Using Ali Abdaal's Goal Reset Routine With An Adhd Twist 🍋

Caren Magill | ADHD + Multipotentialites
29 Sept 202310:35

Summary

TLDRThe video script outlines a method for planning the last 90 days of the year with intention, focusing on setting goals in three main areas: health, work, and personal growth. It emphasizes the importance of identifying daily actions to achieve these goals and suggests embodying the energy of admired individuals to stay motivated. The script also highlights the necessity of tracking progress and staying connected to one's goals, recommending the use of a planning system to avoid forgetting them. Additionally, it encourages viewers to clarify their goals by asking themselves key questions to ensure they are realistic and meaningful.

Takeaways

  • 📅 Embrace the last 90 days of 2023 with intention and focus on completing desired tasks.
  • 🚀 Adapt a productivity exercise from Ali Abdall, a YouTube productivity guru, tailored for ADHD-friendly planning.
  • 🎯 Identify three main areas (Health, Work, Personal) and set one goal in each to work towards in the last quarter.
  • 🥗 For health, focus on actionable goals such as eating more vegetables through meal prepping and recipe planning.
  • 📈 Break down work goals into specific projects, with clear deliverables and deadlines.
  • 🧘 Personal goals may involve deepening spiritual experiences, like increasing meditation frequency.
  • 🦸 Choose role models or admired personalities to embody the energy needed for daily actions towards your goals.
  • 🌟 Reflect on the qualities you admire in others and how they can help you approach your goals, aiming to grow as an individual.
  • 🔍 Use a planning system like Notion to keep track of daily actions and progress towards goals, ensuring they stay visible and in mind.
  • 🤔 Ask clarifying questions for each goal to understand its importance, realism, required behaviors, and how to track progress.
  • 🔄 Incorporate goals into your weekly planning to maintain focus and motivation throughout the quarter.

Q & A

  • What is the main purpose of the exercise described in the video?

    -The main purpose of the exercise is to help individuals plan the last 90 days of the year with intention and focus, by setting specific goals and identifying daily actions to achieve them.

  • Who is Ali Abdall and what is his role in the video?

    -Ali Abdall is a productivity guru on YouTube. In the video, he shares an idea from his business coach that helps in planning and setting goals, which the speaker has adapted to be more ADHD-friendly.

  • What are the three main areas for setting goals as suggested in the video?

    -The three main areas for setting goals are health, work, and personal development.

  • How does the speaker plan to improve their health goal of eating more vegetables?

    -The speaker plans to improve their health goal by meal prepping every week, creating soups for lunch, and curating more recipes.

  • What are the two projects the speaker wants to focus on for their work goal?

    -The speaker wants to focus on finishing and launching one project and launching a promotion for another project.

  • How does the speaker intend to deepen their spiritual experience as a personal goal?

    -The speaker intends to deepen their spiritual experience by increasing their meditation practice from once a day to twice a day.

  • What is the energy exercise mentioned in the video and how does it help with goal setting?

    -The energy exercise involves choosing the energy and personality of someone the individual admires to embody while working towards their daily actions or goals. It helps by connecting the individual with the qualities they admire and want to reflect in their approach to their goals.

  • Why is it important for individuals with ADHD to clarify their goals and intentions?

    -It's important for individuals with ADHD to clarify their goals and intentions to ensure they are realistic, to understand the behaviors and choices required to achieve them, and to stay emotionally connected to their goals, helping to keep them front and center in their mind.

  • How does the speaker track their progress on goals in their Notion system?

    -The speaker uses a Gold Tracker template in Notion to break down their goals into smaller tasks and track their progress. They also integrate their goals and progress into their weekly planning template for constant reminders and visual representation of their progress.

  • What is the speaker's advice for individuals who struggle with remembering their goals?

    -The speaker advises individuals to use a planning system that works for them, emphasizing that the brain is not a reliable place to store tasks. They recommend integrating goal-related tasks into the planning system to avoid forgetting about them.

