Thai Prostitute interview-Tuk

Soft White Underbelly
18 May 202311:19

Summary

TLDRThe video script features an interview with a 39-year-old Thai woman who recently started sex work to support her chronically ill mother's medical expenses. She discusses her background, the nature of her work in Nana Plaza catering primarily to tourists, and the emotional toll it takes. Despite the challenges, she remains hopeful about the future, possibly finding love and marriage. She also shares her concerns for her mother's health and the societal pressures faced by Thai women in finding lucrative employment.

Takeaways

  • 🙂 Tuck is originally from near Bangkok and had both of her parents growing up.
  • 🎓 Tuck attended school for around 10 to 15 years.
  • 💼 She began working as a prostitute four months ago to support her sick mother.
  • 💊 Her mother has a chronic illness, and Tuck needs money for medical expenses.
  • 💰 Tuck finds sex work to be one of the best ways for a woman in Thailand to make money while maintaining flexibility.
  • 👫 Tuck works in a club at Nana Plaza, which is primarily visited by tourists.
  • 🗣️ Some clients only want to talk and drink, while others are looking for sex.
  • 🌍 Tuck has traveled to Germany before, and she finds it beautiful.
  • 🙏 Tuck had dreams of becoming more involved in her religion and going to a temple.
  • 🤐 No one in Tuck’s family, including her mother and brother, knows she is a sex worker.

Q & A

  • Where is Tuck originally from?

    -Tuck is originally from a place near Bangkok.

  • How old is Tuck?

    -Tuck is 39 years old.

  • What is the reason Tuck started working as a sex worker?

    -Tuck started working as a sex worker to help with her mother's chronic illness and medical expenses.

  • How long has Tuck been working in the sex industry?

    -Tuck has been working in the sex industry for four months.

  • What kind of clients does Tuck typically encounter at Nana Plaza?

    -Tuck typically encounters tourists from countries like America, Australia, and Europe at Nana Plaza.

  • Does Tuck have any other options to make money besides sex work?

    -Tuck believes that sex work is the best money a woman can make in Thailand, implying limited options.

  • What is Tuck's daily routine like when she is not working?

    -When not working, Tuck enjoys spending time with friends, going out, and meeting people.

  • How does Tuck feel about her work emotionally?

    -Tuck admits that it is hard to be selling herself and it does affect her emotionally.

  • What are Tuck's hopes for the future?

    -Tuck hopes for her mother's survival and recovery, and she is open to the possibility of falling in love and getting married.

  • What is Tuck's relationship like with her family, particularly her brother?

    -Tuck's mother lives with others, including her brother, but her family does not know about her work as a sex worker.

  • What is the biggest challenge Tuck faces in her current situation?

    -The biggest challenge Tuck faces is the fear of her mother's deteriorating health and the uncertainty of her own future.

Outlines

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🌍 Background and Work in Nana Plaza

The individual shares their origin near Bangkok, their upbringing with both parents, and a good childhood. They discuss their education, which lasted around 10-15 years, and their recent entry into sex work about four months prior to the interview, at the age of 39. The decision to start this line of work was driven by the need to support their chronically ill mother's medical expenses. They describe the flexibility of their work, which allows them to take their mother to the hospital when necessary. The individual works in a club in Nana Plaza, catering primarily to tourists, as locals find it too expensive. They explain the process of being selected by customers and the nature of their interactions, which can range from sexual encounters to just hanging out and talking.

05:01

💔 Emotional Challenges and Dreams

The conversation delves into the emotional impact of their work, with the individual admitting to experiencing depression, anger, and frustration. They discuss the financial aspect, with earnings ranging from 500 to 1000 Thai baht per date. The individual's mother is unaware of their occupation, believing they are doing something else. The discussion touches on the limited opportunities for women in Thailand to earn money, the individual's past travel to Germany, and their love for Thailand. They reflect on the challenges faced by the Thai people, such as difficulty finding jobs and the competitive nature of the sex work industry. The individual had dreams related to their religion but was unable to pursue them due to past decisions. They describe their social life, including friends who are also sex workers, and the support they provide to each other. They express worry about their mother's health and the future.

10:02

🌱 Life Lessons and Hopes

In the final paragraph, the individual shares the most important life lesson they've learned: not to worry about everything and to enjoy life. The interview concludes with well-wishes for the individual's mother and themselves, highlighting a sense of hope and resilience despite the challenges they face.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Prostitution

Prostitution refers to the act or practice of engaging in sexual activity with someone for payment. In the video, the main character started engaging in sex work four months ago to support her mother's medical expenses, illustrating the economic and personal factors that can lead individuals into sex work.

