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Q & A

Why is there a gap between what women say they want and the men they are actually attracted to?

The speaker suggests that women often say they want men who are respectful, kind, and idealistic, but in reality, they tend to be drawn to men who are unpredictable, assertive, and less focused on societal norms. This creates a disconnect between their verbal expressions and their actual desires.

How do men often misunderstand what women are attracted to?

Men typically follow societal expectations and believe that being polite, respectful, and predictable is what women want. However, they fail to recognize that women are often more attracted to men who break societal norms, have their own values, and are emotionally independent.

What role does confidence play in a man's attraction to women?

Confidence is key in attracting women because it signals that a man values himself and doesn't seek validation from others. This self-assuredness makes him more appealing, as it shows he is not desperate or overly concerned with societal approval.

What is the significance of the 'bad boy' archetype in relationships?

The 'bad boy' archetype is attractive to women because it represents someone who is not trying to conform to societal expectations. This person is unpredictable, challenges norms, and often makes women feel like they are experiencing intense emotions and excitement. However, being a 'bad boy' does not necessarily mean being cruel or harmful.

Why do women often feel an emotional pull towards men who treat them poorly?

Women may feel an emotional pull towards men who treat them poorly because these men are typically not predictable. This unpredictability creates a sense of excitement and challenges them emotionally, which can be more compelling than a man who is too consistent or predictable.

How do societal expectations shape men's behavior towards women?

Societal expectations often teach men to be polite, respectful, and considerate, which are traits generally seen as desirable in a relationship. However, this can lead men to suppress their own individuality and act in a way that doesn't align with what women truly find attractive, which is often someone who is more independent and emotionally self-sufficient.

Why do women avoid men who follow societal norms and what does this reveal about their desires?

Women tend to avoid men who strictly follow societal norms because they often find such men predictable and unexciting. This reveals that women are often attracted to men who offer emotional volatility and excitement, even if those men may not appear to be the ideal 'safe' choice.

What does the speaker mean when they say 'the world does not give to the needy'?

The phrase 'the world does not give to the needy' reflects the idea that the more a person appears to need something, whether it is money, validation, or affection, the less likely they are to receive it. Instead, those who are emotionally self-sufficient and do not appear desperate for these things tend to attract them more.

How does the 'Sigma male' archetype fit into the discussion of male attraction?

The Sigma male is someone who does not follow societal rules or seek validation from others. He has his own set of principles and prefers to live independently. This archetype is appealing to women because it represents a man who is emotionally self-sufficient and does not rely on others for validation, which creates an aura of mystery and strength.

What is the 'cat analogy' and how does it relate to male-female attraction?

The cat analogy explains that just like a cat will avoid a person who chases it, women are more likely to be attracted to men who do not chase them or show too much neediness. If a man simply stays in his own lane, focuses on his own interests, and does not pursue women aggressively, women will naturally be drawn to him.