How to actively listen to others | Scott Pierce | TEDxBirmingham

TEDx Talks
30 Sept 201914:32

Summary

TLDRThis engaging talk explores the art of improvisation through the lens of the famous jazz musicians Miles Davis and Herbie Hancock. It emphasizes the principle of 'Yes, and...'β€”a foundational element of improv that encourages acceptance and collaboration. The speaker highlights how embracing mistakes can lead to creativity and connection, urging listeners to practice being present and open in their interactions. By emptying oneself of expectations and listening actively, individuals can foster understanding and build stronger communities. The talk invites everyone to dedicate a day to practice these principles, transforming everyday interactions into opportunities for growth.

Takeaways

  • πŸ˜€ The essence of improvisation is captured in the principle of 'yes, and,' which promotes acceptance and building on what others present.
  • 🎢 Mastery in improvisation involves transforming perceived mistakes into opportunities for creativity, as illustrated by the anecdote of Miles Davis and Herbie Hancock.
  • πŸ‘‚ Active listening is crucial for effective communication; being present allows individuals to respond meaningfully to others' contributions.
  • 🀝 Acceptance of different realities fosters understanding and connection, creating a supportive and collaborative environment.
  • πŸ’¬ Denying a partner's reality in a scene can lead to frustration and conflict; instead, embracing it enhances the overall experience.
  • 🎭 Improv is not solely about humor; it's about presence, acceptance, and supporting scene partners to create engaging narratives.
  • ✨ Emptying oneself of preconceived notions leads to greater flow and spontaneity in both improv and life.
  • πŸ§˜β€β™‚οΈ Releasing expectations allows for peace and contentment, making it easier to navigate life's ups and downs.
  • 🌱 The concept of 'emptiness' in various philosophies emphasizes the importance of shedding the ego to embrace new experiences.
  • πŸ“… Practicing a personal 'yes, and' day encourages individuals to intentionally engage with openness and acceptance in their interactions.

Q & A

  • What is the main quote attributed to Miles Davis discussed in the script?

    -The quote suggests that it's not the note you play that is wrong, but rather the note you play after that can make it right or wrong.

  • How did Miles Davis respond to Herbie Hancock's mistake during the performance?

    -Miles paused and played a fill of notes that made Herbie's wrong chord sound right, turning the mistake into an opportunity for creativity.

  • What does the author emphasize as the core of improvisation?

    -The author emphasizes 'yes and' as the core principle of improvisation, which means accepting what has been said or done and adding more information to the scene.

  • Why does the author believe that being present is crucial in improvisation?

    -Being present allows improvisers to actively listen, accept their scene partner's contributions, and create a collaborative and flowing performance.

  • What are some rules of improv mentioned in the script?

    -Some rules include: 'don't deny,' 'make your scene partner look good,' 'avoid asking questions,' and 'don't try to be funny.'

  • What does 'yes' in 'yes and' represent?

    -'Yes' represents acceptance of the reality presented in a scene, allowing the improviser to build on that reality rather than deny it.

  • How does the author relate improv to real-life communication?

    -The author explains that just as in improv, accepting others' realities in life fosters understanding, communication, and the potential for building community.

  • What personal struggle does the author mention about approaching a scene?

    -The author struggled with entering a scene with preconceived notions, which often led to frustration when partners did not understand their scripted ideas.

  • What concept from Christian theology is referenced, and how does it relate to improv?

    -The concept of 'kenosis,' or the emptying of self, is referenced to illustrate the importance of releasing ego and expectations to allow creativity and flow in life and improv.

  • What exercise does the author suggest for practicing 'yes and' in daily life?

    -The author suggests picking a day in the next month to intentionally practice 'yes and' in every interaction, being fully present and open to different points of view.

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ImprovisationCommunicationAcceptanceMiles DavisHerbie HancockLive PerformanceSelf-DiscoveryCreativityPersonal GrowthTheater Arts