Fast Talk with Boy Abunda: Relationship goals with Bianca and Ruru! (Full Episode 364)
Summary
TLDRIn this special episode of 'Fast Talk with Boy Abunda,' the host engages with celebrity couple Ruru and Bianca, discussing their six-year relationship journey. They share the challenges they faced, including a controversial incident and a temporary separation that strengthened their bond. The couple emphasizes the importance of faith, communication, and compromise. They also talk about their individual career successes, including Ruru's role in 'Running Man' and Bianca's project 'Encantadia Chronicle.' The conversation is heartfelt, highlighting their love, growth, and the lessons learned along the way.
Takeaways
- ๐ The couple has been together for almost six years and are still going strong.
- ๐ค They faced a significant challenge in their first year of dating, which was controversial and tested their relationship.
- ๐ Their faith plays a central role in their relationship, with prayer being a regular part of their routine.
- ๐ข They experienced a rough patch in their second year, which led to a temporary separation but ultimately a stronger bond.
- ๐ซ They value open communication and have learned to compromise to resolve conflicts.
- ๐ The third year was a blessing as one partner converted to the other's religion, showing a deep commitment to their union.
- ๐ฌ The fourth year was a learning experience, focusing on their careers and understanding the entertainment industry.
- ๐ The fifth year was their breakthrough, with significant professional achievements for both partners.
- ๐ A funny memory involved a humorous interaction with Bianca's grandmother, showing the couple's integration into each other's families.
- ๐ There's an implied future plan of marriage, though it's currently hypothetical.
Q & A
What is the special occasion being discussed in the interview?
-The special occasion being discussed is the couple's upcoming anniversary and their journey together.
How long have Ruru and Bianca been together?
-Ruru and Bianca have been together for almost six years, with their anniversary coming up next month.
What significant event happened in their first year of relationship?
-In their first year, they faced a controversial situation involving a parking lot incident which occurred before they reached their first anniversary.
What was the biggest takeaway from their first year struggles?
-The biggest takeaway from their first year struggles was the realization of how important Bianca was to Ruru, especially after seeing her in pain and crying.
What happened in their second year of relationship?
-Their second year was about dealing with the consequences of the first year, including a period of separation where communication was lost, but they eventually chose to stay together.
What was the turning point in their relationship?
-The turning point was when they realized the importance of constant communication and compromise to resolve issues and prevent them from festering.
What is the significance of the third year in their relationship?
-The third year was a blessing year for them as it was the year Bianca converted to their religion.
What career milestone did they achieve in their fifth year?
-In their fifth year, they experienced a breakthrough with Ruru's movie 'Black Rider' and Bianca's involvement in 'Encantadia Chronicle: Sangre'.
What is the couple's approach to handling jealousy in their relationship?
-They handle jealousy by addressing it directly and not letting it fester, ensuring they communicate openly about their feelings.
What is the couple's view on living together before marriage?
-They respect their religious beliefs which do not tolerate living together before marriage, and they honor that by not living together until they are married.
What is the couple's advice for maintaining a strong relationship?
-Their advice is to continuously communicate, compromise, and respect each other's feelings, as well as to keep the relationship strong despite personal career achievements.
Outlines
๐ค Interview Kick-off
The paragraph introduces a special episode of a talk show hosted by Boy Abunda, featuring guests Ruru and Bianca. The hosts and guests exchange pleasantries, with Boy Abunda expressing admiration for the couple's appearance and relationship. The couple shares their feelings about their six-year journey together, mentioning the challenges they've faced and how they've grown stronger because of their faith. They also discuss how they handle conflicts and maintain communication, emphasizing the importance of prayer in their relationship.
๐ Parking Lot Controversy
This section delves into the couple's first year together, which was marked by struggles, notably a controversial incident in a parking lot. Despite the early difficulties, they reflect on the lessons learned and how the experience brought them closer. The couple discusses the importance of compromise and communication in overcoming their challenges. They also touch upon the idea of living together before marriage, stating that their faith prohibits it, and they respect this belief.
