SEDUCE WITH YOUR EYES: A Lesson in Hypnosis & Eye Contact | The Means of Seduction

Summary

This video script explores the art of seduction through the power of eye contact, drawing parallels with hypnosis techniques. It suggests using the eyes as 'pendulums of masterful hypnosis' to influence and entice others towards desired actions. The script outlines the principles of focus, fatigue, pacing, and leading to create a hypnotic effect, and emphasizes the importance of subtlety and strategic conversation to embed commands effectively. By leveraging these techniques, one can potentially achieve goals such as love, attention, wealth, or power from those being seduced. The video promises further lessons on using the voice as a tool for seduction in upcoming content.

Takeaways

• 👁️ The eyes are considered the 'Gateway to the Soul' and can be used as tools for seduction and hypnosis.
• 🧲 Eyes act as pendulums in a hypnotic state, influencing daily interactions through focus, fatigue, pacing, and leading.
• 💓 Seduction is not always about romance but can be used to obtain love, attention, wealth, or power from someone.
• 📚 According to the Oxford English Dictionary, hypnosis induces a state where a person is highly responsive to suggestions or directions.
• 🔒 To establish focus, maintain eye contact and let the person you are seducing focus on your eyes without breaking the gaze.
• 😴 Fatigue refers to the tiredness from focusing for a long time; in seduction, provide relief by shifting attention briefly but keeping it on you.
• 💬 Pacing and leading in hypnosis involve bringing attention to the state and using it to further the interaction, which can be mimicked in seduction.
• 👍 Use compliments to boost self-awareness and comfort in the person you are seducing, making them more receptive to your intentions.
• 💭 Embedding commands in hypnosis and seduction should be subtle, using 'I' statements to frame your desires without being demanding.
• 🌱 Plant seeds of ideas and desires in the person's mind by using understated compliments and observations to reinforce behaviors.
• 🗣️ The next video will cover how to use your voice to seduce, indicating that seduction involves both non-verbal and verbal communication.

Q & A

What is the metaphor used in the script to describe the eyes in the context of seduction?

The script uses the metaphor of 'pendulums of masterful hypnosis' to describe the eyes in the context of seduction.

What are the main goals a person might have when seducing someone according to the script?

The main goals of a person seducing someone may include obtaining love, attention, wealth, and/or power from the seduced individual who has access to these.

How is hypnosis defined in the script?

Hypnosis is defined as the induction of a state of consciousness in which a person apparently loses the power of voluntary action and is highly responsive to suggestions or directions.

What are the four principles of hypnosis mentioned in the script that can be applied to seduction?

The four principles of hypnosis mentioned are focus, fatigue, pacing and leading, and embedding.

How can maintaining eye contact be used to establish focus in a seduction scenario?

Maintaining eye contact allows the person being seduced to focus on your eyes, which act as the single object of focus, thus establishing a lock on their attention.

What does the script suggest to do in order to handle fatigue during seduction?

The script suggests using the likely occurrence of fatigue to your advantage by maintaining eye contact and conversation, and providing a source of relief, such as a temporary shift in attention to another part of you.

How can pacing and leading be applied in the context of seduction using the eyes?

Pacing and leading can be applied by bringing the person's awareness to what they are doing or how they are making you feel, often turning the observation into a compliment to increase their comfort and ease around you.

What is the recommended approach for embedding commands in seduction as per the script?

The recommended approach is to use 'I' statements during the commands, framing them in a way that complements the seduced individual and reinforces desired behaviors, rather than directly demanding something.

How does the script relate the use of 'I' statements to the process of seduction?

The script relates 'I' statements to seduction by suggesting that they can be used to subtly embed commands and plant ideas, making the person feel needed and desired, which can lead to them wanting to fulfill those needs.

What is the final principle discussed in the script for effective seduction using the eyes?

The final principle discussed is embedding, which involves using subtlety and 'I' statements to plant seeds of ideas and needs in the mind of the person being seduced, without breaking the hypnotic or seductive trance.