💡Chronic Illness

A chronic illness is a health condition that persists over a long period, often for a lifetime. The video mentions the protagonist's mother suffering from a chronic illness, which is the catalyst for her decision to engage in sex work to cover the medical costs.

💡Nana Plaza

Nana Plaza is a well-known red-light district in Bangkok, Thailand. The script refers to the protagonist working in a club within this area, highlighting the geographical context of her work and the nature of the sex industry in certain parts of Thailand.

💡Tourists

Tourists are travelers who visit places for pleasure. The script indicates that the clients in the club are predominantly tourists, which shows the reliance of the local sex industry on international visitors for business.

💡Freedom

Freedom in this context refers to the ability to make choices and act independently. The protagonist mentions that sex work provides her with the flexibility to take time off to care for her mother, indicating a complex relationship between freedom and the type of work she does.

💡Emotional Impact

Emotional impact refers to the effect that an event or situation has on a person's emotions. The protagonist acknowledges that sex work affects her emotionally, suggesting that despite the financial necessity, there are psychological costs to her line of work.

💡Depression

Depression is a mood disorder characterized by persistent feelings of sadness and a lack of interest or pleasure in activities. The script implies that the protagonist experiences depression, which is a common emotional struggle for individuals in high-stress or stigmatized professions.

💡Money

Money is a medium of exchange in the form of coins and banknotes. The protagonist discusses earning money through sex work, with specific amounts mentioned in Thai baht, indicating the financial motivations and outcomes of her work.

💡Family

Family refers to a group of people related either by consanguinity (by recognized birth) or affinity (by marriage or other relationship). The video's narrative revolves around the protagonist's family responsibilities, particularly her mother's health, which underscores the social and familial pressures that can influence career choices.

💡Dreams

Dreams in this context refer to aspirations or ambitions. The protagonist mentions wanting to go to the temple, indicating a personal interest in religion or spirituality that contrasts with her current occupation, highlighting the gap between one's dreams and reality.

💡Competition

Competition refers to the act of striving to gain or win something by defeating or establishing superiority over others. The script mentions the high number of girls working at the club, suggesting a competitive environment within the sex industry and the challenges faced by individuals to earn a living.

Highlights

Tuck is from near Bangkok and has both parents.

Tuck had a good childhood and went to school for 10-15 years.

Tuck started sex work four months ago due to her mother's chronic illness.

Tuck is 39 years old and considers sex work as a way to help with her mother's medical expenses.

Tuck views sex work as the best way for a woman to make money in Thailand.

Tuck has the freedom to take time off to care for her mother.

Tuck works in a club in Nana Plaza, which is frequented by tourists.

Local men do not visit Nana Plaza due to high costs and exclusivity.

Tuck's interactions with clients sometimes involve just talking and hanging out.

Tuck has not been married or in love.

Tuck's hopes for the future include her mother's survival and possibly falling in love.

Tuck experiences emotional difficulty from selling herself.

Tuck earns between 500 to 1000 Thai baht per date.

Tuck's mother is unaware of her sex work.

Tuck has been to Germany and found it beautiful but colder.

Tuck loves Thailand and sees difficulty in finding jobs and making a living.

Tuck's club has around 50 girls, indicating high competition.

Tuck's earnings per night can be as low as thirty US dollars.

Tuck had dreams of going to the temple and working with her religion.

Tuck enjoys spending free time with friends and has a boyfriend.

Tuck's friends used to work at the club, and they discuss the difficulty of their work.

Tuck worries about her mother's health and the limited time she may have left.

Tuck's most important life lesson is to not worry about everything and just enjoy life.

Transcripts

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all right tuck yeah tuck oh where are

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you from originally where'd you grow up

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where's that uh it's near Bangkok it's

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not far okay and tell me about how you

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grew up you had both of your parents

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yeah

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I have both good childhood yeah

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how far did you go in school

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um

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it's not far but

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how many years did you go to school

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how many years

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10 or 15. okay

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and when did you start working as a

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prostitute

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when did you start doing sex work

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just

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four months four months ago

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before New Year oh really last year so

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very recent yeah how old are you

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39 39 yeah

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so you started you're starting late yeah

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well why did you decide to do this at

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this age because now my mom she got a

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chronic

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he'd need this

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your mom is sick yeah

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and you're helping with the medical

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expenses hmm

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so you have to do this yes

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this is not your choice to do this

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how does it affect you

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I mean mentally

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does it affect you in any way mentally

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to be doing this kind of work

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I mean you're doing it for a good cause

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yes

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is that how you see it is there another

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option for you to make money

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like this yes this is the best money a

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woman can make yeah in Thailand

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and

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I work this because I have time when I I

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want to go to the home

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I want to bring my mom to the hospital