๐ฌ The Power of Communication
The third paragraph highlights the couple's realization of the significance of communication in their relationship. They discuss how they've learned to address issues as they arise to prevent them from festering. The conversation also includes playful banter, with the hosts asking the couple to engage in activities like eye contact and cuddling, emphasizing their chemistry and love for each other. The couple shares their favorite aspects of each other and how they navigate their relationship.
๐ Career and Spiritual Growth
The fourth paragraph discusses the couple's professional and spiritual development. One of the individuals shares their personal decision to convert to their partner's religion, marking a significant milestone in their lives. They also talk about their fourth year together, which was a learning experience, particularly in terms of their careers. The couple expresses excitement about their upcoming projects and how they support each other's individual growth.
๐คฃ Funniest Memory and Future Plans
In this final paragraph, the couple shares their funniest memory involving Bianca's grandmother. They also discuss hypothetical future plans, such as marriage proposals, indicating their readiness for the next steps in their relationship. The conversation ends on a positive note, with the hosts congratulating the couple and expressing their appreciation for the support of the audience. The couple encourages everyone to do good deeds and make the world a better place.
Mindmap
Keywords
๐กRelationship
๐กChallenges
๐กFaith
๐กCommunication
๐กAnniversary
๐กControversy
๐กGrowth
๐กSupport
๐กCareer
๐กInspirational
๐กHappiness
Highlights
Introduction of the show and guests, Ruru and Bianca
Bianca expresses her feelings about her relationship with Ruru
Ruru talks about their 6-year relationship and the challenges they've faced
Bianca and Ruru discuss the importance of faith in their relationship
The couple shares how they handle rough patches and controversies
Ruru and Bianca on the significance of communication in their relationship
Bianca recalls a controversial incident from their first year of dating
Ruru reflects on the importance of realizing Bianca's value to him
The couple discusses their decision to stay together after a difficult second year
Bianca and Ruru talk about the role of compromise in their relationship
Ruru shares his experience of converting to Bianca's religion
Bianca discusses the growth and learning they experienced in their fourth year
The couple celebrates their breakthrough year with successful projects
Bianca and Ruru share a funny memory involving Bianca's grandmother
Ruru and Bianca express their gratitude to their fans and supporters
The couple talks about their upcoming projects, 'Running Man' and 'Encantadia Chronicle'
Bianca and Ruru discuss the hypothetical scenario of a marriage proposal
Transcripts
[Musika]
standby Magandang hapon Pilipinas at
buong mundo Nay Tay kapuso pahiran po ng
20 minutes ng inyong hapon Ako po si Boy
and Welcome to fast talk with Boy
Abunda Sa lahat po ng nanonood sa
Facebook at YouTube sa lahat ng
nakikinig po sa dwb Welcome to the
program and thank you for coming with us
to the show This is a special episode
dahil mga special po ang ating mga
panauhin night capuso please welcome
Ruru and
[Palakpakan]
Bianca kuma kayong dalawa
officiate ay hindi
pa Wal wala pa wala wala talagang i
officiate para naka-black and white you
look stunning Thank you very much miss
Bianca How do you feel I mean Sobra kang
gwapo har pero napakagandang girlfriend
sobra sobra my God Thank you po haven't
seen in a while pero napakaganda n
nagsumbong talaga kapuso napakaganda ni
bianka um We miss you Tito Ako din
na-miss ko talaga kayo and I'm just so
glad and Um thank you naman si ruro ang
feeling ko ay Ah nakita koo nung
