Mutiara Ilmu 2 - Berbakti Kepada Kedua Orang Tua (Ustadz M. Hisyam Abdillah, Lc) #RamadhanSeries

Summary

This video script emphasizes the importance of honoring and being dutiful to one's parents in Islam. The speaker highlights key Qur'anic verses and Hadiths that stress the significance of showing gratitude, respect, and care for parents. Acts of kindness towards them, such as listening to their advice, helping them, praying for their well-being, and speaking to them kindly, are highlighted as vital practices. The speaker concludes by reminding viewers that honoring parents is a path to attaining Allah's blessings and the ultimate reward in the afterlife.

Takeaways

• 😀 The importance of gratitude towards Allah for the blessings of Islam, Iman, and health.
• 😀 Respecting and honoring parents is one of the most important acts of worship in Islam.
• 😀 Allah commands believers to show kindness and gratitude towards both parents, as stated in Surah Luqman, Ayah 14.
• 😀 After faith in Allah, pleasing one's parents is of the highest priority in Islam.
• 😀 The pleasure of Allah is tied to the pleasure of parents, as stated in the hadith: 'Ridha Allah fi ridha walidain'.
• 😀 Listening to and following the good advice of parents is an essential part of being dutiful to them.
• 😀 Helping and fulfilling the needs of parents with sincerity is a crucial part of filial piety.
• 😀 It is important not to burden parents unnecessarily, and to alleviate their troubles when possible.
• 😀 Praying for both living and deceased parents is a highly rewarded act in Islam, as it can benefit them even after they pass away.
• 😀 The hadith mentions that when a person dies, their good deeds cease except for three things: ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge, and a righteous child who prays for them.
• 😀 Islam stresses the importance of never speaking harshly to or hurting parents, with the Qur’an advising to lower the wing of humility and compassion for them.

Q & A

What does the speaker say about the importance of being grateful to Allah?

The speaker emphasizes that gratitude towards Allah is crucial, especially for the blessings of Iman, Islam, and health. Allah is the ultimate source of all these blessings, and one should be thankful for them.

What is the significance of honoring and listening to one’s parents according to the speaker?

Honoring and listening to one's parents is a key part of being a good Muslim. The speaker highlights that obeying their advice, especially when it is good, is a way to fulfill our duty to them and earn Allah's pleasure.

What is the meaning of the verse from Surah Luqman that is mentioned in the transcript?

The verse from Surah Luqman (31:14) talks about the great sacrifice of mothers in bearing and nurturing their children. It advises children to be grateful to Allah and their parents, and reminds them that they will return to Allah in the end.

How does the speaker connect being good to one’s parents with achieving Allah's pleasure?

The speaker explains that Allah's pleasure is directly tied to the pleasure of one's parents. If parents are pleased, Allah is pleased, and this helps one earn Allah's favor and blessings.

What is the first form of showing respect to parents mentioned in the transcript?

The first form of showing respect to parents mentioned in the transcript is by listening to their advice and obeying them, particularly when the advice is positive and beneficial.

Why is it important to help and fulfill the needs of one's parents?

Helping and fulfilling the needs of parents is a way to show gratitude and love. The speaker stresses that, while it is ideal to help when possible, even if one cannot assist directly, it is important not to add burdens to their parents.

What does the speaker suggest about praying for one's parents?

The speaker emphasizes the importance of praying for both living and deceased parents. The act of prayer for them is considered a great deed, and it continues to benefit parents, especially after they pass away.

What hadith does the speaker refer to regarding the death of a person and the continuation of their deeds?

The speaker refers to a hadith where Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) explains that when a person dies, their deeds come to an end except for three things: ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge, and a righteous child who prays for them.

What is the significance of not speaking harshly to one's parents?

The speaker highlights that speaking kindly and respectfully to parents is critical. Using harsh words or hurting their feelings is forbidden. This is based on Allah's command in the Quran to treat one's parents with mercy and kindness.

What does the speaker say about parents being a gateway to paradise?

The speaker refers to a hadith where the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) describes parents as the most important gateway to paradise. Honoring them and maintaining good relations with them can be a pathway to entering Jannah (paradise).