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yeah

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yeah too easy

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this gives you the freedom to take a day

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yeah

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and you're making good money when you're

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working

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so you work in a club

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in the Nana Plaza

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where the whole Plaza is full of sex

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clubs basically

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yeah

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tell me about uh that working in the

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club

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what kind of guys come in there

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many

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different

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a lot of tourists yes is it all tourists

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yes all tourists all tourists the local

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no high men do not go there yeah

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why did they not go there

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why do the locals not go

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too expensive

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um

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no the cat I was outside

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don't let them know if they let them in

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yeah

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so if you get Americans Australians

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Europeans

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the guy sees you up on the stage

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picks you out

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and then you guys do what you go to a

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room sometimes

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or you go to his hotel yes oh I see

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and you'll have sex and come back and do

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it again with someone else right

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sometimes have sex sometimes not really

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yes

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just hang out yes and talk and yes

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that's nice

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that's nice

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you guys are nice

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[Music]

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yeah what kind of experiences do you

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have I mean

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tell me about the kind of guys who come

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in do you think they're married

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sometimes

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yes

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yeah

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there is do uh

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I think a lot of guys come out here just

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to have sex no no no

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some some just want to talk

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and drink Hangout

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I was there last night the whole

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the whole Plaza is full of guys yeah

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he's looking for action

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what have you learned about men in your

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months doing this

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I know have you ever been married no

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have you ever been in love

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no no

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what are your hopes for your future

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obviously that your mom survives yes but

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for you personally what hopes do you

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have would you like to get married have

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children

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no

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but maybe falling in love getting

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married is that something you you would

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want to do

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um

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maybe maybe

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does this kind of work affect you

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emotionally do you get depressed or do

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you get

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angry or frustrated or

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anything yes yeah

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it's hard to be selling yourself I take

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it

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is it difficult to be selling yourself

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to men is that the most difficult part

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of this

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you'll make how much money for a date

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oh

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so so quiet

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maybe yes

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500 1000.

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I'm sure your mom appreciates what

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you're doing for her it's a very nice

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gesture

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do you talk to her about it no

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no does she think you're doing something

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else yes oh really so she doesn't know

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how you're making your money yeah

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in Thailand what possible ways does a

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woman have to make money

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could you have gone to school to be a

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lawyer or a doctor or anything like that

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you could have yeah but that didn't

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happen for you

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have you traveled outside of the country

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have you been anywhere I've been to

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Germany

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for three months oh

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what do you think of Europe what do you

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think of Germany

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is

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beautiful

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it's a great country much colder though

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yes

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do you love Thailand

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us yeah you like it here yeah

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what are the biggest problems that you

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see for for the Thai people I mean is it

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difficult to make a living is it is

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difficult

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to find a job when you were

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older order

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yeah

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most of the girls working at the club

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are

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much much younger they're 20 years old

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25 years old

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you look very young for your age

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but um at the Nana Plaza there's so many

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girls

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they're too many how many girls work at

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your Club

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okay

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50 girls yes yeah

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so much competition

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and how much money do you make in a

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night

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um

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Maybe

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five

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hundred

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one thousand

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a lot

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US Dollars no Thai baht yes

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so 500 to 1000

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bot

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which is only about thirty dollars

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cost of living must be very low here

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what dreams did you have did you have

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any dreams in your life to do something

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yes yes what did you want to do I want

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to go Tempo

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you wanted to go to the temple yes to do

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what

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you wanted to do something

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with your religion

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yes

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What stopped you from doing that

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yeah

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[Music]

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my

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said uh

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empty no thinking

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you made some bad decisions when you

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were younger yeah don't we are

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what do you do with your free time when

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you're not working

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[Music]

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go out to see you meet a friend

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you have friends yes that's nice

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are your friends sex workers as well

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do they work at the club

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used to

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but now

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to have fun

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boyfriend okay

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is it difficult I mean do you what do

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the girls say amongst each other I don't

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think any of the women are enjoying

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these guys that are coming by they're

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just doing it for the money

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most of them are doing it for their

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families

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yes

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seems like everyone I've spoken to is is

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working and sending the money to their

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family yes

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what are you afraid of now what do you

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worry about

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[Music]

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um

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I worry about

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just not just my mom yeah just your mom

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because maybe she can stay just two men

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or three months

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do you live with your mom

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she lives with others ah yes my brother

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your brother yeah

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yeah does your brother know what you do

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no no one knows this is your secret

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Taco would you say is the most important

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lesson you've learned in your life

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I think

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[Music]

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don't worry about everything but

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just enjoy

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all right talk thank you so much for

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sharing your story yes

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yes I wish your mom the best of luck

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and to you as well

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thank you very much

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