How I Study With a Full-Time Job: My Strategic Scheduling

Elizabeth Filips
8 Oct 202316:07

Summary

TLDRThe video script details the personal struggles of the speaker, who was overwhelmed by the demands of medical school and multiple jobs. To manage their busy schedule, they experimented with various planning methods, which often led to boredom and a dislike of work. The speaker then introduces a new approach to planning, inspired by psychology and motivation theories, aiming to make work as addictive as leisure activities. They discuss the importance of balancing work and non-work activities and the psychological impact of rewards on behavior. The script explains four types of reward reinforcement schedules and advocates for a flexible planning method that incorporates randomization of rewards to maintain motivation and energy levels throughout the day. The speaker also shares their experience with Sigma OS, a browser that helps organize work and improve productivity. The video concludes with a reminder to be kind to oneself and to others, acknowledging the limitations of the advice given and inviting viewers to share their own strategies.

Takeaways

  • πŸ“… **Recognize Work and Non-Work Activities**: Both work and non-work activities affect each other and should be considered in your schedule.
  • πŸ”„ **Understand Reward Reinforcement**: Actions taken after work can act as a reward, influencing motivation for future work.
  • 🎯 **Types of Reward Schedules**: Fixed interval, fixed ratio, variable interval, and variable ratio schedules affect how we approach work.
  • 🚫 **Avoid Strict Scheduling**: Having a hard start and stop for tasks can make work less appealing in the future.
  • πŸ› οΈ **Flexible Time Blocking**: Use buffers and avoid back-to-back tasks to reduce mental energy spent on project switching.
  • 🌟 **Identify Your Rewards**: Understand what you naturally reward yourself with after completing tasks to better plan your schedule.
  • 🧘 **Randomize Rewards**: Introduce randomness in rewards to keep work interesting and maintain motivation.
  • 🌑️ **Work with Your Body Clock**: Schedule tasks according to your natural rhythms to maximize productivity.
  • πŸ“ˆ **Balance Stimulation**: Choose rewards that complement the stimulation level of your work to maintain energy levels.
  • πŸ“ **Audit Your Tasks**: Regularly audit and understand your work and reward tasks to optimize your schedule.
  • 🀝 **Social Interaction**: Including social activities as rewards can provide a pleasant break and help to re-energize.

Q & A

  • What was the speaker's life like in 2018?

    -In 2018, the speaker's life became extremely busy as they started medical school and had to work three jobs to afford it. They also discovered Medical Art and began studying it, signed up for philosophy courses, volunteered as a mental health responder, and took on more jobs, all while studying medicine.

  • Why did the speaker feel their calendar was a nightmare?

    -The speaker felt their calendar was a nightmare because it was overly full, leading to stress and the potential for a mental breakdown. Any small disruption, like a bus being late, could cause them to fall behind on their packed schedule.

  • What is the psychological principle that the speaker discusses regarding work and non-work activities?

    -The speaker discusses the principle that the actions we take after a behavior act as a reward for that behavior. The type, timing, and frequency of these rewards can reinforce or weaken a behavior, making it easier or harder for us to work in the future.

  • What are the four types of reward reinforcement schedules mentioned in the script?

    -The four types of reward reinforcement schedules are fixed interval, fixed ratio, variable interval, and variable ratio. These schedules determine how likely we are to repeat a behavior based on the predictability and variability of the rewards we receive after the behavior.

  • Why does the speaker suggest that fixed schedules for work may be less effective for motivation?

    -The speaker suggests that fixed schedules for work may be less effective for motivation because they often lead to a consistent hard start and stop for tasks, followed by a more pleasant activity. This can make the work action less appealing in the future, as the brain begins to associate the end of work with a reward, and varying the timing of these rewards can increase the likelihood of wanting to repeat the task.

  • What is the solution proposed by the speaker to make work more engaging?

