"Gratitude" Paraliminal with Dr. Paul Scheele

Learning Strategies
13 Jan 202213:41

Summary

TLDRThis script discusses the transformative power of gratitude on both emotional and physiological levels. It emphasizes the impact of gratitude on the kidney system and suggests daily practices such as listing things you're grateful for upon waking or before bed. The script also touches on the brain's tendency toward negative thinking and how gratitude can shift this focus to positive outcomes, enhancing overall well-being. It introduces the concept of 'identic image' from Dr. Otor's work to help revive the heart's essence and live wholeheartedly.

Takeaways

  • 😊 Gratitude profoundly affects our physiology, particularly the kidney system, which is essential for energy flow.
  • 🌅 Starting the day with gratitude, such as listing things you're grateful for, can flood the body with positive neurochemistry.
  • 📝 Keeping a gratitude journal helps reinforce positive thinking and abundance, regardless of how big or small the items are.
  • 🌍 Gratitude for everyday comforts like shelter, water, and electricity reminds us of the blessings many people in the world don't experience.
  • 🧠 The brain tends to focus on potential dangers, but gratitude helps shift the midbrain (amygdala) towards positive emotions and thinking.
  • 💡 The root of the word 'positive' means positioning your thinking towards your goals, while 'negative' tends to block access to inner resources.
  • 🔄 By focusing on gratitude, you're reinforcing your brain to seek out abundance, safety, worthiness, and belonging.
  • 💪 Gratitude as a daily habit strengthens a positive mindset and creates an energetic, enthusiastic outlook on life.
  • 💖 The 'heart in seven stages' visualization restores the essence of the heart, helping people live more wholeheartedly, free from cynicism.
  • 🎯 Living with an open heart, as children do, can help us create a more fulfilling, wholehearted life and realize our deepest desires.

Q & A

  • What is the main focus of the paraliminal called 'Gratitude'?

    -The paraliminal called 'Gratitude' focuses on the profound effect gratitude has on one's physiology, particularly on the kidney system, and how it can lead to a full, rich, and energetic life.

  • How does practicing gratitude early in the morning impact one's day?

    -Practicing gratitude early in the morning can flood the body and brain with positive neurochemistry, which can enliven everything one does throughout the day.

  • What does Dr. John D. Martini do to start his day with gratitude?

    -Dr. John D. Martini starts his day by standing up and reciting a list of things he is grateful for in his mind, not moving until he is moved to tears with gratitude.

  • What is the significance of reviewing the day to identify things to be grateful for?

    -Reviewing the day to identify things to be grateful for helps create an enthusiastic and optimistic view of the upcoming day by focusing on positive experiences.

  • Why is keeping a gratitude journal beneficial?

    -A gratitude journal helps individuals focus on positive aspects of their life, no matter how small, which can have a profound effect on their cellular structure, healing abilities, and mindset.

  • How does gratitude influence the brain's information processing?

    -Gratitude affects the amygdala's response in the mid-brain, skewing it towards positive thinking and away from the brain's natural tendency toward negative thinking and fears.

  • What does Steven Cotler say about the human brain's information processing?

    -Steven Cotler mentions that the human brain picks up around 11 million bits of information per second, but only a small fraction reaches the conscious mind, with the brain primarily sorting for potential threats.

  • How does gratitude as a practice help in achieving desired outcomes?

    -Gratitude as a practice positions thinking towards desired goals by reinforcing the brain to sort for abundance, resources, safety, and other positive emotional states.

  • What is the law of reinforcement mentioned in the script?

    -The law of reinforcement states that you get more of what you focus your attention upon, so being grateful helps in receiving more of what you are grateful for.

  • What is the significance of the 'identic image' mentioned in the script?

    -The 'identic image' is a powerful visualization technique that can transform one's life. It is used in the paraliminal session to help bring the essence of the heart back into alignment with the physical heart, promoting a more wholehearted life.

  • How does the 'heart in seven stages' identic image relate to gratitude?

    -The 'heart in seven stages' identic image is embedded in the paraliminal to help revive the open-hearted child-like essence, which is associated with living wholeheartedly and gratefully.

Outlines

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🙏 Gratitude's Impact on Physiology and Daily Life

The first paragraph discusses the concept of gratitude from multiple perspectives, highlighting its profound effect on our physiology, particularly on the kidney system which is considered the starting point for energy in all areas of life. Gratitude is portrayed as an essential emotion for living a rich and energetic life. The speaker shares practices such as starting the day by listing things one is grateful for, as suggested by Dr. John D. Martini, who emphasizes the importance of expressing gratitude until moved to tears. The idea of reviewing the day to identify moments of gratitude is also mentioned, suggesting that this practice can create an optimistic view of the day ahead. The paragraph concludes by mentioning the benefits of keeping a gratitude journal, noting that even small, non-transformative things can have a positive impact on one's well-being.

