If only I knew this about problematic student behavior five years ago…

Teachers Need Teachers
14 Jan 202317:01

Summary

TLDRIn this video, the speaker addresses teachers struggling with disruptive classroom behaviors, emphasizing that such behaviors are not personal but a result of students' prior experiences. The video explores the impact of emotional responses on classroom management and offers advice on how teachers can adjust their approach. The key takeaway is that mastering emotions and setting clear boundaries while maintaining a human connection with students can lead to a more harmonious classroom. The speaker encourages teachers to reflect on their own coping mechanisms and how these influence their classroom dynamics.

Takeaways

  • 😀 Teachers often face disruptive student behavior that is not personal but a result of past experiences and coping mechanisms.
  • 😀 Classroom management struggles may stem from teachers being either too meek or too strict, which causes a vicious cycle of student misbehavior.
  • 😀 Students judge their teachers during the initial phase, testing boundaries to see how far they can push them, which influences classroom dynamics long-term.
  • 😀 Students' behaviors are shaped by their life experiences, including parenting, peer influences, and past trauma, which result in different coping mechanisms.
  • 😀 Teachers must be aware of their own emotional reactions, as how they handle confrontations with students directly affects classroom behavior.
  • 😀 Creating a balance between firm boundaries and human connection with students is crucial for effective classroom management.
  • 😀 Teachers should reflect on how they present themselves to students, including how they handle authority and vulnerability.
  • 😀 Recording oneself teaching and seeking feedback can help teachers understand their presence and improve classroom management.
  • 😀 Teachers should separate student behavior from the student as a person, addressing actions without labeling the student as 'disrespectful'.
  • 😀 Emotional mastery is key to maintaining control in the classroom, as teachers who can regulate their emotions tend to have fewer behavior issues and stronger relationships with students.
  • 😀 Building trust and presenting a consistent, calm presence can reduce student misbehavior over time, leading to a more harmonious classroom environment.

Q & A

  • Why do students act out in the classroom?

    -Students act out due to a combination of factors such as learned behaviors from previous teachers, peers, or home environments. These behaviors are not personal and often reflect their coping mechanisms, which are reinforced by the reactions they receive from adults.

  • How does classroom management relate to student behavior?

    -Classroom management is deeply connected to how teachers present themselves. If teachers are too meek or too strict, it can lead to students testing boundaries. Teachers must find a balance between being firm and human to manage classroom behavior effectively.

  • How important is the first impression when managing a class?

    -The first impression is crucial as students are constantly testing their teachers' boundaries early on. How teachers react in the first week can set the tone for the rest of the year, shaping how students behave and perceive authority.

  • What role do emotions play in classroom management?

    -Emotions play a significant role in classroom management. Teachers' emotional reactions to student behavior can either escalate the situation or help defuse it. By controlling their emotions, teachers can prevent a vicious cycle of negative behavior from students.

  • Should teachers take student misbehavior personally?

    -No, teachers should not take student misbehavior personally. Most student behaviors are a result of external influences, like their home environment or peer interactions, and are not directly aimed at the teacher.

  • How can teachers build trust with students despite misbehavior?

    -Teachers can build trust by remaining firm but fair, and showing that they are not easily swayed by student misbehavior. This helps students feel safe and understood, eventually reducing disruptive behaviors.

  • What is the role of a teacher's self-awareness in classroom management?

    -Self-awareness is key in classroom management. Teachers need to recognize how their emotional responses influence their actions and adjust them to avoid exacerbating disruptive behaviors. Being aware of their default coping mechanisms can help teachers manage conflict more effectively.

  • How can teachers avoid reacting emotionally to student misbehavior?

    -Teachers can practice maintaining a neutral or calm demeanor in the face of misbehavior. Techniques like using a poker face or slightly amused expression can help detach personal emotion from the situation and allow for a more objective response.

  • Why is it important to address student behaviors without labeling them personally?

    -Addressing the behavior without labeling the student helps prevent them from feeling pigeonholed or shamed. For example, instead of saying 'you are disrespectful,' a teacher can focus on the specific behavior, such as 'that tone was disrespectful.' This distinction fosters a more constructive response.

  • What can teachers do to improve their classroom management in the long term?

    -Teachers can improve classroom management by reflecting on their emotional responses, recording and analyzing their teaching presence, and finding a balance between firmness and empathy. Over time, this will help them build a harmonious classroom environment where students are more likely to self-regulate.

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