    -The speaker proposes a solution that leverages addiction psychology to make work more engaging. This involves not knowing when the hard end of a task is and what comes after it, which makes us more likely to want to do the task again in the future.

  • What is Sigma OS and how does it help with work organization?

    -Sigma OS is an internet browser that replaces traditional browsers like Safari and Chrome. It offers separate workspaces for different activities, allowing users to maintain a clear organization and mental separation between tasks. It keeps important tabs open and organized, reducing clutter and increasing efficiency.

  • How does the speaker recommend auditing one's work and reward tasks?

    -The speaker recommends identifying both work tasks that are often procrastinated on and reward tasks that serve as self-reward after completing work. This includes understanding what one does first thing in the morning, before sleep, and to relax, as these can indicate what the attention is likely to want to go to when it feels it has the freedom to do so.

  • What is the new type of time blocking the speaker introduces?

    -The new type of time blocking introduced by the speaker involves adding large buffers to the start and end of a task, avoiding a hard stop time for tasks, not scheduling back-to-back different tasks or projects, and not scheduling specific tasks or things that need to be done rigidly into the calendar.

  • How does the speaker suggest managing rewards after completing a task?

    -The speaker suggests randomizing rewards after completing a task by using a dice with different activities written on each side. This introduces an element of unpredictability and can make the rewards less expected and more engaging.

  • Why is it important to consider the level of stimulation in rewards after work tasks?

    -Considering the level of stimulation in rewards is important because it helps maintain higher levels of energy throughout the day. High stimulation rewards can exhaust a person quickly, making it difficult to transition back to high stimulation work. Choosing rewards that are less stimulating or stimulating in a different way can help re-energize and maintain focus.

Outlines

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πŸ˜€ Overwhelmed by Work and Study: Finding a Better Scheduling Method

The speaker describes their life in 2018 as chaotic, juggling medical school, three jobs, and additional interests like Medical Art and philosophy. They discuss how their packed schedule led to a mental breakdown and the need to find a more effective way of planning. They introduce the idea of using psychological principles related to dopamine, motivation, and reward systems to make work more addictive and enjoyable. The paragraph emphasizes the importance of considering both work and non-work activities in a schedule and how they affect each other.

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🎲 The Psychology of Reward Reinforcement in Scheduling

The speaker delves into the psychology behind reward reinforcement schedules, explaining how the timing and frequency of rewards after a task can influence our motivation to work. They outline four types of reward schedules: fixed interval, fixed ratio, variable interval, and variable ratio. The paragraph highlights the ineffectiveness of fixed schedules in maintaining motivation and suggests that variable schedules are more conducive to a productive and enjoyable work-life balance.

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πŸ“… Creating a More Engaging Calendar with Buffers and Variable Rewards

The speaker proposes a new approach to calendar planning that includes large buffers at the start and end of tasks, eliminating hard start and stop times. They recommend avoiding back-to-back task switching to conserve mental energy and suggests leaving tasks broad and open-ended to allow for intuitive decision-making. The paragraph also discusses the importance of working with one's body clock and randomizing rewards to maintain high energy levels and prevent burnout.

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πŸ§˜β€β™‚οΈ Balancing Work and Reward with Low-Stimulation Activities

The speaker shares their personal strategy for balancing work and rewards by using a dice to randomly select low-stimulation activities such as journaling, meditation, stretching, walking, calling a friend, or listening to music. They explain that this method helps to avoid high-stimulation rewards that can lead to exhaustion and suggests that complementary rewards can energize and motivate better. The paragraph concludes with a note on the limited applicability of the advice and an invitation for viewers with different circumstances to share their techniques.

Mindmap

Keywords

πŸ’‘Medical School

Medical school refers to the educational institution where students study to become medical professionals. In the video, the speaker mentions starting medical school, which is a significant part of their life that contributes to their busy schedule and the need for effective planning and time management.

