2194 - Play it Cool With These English Idioms
Summary
TLDRIn this engaging conversation, the speakers delve into the various uses of the word 'cool' in English idioms and phrases. They discuss the importance of maintaining one's composure, as reflected in expressions like 'keep your cool' and 'play it cool.' The dialogue explores the significance of meditation in staying calm, especially in high-stress situations. The speakers also touch upon the social connotations of 'playing it cool' in scenarios like dating, job interviews, or encountering celebrities. Additionally, they examine the flip side of the coin with 'lose one's cool,' which signifies losing one's temper. The discussion is infused with humor and relatable anecdotes, providing listeners with a nuanced understanding of these phrases and their appropriate contexts. The conversation concludes with a role play set in Bali, offering a practical application of the discussed idioms, and a teaser for a poll question related to the listeners' personalities, encouraging further engagement with the podcast.
Takeaways
- 🧘 Meditating regularly can help one maintain a calm demeanor, which is referred to as 'keeping your cool'.
- 🌡️ In hot regions like Arizona, 'stay cool' is a common phrase used to caution against the heat, similar to 'keep your cool' in emotional contexts.
- 📈 'Keeping a cool head' or 'keeping your cool' means staying calm in situations that could provoke a heightened emotional response.
- 🎭 'Play it cool' suggests acting naturally and not showing nervousness or desperation, even when excited or eager.
- 😡 'Lose one's cool' is the opposite of keeping calm; it implies losing one's temper or becoming very angry.
- ⏱️ 'Cool off' is used to describe the process of becoming less angry or upset, giving someone time to calm down.
- 🏃 Using the phrase 'take a beat' is a newer slang that means to take a moment to pause and collect oneself.
- 🌊 In the context of vacations, 'play it cool' can be used when encountering celebrities or in situations where one wants to appear nonchalant.
- 🚗 Traffic or other frustrating situations can be common triggers for losing one's cool, but it varies by individual temperament.
- 🤝 Apologizing by saying 'I lost my cool' is a light and straightforward way to acknowledge a moment of anger or impatience without over-apologizing.
- 📲 Subscribing to the podcast ensures listeners don't miss out on episodes and can access additional content like quizzes and trivia.
Q & A
What does the phrase 'keep your cool' mean?
-The phrase 'keep your cool' means to remain calm and not get upset or angry, even in a stressful situation.
How does meditation practice affect one's ability to keep their cool?
-Meditation practice can help a person to keep their cool by creating a mental space between the stimulus and the response, which allows for a calmer reaction to situations.
What does the term 'play it cool' imply when used in a social context?
-'Play it cool' suggests acting naturally and not showing nervousness or desperation, especially in situations like meeting a celebrity or dating.
What does it mean to 'lose one's cool'?
-To 'lose one's cool' means to lose one's temper or become very angry, which is the opposite of keeping calm.
What is the significance of the phrase 'stay cool' in the context of hot weather?
-In the context of hot weather, 'stay cool' is used to advise someone to avoid the heat and find ways to keep their body temperature down to prevent discomfort or heat-related illnesses.
What is the role of the quiz mentioned in the script?
-The quiz is an additional content feature for subscribers that provides extra insight into the vocabulary and concepts discussed in the podcast episode. It also checks the listener's understanding and includes trivia.
How can the term 'aloofness' be beneficial in a job interview?
-Aloofness in a job interview can be beneficial as it helps to project an image of not being overly eager or desperate, which can make a candidate seem more confident and in control.
What does the phrase 'cool off' mean in the context of managing emotions?
-'Cool off' refers to giving oneself time to become less angry or to calm down after a heated situation or emotional outburst.
What is the meaning of the slang term 'take a beat' as used in the script?
-The slang term 'take a beat' means to take a short pause or a moment to compose oneself, often used when one needs to calm down or think before reacting.
Why is it suggested to wait before sending an email when angry?
-Waiting before sending an email when angry is advised because it allows a person to cool off and think rationally, preventing the sending of a message that they might later regret.
How can the vocabulary discussed in the script help in managing and expressing emotions?
-The vocabulary discussed in the script provides phrases that can be used to express emotional states and reactions in a way that is culturally understood and can facilitate better communication and emotional management.
