Why Do We Get Relationship Problems? 3 Technique to Overcome Conflicts | Dr M V Priyaank

Summary

This video discusses how to heal challenging family relationships by addressing emotional imprints within ourselves. It explains that conflicts often stem from unresolved emotional wounds, not just others' actions. The speaker outlines a healing process that involves maintaining a healed state, identifying past emotional conflicts (referred to as 'wound seeds'), and using techniques like EFT, Arakara, and chakra healing to neutralize negative emotions. Consistency and introspection are key to transforming relationships, with the ultimate goal of fostering love, harmony, and understanding within family dynamics.

Takeaways

• 😀 Healing relationship conflicts starts with recognizing that sometimes the issue lies within you, not just the other person.
• 😀 Even if someone acts out negatively toward you, it might be due to an imprint in your energy field that you need to heal.
• 😀 Maintaining a healed state is essential—returning to negative thoughts can undo the healing process.
• 😀 If you've had longstanding relationship issues, documenting past conflicts can help identify patterns and wounds that need healing.
• 😀 Write down 5 to 10 memories of conflicts with the person each day to identify and heal the root cause of your relationship issues.
• 😀 Conflicts in relationships are like 'wound seeds' in your energy field, and healing them requires consistent effort.
• 😀 Scale each past conflict from 1 to 10 based on emotional intensity to prioritize which issues need immediate attention.
• 😀 Use healing techniques such as Trauma Freedom, EFT, or chakra healing to neutralize the negative emotions tied to past conflicts.
• 😀 Neutralizing emotions and reducing their intensity daily can clear the root causes of ongoing relationship issues.
• 😀 Aura and chakra healing techniques help to heal both your energy and the energy of others involved in the relationship.
• 😀 Consistency in practicing healing methods and maintaining a positive mindset is key to seeing lasting changes in relationships.

Q & A

Why do we experience relationship problems or conflicts?

Relationship problems occur due to imprints within ourselves. These imprints shape how we react to situations and how others behave towards us. Even if someone behaves negatively toward us, it's often due to unresolved issues within ourselves, rather than the other person’s fault.

How can healing be applied to improve relationships?

Healing can improve relationships by addressing the deep-rooted emotional imprints that influence interactions. If you heal these imprints within yourself, the other person’s behavior will begin to change automatically. The healing process involves maintaining a positive emotional state and consistently neutralizing negative emotions.

What happens if we don’t maintain our healed state after performing a healing?

If we do not maintain the positive emotional state after a healing, the effects of the healing may diminish. Negative thoughts and judgments about the person can undo the healing process, preventing long-term change in the relationship.

Why is it important to write down past conflicts when trying to heal a relationship?

Writing down past conflicts is important because it helps identify and acknowledge the emotional wounds that continue to influence the relationship. These unresolved wounds act like seeds in your energy field, causing repeated conflicts. By addressing them, you can break the cycle.

What is meant by ‘wound seeds’ in the context of relationship healing?

Wound seeds refer to unresolved emotional conflicts or negative experiences that are stored in your energy field. These seeds can grow and manifest as recurring relationship problems. Healing them involves recognizing and neutralizing the negative emotions associated with these past events.

How can you scale the intensity of emotional conflicts when healing?

You can scale the intensity of emotional conflicts on a scale from 1 to 10, with 1 being the lowest and 10 being the highest intensity. This helps measure how deeply you are affected by the situation. The goal is to reduce the intensity of the emotion to zero through consistent healing techniques.

What is the process for neutralizing negative emotions in a conflict?

To neutralize negative emotions, you can use mind reprogramming techniques such as the Trauma Freedom Process, EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques), or other healing practices. These techniques help to reduce the emotional intensity and ultimately eliminate the negative impact of past conflicts.

How does aura and chakra healing contribute to relationship healing?

Aura and chakra healing work by cleansing and balancing the energy centers in the body. This process can improve your emotional well-being and enhance your interactions with others. By healing both your own and the other person’s aura and chakras, you create a more harmonious and loving energy in the relationship.

What role does the ‘whole open open’ process play in relationship healing?

The 'whole open open' process is a healing technique that focuses on maintaining an open and loving state during the healing. This practice helps to reinforce the healing effects by allowing energy to flow freely and promoting a deeper connection in the relationship.

What is the overall approach to consistent relationship healing as described in the script?

The overall approach to consistent relationship healing involves three key steps: maintaining a healed emotional state, addressing and neutralizing past emotional wounds (wound seeds), and applying aura and chakra healing techniques. By practicing these methods regularly, the healing process can lead to lasting improvements in relationships.