πŸ’‘Workaholic

A workaholic is a person who is obsessed with work to the extent that it negatively impacts other areas of their life. The speaker identifies as a chronic workaholic, which is central to the video's theme of managing a hectic schedule and the potential for mental breakdown due to overwork.

πŸ’‘Dopamine

Dopamine is a neurotransmitter associated with the brain's reward system. The video discusses the role of dopamine in motivation and how the timing and frequency of rewards can reinforce or weaken behaviors, which is integral to the speaker's proposed method of planning and scheduling work.

πŸ’‘Reward Reinforcement Schedules

Reward reinforcement schedules are psychological concepts that describe how rewards are given after certain behaviors. The video outlines four types: fixed interval, fixed ratio, variable interval, and variable ratio. These schedules are crucial to the speaker's strategy for making work more engaging and less burdensome.

πŸ’‘Time Blocking

Time blocking is a productivity technique where a calendar or schedule is used to allocate specific time slots for different tasks or activities. The speaker criticizes traditional time blocking for being too rigid and instead proposes a modified approach that incorporates more flexibility and randomness to enhance motivation.

πŸ’‘Variable Ratio Pattern

The variable ratio pattern is one of the reward reinforcement schedules where a reward is given after an unpredictable amount of work. This pattern is likened to gambling, where the uncertainty of when a reward will come can make the activity more engaging. The speaker suggests this pattern can make work feel less like a chore.

πŸ’‘Buffer Time

Buffer time refers to the additional time added before and after scheduled tasks to provide flexibility. The speaker recommends adding buffers to tasks to avoid the pressure of rigid start and end times, which can help reduce stress and make work more sustainable.

πŸ’‘Stimulation

Stimulation refers to the level of mental or physical excitement or activity. The video discusses how high levels of stimulation from work can be exhausting and how varying stimulation levels in rewards can help maintain energy throughout the day.

πŸ’‘Interest-Based Nervous System

An interest-based nervous system is a term used by the speaker to describe a tendency to prioritize tasks based on immediate interest rather than importance. This concept is key to understanding why the speaker's previous scheduling methods failed and how they adapted their approach.

πŸ’‘Randomization of Rewards

Randomization of rewards is the practice of introducing unpredictability in the types of rewards given after completing tasks. The speaker uses a dice to select from a list of activities, which prevents the brain from anticipating a specific reward and keeps the work process more engaging.

πŸ’‘Sigma OS

Sigma OS is a web browser mentioned as a tool that the speaker uses to organize their work and improve productivity. It is highlighted for its ability to create separate workspaces for different tasks, reducing clutter and increasing focus, which is a practical example of the speaker's approach to managing a complex schedule.

Highlights

The speaker's life became overwhelming with medical school and multiple jobs, leading to a mental breakdown and the need for a new planning method.

Medical Art and extracurricular activities like philosophy courses and volunteering added to the speaker's busy schedule.

The importance of considering both work and non-work activities in scheduling to avoid burnout is emphasized.

Psychological principles suggest that the actions taken after work can act as rewards, influencing future work behavior.

Different reward reinforcement schedules (fixed interval, fixed ratio, variable interval, variable ratio) impact motivation and work habits.

The speaker proposes a planning method based on years of experience with mental breakdowns and insights from human psychology.

The traditional fixed schedules for work are less effective than variable schedules in maintaining motivation.

Introducing randomness and flexibility in scheduling can make work more engaging and less likely to lead to resentment.

The concept of 'reward tasks' is introduced as a way to identify and manage activities that provide a break from work.

Sigma OS is recommended as a tool for organizing work and browser tabs to improve productivity.

An audit of work tasks and reward tasks is suggested to understand personal productivity patterns.

The speaker discusses the impact of high stimulation reward activities on energy levels and the need for balance.

A new type of time blocking is introduced that incorporates buffers, avoids hard start/stop times, and prevents back-to-back task switching.

The importance of working with one's body clock and not scheduling tasks too rigidly is highlighted.