Outlines

00:00

👁️ Seduction and Hypnosis Through Eye Contact

This paragraph delves into the concept of using eye contact as a tool for seduction and hypnosis. It begins by establishing the idea that eyes can be powerful tools in influencing others, drawing a parallel between seduction and hypnosis. The speaker explains that seduction is not solely about romance but can be used to achieve various goals, such as gaining love, attention, wealth, or power. Hypnosis is introduced as a state where one is highly responsive to suggestions, and the connection between seduction and hypnosis is made clear. The paragraph outlines the principles of pendulum hypnosis—focus, fatigue, pacing, and leading—which are adapted for seduction. The focus on eye contact is emphasized as a means to create a connection and hold the attention of the person being seduced. Fatigue is discussed in the context of maintaining attention and providing relief to keep the interaction engaging. The paragraph concludes with the importance of using these principles subtly to avoid being perceived as creepy.

05:02

💭 Advanced Techniques in Seductive Eye Hypnosis

The second paragraph builds upon the foundation laid in the first, offering advanced techniques for using eye contact in seduction. It discusses how to manage fatigue by providing temporary shifts in attention, such as brushing hair or a physical gesture, to maintain engagement without overwhelming the subject. The concept of pacing and leading is introduced, where the seducer brings attention to the interaction and uses it to deepen the connection. Examples are given on how to use eye contact to compliment and boost the self-awareness of the other person, thereby increasing comfort and ease. The paragraph also addresses the final principle of embedding commands subtly into conversation using 'I' statements, which frames the interaction in a positive light and plants seeds for the desired outcome. The speaker emphasizes the importance of subtlety and the strategic use of words and eye contact to elicit the desired response, concluding with a teaser for the next video on using voice in seduction.

Keywords

💡Seduction

Seduction, in the context of this video, is defined as the action of enticing another individual with the intent to draw them away from someone or something towards another. It is not always about romance but can be used to achieve real goals in everyday life, such as gaining love, attention, wealth, or power. The video uses the concept of seduction as a means to influence and entice others to give something to the seducer or change their lifestyle or priorities.

💡Hypnosis

Hypnosis is described as the induction of a state of consciousness where a person appears to lose voluntary action and becomes highly responsive to suggestions or directions. The video draws a parallel between hypnosis and seduction, suggesting that the hypnotic state can be used as a means to achieve seduction, making the person being seduced more malleable to the seducer's intentions.

💡Eye Contact

Eye contact is presented as a crucial element in both hypnosis and seduction. It is used to establish a connection and maintain focus on the seducer. In the script, it is mentioned that maintaining eye contact allows the person being seduced to focus on the seducer's eyes, which act as a single object of attention, a key principle in pendulum hypnosis.

💡Pendulum Hypnosis

Pendulum hypnosis is a technique where a pendulum is used to induce a hypnotic state by focusing the subject's gaze on its swinging motion. The video script adapts this concept to use the eyes as pendulums of masterful hypnosis, where the seducer controls the interaction to embed certain ideas or behaviors in the person being seduced.

💡Focus

Focus refers to directing a participant's gaze on a single object, in this case, the seducer's eyes. The script explains that maintaining eye contact is a way to establish and maintain focus, allowing the person being seduced to concentrate on the seducer, which is essential for the seduction process.

💡Fatigue

Fatigue, in the context of the video, refers to the tired feeling someone might get from looking at the same thing for a long time. The script suggests that in seduction, one should use fatigue to their advantage by maintaining eye contact and conversation, and then providing a source of relief, such as a temporary shift in attention, to keep the person engaged.

💡Pacing and Leading

Pacing and leading involve bringing attention to a certain state and then using it to further that state. In the script, it is mentioned that in hypnosis, this involves making the person aware of their trance-like state. In seduction, it means using eye contact to shift focus to other aspects of the seducer and then making an observation or compliment to increase comfort and ease around the seducer.

💡Embedding

Embedding in the video refers to the process of subtly incorporating commands or suggestions into the conversation. It is a key principle in hypnosis and seduction where the seducer uses 'I' statements to express their desires or needs in a way that is not direct but suggestive, thereby influencing the person being seduced without breaking the hypnotic or seductive trance.

