INFJ, the most DANGEROUS Personality Type (MBTI)

Summary

This video explores why INFJs, often seen as kind and compassionate, possess a dangerous power. It highlights six traits that make them formidable, including their ability to dismantle opponents, predict failures, and use their rage and intelligence to defend themselves. INFJs are also adept at ghosting and the 'door slam'—cutting people out entirely when betrayed. With their intuitive understanding of others' strengths and weaknesses, INFJs can be both nurturing and incredibly ruthless when pushed too far, making them one of the most powerful and misunderstood personality types.

Takeaways

• 😀 INFJs possess a unique combination of kindness and power, which allows them to help others but also to harm if necessary.
• 😀 INFJs can see both the strengths and weaknesses of others, and this allows them to help or, if betrayed, dismantle an opponent by using their weaknesses against them.
• 😀 INFJs often predict how others will fail in the future based on their deep understanding of the person's weaknesses, and can give chillingly accurate advice or warnings about their fate.
• 😀 INFJ rage can be intense and cutting, often backed by facts or statistics, making their anger particularly impactful and scary to those on the receiving end.
• 😀 INFJs can mirror mistreatment by others, sometimes using it as a tool to show the other person the damage they are causing, though revenge is not their preferred path.
• 😀 INFJs are experts at ghosting, removing themselves from relationships or situations that are no longer fulfilling or fair to them.
• 😀 The 'door slam' is an INFJ's ultimate form of self-preservation, where they completely cut someone out of their life after they've been mistreated, with no chance for reconciliation.
• 😀 INFJs are patient and give others every opportunity to change, but there comes a time when they must use their abilities to walk away from harmful relationships.
• 😀 INFJs should be aware of their own power to protect their mental health and prevent being taken advantage of by malicious people.
• 😀 Setting clear boundaries early on in relationships can prevent INFJs from suffering later on, and they should be honest about their likes, dislikes, and needs from the start.

Q & A

What makes INFJs dangerous according to the video?

INFJs are considered dangerous because of their deep understanding of people, which they can use to both help others or dismantle opponents. They have the ability to hurt people on a level beyond belief, especially when betrayed or crossed.

How do INFJs typically use their ability to understand people?

INFJs gather information about others to help them improve by recognizing their strengths and weaknesses. This is typically done subconsciously, with the goal of helping others. However, if someone betrays them, they can turn these insights into weapons, using weaknesses against others.

What happens if someone crosses or betrays an INFJ?

If an INFJ is betrayed or crossed, they may use the information they've gathered to turn the tables on the person, pointing out their weaknesses and telling them how they will fail, which can be deeply unsettling to the person involved.

What is 'INFJ Rage' and how is it different from other types of anger?

INFJ Rage is a unique and intense emotional outburst, combining a dominant voice with cutting remarks that are backed by facts and observations. INFJs' anger is fueled by their deep understanding of a situation, making their rage particularly effective and unsettling.

How are INFJs like chameleons in terms of interactions?

INFJs are chameleonic in that they can mirror the mistreatment they receive from others. For instance, if someone treats them unfairly, they may return that treatment in the same way, as a method to show the injustice of the behavior.

What is ghosting, and how do INFJs use it in relationships?

Ghosting refers to INFJs withdrawing from relationships that no longer serve them. If a relationship or job becomes one-sided, with no mutual benefit or fairness, INFJs will fade away and stop investing emotionally, which is a form of self-preservation.

What does a 'door slam' mean for an INFJ?

The 'door slam' is a more extreme form of ghosting. It happens when an INFJ completely shuts someone out of their life, no longer caring about them at all. This occurs after the INFJ has given someone multiple chances and been mistreated enough that they no longer feel the person is worth their time or energy.

Why do INFJs need to cut toxic relationships from their lives?

INFJs need to cut toxic relationships to preserve their mental health and prevent being taken advantage of. They value fairness and justice, and when these qualities are absent in a relationship, they recognize the need to move on for their own well-being.

What advice is given to INFJs about setting boundaries in relationships?

INFJs should be upfront about their boundaries and personal preferences early on. They should express their likes, dislikes, and limits to avoid being pressured into situations that drain them. This helps ensure that their relationships are mutually respectful and healthy.

How does the video suggest INFJs deal with people who try to pressure them into social situations?

The video suggests that INFJs should assert their boundaries by clearly stating when they don't want to participate in social activities or other draining situations. By being honest and setting these boundaries early, INFJs can avoid unnecessary stress and manipulation.