Outlines
😀 Discussing the Concept of 'Cool'
The first paragraph introduces the topic of 'cool' in various contexts, focusing on emotional control and the importance of meditation in maintaining one's composure. The speakers discuss how meditation creates a space between stimulus and response, which is crucial when trying to 'keep your cool' or 'keep a cool head.' They also touch on regional phrases like 'stay cool' used in hot climates to mean avoiding the heat, and the bonus content available to subscribers in the form of quizzes that provide additional insights and vocabulary practice.
😌 The Art of Staying Calm: 'Keep Your Cool' and 'Play It Cool'
The second paragraph delves into idiomatic expressions using 'cool,' such as 'keep your cool' and 'play it cool.' The speakers differentiate between the two, with 'keep your cool' referring to staying calm in the face of heightened emotions and 'play it cool' implying acting naturally and not showing nervousness or desperation, such as in dating or job interviews. They also discuss the importance of positive phrasing and the challenges of maintaining composure when witnessing unfair treatment.
😡 Losing and Regaining Composure: 'Lose One's Cool' and 'Cool Off'
The third paragraph explores the phrases 'lose one's cool' and 'cool off.' 'Lose one's cool' signifies losing one's temper, which is the opposite of maintaining calmness. 'Cool off' is defined as becoming less angry or calming down over time. The speakers provide examples of how these phrases might be used in real-life situations, such as during a basketball game or when one needs a moment to regain composure after becoming upset. They also mention the modern slang 'take a beat,' which means to take a short break, and incorporate it into a role-play scenario set in Bali.
😐 Handling Emotions and Apologizing: 'Losing Your Cool' and Its Resolution
The final paragraph wraps up the discussion on the idiom 'losing your cool' and provides advice on how to apologize for such instances. It emphasizes the value of a simple and straightforward apology, suggesting that an over-apology is unnecessary if the situation doesn't warrant it. The speakers also encourage listeners to follow their podcast for consistent updates and practical tips on language and communication skills. They conclude with a poll question about the listener's personality, specifically their propensity to lose their cool.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Cool
💡Meditation
💡Phrases
💡Emotions
💡Aloofness
💡Temper
💡Calm
💡Apologize
💡Vacation
💡Traffic
💡Injustice
Highlights
The discussion explores the use of the word 'cool' in various idioms and phrases.
Meditation is mentioned as a tool for maintaining calmness and 'keeping your cool'.
The phrase 'keep a cool head' is considered possibly outdated compared to 'keep your cool'.
The idiom 'play it cool' is defined as acting naturally, especially in situations that might cause nervousness.
A job interview is given as an example where one might 'play it cool' to not appear desperate.
'Losing one's cool' is described as the opposite of keeping calm, indicating a loss of temper.
The importance of apologizing after losing one's cool is emphasized for maintaining healthy relationships.
The phrase 'cool off' is introduced as a way to give someone time to become less angry.
The slang 'take a beat' is highlighted as a newer expression meaning to take a moment to calm down.
A role-play scenario in Bali is used to demonstrate the use of the discussed idioms in a real-life situation.
The scenario of encountering a celebrity while on vacation is used to illustrate 'playing it cool'.
Heavy traffic and the feeling of helplessness are discussed as situations that might cause someone to lose their cool.
The conversation touches on personal values and how they influence when and why someone might lose their cool.
The hosts discuss the importance of a lightweight apology after losing one's cool, suggesting the phrase 'I lost my cool'.
The episode concludes with a reminder to follow the podcast for weekly episodes filled with tips and vocabulary.
A poll question about listeners' personalities and their propensity to lose their cool is teased for engagement.
The hosts share their personal experiences and what situations are most likely to cause them to lose their cool.