💡I Statements

The use of 'I' statements is recommended for embedding commands in a subtle manner. Instead of making direct demands, the script suggests using phrases that express personal feelings or desires, such as 'I have thoroughly enjoyed my time working here,' which can plant the idea of a raise or promotion without explicitly demanding it.

💡Reliability

Reliability is implied in the script as a behavior that can be reinforced through seduction. By complimenting the person being seduced on their reliability and expressing a feeling of happiness and trust in their company, the seducer plants a seed that may lead the person to continue behaving in a reliable manner, thus becoming more attached to the seducer.

Highlights

Eyes are referred to as the 'Gateway to the soul' and can be used for seduction.

Seduction is the action of enticing someone with the intent to draw them towards something or someone else.

Hypnosis is defined as inducing a state of consciousness where a person is highly responsive to suggestions.

Seduction and hypnosis can work together as one involves the desire to obtain a reaction and the other is a means of attainment.

Fundamentals of pendulum hypnosis can be adapted for seduction, including focus, fatigue, pacing, and leading.

Focus in seduction involves maintaining eye contact to keep the person's attention on you.

Fatigue in seduction means managing the environment to minimize distractions and control the interaction.

Pacing and leading in seduction involve drawing attention to a state and using it to further the interaction.

Embedding commands in seduction should be done subtly to avoid breaking the trance.

Using 'I' statements can help frame commands positively and make them less direct.

Complimenting the seduced individual can reinforce their behavior and make them feel needed and wanted.

The eyes are a powerful tool in seduction when used properly to elicit the desired response.

The video suggests that the next video will cover how to seduce using your voice.

Seduction is not always about romance but can be used to achieve various goals in everyday life.

The main goal of the person seducing is to get the seduced individual to give something to the seducer or change their behavior.

Strategic eye contact and breaking it can be used to control the interaction and manage the other person's focus.

Providing a source of relief during seduction can help manage fatigue and maintain the person's attention.

Making an observation with a compliment can boost the other person's self-awareness and comfort around you.

Transcripts

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ize I am sure you have heard people call