Randomization of rewards is proposed to maintain high energy and motivation, using a dice roll to select from a list of activities.

The selection of reward activities should be complementary to the nature of the work done to avoid burnout and maintain energy.

The speaker acknowledges the limitations of their approach and invites others to share techniques that work for them.

A reminder to be kind to oneself and not to believe everything one thinks, emphasizing self-compassion and critical thinking.

Transcripts

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in 2018 my life started to go crazy I'd

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just started medical school and had to

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work three jobs to be able to afford it

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I then discovered Medical Art so I

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started studying that too I signed up

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for extra courses in philosophy

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volunteered as a mental health responder

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got some more jobs all while still

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studying to be a doctor I loved my life

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but it was a nightmare my calendar was

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so full I would want to cry if a bus was

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even slightly late and I had to fall

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behind on things because I couldn't

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forward to absolutely no one had asked

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me to do any of this but through a

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combination of need curiosity and

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stupidity my schedule was leading me

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into a mental breakdown so I had to

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change the way that I did things I've

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experimented with lots of ways for

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planning work some better or worse than

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others but what they all have in common

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is that they end up one always boring

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and I quit them and two they end up

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always making me hate work what what I'm

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going to suggest is a method of planning

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based on years of mental breakdowns of a

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chronic workaholic alongside these

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clients and books on human psychology

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dopamine motivation and planning in

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order to hopefully create a schedule

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that makes work just as addictive as

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games chocolates and allegedly casinos

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hopefully if your brain is anything like

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mine the principles here will help you

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understand why your calendar or time

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blocking hasn't worked in the past how

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to approach your schedule and how to

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sustainably make better use of your time

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let's get straight into it the first

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important thing for me to recognize was

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what exactly Falls within a schedule and

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this might sound completely obvious but

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it is exactly where I kept going wrong

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in the past because when I filled in my

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calendar I used to focus on the work

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that I needed to do I would separate it

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into bits schedule it in have some

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overview and plan and by only focusing

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on the work I would completely ignore

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any sort of nonwork activities and the

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big problem with this is that psychology

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states that both work and non-work

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actually really affect one another and

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the way that we combine and permutate

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these two actually determines if we are

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more likely or less likely to want to

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work in the future let's go into a bit

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of psychology here the actions that we

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take after a behavior will act as a

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reward for that behavior for example

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when you are done reading writing

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working or studying and you proceed to

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rest sleep scroll on your phone watch

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YouTube videos talk to someone eat cry

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any of these actions will be seen by our

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brain as a reward for the work that we

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did the issue is the type timing and

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frequency of these rewards will in the

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long term either reinforce or weaken a

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behavior making it therefore harder or

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easier for us to get work done if this

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sounds intense please bear with me a bit

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longer because it will really start to

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make sense there are four relevant types

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of reward reinforcement schedules

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everything that we do falls into one of

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these SCH sches even if you don't have

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any calendar or planning at all and

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think you are just doing things randomly

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that Randomness will be one of these

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schedules and the reason this is

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important is because some are better or

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worse than others the first type is a

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fixed interval reward this is where you

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get a reward after a fixed interval of

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time so for example if you put on a

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pomodora timer to work or if you put on

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a forest to work and you think I'm going

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to stop working in half an hour or an

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hour and then I can do whatever I want

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the second type is fixed ratio this is

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where we get a reward after a certain

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number of tasks is done thinking for

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example I'm going to write 800 words

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right now or I'm going to do 50

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questions next we have the variable

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interval pattern this is where we get a

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reward after a certain amount of time

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that keeps changing and is undetermined

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so for example when you stop working

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when you feel that you've done enough

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when you're too tired when someone else

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tells you to stop this is similar to

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winning in a video game when you don't

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know when exactly you're actually going

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to pass that level specifically lastly

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there is the variable ratio pattern this

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is where you get a reward after doing

