The 7 Laws of Text Game (How to Text Girls and Get More Dates In 2024)

Summary

In this video, the speaker breaks down seven essential laws of text game, offering practical advice for improving communication with women, whether through dating apps or day game. Key laws include adopting the 'buyer frame' to maintain confidence, avoiding long paragraphs to prevent appearing needy, and keeping texts playful and concise. Emphasizing the importance of creating scarcity to increase value and being persistent without crossing into neediness, the video also highlights the necessity of not rushing to set up dates. By using these principles, viewers can significantly boost their success in converting text conversations into real-life dates.

Takeaways

• 😀 The Buyer Frame: In interactions, one person is the buyer, and the other is the seller. To increase attraction, men should adopt the buyer frame, making women prove themselves rather than trying to sell themselves.
• 😀 Avoid Long Paragraphs: Don't overwhelm women with lengthy texts. Keep your messages concise and match her energy to avoid appearing needy.
• 😀 Don't Become a Pen Pal: Texting should be for building interest and setting up dates, not for endless small talk. Avoid multi-topic conversations and use them to escalate toward an in-person meeting.
• 😀 Keep It Playful: Initiate playful, fun conversations to avoid getting into the friend zone. Don't be overly sexual, but don't be afraid to tease her and keep the tone lighthearted.
• 😀 Scarcity Creates Value: Don't be overly available. Match her energy with response times, and don't chase after her. Create a sense of scarcity to make yourself more desirable.
• 😀 Be Persistent, Not Needy: Follow up occasionally without seeming desperate. Persistence shows confidence, while neediness repels women.
• 😀 Don't Rush Into Plans: Avoid pushing for a date too early. Take your time to build rapport and let the connection naturally lead to plans over time.
• 😀 The SIMP Framework: Use the SIMP framework (Small talk, Intentions, Match her energy, Phone number) to build a comfortable, natural conversation that leads to a date.
• 😀 Understand Her Intentions: Before setting up a date, assess what she's looking for. This helps ensure that your date plans match her expectations (casual, serious, etc.).
• 😀 Double Text with Humor: If needed, follow up with a light-hearted, humorous message to avoid sounding desperate. A bit of sarcasm can show confidence and persistence without being needy.

Q & A

What is the buyer frame in text game and why is it important?

The buyer frame refers to the dynamic where one person is seen as the buyer and the other as the seller. In text game, the 'buyer' holds the power and is not trying to prove their worth. It's important because adopting the buyer frame increases your chances of building attraction and securing a date, as it positions you as the one who holds value, rather than coming off as needy or desperate.

How do you recognize if you’re in the seller frame instead of the buyer frame?

You can recognize if you're in the seller frame by noticing if you're the one answering her questions or trying to prove your worth. The seller frame typically involves putting her on a pedestal and seeking validation. If she’s asking you questions, you're likely in the seller frame, and you need to shift this by taking control of the conversation and asking her questions instead.

Why should you avoid sending paragraphs when texting women?

Sending long paragraphs often signals neediness and desperation. It makes you come off as overly invested or emotionally dependent. Instead, keep your messages short and concise, ideally matching the length and energy of her responses to maintain a balanced and attractive communication dynamic.

What should you do if a woman sends you short messages?

If a woman sends you short messages, you should respond with even shorter ones. This helps to avoid coming off as needy and keeps the conversation light and engaging. The goal is to match her energy and not over-invest emotionally, which can help maintain attraction.

What’s the problem with becoming a pen pal during texting?

Becoming a pen pal occurs when you get stuck in endless small talk or multiple conversation threads. The issue is that texting should be used to build attraction and set up a date, not just to get to know each other. Getting bogged down in small talk often leads to stagnation and reduces your chances of actually meeting in person.

How can you avoid being stuck in the friend zone when texting?

To avoid the friend zone, you need to keep the conversation playful and flirty. Avoid dry, platonic exchanges and instead initiate fun, teasing banter that shows you're interested in something more than just friendship. This keeps her intrigued and helps you transition from the friend zone to the date zone.

What role does scarcity play in text game?

Scarcity creates value. When you appear overly available or chase a woman constantly, you signal low value. By not immediately responding to her texts or always being readily available, you create an aura of scarcity. This increases your value in her eyes, making her more likely to pursue you and respect your time.

How can you balance persistence without coming across as needy?

Persistence involves following up from time to time without bending over backward to please her. The key is to show you're interested, but not desperate. For example, if she doesn’t respond to your first message, a humorous or light follow-up like 'Did you get abducted by aliens?' keeps things playful and shows you’re not fixated on her response.

Why is it important not to rush into setting a date too quickly?

Rushing into setting a date can make you appear desperate or untrustworthy. If a woman agrees to meet you too soon, it's often a sign she’s not taking the interaction seriously. By following a structured approach like the 'SIMP' framework (Small Talk, Intentions, Match her Energy, Phone Number), you build trust and increase the chances of securing a genuine date.

What is the SIMP framework, and how does it work?

The SIMP framework is a method used to transition from small talk to setting up a date. It stands for Small Talk (building rapport), Intentions (understanding what she’s looking for), Match her Energy (ensuring you’re on the same wavelength), and Phone Number (securing her contact details). This approach helps to build comfort and attraction before asking for a date, ensuring the conversation is smooth and successful.