Dikontrol atau Mengontrol Media Sosial?

Summary

Sarah shares her thoughtful perspective on social media, emphasizing its role as a source of information rather than a platform for personal validation. She values privacy, meaningful friendships, and staying true to herself. Sarah explains how her upbringing shaped her reluctance to follow trends or share personal details publicly. She advocates for using social media with purpose and control, focusing on what truly matters. Her approach highlights the importance of balance, mindfulness, and genuine human connection over online popularity, ultimately fostering a peaceful and more authentic life.

Takeaways

• 😀 Sarah rarely posts on social media, preferring privacy over sharing personal information online.
• 😀 Social media serves as a tool for accessing information, particularly for work purposes, rather than for personal interaction.
• 😀 Sarah values 'real' friendships that focus on genuine connections rather than social media validation through photos and posts.
• 😀 She prefers to share personal details with close friends directly, like via WhatsApp, rather than posting publicly on social media.
• 😀 Sarah finds social media to be a space for communication and information, but not an essential part of her personal life.
• 😀 She dislikes the trend of showcasing personal possessions and experiences on social media, seeing it as a form of show-off.
• 😀 Sarah believes her minimal social media use contributes to a more peaceful life, free from the stress of constant updates and news.
• 😀 She credits her upbringing in a less affluent family for teaching her to be more thoughtful and discerning about what to follow or buy.
• 😀 By not using social media actively, Sarah feels more honest with herself and true to her preferences, avoiding unnecessary trends.
• 😀 Sarah feels that disconnecting from social media allows her to focus on her own life and well-being, without being overwhelmed by external information.
• 😀 She believes being human is about constantly learning and evolving, as life changes and new experiences arise.

Q & A

Why does Sarah rarely post on social media?

Sarah rarely posts on social media because she values privacy and prefers to share personal moments with close friends rather than broadcasting them to a wider audience.

What is Sarah's general view on following trends?

Sarah has never been keen on following trends, whether related to gadgets, fashion, or social media. She believes it’s important to evaluate whether something is necessary before following a trend.

What made Sarah feel sad about her college reunion?

During her college reunion, Sarah felt sad because her friends seemed more focused on taking photos for Instagram than on genuinely reconnecting, which made her question whether they actually wanted to meet her or were just interested in creating content.

How does Sarah define a 'real' friend?

For Sarah, a 'real' friend is someone who values genuine connections and is not concerned with showing off or seeking validation on social media.

What role does social media play in Sarah's professional life?

Sarah uses social media, specifically Instagram, for professional purposes, such as managing work-related accounts and staying updated with industry news. However, she does not use it for personal matters.

Why does Sarah believe she is happier with her current approach to social media?

Sarah is happier because she is more honest with herself, only engaging with social media in ways that align with her true interests, such as work-related content, and maintaining real, healthy friendships.

What impact did Sarah’s mother have on her attitude toward materialism and social media?

Sarah’s mother taught her to be more aware and mindful about not following trends or desires just for the sake of it. This shaped Sarah’s approach to social media, where she avoids the need to show off or keep up with the latest trends.

How does Sarah feel about consuming news and information on social media?

Sarah views social media as a source of useful information, such as work updates or traffic news. However, she believes that it can also become a distraction if not controlled and that it's important to limit exposure to non-essential information.

What does Sarah mean by having a 'peaceful life' without social media?

Sarah feels that by not engaging with social media too much, she has more peace of mind. She can focus on what matters to her, avoid unnecessary stress from constant updates, and maintain a healthier mental state.

How does Sarah suggest we manage our relationship with social media?

Sarah suggests that we should have control over our social media use by setting limits and knowing when to stop. We should engage with social media mindfully and avoid spending time on unnecessary or stressful content.