napakabata but I'm just so proud
Congratulations than you Congratulations
on Running Man black Rider
Congratulations on sangre Thank you Uh
things are doing very very well but
you've been together for 6 years yes yes
almost talaga almost next month Oo Sit
down please Oo Thank you ti So ano Iyung
ano ah how how has the journey been the
last si years Kumusta yon it has been
one heck of a ride Tito Boy Honestly um
There's no Uh specific words that could
really describe pero It's a journey that
we Actually also are surprised that we
have been surviving and we are still
enjoying it together Yes may feeling ka
ba Bianca na When You Look back and
connect the dots parang wow How did we
make it or We made it ba we have that
conversation palagi palagi especially
now na alam namin na papalapit na yung
anniversary namin right go ahead Ruru
ikaw how how does it feel and how how do
you look forward um Syempre parang
Minsan kasi Tito Boy parang Napapaisip
ka ' ba parang nung una ang daming
pinagdaanan ng mga pagsubok and then
ngayon na ito na po yung mga nangyayari
sa amin doon mo mare-realize na parang
lahat may dahilan kung bakit kailangan
nating pagdaanan yung mga unos na yon
kasi Ito pala yung kapalit noun kung ano
yung mga tinatamasa namin ngayon what
was the toughest the toughest Yeah
parang ano Tito Boy e every year meron
kaming talagang pagsubok na pagdadaanan
um so far wala kaming mapipili na kung
ano Iyung toughest because almost every
challenge that goes through the
relationship is always the hardest that
was a bad question I No you know why I
respect that because that makes you go
back to something na maybe ni ayaw mong
balikan but naitatanong lamang because
minsan nakaka-inspire sa iba na kung
napagdaanan nila iyan at nalampasan kaya
natin sobrang um we're also very open to
Sharing our stories Tito Boy kasi um
that's the reality of every relationship
eh Walang relasyon ang perpekto And
we're proud of all of the imperfections
na we've gone through because alam namin
ni Ruru yung tinahak naming dalawa para
maging ganito kami ka-strong ngayon pero
line halimbawa pag nagkakaroon ng rough
patch nagkakaroon ng ah well controversy
in your life not necessarily controversy
in the context of controversy in show
business Ano yyung kinakapitan niyo kaya
bumabalik kayo doon sa core um siguro
for us it's our faith kay God ang ama po
palagi yun talaga papata every night
lagi kami nagpe-pray kahit hindi kami
magkasama pagdating ng 7 pm Alam namin
na mananalangin kaming dalawa magkasama
man ka kami o hindi okay man kami o
hindi palaging sa kanya kami maglalabas
ng sama ng loob bago kami talagang
mag-usap ng kaming dalawa I know this is
before marriage mapangahas na tanong is
living together something that you even
think of well alam naman natin na It
will be a face um Pero sa ngayon Tito
Especially that we are in our religion
as well um it's not tolerated to live
inside one roof um ng hindi kayo kasal
and we honor that because ako rin po Um
Alam ko na i am reserving myself for
that person who I know will love me
forever and Alam kong si Ruru Iyun Alam
kong Dadating kami doon that's true at
ah Sobrang nakaka nakaka-inspire But you
know As I look at you you remind me of
the young Selma ha You're Not The Only
Person marami na po kayong nagsasabi
Parang I remember someone Thank you po
tito Salamat po totoo parang ah Bianca
is so Hollywood and ruru kasi has been
there o ' ba Ruru is Hollywood Pero ito
um sabi nga ng mga kabataan ngayon
nag-iipon you're building Memories
you're building your core Memories Let's
talk about some of them funny sad Pero
lahat na lampasan lahat na tawanan ah
Let's talk about some of them ah
highlights sad moments etc in the last
six years Let's start with the first one
first year first year Sige Our first
year siguro medyo iba siya sa mga
pinagdaanan ng mga relationship kasi
usually pagka first year yan yung