Transcripts
hey Aubrey what's shaking not much how are you I'm feeling good today I'm feeling good it's getting
warm outside so need to cool down AO we're talking about the word cool a little bit are you good at
keeping your cool Lindsay it really depends honestly on how strong my meditation practice
is in any given week or any given month or season so I can tell you that I can imagine that makes a
huge difference yes yeah because meditation really calms you it they say it creates that
space between the stimul and the response and that's exactly what it is when you lose your
cool you kind of lash out you react quickly and meditation expands that essentially freedom of
mind oh man I love that I'm so excited to go into some of these phrases today we use the word cool
in so many amazing phrases you just heard a couple of them keep your cool lose your cool but this
was actually inspired by a recent conversation that you and Michelle had when you were talking
about saying stay cool and you mentioned you're like does anyone ever say this about
weather when it's really hot out maybe we should ask Aubrey and yes we do in Arizona here we'll
say stay cool when it's really hot out meaning like avoid the heat you are our go-to resource
for uh warm weather vocabulary yeah I'm curious I know a lot of our listeners also live in very
hot areas I'm curious if you say something like that too when it's like when you say goodbye
it's like stay cool or stay out of the heat right I bet they do I would love to hear from
our listeners maybe over on social but tell us a bit more about where else our listeners could go
to get more amazing content yes I was telling Lindsay this came up because when Jessica and
I recorded the quiz for that episode I brought it up in the quiz I was like Lindsay mentioned
in the episode and I'm here to answer yes we say stay cool so it was sort of bonus content for quiz
takers and that happens a lot that you know we will mention a term or sort of go past something
and then in the quiz we break it down we'll have an interesting question and there's quite a bit
of bonus cont content there so if you're not a subscriber you're missing out so you should
subscribe to get those quizzes yes I know I wonder if our listeners even know what we're what we're
talking about when we say the quiz there's all this extra content that you might be missing
if you are not subscribed so this is available at this time over on Apple podcast right this is our
Apple our allers English plus offering so listen in apple podcast to be able to get that all right
guys good stuff awesome yes and you can sign up for a free trial check it out I know you're
going to love it so yeah they're so fun Jessica I love recording those yeah five minutes right after
three to five minutes I think it's about about five minutes after every episode and then it's
another angle on the topic and most importantly we check your understanding right how well how well
you understood and get some extra insight to some of the vocabulary host trivia which is always fun
we pull out and see if you guys remember some interesting things that we share here on the
podcast they're really fun try it out you like auy said you can do that trial 7-Day trial and
actually I think it's a 30-day trial I believe it's a 30 trial so can't lose amazing all right
good stuff Aubrey let's go into today's vocabulary though what yeah so these phrases are so great for
connection because we often need to talk about emotions if we are keeping our cool and then
apologize if we lose control of them so this is a really important connection skill I'm excited
for you guys to get the vocabulary to be able to do that in a very native natural way yeah so
the first one actually the first one I don't use much but I bet you might use this sometimes keep
a cool head right or keep your cool those yeah so I saw this one in sort of a list of idioms keep a
cool head and the more I thought about it I don't hear that very often it's maybe a little outdated
I think instead we say keep your cool wouldn't you agree well yeah I I agree I mean I know that even
keep your cool though has been around since I was a kid I remember adult saying that when oh yeah
but I still hear that right I still hear keep your cool know what it means keep a cool head I just
feel like people don't say that as often but we do still say keep your cool I love it yeah so if
you find yourself getting worked up getting upset getting angry getting anxious well so when we say
cool is that an antidote to any heightened emotion auy or is it more getting angry is it the opposite
good question it really means to stay calm but it could definitely be uh about anger or even just
you know jealousy excite could be any emotion where you're getting a little worked UPS anything
where you would need to stay calm or it could be Panic right like if you're an elevator and
it drops right keep it cool Don't Panic absolutely so for example you might say you may find yourself
getting worked up but be sure to keep a cool head or be sure to keep your cool yeah I like that
cuz that's how we can make logical decisions yes it's a very kind way if you see someone
getting agitated angry really afraid just be like okay keep your cool it's not patronizing right I I
would prefer someone say this to me rather than like don't panic don't get angry just keep your
cool interesting right it's always better to say a positive a positive sentence then a negative
instead of saying don't do this don't do that say something positive in a way right I try to keep
my cool but it's difficult when I see someone treated unfairly right right this is very true