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🧠 The Brain's Negativity Bias and Gratitude's Role

The second paragraph delves into the brain's tendency toward negative thinking, explaining that the amygdala is primarily focused on identifying potential threats to ensure safety. This bias can lead to imagined fears that are not real, and the speaker questions whether these fears are based on reality or misperceptions. The paragraph emphasizes that gratitude can counteract this negativity by affecting the amygdala and skewing the brain's focus toward positive outcomes. The concept of 'positive' is explored, linking it to the positioning of thoughts towards desired goals, while 'negative' thinking is seen as negating access to personal resources. The speaker encourages the practice of gratitude to align one's thinking with desired outcomes and to reinforce positive emotional states and mindsets, which are beneficial for achieving goals.

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❤️ The Power of an Open Heart and Gratitude

The third paragraph introduces the concept of the 'heart in seven stages,' an idea from Dr. Asin, which is also discussed in the speaker's book 'Drop into Genius.' This section talks about the physical and energetic aspects of the heart, explaining how trauma can cause the heart's essence to withdraw from its physical form, leading to cynicism. The paragraph discusses the process of healing this split through an eidetic image meditation that helps bring the heart's essence back to its physical form, enabling a more wholehearted way of living. The speaker integrates this concept into the paraliminal session, suggesting that it can help listeners live more wholeheartedly by reviving their open-hearted child-like essence.

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Keywords

💡Gratitude

Gratitude is a positive emotion that stems from recognizing and appreciating what one has. In the video, it is emphasized as a powerful practice that can profoundly affect one's physiology and overall well-being. The speaker discusses how expressing gratitude can flood the body with positive neurochemistry, setting a positive tone for the day. For instance, the practice of listing things one is grateful for upon waking up, as suggested by Dr. John D. Martini, exemplifies how gratitude can be integrated into daily routines to enhance life quality.

💡Paraliminal

A Paraliminal is a type of audio program designed to deliver subconscious messages simultaneously to both the left and right brain to facilitate personal growth and change. In the context of the video, the Paraliminal called 'Gratitude' is used to help listeners internalize the importance of gratitude and its impact on their lives. The script mentions how different perspectives on gratitude are integrated into the Paraliminal experience.

💡Physiology

Physiology refers to the scientific study of the functions and mechanisms which work together to keep the body alive. The video script explains that gratitude has a direct impact on the kidney system, which is considered the starting point for energy throughout the body. This suggests that cultivating gratitude can have tangible effects on one's physical health and energy levels.

💡Neurochemistry

Neurochemistry involves the chemical processes that occur in the nervous system, influencing thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. The script mentions that expressing gratitude can flood the brain with positive neurochemicals, which can enliven one's activities and create an optimistic mindset. This concept is used to illustrate the tangible benefits of gratitude on mental and emotional states.

💡Amygdala

The amygdala is an almond-shaped part of the brain that plays a key role in processing emotions, particularly those related to fear and memory. In the video, it is highlighted that the amygdala tends to focus on negative stimuli, but the practice of gratitude can help shift its focus towards positive experiences, thus promoting a more optimistic outlook on life.

💡Identic Image

An Identic Image, as mentioned in the video, is a detailed and vivid mental image used in meditation or visualization to achieve specific psychological or emotional effects. The script refers to Dr. Otor's identic image of the heart in seven stages, which is used to help listeners reconnect with their open-hearted, child-like essence and live more wholeheartedly.

💡Energy Systems

Energy systems in the context of the video likely refer to the body's vital forces or life energies, which are believed to flow through various organs and pathways. Gratitude is discussed as a means to positively influence these energy systems, particularly starting with the kidney system, to enhance one's overall life force and well-being.

💡Mindset

Mindset refers to a set of attitudes or beliefs that shape how a person views the world and themselves. The video emphasizes how gratitude can shift one's mindset towards positivity, optimism, and abundance. By focusing on gratitude, individuals can cultivate a mindset that supports their goals and desires.

💡Law of Reinforcement

The Law of Reinforcement suggests that focusing on certain thoughts or behaviors will lead to their increase in one's life. The script explains that by being grateful, one reinforces their brain to seek out more positive experiences and resources, thus creating a self-reinforcing cycle of positivity.

💡Eidetic Image

An Eidetic Image is a highly detailed and vivid mental image that can be voluntarily recalled. In the video, the speaker discusses how an Eidetic Image of the heart can help individuals heal emotional wounds and reconnect with their authentic, open-hearted selves, which is a central theme of the gratitude Paraliminal.

