9 School/College Popularity Hacks that YOU MUST KNOW ft. Niharika NM | The Ranveer Show
Summary
TLDRThis video offers nine tips to become popular in college, emphasizing the importance of being nice, networking, and maintaining a balance between being rebellious and respectful. It advises against being cheap, encourages participation in college activities for the experience rather than just for the resume, and promotes being original. The video also stresses the value of standing up for what's right, not judging others for their choices, and finding a group that aligns with your comfort and values.
Takeaways
- π Be nice: The power of being nice is underestimated; it makes you approachable and welcoming.
- π Network effectively: Introduce people to each other to become a focal point for conversation and boost your popularity.
- π€ Overcome insecurities: To be popular, you must be the first to initiate conversations and interactions.
- π Smell nice: Good personal hygiene and a pleasant scent can enhance first impressions and social interactions.
- π« Avoid rebellion without a cause: Find a balance between being rebellious and respectful to maintain a good reputation.
- πΈ Don't be cheap: Being stingy can damage friendships and your social standing; share expenses and don't borrow without repaying.
- π£ Stand up for what's right: Use your popularity to stand up for ethical behavior and support those who need it.
- π Participate in college activities: Engage in college events and committees for the experience, not just for resume building.
- π Don't judge: Refrain from judging others for their personal choices like drinking or smoking; find your own comfort zone.
- π Be original: Embrace your individuality and be authentic; don't conform to others' expectations at the expense of your true self.
Q & A
What is the first step to becoming popular in college, according to the video?
-The first step to becoming popular in college is to be nice. Being approachable and kind makes people gravitate towards you, as they feel welcomed and comfortable around you.
Why is networking important for popularity in college?
-Networking helps you become a focal point for conversation. By introducing people to each other and being sociable, you can put your identity out there and create meaningful connections.
What advice do they give about overcoming insecurities when introducing yourself?
-The video suggests that everyone is insecure to some degree, and overcoming your own insecurities by being the first to introduce yourself can give you an advantage. Most people appreciate the gesture, as they are likely in the same insecure situation.
Why is personal hygiene, like smelling good, emphasized in the video?
-Smelling good is important because it leaves a positive impression on others. If you smell nice, people are more likely to enjoy being around you, whereas bad hygiene can make people avoid interacting with you.
What do the speakers say about trying to act like a 'bad boy' in college?
-They advise against acting like a 'bad boy' or trying to pick fights with teachers and students to gain popularity. They suggest finding a balance between being rebellious and respectful.
Why is it important to avoid being stingy with money in college?
-Being stingy can ruin friendships and your vibe in college. They emphasize not going out for meals you can't afford, paying back borrowed money, and sharing the cost when splitting bills.
How do they suggest standing up for yourself and others in college?
-The video encourages standing up for things when they are wrong, even if it's unpopular. If you feel something is ethically incorrect, you should express your opinion and stand by what you believe is right.
What is the benefit of participating in college events or committees?
-Participating in college events or committees helps you connect with like-minded people and become part of something bigger. It also helps you network and make friends with shared interests.
What is their advice regarding peer pressure around smoking, drinking, or other habits in college?
-They advise not to judge others for their personal choices and not to succumb to peer pressure. If you're not comfortable with certain behaviors, like smoking or drinking, find a group that aligns with your values.
What is the final piece of advice given for life and college popularity?
-The final piece of advice is to be original and authentic. They encourage viewers to be their own superhero and embrace their true selves, as that is key to success and popularity.
Outlines
π Becoming Popular in College
The video discusses strategies for becoming popular in college, emphasizing the importance of being nice as a fundamental life rule that enhances college popularity. The speaker suggests that being nice makes one approachable and welcoming, which naturally draws people. They also mention overcoming initial insecurities to initiate conversations, which can give one an upper hand in social interactions. The video also touches on the value of networking and introducing people to each other, positioning oneself as a focal point for conversations. It advises against forcing interactions on those who are not receptive, advocating for finding one's own crowd and being genuine in social approaches.