honeymoon stage ' ba pero kami first
year namin is the struggles Actually
Tito sobrang hirap unang taon namin
actually hindi pa kami umaabot sa first
anniversary namin nagkaroon na kami ng
pagsubok agad M and Ito ba yung
nakakatawa
nakakatawa I mean Ito ba
yung ito yung um siguro Maraming
nakakaalam nitong pangyayari na to and
it was very controversial at nangyari
yun wala pa kaming isang taon ito
yung the controversial parking lot yun
nga yun nga yung sinasabi
ko ang description ko ito ba yung
nakakatawa pariwala po yung mga manonood
sige na parao boy Opo ito yung parking
lot controversy wala pa kaming one year
n that happened in the first year Yes in
the first year ah Siguro parang a month
before our anniversary Okay looking back
Anong leksyon looking back I mean 6
years later Now When you connect the
dots and when you remember that Alam ko
na napagtawanan No but uh what is that
lesson na natutunan ikaw SAS saakin
do ikaw ang sasagot ah biggest takeaway
Siguro yung pinaka matinding natutunan
ko dito is that nalaman ko kung ano
talaga yung Kahalagahan ni Bianca para
sa akin I'm not saying na Kinailangan pa
niyang mangyari para lang makita ko yung
Kahalagahan niya pero para siyang
blessing in this guise na para bang nung
nakita ko siyang nasaktan nung nakita ko
siyang umiiyak parang Part Of Me nadurog
eh at at sinabi ko si sarili ko na nga
ako sarili ko na hinding-hindi ko
nahayaan umiyak Ong babaeng too kahit
kailan
wow hearing that Bianca Ano ang reaksyon
6 years later Ang sarap sa puso akalan
ko sasabihin ang tapang ko Tito boyang
siya talaga hindi ko na po kailangan
i-st yon hindio you don't mess with
me okay Let's go to the second core
memory ang pangalawang taon ng relasyon
namin Tito Boy is Actually the
consequences of what happened in the
first year um so yyung second year namin
is actually that year na we were looking
and working on deciding whether we
wanted to choose and stay with each
other doon talaga namin nasukat Iyung
pagmamahal namin because ah to share
also Tita boy Naghiwalay kami for a
while Well hindi namin hindi niya
Hinayaan na hindi kami magkasama na
talagang mawalan kami ng communication
but the relationship became cold and so
parang I wasn't really reciprocating
every time He told me that he Loved Me
and also He was very apologetic sa kung
ano yung nagawa na mali and ako rin sa
totoo lang kahit na i was in pain hindi
ko rin kaya na mahiwalay sa kanya e but
that whole year after the first year yun
yyung tinatrabaho namin na at the end of
that year na-realize namin na sa hirap
at sa ginhawa kung ano man ang mali kung
ano man yung masakit at ah masaya sa mga
puso namin pinili namin na mag-stay
kasama ung isa't isa looking back you
took a few steps backward para magkaroon
ng mas magandang view Opo doon sa inyong
relasyon Minsan kailangan yun eh kasi '
ba pag sumiksik ka ng todo pag
ipinagpilitan mo lalo nag-aaway Yes oo
but Of course you don't realize that
when it is happening Yeah Pero I like
that kasi Iyung consequence nung first
year dito niyo Nasubukan and Hindi namin
siya nagre quat yun sa isa't isa we
respected each other's feelings na alam
kong nakasakit siya alam niyang nasaktan
ako and we were learning together still
throughout that process na he let me
heal and I know that he was healing as
well kasi alam kung nasaktan din niya
Iyung sarili niya and nasasaktan siya na
hindi ko napaparamdam sa kanya na may
tiwala ako sa kanya at mahal na mahal ko
siya the same way that he realized he
does for me yung language were you
discovering that yung parang Ah kaya ba
natin pag-usapan ito ng harapan kaya ba
ba nating ito you were discovering that
actually Tito Boy Syempre at first ah
Bianca Bianca kasi is very I don't know
hindi siya confrontational na tao ako
kasi sobrang Gusto ko ngayon pag pagka
nag-away tayo Pagka nagkaroon tayong ng
problema ayusin agad opposites kami Tito