💡Cynicism

Cynicism is a general distrust of people's motives or a negative outlook on life. The video script mentions how cynicism can be a result of life's negative experiences causing one to withdraw their emotional essence for protection. The practice of gratitude is presented as a tool to counter cynicism and restore a more open-hearted, optimistic approach to life.

Highlights

Gratitude has a profound effect on our physiology, particularly the kidney system.

Gratitude is an essential part of living a full, rich, and energetic life.

Practicing gratitude by listing things you're grateful for can flood your body with positive neurochemistry.

Dr. John D. Martini's practice of reciting things he's grateful for until moved to tears.

Reviewing the day to identify moments of gratitude can create an optimistic view of the upcoming day.

Gratitude journaling helps to focus on the positive aspects of life.

Gratitude can be for simple things like being ambulatory or having a home.

Steven Cottler's book discusses how gratitude affects the brain's tendency toward negative thinking.

The human brain processes approximately 11 million bits of information per second.

The amygdala is largely devoted to sorting for potential harm, leading to a negative bias.

Gratitude as a practice can help skew the amygdala's response toward positive thinking.

Positive thinking positions our mindset towards desired goals or outcomes.

Gratitude reinforces the brain to sort for abundance, resources, safety, and worthiness.

The law of reinforcement states you get more of what you focus on, so being grateful attracts more to be grateful for.

Making a habit of gratitude can lead to an amazing shift in energy and a heart-opening experience.

The paraliminal session includes an eidetic image from Dr. Otor to help revive the heart's essence.

The heart's essence can become withdrawn due to life's negative experiences, leading to cynicism.

The paraliminal session aims to help listeners live more wholeheartedly.

Encouragement to live with an open heart to create the world we desire.

Transcripts

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it is time

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and today we're playing with the

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paraliminal called

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gratitude

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now let me say that gratitude can be

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understood from a number of different

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perspectives

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one that i talk about on a paraliminal

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or that we integrate into a paraliminal

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called five element healing

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that gratitude has a profound effect on

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our physiology in fact the organ system

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that is affected by gratitude is the

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kidney system which is the beginning

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place for all the energy throughout

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all other areas of your life so

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gratitude as an emotion is an essential

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part of living a full rich and energetic

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life

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gratitude as a practice has been talked

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about from a number of perspectives

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for a number of years

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for example people say it's so helpful

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if

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when you wake up in the morning you make

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a list of all the things that you're

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grateful for in fact i have a colleague

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named dr john d martini and one of the

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things that he does is he puts his feet

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on the floor

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out of bed he stands up

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and he begins a recitation inside of his

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own mind

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of all of the things that he is

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profoundly grateful for and he won't

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move from that spot

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until he is moved to tears with the

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gratitude he feels for the life that he

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lives

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that's an interesting way to start the

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day don't you think but think about what

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that's doing in terms of flooding your

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body and brain

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with positive neurochemistry

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that will enliven everything that you do

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another thing that's been

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talked about is at the end of the day to

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review your day to see

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what is it that occurred today

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for which you were most grateful

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if there was some action you took

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if it was some words that you spoke

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if it was an interaction you had with

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another person

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think about

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what went really well and be grateful

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for it now gratitude if you look at it

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from bookending your day is going to

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make a big difference in terms of

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creating

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an enthusiastic and optimistic view of

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the upcoming day

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but there's something else that's

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quite helpful as people will often make

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a list of all of those things keeping

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a gratitude journal

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i have a colleague who

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will start

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listing all the things for the day that

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he's grateful for and on some days he

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might have three he might have ten and

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some days he fills up two or three pages

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now when you think about what it is

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you're grateful for it doesn't have to

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be

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something that's massively

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transformative in order to have a

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positive effect it could be

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i'm ambulatory

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i can move

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i can use the restroom

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how wonderful

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i can move around my home i've got a

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home i've got floors

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i've got a roof over my head

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i've got

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hot cold running water

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i've got electricity that i can plug

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into

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there are

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millions and millions of people all over

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the world will never enjoy

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those sorts of things

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and being grateful for the gift that

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this day brings

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has a profound effect

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in your cellular structure and your

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ability to heal from illness and your

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attitudes your mindset it makes quite a

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difference now there is a book written

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recently

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by a man named

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steven

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cottler

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and he talks about the importance of

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gratitude

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he says one of the things that's

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interesting is that the human brain

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picks up i don't know somewhere around

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11 million bits of information per

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second

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i talk about this in the food reading

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class how the brain is always sorting

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for but it only delivers to the

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conscious mind a small fraction of that

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but largely what the brain is doing what

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the amygdala that center part of the

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emotional brain is doing is sorting for

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all the things that could harm you