  • How can the clarifying questions provided in the video help individuals with their goal setting process?

    -The clarifying questions help individuals understand why their goals are important, assess the realism of their expectations, consider the behaviors and choices needed to follow through, dedicate time to the goals, track progress, and envision both successful and unsuccessful outcomes. This process helps ensure that the goals set are the right ones for the individual and are actionable.

Outlines

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📅 Planning the Last 90 Days of 2023

The speaker introduces the concept of planning the last 90 days of the year with intention and focus. They mention taking inspiration from Ali Abdall, a productivity guru on YouTube, who shared an idea from his business coach. The speaker has adapted the original template to be more ADHD-friendly, acknowledging the challenges faced by those with ADHD in creating and sticking to plans. The template involves setting goals in three main areas and identifying daily actions to achieve them. The speaker shares their personal goals for the quarter, including eating more vegetables, completing work projects, and deepening their spiritual experience.

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🥗 Breaking Down Daily Actions for Goals

This paragraph delves into the specifics of how to break down goals into daily actions. The speaker provides examples of how they plan to meet their health goal of eating more vegetables, including meal prepping and creating soups. They also discuss their work goals, which involve completing specific projects and seeking a promotion. For their personal goal, the speaker aims to increase meditation practice. The section also introduces the idea of embodying a certain energy or personality, like that of superheroes or admired figures, to approach daily actions with the right mindset. This exercise is intended to help connect with goals and approach them with the qualities of one's ideal self.

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💭 Reflecting on Goals and Tracking Progress

The speaker emphasizes the importance of understanding the 'why' behind setting goals, especially for those with ADHD, to maintain focus and motivation. They share a set of clarifying questions to ask oneself when setting goals, such as the importance of the goal, realism of outcomes, and the behaviors needed to achieve it. The speaker also discusses tracking progress and visualizing goals within their planning system, Notion, to ensure they remain visible and forefront in their mind. They explain how they integrate their goals and associated tasks into their weekly planning template, allowing them to monitor progress and stay connected to their objectives.

🚀 Implementing Goal Strategies and Embracing Energy

In the final paragraph, the speaker wraps up the video by showing how they implement the daily actions into their Notion system to avoid forgetting about their goals. They reiterate the value of the energy exercise in understanding the mindset needed to achieve goals and encourage viewers to use a planning system to store tasks, as the brain is not a reliable task storage system. The speaker also acknowledges the inspiration from Ali Abdall and his coach, and invites viewers to use the provided template to plan their last quarter effectively.

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Keywords

💡Productivity

Productivity in the context of the video refers to the efficiency and effectiveness with which one accomplishes tasks and goals. It is the central theme as the video provides strategies for improving productivity, particularly for individuals with ADHD. The speaker mentions a productivity guru, Ali Abdall, and his business coach as sources of inspiration for the planning exercise.

💡ADHD

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by difficulty with attention, impulsivity, and hyperactivity. In the video, the speaker acknowledges the challenges that individuals with ADHD face in creating and following through with plans, and tailors the planning exercise to be more ADHD-friendly.

💡Goal Setting

Goal setting is the process of identifying and prioritizing specific objectives that one wishes to achieve. In the video, the speaker emphasizes the importance of setting clear goals in three main areas: health, work, and personal development, and provides a structured approach to break down these goals into actionable daily tasks.

💡Daily Actions

Daily actions are the specific tasks or behaviors one must consistently perform to achieve their set goals. The video breaks down each goal into daily actions, making it easier to follow through and maintain progress. This concept is crucial for individuals with ADHD, who may struggle with maintaining focus and consistency.

💡Energy Embodiment

Energy embodiment involves adopting the characteristics, attitudes, or energy of a certain individual or persona to motivate oneself in achieving daily tasks and goals. The video suggests choosing a superhero or a person one admires to embody their energy while working towards goals, as a way to tap into admired qualities and reflect one's ideal self.

