Lead or Lose

Summary

In this powerful message, the speaker addresses Black men, emphasizing the importance of masculinity and leadership in relationships. He critiques the tendency to expect women to motivate and drive men, calling it a disservice to both genders. The speaker reflects on his own journey, explaining how he once fell into the trap of pedestalizing women, believing it made him a good man. He urges men to embrace their role as leaders and stop thinking that standing firm in their masculinity makes them toxic or misogynistic. The message challenges conventional ideas and encourages men to step up and lead.