for me right I'm I'm usually able to keep my cool but every now and then if I see unjust treatment
of someone I feel myself lose my cool and I'm like that righteous anger of like God I have something
must be done yeah I love that I love that you know there's that's why like personal visions
and the things we stand for in life we need to be in touch with that for sure um really good stuff
so what's number two number two is play it cool sounds like it would be the same but it means a
little different it means to act naturally it can be like you know don't get nervous don't
panic but it also could just me like I think of this if you like saw a celebrity like you might
say I think that's Brad Pit walking this way play it cool guys just me like Act Naturally don't go
crazy don't Swoon don't swon that's a good bonus for today don't Swoon swon don't freak out and run
around him and asking for a photo play it cool I think of this when I think of dating and someone
says oh I'm going to play cool I'm not going to return their phone call right away that kind of
thing right exactly give a little time before you send a text cool right right right exactly
you might in a job interview too right I tried to play it cool in the job interview but I'm
not sure how well I did just trying to show that you're not nervous or or you know desperate right
just play it cool yeah or just that you maybe you really want the job right you really want that job
it looks like the dream job for you but you can't really show that because you need to kind of make
it look like you have other options like it's kind of a little you need a bit of that aloofness right
exactly right yes you can be excited you can definitely let them know that you're interested
you're excited about the job but if it can come across as too much if you don't have any aloofness
like it will feel like you have no other options you don't want that right so that's where that
would make sense playing it cool a little bit I might add more details though if I said that
right play it cool in the job interview just to say exactly what you were trying to do cuz it's
more obvious to me in dating or seeing a famous person than it is in a job interview I think yeah
this would definitely be part of a conversation right you're then going to share like how it went
exactly what you said or did yeah absolutely okay and number three Aubrey what is it yes to
lose one's cool which means to lose your temper or get really angry it's really just the opposite
of keeping your cool you lose your cool yeah for sure and be careful with the spelling guys
bonus between loose and lose maybe that's another episode for another day Aubrey common mistake yes
can be a real challenge sometimes in writing and speaking pronouncing reading uh so okay so what's
a sample sentence you could say sometimes I lose my cool when I get really upset about something
and this doesn't have to be a full-on explosion temper tantrum just be like I'm not I just don't
stay as calm as I would like right exactly or you could say I'm really sorry about yesterday
I totally lost my cool now this might be a situation where you just blew up you stood up
got upset walked out in a yes I love the idea of walking out because you might not say anything but
if you were angry and got up and left when it was an awkward Time to Leave You could also apologize
for losing your cool like you got so angry that you left when it wasn't a good time to leave and
also this doesn't have to be just about physical you left a room it could also be an email you sent
right they what is that rule they say you should wait 24 hours before sending an email if you're
angry upset at all give yourself time to calm down time to uh get your cool back yeah for sure for
sure yeah good stuff all right what's number four all right and this is what I should have said but
I was trying not to give the spoiler too early we wouldn't say get your cool back we'd say cool off
give you time to cool off this is number four it means to be come less angry time to calm down cool
down yeah I like that I need to cool off so for example his coach pulled him from the game and
told them to cool off this you'll see a lot right we went to a basketball game not long ago and I
saw this happen a few times the players will get really upset or they and they start fowling each
other at a basketball game so the coach will pull them and you see them tell them take a minute to
cool off oh interesting good practice that's important for sure yeah um or I felt myself
getting angry so I took a beat so I took a beat to coola this is interesting I took a beat what do we
mean here what yeah this is sort of newer slang I was wondering if you'd pick this up yeah um I'm
hearing people say this more and more like take a beat take a minute to say like oh I took a beat to
cool down just means like you took a little bit of time oh okay interesting good to know you're
very tuned in to the younger slang here with your kids auy right you're hearing it teenagers it's
good it's good yes though again I I feel like this is one I think it did start with the teenagers and
now I'm hearing it more podcasts TV shows there's one reality show where they're like saying it a
lot so it's kind of trending take a beat I took a beat love it to cool off okay so we're going
to put all this into a role play so we make it come to life and make it real right so yes this
is a fun one you and I are in Bali on vacation for this you're welome Bali visualize it for
one minute vacation I love it let's do it I'll start us out sorry about yesterday when we were
running late and I lost my cool oh no worries I was surprised though you're usually pretty good