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doing a certain amount of work but that

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amount changes all the time and you

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don't know what it's going to be so this

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is again thinking stopping work when you

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feel that you've just learned enough or

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when you have done enough for the day

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this one is similar to playing a casino

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where you keep doing actions but you

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don't know after which action you will

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get your reward now you might have

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already noticed that the first two the

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fixed ratio and the fixed interval type

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are the ones that we tend to use the

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most when it comes to scheduling because

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it's easier to divide our work into

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chunks and make sure that we've done

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everything and to plan our day we say

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that we have to do 50 questions a day

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for the next 20 days to prepare for the

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exam or that we have to study from 2:00

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to 4:00 today and we tend to fix things

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in this way they can be very attractive

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or easier to plan and schedule in work

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but the issue is they are a lot less

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effective than the variable schedules in

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making us motivated to complete the work

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if you have a consistent hard start and

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a hard stop for an action which is Then

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followed up by a more pleasant activity

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you are going to be less like likely to

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want to do this work action in the

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future and this is where my scheduling

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always failed there is what I believe to

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be a very simple solution that leverages

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the same type of addiction psychology in

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order to make the work itself more

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interesting for us if we don't know when

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the hard end of a task is and what comes

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after it we're much more likely to want

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to do that task again in the future but

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how the hell do we plan in this way

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before I continue with how to create

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this calendar I'll talk about Sigma OS

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the sponsor of the segment of the video

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if you have these three things in common

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with me one you need to wear various

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different hats two you do a lot of work

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on your computer three your environment

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has a tragically large impact on how

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successfully you work Sigma OS will

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change your life it's nothing new that

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you add to your routine or your work

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it's an internet browser so it replaces

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things like Safari and chrome and it is

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very embarrassingly for them genuinely a

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million times better I would never

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thought that tiny changes could have

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made such a huge difference in this

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regard but in Sig having separate Works

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spaces for everything you do so for me

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that's like medical student YouTuber

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writer business things procrastinator

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means that every time that I go into one

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of these spaces I'm in a different headp

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space mindset and therefore much more

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likely to successfully complete those

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work there's no bookmarks but all

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important Tabs are always locked and

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open at your computer at all times I

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have hundreds of open tabs but unlike

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before there is absolutely no clutter

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everything is so well organized renamed

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and labeled it's

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amazing the shortcuts for everything so

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your computer becomes a literal

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extension of your brain it even carries

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all of the chem extensions like video

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speed controller without which I'm not

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going to lie this would have been a

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complete deal breaker for me if you want

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to see how I plan use and organize with

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Sigma OS specifically they didn't ask

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for this but I'm genuinely so passionate

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about it I've made a whole video walking

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you through my computer setup so you can

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watch it if you want to see the unlisted

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video linked below it's not a f but I do

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have a link that will give you free

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access to Sigma OS for you to see what I

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am raving about genuinely I could not

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recommend it more I cannot imagine going

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back to Chrome after trying this so yeah

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back to the main video to build this new

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type of calendar you first need to audit

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what your work task and reward tasks are

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now the work tasks that we're

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procrastinating on are a lot easier to

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find I'm sure but the rewards are a bit

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more difficult to identify there are

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many different ways I reward myself I

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have one a good work done reward so this

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is what I do when I am done completing a

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task and it can be things like being

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allowed to scroll on my third

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getting some food lying down playing a

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game talking to my friends then I have

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the second type which is the reward for

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not doing work so this is what I do to

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lower my anxiety basically what do I

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procrastinate on when I'm not working

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and this tends to be things like

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watching random Youtube videos or

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playing more games or just scrolling on

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my phone or spending hours and hours

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trying to find the perfect black T-shirt

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online so there's those things to

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complete this list you can add what is

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the first thing that you tend to do in

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the mornings and next what you do when

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you are falling asleep especially if you

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do things like Revenge bedtime