💡Planning System

A planning system refers to the tools or methods used to organize, track, and manage tasks and goals. The video emphasizes the importance of using a planning system, such as a digital app or a paper planner, to keep goals and tasks visible and to prevent them from being forgotten, especially for individuals with ADHD.

💡Clarifying Questions

Clarifying questions are used to gain a deeper understanding of why certain goals are important, what behaviors and choices are necessary to achieve them, and what the outcomes of achieving or not achieving these goals might be. These questions help to refine and ensure that the goals set are realistic, meaningful, and aligned with one's values and priorities.

💡Outcome Visualization

Outcome visualization is the act of mentally picturing the results or consequences of one's actions, both positive and negative. This technique helps individuals to stay motivated and emotionally connected to their goals, and to understand the potential impact of achieving or not achieving their objectives.

💡Notion

Notion is a productivity and organization tool that allows users to create databases, notes, tasks, and project management systems. In the video, the speaker uses Notion to create a personalized planning system that includes a goal tracker and a weekly planning template, which helps them to visualize and manage their goals and tasks more effectively.

💡Template

A template is a pre-designed format or structure that serves as a starting point for creating documents, plans, or other content. In the video, the speaker both uses and modifies a planning template provided by Ali Abdall's business coach, adapting it to better suit the needs of individuals with ADHD and to integrate into their own planning system.

Highlights

The speaker introduces an exercise to plan the last 90 days of the year with intention and focus.

The idea is borrowed from Ali Abdall, a productivity guru on YouTube, who learned it from a business coach charging $50,000 an hour.

The exercise is adapted to be more ADHD-friendly, acknowledging the challenges of planning and follow-through for those with ADHD.

The template used is a Google Doc, accessible for everyone to use.

Three main areas for goal setting are identified: Health, Work, and Personal.

Within these categories, one goal is chosen for each to work towards in the last quarter of the year.

Daily actions are identified for each goal to break them down into manageable tasks.

The concept of embodying an energy or personality, like superheroes, for daily actions is introduced to enhance motivation.

The exercise aims to reflect on admired qualities in others and use them to approach personal goals.

The speaker shares their personal goals for the quarter, including eating more vegetables, finishing work projects, and deepening spiritual experience.

The importance of tracking progress and staying emotionally connected to goals is emphasized.

Clarifying questions are provided to help understand the importance and feasibility of the set goals.

The impact of achieving or not achieving the goals is considered to provide clarity and direction.

The speaker's method of integrating goals into their planning system, using a Notion template, is demonstrated.

The video concludes with a call to action for viewers to apply the exercise and planning system to their own goal setting.

Transcripts

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happy October guys I can't believe we're

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actually here but so it is it's the last

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90 days of 2023 and I thought it would

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be fun to take you through a little

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exercise so that you can plan the last

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90 days of this year with intention and

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focus on doing the things that you want

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to get done and to do that I thought I

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would swipe an idea from Ali abdall now

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he is the productivity Guru here on

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YouTube and he actually hired a business

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coach who apparently charges fifty

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thousand dollars an hour so clearly I'm

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way under charging but anyway his

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business coach gave him this idea so

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Props to them for originating the idea

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and I will link his original video below

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but what I have done is judged up the

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original template to make it a little

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bit more ADHD friendly because you and I

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both know as ADHD years it's really hard

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for us to create a plan and then

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actually follow through with it so we'll

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start off with Ollie's template and then

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we'll work through it from an ADHD lens

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so on that note let's get into planning

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the rest of 2023 all right right the

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first thing I love about this template

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is that it's just a Google doc so anyone

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can use it I will link to it below so

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you can grab a copy and go through this

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yourself but where we're going to start

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off is by picking three main areas where

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we want to set goals now Ollie actually

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used Health work and relationship but I

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changed relationship to personal to

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broaden it a bit so within those three

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categories pick one goal that you want

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to work towards in the last quarter of

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this year for me I picked eating five

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servings of veggies a day for my health

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goal because y'all I have not been

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eating enough veggies over the summer