super introvert super ex so second year
na discu niyo Yeah we realized na parang
Okay let's compromise na Minsan may mga
pagsubok o problema na hindi naman
kailangan agad-agad maayos eh pero
kailangan pa rin pag-usapan para hindi
siya mag brew inside you at sumabog ka
na lang eventually tama So yun natutunan
namin na constant communication yung
malaking bagay sa relationship para
maging okay at magkarinigan Let's do
fast pero kakaiba kailangan dah 6 years
na eh ' ba while we're doing this dapat
nagtititigan
kayo walang bitawan ha ang
titig para lang tatuan sige nga
Pakinggan niyo lang habang
sumasagot Sino po ang isasagot kayong
dalawa Depende like ruro But you know
you're just looking at each other titig
lang Okay 2
minutes Ako din kinikilig an our time
titig ha atang Susan bantayan Our Time
begins now ruro black Rider sweet lover
sweet lover lips to lips eye to eye Ruru
eye to eye cuddling kissing cuddling
Close Up full shot Close Up matigas ang
abs Matigas ang ulo Matigas ang abs
action hero bianca's hero bianca's hero
pinakagusto mo kay Bianca everything
pinakaayaw mo kay Bianca wala favorite
part ng mukha ni Bianca kiss
it Bianca diwata o Diyosa ang titig josa
Bianca Miss Independent o misinterpreted
Miss Independent yakap o matamis na
halik matamis na halik Bianca OA o
nonchalant nonal Bianca lola's girl rur
girl I'm both titig ni Ruru o halik ni
Ruru titig ni Ruru bianka kailan sweet
si Ruru arawaraw kailan pasaway si Ruru
araw-araw favorite part ng mukha ni Ruru
k for both guilty or Not Guilty ah
pinagselosan ang ex
Not Guilty Not Guilty guilty or Not
Guilty nag-away dahil sa
selos guilty guilty or Not Guilty
nag-away dahil sa time guilty guilty or
Not Guilty nagmake out sa sinihan Not
Guilty What a question guilty or not
guilty tumak ka sa taping para magdate
Not Guilty guilty or Not Guilty
pinakikialaman ng pamilya ang relasyon
Not Guilty guilty or Not Guilty
pinagbabawalan ng isa't isa makipag love
scene guilty huli huli niyung date saan
kagabi Nanood ng sine Hulong pinagawayan
ano
a isang araw pala
pinan
Naku
parang hindi lights on ang titig lights
on or lights
off lights
on happiness or
chocolate happiness happiness best time
for happiness
always Complete the sentence Mahal na
mahal kita dahil ang kasagutan niyan ang
pagpapatuloy ay magaganap po sa
pagbabalik ng fast talk with Boy
Aban and talk about running man at
imbitahan natin ang lahat para samahan
tayo sa running man ay ikaw muna ikaw
mauna ay mga kapuso Sana po a po rin
niung Mahalin ang Running Man
Philippines season 2 Ako po ay lalabas
diyaan for the very first time sa Korea
and ako excited akong ipakita sa inyo
kung ano ang ginawa ko nakasama ko si ha
o okay and how how was that feeling na
sumunod ka ' ba because you're G to make
it because of schedules grabe grabe
iyakan naming
lahat Syempre sobrang na-miss ko sila um
sobrang nalungkot din ako Tito Boy bago
sila lumipad papunta
dahil nagb watch ako ng episodes ng
Running Man nung season tapos naramdaman
ko bigla na grabe ba't wala ako doon na
fomo ako pero sobrang nag-enjoy kami
nung pagdating ko na doon sa Korea
samahan niyo po ah napapanood niyo na po
ang Running Man and of course you're
doing sangre Congratulations Maraming
salamat po Maraming sal yeah and of
course black Rider Yes black Rider yun
Maraming maraming salamat po sa lahat po
ng mga patuloy na sumusuporta at
nagmamahal sa black Rider sa Sabi ko nga
hindi siya madaling gawin pero sobrang
nagiging Worth It lalo na pagka
nakakatanggap po kami ng mga magandang
feedbacks mula po sa inyong mga manonood
let's go go ahead Gusto ko rin pong
batiin ang lahat po ng mga kapost at
encantadiks po na nag-aabang na po sa
aming proyekto ang Encantadia chronicle
sangre Malapit na po yan at hindi na po
kami makapaghintay na mapanood po ninyo
ang pinaghihirapan namin para sa Thank
you miss
Salma Miss Salma Punta pa tayo ah ng