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procrastinate so this shows you what

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your attention likely wants to go to

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when it feels that it has the less

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guilty freedom to do it and lastly what

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do you do to relax or calm yourself down

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everything that falls into this category

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of reward is really important because it

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always tends to come after the work that

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we need to do and very often tends to

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compete with it this is very important

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to identify especially if you have like

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me an interest based nervous system

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versus a importance-based nervous system

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if you find it very easy to do the most

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important thing next on your list maybe

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just click off this video because

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actually it's going to be completely

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unhealthy or you might not even be here

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in the first place but if you have an

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interest based nervous system this means

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that the things that you find rewarding

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or interesting or that hold your

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attention most in the moment are the

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ones that you are going to be most

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likely to want to do when interesting or

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stimulating Things become much more

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attractive than the important or

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necessary ones this is a huge problem at

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I'm going to talk later about the

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importance of identifying managing and

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producing stimulation but at the moment

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it's very important and helpful to have

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this audit of what your work and rewards

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are and if you're embarrassed it's fine

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so am I I'm working on it now hopefully

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by this point an obvious realization is

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while we tend to work on our strict

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fixed schedules we tend to pay or reward

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ourselves on variable schedules we don't

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plan when we're going to scroll on our

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phone we don't plan when we're going to

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procrastinate and so we're making these

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addictive behaviors lot more addictive

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by the way that we do them while we're

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making our work behaviors a lot less

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interesting and more likely for us not

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to want to do them by scheduling them in

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strictly so how do we fix this and I'm

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not going to recommend scheduling in our

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scrolling and procrastination time don't

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worry I'm going to recommend a new type

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of time blocking which on paper looks

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exactly the same but in practice makes

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all the difference when it comes to

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wanting to work the first one is When

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approaching your calendar and scheduling

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in a Time block for a task add as big

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buffers as you can afford to the start

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and the end of that task so do not have

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a hard start time this is not a time

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where you need to be working this is a

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window of time where you have the

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availability to work letting yourself

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intuitively start when you feel like it

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the second and this is why the buffer is

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important do not have a hard stop or end

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time to your task this of course

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involves no Pomodoro and no Force if

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those work for you and time blocking

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it's absolutely fine but in this case I

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would strongly recommend that you stop

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working when you feel too tired or when

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you feel that you've done or learned

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enough 31 time blocking I fill in a

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whole window and I don't backto back

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different tasks or projects so project

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switching takes a lot of mental energy

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to go from one to another and I don't

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like to do this because in the long term

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it lowers my energy in the day overall

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and I have to stop working sooner than I

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would otherwise in this case if I feel

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like switching a task would I to instead

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is even take a tiny short break and

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reconsider very often I find that I'm

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wanting to forast inate rather than

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actually genuinely being invested in

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something else which is more important

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the fourth is never to schedule in tasks

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or things that you need to do

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specifically into your calendar you

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might do bigger projects in terms of

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saying that you have studying to do

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versus like YouTube or whatever but the

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bagger and the broader that I leave this

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the better I find that I end up working

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I'm still recovering from having to

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force my brain to do stuff all the all

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the time I'm like really struggling with

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that so at the moment I find it more

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helpful to think intuitively on the spot

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what do I think is the more reasonable

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thing to do deciding on the spot also

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means that I'm always working on a

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brandom my schedule because I don't know

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what to expect on that day I don't know

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when I'm going to start when I'm going

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to finish so it naturally builds

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randomization into the task therefore

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lowering the chances that I end up

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resenting it in the long term the fifth

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one is to learn and work with your body

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clock for example if I have a day of

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working from home I will usually not

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schedule anything before 10: or 12

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because I know that not being morning

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person it's unlikely that I'm going to

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do anything productive before usually

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12:00 p.m. so when 12:00 comes I can

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either think I've already failed at four

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things I needed to do today or I can

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think oh I could start working right now