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because I haven't been cooking much so I

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gotta get back on that bandwagon for

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work I have two projects that one I need

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to finish and launch and the other one

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it's just a promotion that I need to

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launch so more on those later and for my

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personal goal I want to deepen my

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spiritual experience I've been doing a

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lot of meditation lately and the deeper

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I go into it the better I feel so more

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on that in another video but those are

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my three goals or set another way

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they're my three intentions that I

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really want to focus on in this quarter

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so the next part in this process is to

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break down what are the daily actions

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that need to happen with each goal so

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with my intention around eating more

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vegetables I know I need to meal prep

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every week I also need to create soups

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once a week that I can have for lunch

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throughout the week that is the best way

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to get more veggies into your diet by

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the way and I also need to do some

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planning and curating more recipes so

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that's we're going to do on the dla for

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my work goal I've broken down the major

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tasks that I need to do they're not

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necessarily daily rituals that I need to

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do they're more like deliverables and

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then for my personal goal I just

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basically want to increase my

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meditations from once a day to twice a

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day and see how that goes now that all

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sounds pretty straightforward but the

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next part is where it gets fun Ollie's

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coach suggested to him that as he comes

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up with his goals and his daily actions

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to think about an energy that he would

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want to embody as he was going through

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those daily actions so he chose the

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energy and personality of certain

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superheroes to embody as he went through

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his what he called daily quests but you

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can choose anyone somebody you know

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personally some of you follow on social

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media or a historical figure that you

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really admire think about the energy

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that they would use to go after these

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specific goals and how would they show

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up differently that you can embody now

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the point of this exercise is

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interesting it's not that you're trying

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to be someone else but what you're doing

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is looking for the qualities in other

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people that you admire and you want to

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embody and use those to approach your

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goals because really that is just a

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reflection of your ideal self and how

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you want to grow as an individual so for

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my goals I picked three people that I

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don't know personally but I really

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admire their approach to life Kimberly

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Snyder who is an author I really love

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her approach to health and nutrition so

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I want to embody her energy as I start

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implementing more veggies into my diet

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Justin Welch is an online entrepreneur

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I've been following for a while we had

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the same value values around freedom of

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flexibility and just building a business

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that's sustainable both energetically

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and financially and doing it with

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integrity and then for my spiritual goal

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I want to embody the energy of Michael

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Singer I just finished listening to a

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second book I'll link it below but I

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love his energy and approach to

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spirituality because it's very

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light-hearted and he doesn't take

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himself too seriously that is the energy

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I want to take with my meditations and

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in my own personal development in

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general I just don't want to take it too

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seriously I want to have fun with it and

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see where it takes me so if you're game

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for it I highly recommend doing the

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energy exercise it's going to help you

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connect to those goals a little bit more

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and think about how you want to show up

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for them now when I did this process

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last quarter it was great but the

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problem is that I left the goals there

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on that Google Document and I never

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looked at it again so while I did make

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some tangential progress on those goals

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I would have made a lot more progress if

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I had actually implemented them into my

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planning system and cap them front and

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center because you know with ADHD out of

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sight out of mind we create goals and

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then we forget about them so in the last

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part of this video I will show you how I

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take these daily actions and put them

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into my notion system but before we go

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there I want to do another exercise that

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I think is really important for adhders

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when we're setting goals or making

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commitments in our life and that is to

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get super clear on why we're doing

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something why it's important to us and

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what we think the outcome's going to be

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a few weeks ago I recorded a video

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around expectations which I'll link up

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here and the point of that video was to

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encourage adhders to make sure that all

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of the expectations they have of

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themselves or the expectations they're

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living up to don't go unchecked because

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when we're not really thinking about

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what it is we're doing we can go in a

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million directions so the questions I'm

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going to share with you now which will

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also be in this template are really

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going to help you crystallize these

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goals and make sure they're the right

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ones for you so for each goal that you

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set these are the clarifying questions

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that you'll go through don't overthink

