SEDUCE WITH YOUR EYES: A Lesson in Hypnosis & Eye Contact | The Means of Seduction
Summary
TLDRThis video script explores the art of seduction through the power of eye contact, drawing parallels with hypnosis techniques. It suggests using the eyes as 'pendulums of masterful hypnosis' to influence and entice others towards desired actions. The script outlines the principles of focus, fatigue, pacing, and leading to create a hypnotic effect, and emphasizes the importance of subtlety and strategic conversation to embed commands effectively. By leveraging these techniques, one can potentially achieve goals such as love, attention, wealth, or power from those being seduced. The video promises further lessons on using the voice as a tool for seduction in upcoming content.
Takeaways
- 👁️ The eyes are considered the 'Gateway to the Soul' and can be used as tools for seduction and hypnosis.
- 🧲 Eyes act as pendulums in a hypnotic state, influencing daily interactions through focus, fatigue, pacing, and leading.
- 💓 Seduction is not always about romance but can be used to obtain love, attention, wealth, or power from someone.
- 📚 According to the Oxford English Dictionary, hypnosis induces a state where a person is highly responsive to suggestions or directions.
- 🔒 To establish focus, maintain eye contact and let the person you are seducing focus on your eyes without breaking the gaze.
- 😴 Fatigue refers to the tiredness from focusing for a long time; in seduction, provide relief by shifting attention briefly but keeping it on you.
- 💬 Pacing and leading in hypnosis involve bringing attention to the state and using it to further the interaction, which can be mimicked in seduction.
- 👍 Use compliments to boost self-awareness and comfort in the person you are seducing, making them more receptive to your intentions.
- 💭 Embedding commands in hypnosis and seduction should be subtle, using 'I' statements to frame your desires without being demanding.
- 🌱 Plant seeds of ideas and desires in the person's mind by using understated compliments and observations to reinforce behaviors.
- 🗣️ The next video will cover how to use your voice to seduce, indicating that seduction involves both non-verbal and verbal communication.
Q & A
What is the metaphor used in the script to describe the eyes in the context of seduction?
-The script uses the metaphor of 'pendulums of masterful hypnosis' to describe the eyes in the context of seduction.
What are the main goals a person might have when seducing someone according to the script?
-The main goals of a person seducing someone may include obtaining love, attention, wealth, and/or power from the seduced individual who has access to these.
How is hypnosis defined in the script?
-Hypnosis is defined as the induction of a state of consciousness in which a person apparently loses the power of voluntary action and is highly responsive to suggestions or directions.
What are the four principles of hypnosis mentioned in the script that can be applied to seduction?
-The four principles of hypnosis mentioned are focus, fatigue, pacing and leading, and embedding.
How can maintaining eye contact be used to establish focus in a seduction scenario?
-Maintaining eye contact allows the person being seduced to focus on your eyes, which act as the single object of focus, thus establishing a lock on their attention.
What does the script suggest to do in order to handle fatigue during seduction?
-The script suggests using the likely occurrence of fatigue to your advantage by maintaining eye contact and conversation, and providing a source of relief, such as a temporary shift in attention to another part of you.
How can pacing and leading be applied in the context of seduction using the eyes?
-Pacing and leading can be applied by bringing the person's awareness to what they are doing or how they are making you feel, often turning the observation into a compliment to increase their comfort and ease around you.
What is the recommended approach for embedding commands in seduction as per the script?
-The recommended approach is to use 'I' statements during the commands, framing them in a way that complements the seduced individual and reinforces desired behaviors, rather than directly demanding something.
How does the script relate the use of 'I' statements to the process of seduction?
-The script relates 'I' statements to seduction by suggesting that they can be used to subtly embed commands and plant ideas, making the person feel needed and desired, which can lead to them wanting to fulfill those needs.
What is the final principle discussed in the script for effective seduction using the eyes?
-The final principle discussed is embedding, which involves using subtlety and 'I' statements to plant seeds of ideas and needs in the mind of the person being seduced, without breaking the hypnotic or seductive trance.
Outlines
👁️ Seduction and Hypnosis Through Eye Contact
This paragraph delves into the concept of using eye contact as a tool for seduction and hypnosis. It begins by establishing the idea that eyes can be powerful tools in influencing others, drawing a parallel between seduction and hypnosis. The speaker explains that seduction is not solely about romance but can be used to achieve various goals, such as gaining love, attention, wealth, or power. Hypnosis is introduced as a state where one is highly responsive to suggestions, and the connection between seduction and hypnosis is made clear. The paragraph outlines the principles of pendulum hypnosis—focus, fatigue, pacing, and leading—which are adapted for seduction. The focus on eye contact is emphasized as a means to create a connection and hold the attention of the person being seduced. Fatigue is discussed in the context of maintaining attention and providing relief to keep the interaction engaging. The paragraph concludes with the importance of using these principles subtly to avoid being perceived as creepy.