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so kind of being a bit more reasonable

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and not too strict with how you know

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that you work might be really helpful

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after completing this calendar the most

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important thing is actually what doesn't

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get written down in the schedule and

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this is the randomization of rewards

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after a task in the previous step we

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will have identified what we tend to do

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when we finish a task for me it is

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automatically always scrolling on my

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phone or watching a YouTube video while

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playing snake it has to be one of these

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things and so now what I've done is I've

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completely changed this I've created a

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random selection of six activities and

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I'll explain why I picked these

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specifically later and instead of doing

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my 100% guaranteed reward when I know

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it's going to come which is phone scroll

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YouTube what I do instead is get these

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on a metal dice which has one on each

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side and I roll the dice and I have to

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do one of these actions this means that

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I never know what my reward is going to

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be so now I have an extra layer of

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availability and Randomness in My

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Rewards during the day the actions that

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I have are journaling meditation

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stretching walking calling a friend or

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listening to music these tend to be

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really really helpful activities

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especially exercise if it's rigorous can

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give you some extra Focus after it so

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that tends to be a really energizing and

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good reward activity now the reason I

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picked these is because one of my

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biggest pitfalls in the past used to be

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having very high stimulation reward

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activities and this is so so so bad

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because going from an activity of high

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stimulation to reward of high

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stimulation to trying to force myself to

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do an activity of high ation is so

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exhausting and I run out of energy a lot

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quicker throughout the day it's a newish

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thing for me to consider but thinking of

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and knowing how stimulating certain

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activities are for me and taking this

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into consideration will then mean that I

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maintain higher levels of energy

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throughout the day for example I find

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public spaces very very stressful and

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stimulating and even though listening to

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Super energetic music or an audio book

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is normally quite a stimulating activity

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if I do it in public it then reduces my

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overall stimulation if that makes sense

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because it's it's more relaxing for me

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to do that than to listen to this thing

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on the other hand what I usually tend to

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do is go from activities like listening

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to a lecture to listening to another fun

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YouTube video on two time of speed which

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has basically the same levels of

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stimulation and keeps me quite high and

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easily very very very exhausted

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throughout the day so in this case I

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need to complement this with an activity

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which is stimulating in a different way

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or less stimulating overall ideally for

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an action you want to pick out

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complimentary rewards which will then

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energize you more and make you more

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likely to be happy and do more work the

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reason I pick these activities on my

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dice is because most of my work is quite

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mentally stimulating but it's alone

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quiet and physically very under

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stimulating so I've picked things which

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are on the other side of the spectrum

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they tend to have noise or sound or

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music or be quite like physically active

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so that I can re-energize myself and

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lower my mental stimulation they have B

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sensory elements and one of them

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involves other people which is nice

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because most of my work at the moment is

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completely alone having a combination of

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set time blocked workable but not set

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work hours into intuitive start and stop

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times which we pick on the spot lot of

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careful attention paid specifically to

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what we do in between tasks and in what

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ways and how stimulating they can be has

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been the best way for me to maintain

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higher energy and motivation throughout

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my day not burnout and in the long term

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want to work more with this video

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specifically I do want to mention that

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I'm very well aware of how limited the

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user case is and the usefulness

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potentially of this video is to people

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with circumstances quite similar to me

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if you work mostly outside of the house

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as I used to do if you're a parent or a

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carer or face different sorts of

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challenges this videos might not be

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helpful at all and in that case firstly

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I apologize if you're here to hear this

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and secondly if you would want to I

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would really really appreciate if you

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named some techniques that you use or

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resources that you found helpful that

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are more specific to you so that would

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be great in the end I do want to say

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don't be too harsh on yourself we all

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are really just doing the best that we

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can and I hope that this helps if you

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made it so far thank you so much for

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spending this time with me I hope you

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have a wonderful rest of your day be

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kind to yourself and others and don't

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believe everything you think thanks bye

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