π€ Balancing Rebelliousness and Respect
This paragraph delves into the balance between being rebellious and maintaining respect in a college setting. It warns against being overly confrontational or disrespectful towards teachers, which can lead to social isolation. The speaker shares personal anecdotes about classmates who were too obedient or too rebellious, illustrating the negative impact on social dynamics. The advice is to find a middle ground, being neither a 'chump' nor a troublemaker. The importance of being part of a friend group and not being stingy is also highlighted, as it can significantly affect one's popularity and social life in college. The speaker provides golden rules for financial interactions within friend groups, such as not borrowing money without repaying it and sharing expenses fairly.
π« Avoiding Judgment and Being Original
The final paragraph addresses the importance of not judging others for their personal choices, such as smoking or drinking, which are common in college environments. It encourages viewers to find their own group where they feel comfortable rather than trying to fit into a group with habits they disapprove of. The video concludes with the advice to be original and authentic, not just conforming to what is expected for the sake of popularity or resume building. It emphasizes the importance of participating in college activities for the experience and personal growth, rather than for superficial gains. The speaker also reminds viewers to be true to themselves and to stand up for what they believe in, even if it's unpopular.
Mindmap
Keywords
π‘Popularity
π‘Networking
π‘Insecurities
π‘Personal Hygiene
π‘Rebellion
π‘Friend Group
π‘Ethics
π‘Participation
π‘Judgment
π‘Originality
Highlights
Being nice is a key to popularity in college as it makes you approachable and welcoming.
Introducing yourself to others can make you a focal point for conversation and boost your popularity.
Overcoming initial insecurities can give you the upper hand in social interactions.
It's important to be conscious of personal hygiene and how you smell to others.
Avoid being overly rebellious or constantly causing trouble, which can negatively impact your popularity.
Find a balance between being rebellious and being a good student to maintain a positive image.
Don't be stingy or cheap; it can ruin friendships and your popularity in college.
Standing up for what's right, even if it's unpopular, can earn you respect and popularity.
Participate in college activities and events to be part of a community and gain popularity.
Avoid doing activities solely for the sake of adding them to your resume; do them for the experience.
Don't judge others for their personal choices such as drinking or smoking; instead, find your own group.
Being original and authentic is crucial for long-term popularity and personal satisfaction.
Don't force your introductions on anyone; let natural connections form.
Carry a good perfume or maintain freshness to make a positive first impression.
Don't be overly attached to teachers to the extent that your peers dislike you.
Sharing expenses and bills is important when socializing with friends to maintain good relationships.
Having an opinion and standing up for it can make you popular if done respectfully.
Participate in college fests and events not just for the CV but for the experience and enjoyment.
Avoid being judgmental about others' habits; instead, focus on finding a group that aligns with your comfort.
Transcripts
it was good everybody issue boiling v's
and I'll be a biceps today we've got no
Hanukkah a.m. yeah so girl what are we
talking about in today's video boy okay
so we're talking about how to be popular
in college cuz our pops kids these are
our nine dot points to becoming the most
popular kid in college with one of the
most popular kids in Banglore and one of
the most formally popular kids in Bombay
so yeah and myself okay step number one
which is also a general life rule but
especially a college popularity rule is
to be nice people usually underestimate
the power of being nice I feel like the
nicer you are the more people gravitate
towards you because you're so welcoming
and open and you're just nice with a
smile on your face and people want to
wake up to that you know not like a kind
of a face so nice of you are you're
easily accessible you're easily
approachable early on college if you
like people are super afraid of how they
perceived ya if they see a nice sweet
positive person they automatically get
drawn okay because we're so insecure
about ourselves but the thing is
everybody is so if you overcome that but
not that moment of insecurity and like
you know be the first person to talk you
have like the upper hand you don't like
you make that comfortable with you
because you're so nice yeah you're so
nice that's why we became friends yeah
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okay tip number two which is also a life
rule all about the networking life baby
I'm Raul non-personal God see I feel
like one key to popularity you and key
to putting your own identity out there