eyes the Gateway to the soul and perhaps

they are but if our eyes offer a glimpse

into the deepest parts of ourselves then

shouldn't we get some say and when that

gate opens and what exactly lies behind

it for spectators to see for the

purposes of seduction I'd like to think

of the eyes as the pendulums of

masterful hypnosis we control in our

daily interactions with a pendulum

hypnotist rely on for hypnotic

principles focus fatigue pacing and

leading which go hand in hand and

embedding now I already know what you're

thinking hypnosis and seduction both

sounds like the tactics of a sneaky

femme fatale or a comic-book villain

well they are but they also work well

for real people trying to achieve real

goals in their everyday real lives

seduction isn't always about romance

keep that in mind

seduction by definition is the action of

luring or enticing another individual

with the intent to draw him or her away

from someone or something and towards

someone or something else usually the

main goal of the person seducing is to

get the seduced individual to give

something to the seducer or change their

lifestyle behavior priorities and so

forth for the purposes of this video

let's operate under the assumption that

a seducer wants love attention wealth

and/or power and the person they are

seducing

has the access according to the oxford

english dictionary hypnosis is the

induction of a state of consciousness in

which a person apparently loses the

power of a voluntary action and is

highly responsive to suggestions or

directions do you see now why seduction

and hypnosis might work well together

one is arguably the desire to obtain a

resource or a reaction from someone and

the other

arguably a means of attainment so how do

our eyes fit into all of this what you

are aiming to do as a student of

seduction is influence and entice those

in your life that you'd like to acquire

something from to make those we wish to

seduce more malleable we may rely on the

fundamentals of pendulum hypnosis I

mentioned earlier with some slight

alterations to avoid coming across

really creepy the principles of hypnosis

as I mentioned earlier our focus fatigue

pacing and leading and embedding what do

each of these mean and how can we use

our eyes to accomplish something similar

focus refers to the focusing of a

participants gaze on a single object in

this case the person you are seducing

will need to look you directly in the

eyes and your eyes will act as the

single object the participant is

focusing on you always around to achieve

this lock I contact you establish the

eye contact and then maintain it now

maintaining eye contact doesn't mean

stopping all of your blinking blink as

usual that maintain direct eye contact

with the person you are seducing allow

them to focus on your eyes during

conversation and don't be the one to

look away unless you're doing it

strategically that leads into our second

point fatigue fatigue refers to the

tired feeling someone might get from

looking at the same thing for a long

time in a session of hypnosis but this

might also happen in a conversation in

matters of seduction you want to curtail

the environment to mitigate distractions

ideally you should be having a

conversation with someone where the

focus is entirely on you to a break room

or conference room a car parked outside

a couch a park bench across the table

from each other at dinner

these are all scenarios in which the

attention is on YouTube and might likely

have few distractions how about tomorrow

knowing the focus is hard to keep and

fatigue is likely decide when and how to

give someone a break in seduction you

are in control this is not a position

for the week or for the doubtful knowing

fatigue is likely use that to your

advantage knowing fatigue is likely

maintain your eye contact and

conversation and readily provide a

source of relief while speaking lock

eyes and perhaps brush a long hair over

your shoulder or squeeze a bicep muscle

this will temporarily shift the

attention away from the eyes but the

attention will still be on you and the

eye contact will resume again this is

how to handle fatigue and seductive

hypnosis now the third principle was of

pacing and leading in hypnosis this

involves bringing attention to the

trance-like state and then using it to

further the state try bringing someone's

awareness to what they are doing or how

they are making you feel for added

effect turn the observation into a

compliment for example across the table

from a romantic partner you can make

first eye contact then occasionally draw

attention away from your eyes to another

part of you or to something you have

with you and then you can say with eye

contact resumed you have been listening

to me this entire time you were such an

amazing listener in a meeting or job

interview across from your boss or the

person you'd like to give you a

promotion you can maintain eye contact

occasionally look down at your resume or

reference your resume or a chart or

graphic with you resume your eye contact

and then say something like

you are making me feel so welcomed here

thank you for taking the time to meet

with me in both scenarios you are using

your eyes to hold their focus shifting

focus on two other things all still

relating to you and then making an

observation possibly with a compliment

that boosts their self-awareness and

thus increases their own comfort and

ease around you that is how you pace and

lead straight into the final principle

embedding commands in hypnosis as in

seduction subtlety is the key to avoid

breaking the spell and dismantling the

trance I'd recommend using I statements

during the commands and that might sound

counterintuitive but it's truly not you

could say you need to give me this raise

or you need to commit to our

relationship and that might work but

there's a really good chance it'll

aggravate the person you're trying to

influence Oh

about you with me Bella

you are pitiful gone tell him you use

the word you only when drawing their

attention back toward themselves to

establish comfort in the pacing and

leading phase once your conversation has

passed that you need to speak for

yourself it's all about framing instead

of saying you need to give me a raise

say I have thoroughly enjoyed my time

working here and given that I am hoping

to grow within this company I'd

appreciate the chance to discuss my

salary this embeds multiple ideas all at

once and even if you don't give what you

want write them in there I've planted a

seed you enjoy working there you want to

stay you'd like to grow there and

contribute more word by word you are

establishing your credibility and your

worth making your presence instead of

singing you need to commit to me or you

need to commit to our relationship say I

have been having a great time with you

these past few days weeks months etc I

feel so much happier around you and like

I can really count on you this one is

very understated you might have noticed

I didn't use the word commitment the

second time at all the difference here

is complementing the seduced individual

on a behavior they have maybe only

displayed once to reinforce the behavior

rather than nagging you simply suggested

as fun to be around one another and

their company has been consistently a

good thing for you the count on you

comment plants a seed of need the

seduced individual feels needed wanted

even desired perhaps they will want to

deliver on their reliability by always

being that person you can count on and

eventually they will realize you are

someone they can't imagine not being

around with our I is the alleged gateway

we invite newcomers in with every stare

and shun the unwelcome with I rules of

avoidance for seduction

the eyes are an impressive tool if used

properly they can elicit the exact

response you want from anyone with that

being said this is a strategy involving

your words just as much as your eyes so

my next video will cover how to seduce

using your voice stay tuned for more

lessons and seduction

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