at keeping your cool we all have our moments I guess I'm glad you gave me some time to cool off
before we went out no worries hey is that Margo Robbie oh my gosh I think it is play it cool I'm
sure she doesn't want people approaching her on vacation I love it it had to be somewhere
cool that we were vacationing where Margo Robbie might also be on vacation yeah I love that that's
so funny and Bali is very cool I've always wanted to go to Bali I haven't been either but I've heard
it's amazing I'm sure all right so here we're on vacation and I was surpris you surprised me
because you lost your cool so you said sorry about yesterday when we were running late and I lost my
cool do you I guess maybe at the end I'll ask you what is the situation in which you're most
likely to lose your cool an airort for example so think about that for a minute up we'll come
back think about it yeah and I love this is how I would say if I'm apologizing for being a little
short-tempered a little snippy this is probably how I would say it sorry about yesterday I lost
my cool yeah sorry about yesterday I lost my cool I like that sounds good sounds clear and you're
not overdoing it on apologizing either which is kind of good not getting stuck in right exactly
we're keeping it kind of like and it probably wasn't something super huge it might be the
kind of thing where you don't even remember me you know being upset it's like oh that was nothing no
big deal but I it was enough that I felt like I needed to apologize I lost my cool just a
little bit I love that and then I said no worries I was surprised though you're usually pretty good
at keeping your cool and we're still in the lose your cool keep your cool exactly right these are
opposites and yeah it's interesting um this is a compliment right to tell someone you're usually
pretty good at keeping your cool it just means you're usually pretty levelheaded you're not one
to lose your temper easily love it and then what and then I said I'm glad you gave me some time
to cool off before we went out so whatever had happened happened you gave me some space so that
I could cool off before we had another interaction and we probably didn't talk about it again until
I apologized the next day curious like I didn't really think about what maybe I had done to make
you angry yeah we were running late you were maybe why we were late and I was like Lindsay let's
go oh good stuff and then you said oh my gosh I think it is play it cool right I'm sure she
doesn't want people approaching her on vacation and that's funny this this is definitely a time
that I would use this if if I saw someone famous we're like play it cool act natural I love it so
what is it Aubrey what is the scenario in which you're most likely to lose your cool
is it airports is it traffic is it traffic I was about to say I feel like heavy traffic which has
happened a few times especially on vacation because you have a limited amount of time so
to be stuck in an hour the last time we went to Rocky Point there was probably a two and
a half maybe thre hour line of cars that we were stuck in to get into the border and it
was sad because you want to be like beach by noon right you leave in the morning and it's
so nice to be able to get to the beach and instead we got there at like five or six and
so it felt kind of wasted that first day because we were stuck in traffic and you're just there's
nothing you can do you're helpless it's such a bummer oh I'm sorry to hear that that is rough
yeah not good not good it happens but even then like I I I wouldn't It's tricky because really
losing your cool is like snapping at people and losing your temper and and I I don't like
think back and I didn't you know I was just like this is a bummer sorry everybody but what are you
going to do yeah it also kind of depends on your personality so you were just disappointed right
you were bummed out right but some people would just kind of get upset about any driver moving in
front of them and they would lose their cool in that scenario right up yeah I'm pretty chill I'm
pretty you know when I do lose my cool is if like I said in one of those example sentence if I see
unjust treatment like if I see someone sometimes I've seen people complain or be sort of cruel
to someone working at like the coffee shop and it's just a teenager I'll stand up for them like
hey you know what I mean cuz then I I do kind of lose my cool I'm like I feel like I need to defend
this person that's great I love that so good all right this has been a good episode Aubrey guys
now you have the vocabulary to you know talk about your own personality so I think our poll
question today is probably going to be something about your personality guys as listener you know
do you lose your cool easily yes or no right yes I want to know absolutely yeah so Aubrey
what should our listeners do next to make sure they don't miss a single episode of our show be
sure to hit follow you guys we have five episodes every week they're all packed with great tips and
vocabulary so wherever you listen to podcast open your browser and make sure to hit follow on the
allers English podcast yeah and I think that's the takeaway for today is what we said earlier
this is a really succinct and lightweight way to apologize if you get upset you don't need to sit
down and have a whole breakdown oh my gosh I'm so sorry if if the relationship doesn't Merit
that or the scenario doesn't Merit it you need something more lightweight and this is it just
say sorry I lost my cool no problem move on much cooler that way absolutely I love it all
right good stuff all right I'll see you in the next episode take care thanks Lindsay bye bye
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