ilang core Memories Let's go to a third
one Ano ang ah bibilangin natin third
ang pangatlong taon namin tit boy was
actually ano a blessing year yun po
Iyung taon
na na-convert po ako Oh to our religion
Ah yun po yyung ah Nung ako po ay
nagpa-convert actually hindi alam ni
Ruru Hindi po alam ng Family niya It was
a personal decision of Mine kasi that
was my Uh 20th birthday or 21st first
and then ah Inisip ko Tito Ano po ba ang
isang bagay na pwede kong iregalo sa
sarili ko na alam kong hindi mawawala sa
akin because Growing Up Tito Boy kahit
po yyung Mommy at daddy ko na mga tao na
wala po sa akin e and that hurt me very
much and so I thought of that and then
for some reason I was driving Sakto may
sinag ng araw and then I felt the
calling na siguro yung relasyon ko sa
AMA ang kailangan kong iregalo sa akin
at yun yung walang kahit na sino ang
makakakuha sa akin noun and so nagpatala
po ako and then hanggang sa malapit na
po ako mabautismuhan at nag-aral ako
doun po nalaman ni Ruru y you making me
cry pang-apat Ruru pang-apat ay yun na
yung ano natin um break ay hindi ito
Iyung parang learning ano namin learning
year Oo kasi syempre Yan po yung it was
the first time Actually na nagtatrabaho
kami nung fourth year the one um
napakarami naming natutunan not just sa
relationship but also sa careers namin
mas Nakita namin yung business mas
nakita namin kung papaano ba ah
magtatagal sa ganitong klaseng
industriya So yun Yun po yyung mga
natutunan namin sa fourth year sobrang
dami pong um realization learning a year
of Learning and growth Ganda panglima
yyung fifth year namin finally is
Actually our breakthrough year which is
this past year this year um Ito po yung
nangyari na finally ang black Rider
lolong ako po ah nagawa ko yung aking
pelikula na mananambal And now I got
Encantadia chronical sangre with me and
napakasarap po sa puso kasi kami ni Ruru
magkasama man kami or hindi alam po
namin na We both are thriving in our
personal lives and Our personal careers
and what we love about that is Hindi po
namin napag-iiwanan yung relasyon namin
Oo the funniest core memory panganim
when back pag naalala niyo nakakatawa
Ah ang hirap mamili ng isa lang eh
parang Top Of Mind the funniest yung
kinausap ka na lang ni mama
nak sabi saakin parang it sa first time
pinagdrive ko yung lola niya and then
sabi saakin ng lola niya ah Ru Ah si
Bianca ganyan lang yan ah pero mabait
yan at mahal na mahal ka niyan k
sinasabi niya
masungit
mataray pero alam niyang mabait yan at
mahal na mahal Kinabahan siya non Tita
boy kasi that was the first time na
nag-bonding sila Silang dalawa lang he
had to bring my lola home from our
cousin's house so Sabi ko sige ikaw na
yan para magkasama kayo to's sabi ba
naman sa kanya intindihin mo na lang si
Bianca
bakit intindihin mo lang ganyan lang yan
pero mabait yan
that was funny halimbawa lamang ito
hypothetical po ito no ah right now
right as his very moment if he if he
proposes
marriage Anong isasagot mo alam naman na
po niyo yan gusto namin marinig yes
yes yes yes ' ba and because of that but
of course that's hypothetical Maraming
maraming salamat salamat po thank you so
much Maraming maraming salamat mahalaga
kayo sa amin mahalagang mahalaga
Maraming maraming salamat mabuhay O
ngayon handa na tayo Let's make our
Vow Wait lang po but Congratulations I'm
just so happy for the both of you God
bless you Maraming maraming salamat
You're very very You're a very big part
of the show salamat Thank you Salamat po
ng marami n kapuso We love you Maraming
salamat po sa inyong pagpapatuloy sa
amin sa inyong mga tahanan at puso
suportahan po natin si ruro at saka si
Bianca and be kind make n and proud and
lol and LOL proud and hash say thank you
do one good thing A day and make this
world a better place Goodbye for now God
bless
[Musika]
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