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it again it's in the chat template but

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ask yourself why is this goal or

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intention important to you right now

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then are you being realistic about them

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or are you engaged in some magical

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thinking in terms of what the outcomes

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are then think about the behaviors and

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choices that you'll have to make in

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order to follow through on those daily

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actions that you wrote down beside your

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goal consider how much time you're

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willing to dedicate to each of these

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goals and how you're actually going to

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track progress I'll show you how I'm

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going to do that in my notion template

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so it'll give you some ideas but you

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really want to be tracking progress on

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these goals even if just to stay

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emotionally connected to it and keep it

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front and center in your mind you'll

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want to consider what success looks like

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and what failure looks like and spoiler

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alert the only answer that you would

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write under failure is not getting

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started but success can be a number of

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different things and clarifying that is

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really going to help you check your

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expectation so that you're not magical

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thinking and that it is something you

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can actually follow through on and the

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last two questions I think are really

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powerful to ponder I use these a lot in

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my coaching practice is how will life be

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different if you achieve this goal and

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what will happen if you don't focus on

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this goal thinking about those

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parameters is really going to give you a

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clear idea of where you're going after

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and you might might realize after

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answering those questions that you may

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have created goals that were unrealistic

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or too big or too small or not really

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all that important to you and if you do

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come to that realization congratulations

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because you're not setting yourself up

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for disappointment trying to go after a

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goal that's not really right for you so

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I hope all of that makes sense the

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templates down below now I'm going to

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show you how I take those daily tasks

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and move them into my notion system so I

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never forget them okay we are in my Gold

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Tracker template in notion if you are

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interested in this it is the organized

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business template that I use it for

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business and personal things so here is

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the first goal I've already put in there

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to eat five servings of veggies a day so

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when we're looking at this there's four

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main tasks that are associated with this

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goal but two of them have to happen

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weekly so there's actually then 12

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recurring Sunday meal planning tasks and

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there's also 12 recurring tasks to to

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make soup so that's 24 and then the

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other two here so let's say there's a

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total of like 26 tasks associated with

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this goal my completion goal is to do

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the whole 26 tasks right now I haven't

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done any but let's say it's two or three

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weeks now and I've done I don't know

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nine tasks towards this goal then you'll

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see that the progress bar shows up which

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is a fun way of visually understanding

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how well you're doing towards that goal

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and then I would just rinse and repeat

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with the other two goals so that's the

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idea of breaking the goal down and then

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chunking it into small tasks you don't

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have to use a goal tracker you don't

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have to use notion use whatever planning

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system works for you but for the love of

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God use a planning system because your

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brain is a terrible place to store tasks

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so the next thing I'm going to do is

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edit my weekly planning template so if

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you've been around here for a minute

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you'll know that every week I start a

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new page which is all of my to do's and

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focus for that that week and this is the

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actual template that I'm editing right

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now these are my daily tasks in this

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calendar right here and I think what I'd

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like to do is add my goals directly to

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this page so every time I look at it

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I'll be reminded of them so I just want

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to come over here and Link that database

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and then boom these goals appear right

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in my template with my progress report

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which is super helpful for me because

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I'm a very visual person so every time I

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start a new week those goals will appear

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in the template and then all of the

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associated tasks will appear down here

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so that is how I plan to track the goals

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that I've set for myself for the last

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quarter of this year now that might

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sound like a lot of work to you maybe

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you're somebody who likes to use a paper

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planner you can do the same thing across

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any system it's basically just setting

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some very specific goals mapping out

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what you'll do on a daily basis to get

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to those goals and then if you want to

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take the extra step of thinking about

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the energy you're going to embody in

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order to make those goals happen I

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thought it was very powerful and then

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take those daily actions and put them

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into your planner system so that you

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don't forget about them and that is

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basically it so if you want the template

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it is linked below again shout out to

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Ali abdall and his fifty thousand dollar

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an hour coach for inspiring today's

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video and on that note guys I will see

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you in the next one bye for now

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