💭 Advanced Techniques in Seductive Eye Hypnosis
The second paragraph builds upon the foundation laid in the first, offering advanced techniques for using eye contact in seduction. It discusses how to manage fatigue by providing temporary shifts in attention, such as brushing hair or a physical gesture, to maintain engagement without overwhelming the subject. The concept of pacing and leading is introduced, where the seducer brings attention to the interaction and uses it to deepen the connection. Examples are given on how to use eye contact to compliment and boost the self-awareness of the other person, thereby increasing comfort and ease. The paragraph also addresses the final principle of embedding commands subtly into conversation using 'I' statements, which frames the interaction in a positive light and plants seeds for the desired outcome. The speaker emphasizes the importance of subtlety and the strategic use of words and eye contact to elicit the desired response, concluding with a teaser for the next video on using voice in seduction.
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Keywords
💡Seduction
💡Hypnosis
💡Eye Contact
💡Pendulum Hypnosis
💡Focus
💡Fatigue
💡Pacing and Leading
💡Embedding
💡I Statements
💡Reliability
Highlights
Eyes are referred to as the 'Gateway to the soul' and can be used for seduction.
Seduction is the action of enticing someone with the intent to draw them towards something or someone else.
Hypnosis is defined as inducing a state of consciousness where a person is highly responsive to suggestions.
Seduction and hypnosis can work together as one involves the desire to obtain a reaction and the other is a means of attainment.
Fundamentals of pendulum hypnosis can be adapted for seduction, including focus, fatigue, pacing, and leading.
Focus in seduction involves maintaining eye contact to keep the person's attention on you.
Fatigue in seduction means managing the environment to minimize distractions and control the interaction.
Pacing and leading in seduction involve drawing attention to a state and using it to further the interaction.
Embedding commands in seduction should be done subtly to avoid breaking the trance.
Using 'I' statements can help frame commands positively and make them less direct.
Complimenting the seduced individual can reinforce their behavior and make them feel needed and wanted.
The eyes are a powerful tool in seduction when used properly to elicit the desired response.
The video suggests that the next video will cover how to seduce using your voice.
Seduction is not always about romance but can be used to achieve various goals in everyday life.
The main goal of the person seducing is to get the seduced individual to give something to the seducer or change their behavior.
Strategic eye contact and breaking it can be used to control the interaction and manage the other person's focus.
Providing a source of relief during seduction can help manage fatigue and maintain the person's attention.
Making an observation with a compliment can boost the other person's self-awareness and comfort around you.
Transcripts
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ize I am sure you have heard people call
eyes the Gateway to the soul and perhaps
they are but if our eyes offer a glimpse
into the deepest parts of ourselves then
shouldn't we get some say and when that
gate opens and what exactly lies behind
it for spectators to see for the
purposes of seduction I'd like to think
of the eyes as the pendulums of
masterful hypnosis we control in our
daily interactions with a pendulum
hypnotist rely on for hypnotic
principles focus fatigue pacing and
leading which go hand in hand and
embedding now I already know what you're
thinking hypnosis and seduction both
sounds like the tactics of a sneaky
femme fatale or a comic-book villain
well they are but they also work well
for real people trying to achieve real
goals in their everyday real lives
seduction isn't always about romance
keep that in mind
seduction by definition is the action of
luring or enticing another individual
with the intent to draw him or her away
from someone or something and towards
someone or something else usually the
main goal of the person seducing is to
get the seduced individual to give
something to the seducer or change their
lifestyle behavior priorities and so
forth for the purposes of this video
let's operate under the assumption that
a seducer wants love attention wealth
and/or power and the person they are
seducing
has the access according to the oxford
english dictionary hypnosis is the
induction of a state of consciousness in
which a person apparently loses the
power of a voluntary action and is
highly responsive to suggestions or
directions do you see now why seduction
and hypnosis might work well together
one is arguably the desire to obtain a
resource or a reaction from someone and
the other
arguably a means of attainment so how do
our eyes fit into all of this what you
are aiming to do as a student of
seduction is influence and entice those
in your life that you'd like to acquire
something from to make those we wish to
seduce more malleable we may rely on the
fundamentals of pendulum hypnosis I
mentioned earlier with some slight
alterations to avoid coming across
really creepy the principles of hypnosis
as I mentioned earlier our focus fatigue
pacing and leading and embedding what do
each of these mean and how can we use
our eyes to accomplish something similar
focus refers to the focusing of a
participants gaze on a single object in
this case the person you are seducing
will need to look you directly in the
