that's
more of an introvert I know that this is
something that a lot of guys can
struggle with but you really want to
push yourself out there to be able to
talk to everyone and have that smile on
your face because it helps her feel like
okay this guy is normal this guy's not a
creep this guy has this Vibe about him
that other people like too and girls
find it really hot it's really
attractive I went on a date with this
guy and we went to the gym on our like
fourth or fifth date and he's saying hi
to everybody and I'm sitting there like
wow this man knows everybody but it's
like this good silent confidence just to
like get used to saying hi to people
again I know it sounds like super silly
but like it's something that girls
notice and they find very attractive and
if you want to take it one step further
and find out what high value men do with
women check out this video right here
and I will talk to you guys in the next
video thanks for watching bye guys
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