is becoming like a focal point for
conversation so if you're a person who
introduces people to each other you
become the focal point of conversation
yeah which is like a hack to college
popularity so the key is to just go up
to people and basically introduce
yourself yeah like I'm not whatever your
name is how do you could use my name and
ask them to subscribe
oh yeah okay no but Cece let's talk
about introducing people or people
afraid of introducing themselves to
other people because again if I wonder
insecurities yeah yeah yourself but the
thing is we're so terrified of being
terrified we forget that the other
person is in the same situation here's
the thing if you're feeling horrible so
it's the other person so just doing like
most people appreciate it and I know
you'll appreciate it everybody
appreciates it
I mean like yeah maybe like not that
auntie like next door that doesn't like
you but but there is you know that one
of college kid who doesn't really want
to make friends so what advice you have
for people who encounter people like
that they don't deserve you boo do you
play Queen we all say yeah so if you do
encounter than one person I feel it's
not really good I don't force your
introductions on anyone yeah they don't
want to talk to you they're not worth it
yeah you don't have to force yourself on
anybody you will find your cloud you
will wipe with a certain crowd so follow
the wipe yeah
but initially in your college life make
it a habit to introduce yourself
confidently to people yes
so also speaking about confident
introductions let's talk about crucial
factor when you first encounter other
people you got to smell nice oh that
transition though no for real
what do you think of people who come up
and start speaking to you and then the
mouth and the pet smell like
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flowers will stray yeah I feel like that
something people don't realize usually
so it's not and I know you can't be like
hey your mouth stinks why don't you wash
it but so you could be conscious of how
you smell or have your breath smells so
that you don't have to put somebody else
in your body like yeah what do you do
yeah exactly so when somebody walks past
you you want to go like damn son not
like damn it's the same word though but
it's like a different tone so you want
to get the first one
that's what something like a good
perfume what a good deal also does for
you yeah it sets your outward to one
right like an you ain't no conversation
people can like smell your freshness
yeah exactly it's like when somebody
makes biryani at home and you're just
like wow you want to smell like that
yeah
not like vidyaranya smelling you get the
point you want to smell like the do
drinks that'd be a biceps recommended
that is a deodorant video okay I wasn't
sponsored though all right the next
point that we've gotta address is kids
trying to be a lot like Shahrukh Khan in
coach Kota you know being like that bad
boy that rebel like going up and just
trying to pick up fights yeah like the
teachers of the students hi hi
forget the students friend let's just
focus on the teachers yeah don't be that
one kid who just you know picks up like
fungi's with like okay let's dress make
fun of the teacher like point out that
they're wrong yeah I get it it's cool to
be like a battle and everything but
there's a limit yeah like you don't
wanna be on the opposite end of the
spectrum you like you know just stay in
the gray area guys the gray area is the
safest yeah and we play safe find a
balance yeah but that's also the next
point comes into play great to kind of
be rebellious but it's never great to be
a good boy or a good girl all the time
don't be a chump cheat just don't suck
after teachers so much that your peers
hate you don't be that kid who skips on
the mass bunks at the entire class
doesn't see ya okay oh my god I have so
much to say about this so I have I'm an
engineering student right so I go to
college and I have this one kid in my
class that would refuse to bunk no
matter what like even if like the
tsunami is ending the
right now he will sit in class at 9:00
a.m. sharp so we begged him to like you
know bunk class and he just like doesn't
so we like fall on his feet like some
money times on mark please homicide and
he'll hide me on the stack is to be all
even then he goes and sits in class and
we lose attendance that's like the
fastest way to kill off your own college
yeah so just don't be that guy yeah for
your own sake Oh God
so they like boil it down to one
sentence just find a balance with how
you find teachers it's like a seesaw
yeah
just okay now let's talk about vibing
with your friends your friend group this
is one of the most important points that
you hear when it comes to college life
don't be stingy don't be cheap yes this
is a wandering that ruins friendships
ruins your own vibe in college ruins
your popularity I've got a few golden
rules let me just throw them down
straight away okay rule number one right
now is not being cheap is that don't go
and have meals that you can't pay for if
you go out for lunch with your friends