eyes and your eyes will act as the
single object the participant is
focusing on you always around to achieve
this lock I contact you establish the
eye contact and then maintain it now
maintaining eye contact doesn't mean
stopping all of your blinking blink as
usual that maintain direct eye contact
with the person you are seducing allow
them to focus on your eyes during
conversation and don't be the one to
look away unless you're doing it
strategically that leads into our second
point fatigue fatigue refers to the
tired feeling someone might get from
looking at the same thing for a long
time in a session of hypnosis but this
might also happen in a conversation in
matters of seduction you want to curtail
the environment to mitigate distractions
ideally you should be having a
conversation with someone where the
focus is entirely on you to a break room
or conference room a car parked outside
a couch a park bench across the table
from each other at dinner
these are all scenarios in which the
attention is on YouTube and might likely
have few distractions how about tomorrow
knowing the focus is hard to keep and
fatigue is likely decide when and how to
give someone a break in seduction you
are in control this is not a position
for the week or for the doubtful knowing
fatigue is likely use that to your
advantage knowing fatigue is likely
maintain your eye contact and
conversation and readily provide a
source of relief while speaking lock
eyes and perhaps brush a long hair over
your shoulder or squeeze a bicep muscle
this will temporarily shift the
attention away from the eyes but the
attention will still be on you and the
eye contact will resume again this is
how to handle fatigue and seductive
hypnosis now the third principle was of
pacing and leading in hypnosis this
involves bringing attention to the
trance-like state and then using it to
further the state try bringing someone's
awareness to what they are doing or how
they are making you feel for added
effect turn the observation into a
compliment for example across the table
from a romantic partner you can make
first eye contact then occasionally draw
attention away from your eyes to another
part of you or to something you have
with you and then you can say with eye
contact resumed you have been listening
to me this entire time you were such an
amazing listener in a meeting or job
interview across from your boss or the
person you'd like to give you a
promotion you can maintain eye contact
occasionally look down at your resume or
reference your resume or a chart or
graphic with you resume your eye contact
and then say something like
you are making me feel so welcomed here
thank you for taking the time to meet
with me in both scenarios you are using
your eyes to hold their focus shifting
focus on two other things all still
relating to you and then making an
observation possibly with a compliment
that boosts their self-awareness and
thus increases their own comfort and
ease around you that is how you pace and
lead straight into the final principle
embedding commands in hypnosis as in
seduction subtlety is the key to avoid
breaking the spell and dismantling the
trance I'd recommend using I statements
during the commands and that might sound
counterintuitive but it's truly not you
could say you need to give me this raise
or you need to commit to our
relationship and that might work but
there's a really good chance it'll
aggravate the person you're trying to
influence Oh
about you with me Bella
you are pitiful gone tell him you use
the word you only when drawing their
attention back toward themselves to
establish comfort in the pacing and
leading phase once your conversation has
passed that you need to speak for
yourself it's all about framing instead
of saying you need to give me a raise
say I have thoroughly enjoyed my time
working here and given that I am hoping
to grow within this company I'd
appreciate the chance to discuss my
salary this embeds multiple ideas all at
once and even if you don't give what you
want write them in there I've planted a
seed you enjoy working there you want to
stay you'd like to grow there and
contribute more word by word you are
establishing your credibility and your
worth making your presence instead of
singing you need to commit to me or you
need to commit to our relationship say I
have been having a great time with you
these past few days weeks months etc I
feel so much happier around you and like
I can really count on you this one is
very understated you might have noticed
I didn't use the word commitment the
second time at all the difference here
is complementing the seduced individual
on a behavior they have maybe only
displayed once to reinforce the behavior
rather than nagging you simply suggested
as fun to be around one another and
their company has been consistently a
good thing for you the count on you
comment plants a seed of need the
seduced individual feels needed wanted
even desired perhaps they will want to
deliver on their reliability by always
being that person you can count on and
eventually they will realize you are
someone they can't imagine not being
around with our I is the alleged gateway
we invite newcomers in with every stare
and shun the unwelcome with I rules of
avoidance for seduction
the eyes are an impressive tool if used
properly they can elicit the exact
response you want from anyone with that
being said this is a strategy involving
your words just as much as your eyes so
my next video will cover how to seduce
using your voice stay tuned for more
lessons and seduction
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