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yeah

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it's largely devoted biologically

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speaking

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it's largely devoted

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to making sure that you stay safe

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so it

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has a tendency toward negative thinking

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and fears

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the tendency of the brain is to be more

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fear-based

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well the problem with fears is that we

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can make up and imagine a lot of things

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that could harm us that aren't really

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going to

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so

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is it a real

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fear that's

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something you have to concern yourself

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with

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or is it imaginary fear based on a

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faulty conclusion or a misperception

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about the way things are in your life

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but the thing is because the brain tends

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to skew negatively

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gratitude as a process

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affects this amygdala's mid-brain

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response

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and it's skews toward

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positive

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now i'd like to say that the difference

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between negative and positive is found

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in the root of the word word

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positive has the root p o s i which

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means positive

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position it positions our thinking

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with a goal or an outcome that we truly

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desire

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negative thinking

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has a tendency to negate

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specifically negate access to the

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resources within us that would really

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help

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so gratitude as a practice

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is something that's going to position

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your thinking to realize what it is you

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choose

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to create and what is it that you're

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choosing to create in this day

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by the law of reinforcement you get more

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of what you focus your attention upon

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so when you are grateful

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you're reinforcing your brain to sort

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for

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abundance

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resources

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safety

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belonging

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worthiness

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all of the positive kinds of emotional

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states and mindsets that are going to

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help you today

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get where you want to go it doesn't

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matter what it is you're choosing to do

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even if it's a day

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of relaxing

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one of the things that you can do is be

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grateful

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for this day in which you can relax

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that you're safe

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that you're loved that you're worthy

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and the more you apply your attention

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and resources to what it is you desire

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where your attention goes

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your energy

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flows

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more gratitude means more

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res the ability to receive more for

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which you are

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most grateful so what a perfect loop i

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mean brain sciences talks about it

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the ancients talk about it in terms of

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our internal organs and energy systems

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and it just makes good sense on a daily

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basis to focus on what you're grateful

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for now if you can make a habit of this

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for example

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first thing when you awaken before you

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do anything else when your feet touch

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the floor pause for a moment you're just

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getting ready for bed you lay your head

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on the pillow you review your day and

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you think about those things for which

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you're grateful what you'll discover

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is an amazing shift in energy

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it's a heart opening experience

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the midbrain

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amygdala is about the emotionality

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and we tend to feel our emotions right

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here now

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here's another very important

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inside secret if you will

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about this particular paraliminal

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session

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in the left ear which is designed for

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your right brain

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much of the script that i created

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was from an identic image it's

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eid t i c

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identic

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image

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e i d e t i c identic image from

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a dr

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octor

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awesome now i wrote about this in my

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third book

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called drop into genius

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in the first chapter

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of that book i talk about the power of a

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single image being able to transform

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your life

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and dr asin gave me permission

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to to actually share several of his

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identic images

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one of them the very final one

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is comes from the very last chapter of

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the book i think it's chapter eight it's

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called the heart

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in seven stages

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when i do my retreat

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this is the final identic image

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meditation visualization

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that i give to all my course

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participants

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this idea of the hardened seven stages

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is very interesting

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what it talks about is

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that there is a fleshiness of the

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physical heart

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but there's also

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an energetic and essence

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of the heart

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and

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what happens is due to the traumas that

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we experience

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the negative experiences we have in life

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the essence of our heart is withdrawn

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from the fleshiness of our heart

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we

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hide it to protect it

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and very often what we'll create

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is cynicism the brokenhearted idealist

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is the cynic

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and as a child

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we had an open heart

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everything was possible and we lived

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more wholeheartedly

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we lived with our whole heart in

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everything that we did it was only

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through traumatic life experiences

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hitting us repeatedly that we withdrew

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as a protection mechanism again

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brain sorting for things that we might

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fear and what it is that might prevent

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us

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from feeling really good on a daily

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basis

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and so what this eidetic image does is

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it helps bring

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the essence of your heart

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back in to the fleshiness of your heart

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and when that heart is lifted up and

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revived in this way

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we can then live much more

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wholeheartedly

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and that is embedded

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in this paraliminal i'm sure that you've

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never heard any aspect of that in this

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paraliminal before

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but if you ever do have an opportunity

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to listen to what's being spoken

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in that left ear you'll hear it reminds

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you of that

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open-hearted child-like essence

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of who you really are inside

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and guess what

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it's time to live wholeheartedly let's

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make this day

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a day where we live into this life of

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ours

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with the full

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rich

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resourced level

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of an open heart

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that can help us

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create the world we truly truly desire

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to live in

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well have a spectacular day

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thanks very much for being here i look

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forward to seeing you

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again the next session peace and

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blessings

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