on first of all you go to places that
you yourself can afford secondly don't
be the person who borrows money from
people and then doesn't pay it back
thank you finish people to ask you for
the money make it awkward for those
people and the third golden rule is that
you know if you're sharing a cab with
someone or it's a shake a pizza with
someone don't be that person walks away
from the camera in it yes the time the
food you sharing all of that with
someone share the bill with not someone
you know but if somebody's paying for
you they're only doing that so they
don't seem rude you just want to be nice
to you doesn't mean you take advantage
of them yeah see I get I get that in
college you know you don't have a lot of
pocket money all that everyone's out
there to kind of save money a little bit
but that doesn't mean you come off as
cheap it's not you have to save that
much money so cool to be that cheap yeah
and don't steal okay next point super
easy be that person who stands up for
things when they're going wrong like if
you're in a group or someone's being
cheap even if it's your friends stand up
and say yo you can't do this [Β __Β ] yeah
so essentially it's okay to have an
opinion like it's okay to have an
unpopular opinion you know because if
you want to be popular if you are
popular why don't you use that to stand
up for what's right I stand up a
who needs you to be there for them what
means anybody for a clear Mandelson like
I feel like again if you feel that
something's going on that's not
according to your own fps sign up for
express your Canyon you might think that
you know people won't appreciate it but
you'd be surprised to know that if you
think that something is ethically not
correct yeah a lot of other people are
gonna be arriving on the same like yeah
exactly so believe in what you think is
right so basically if you feel that
something's going on that's against your
own ethics makes you express yourself
which also brings us to the next point
which is take part in something yeah but
this I mean obviously all this
committees and yes college fest that
every college has don't be obsessed with
it be a part of it and if you don't be
part of it be a part of parties at least
me apart of something bigger than just
you you know be a part of some group or
be a part of like some thing yeah except
like drugs don't do drugs
yes so you know like my dance with it be
a part of s but don't be that fest kid
that you know goes around telling people
to become a part of the subcommittee
you're going to those first ears and ya
know I basically do your own thing I
mean if your own thing is being annoying
than you do Union also bonus point not
later College popularity but don't just
do those fests and all for your CV do it
for the experience yeah oh my god yeah
do literally everything that they do for
like your resume track of me it it's not
worth it yeah and he doesn't really even
matter that was on your resume look at
your potential employers not even ask
you did you were you part of this fest
yeah dance you did Oh Paula Judea okay
how many Bank don't see what that's not
gonna happen you know so everything
doesn't have to have an ulterior motives
I know just do things because you want
to do them and it's much easier to kind
of get to know people have these fest so
these are these getting to know people
at cat exactly so if you're doing
something you like you have people who
share the same interests around you so
therefore
to do something you're gonna have people
you don't like so just do you yeah and
speaking about doing yourself let's talk
about the ninth point doing yourself you
might come across drinkers at college
you might come across stoners and
smokers at college don't be the person
who judges people for their choices so a
lot of 1718 your rules have this kind of
vibe where they think that you know
smoking drinking or like the worst
things in the world and they see someone
smoking or drinking they automatically
think that that that's a bad person yeah
either that or the other extreme is just
wanting to do it because somebody not
we're not saying that you go out and
drink oh yeah you and you don't yeah if
you don't want to yeah but what we are
saying is that that person's health is
in their hands it's not for you to judge
it's not for you to make their decisions
yeah so you don't want to do it don't do
it
obviously stay away from drugs stay away
from smoking do minimal drinking come on
let's be realistic most college kids in
India today drink you can't control
every situation that you're a part of
you can only control how you respond to
it or react to it so if you would think
you don't wanna be a part of that
specific group because of their habits
or their personal choices then find your
own group that makes you feel
comfortable you know and bonus point not
just for college life but for life in
general coming from this in America and
MBO biceps collab is BSF be original
yeah be your own superhero yeah all
right how's the video for today make
sure you check out Niharika & M's
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