Orang Beriman Bisa Dilihat Bagaimana Lisannya - Ustadz Adi Hidayat
Summary
TLDRThe speaker emphasizes how faith (iman) guides individuals to do good in life by controlling their actions and thoughts. Through examples from the Quran, such as Surah An-Nur and Al-Hujurat, they explain how faith trains the eyes, tongue, and behavior to avoid immoral acts and words. The speaker also highlights the importance of learning from Islamic history, particularly from the Prophet's descendants like Al-Hasan, who embodied the Prophet's character. The core message focuses on nurturing strong faith to maintain purity in both speech and actions, even in challenging situations.
Takeaways
- 🙏 Faith is the driving force that encourages people to do good in life, shaping their actions and behaviors.
- 👂 Believers are encouraged to see, hear, and speak only good things, as instructed by religious teachings.
- 📖 The Quran provides guidance, such as Surah An-Nur 24:30 for men and 24:31 for women, to train faith and guard physical senses like sight.
- 👁️ Strong faith helps individuals control their gaze, turning away from things that should not be seen, and encourages modesty.
- 🧠 Faith sets a standard of behavior for believers, dictating what is appropriate and what is not.
- 🧥 For those without faith, clothing standards may differ, and they might view immodest attire as normal.
- 🤲 Faith plays a role in every action, such as turning away from inappropriate images or content, guided by inner morality.
- 🗣️ A person with strong faith will naturally avoid using foul language and will find it difficult to speak negatively.
- 💬 Historical examples, like Al-Hasan, the Prophet's grandson, show that the most righteous people speak softly and avoid harsh words.
- 🤐 Those with deep faith struggle to find words to retaliate when insulted, fearing that even a defense might hurt others.
Q & A
What is the significance of faith (iman) in the actions of a believer according to the speaker?
-Faith guides a believer to perform good deeds in life, such as seeing, hearing, and speaking what is right. It acts as a moral compass for proper behavior.
How does the Quran guide men and women differently in terms of behavior and modesty?
-The Quran, specifically Surah An-Nur verse 30 for men and verse 31 for women, instructs both genders on modest behavior, encouraging them to avert their gaze from inappropriate sights and uphold standards of modesty.
What does the speaker mean by 'faith transmitting through the physical body'?
-The speaker suggests that strong faith influences the physical senses, guiding the eyes to see what is good and the mouth to speak kindly. Faith acts as a filter for moral and ethical behavior.
How does faith affect a believer's response to inappropriate clothing or immodesty?
-For believers, faith teaches them to turn away from immodesty and improper behavior. In contrast, those without faith may not perceive the same standards of modesty.
Why do believers have different standards of modesty compared to non-believers?
-Believers are guided by the standards set by faith (iman), which dictate what is appropriate to see or wear. Non-believers may not follow the same guidelines because they lack this faith.
What is the Quran's guidance for maintaining proper speech according to the speaker?
-The Quran, in Surah Al-Hujurat verses 11-12, teaches that the stronger the faith, the better one's speech will be, as it reflects the goodness in one's heart.
How does faith influence the use of language and vocabulary?
-A person with strong faith tends to avoid using offensive or inappropriate language, as their heart is filled with goodness, making it difficult to use harmful words.
Who is Al-Hasan, and why is he significant in the context of the speaker's message?
-Al-Hasan is the grandson of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) and is considered a person whose behavior and appearance closely resembled that of the Prophet. His soft-spoken nature and wisdom are highlighted as examples for believers.
How did Al-Hasan respond to insults, and what lesson does this teach?
-When insulted, Al-Hasan chose not to respond harshly because he could not find words in his heart that would not cause harm, even to his offender. This teaches restraint and compassion in the face of conflict.
What is the significance of avoiding harsh speech, even towards those who wrong us?
-The speaker emphasizes that avoiding harsh speech, even when provoked, is an act of faith. Responding with kindness prevents further harm and aligns with the moral teachings of Islam.
Outlines
🙏 The Power of Faith and How It Guides Behavior
The speaker discusses how faith (iman) influences and guides various aspects of human behavior. Faith strengthens one's ability to discern and act in a righteous manner. For instance, faith controls the eye, ensuring that it only looks at what is permissible and avoids improper sights, based on Quranic teachings (Surah 24:30 for men and 24:31 for women). The speaker elaborates that those with strong faith instinctively turn away from inappropriate things, while those without faith lack such moral boundaries. Faith also governs speech, encouraging individuals to use kind and respectful language, particularly when one's heart is filled with goodness. Additionally, examples from Islamic history, like the life of Al-Hasan, the Prophet's grandson, illustrate how a person with faith conducts themselves with utmost moral integrity, even in challenging situations.
🤝 Restraint in Speech and Emotional Discipline
This section highlights the importance of controlling one’s speech and emotions, especially when wronged or insulted. The speaker shares a historical story about Al-Hasan and his remarkable patience when facing insults. Despite being provoked, he avoided responding with harsh words, fearing that his reply might hurt the other person. The speaker emphasizes that engaging in mutual insults only leads to a cycle of negativity. Instead, a person with a strong heart and faith refrains from retaliating, as they are unable to find hurtful words within themselves. This emotional discipline demonstrates a high moral standard, where the individual prioritizes the well-being of others, even those who cause harm.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Iman
💡Cahaya (An-Nur)
💡Aurat
💡Lisān
💡Al-Hasan
💡Fitnah Kubra
💡Pandangan Iman
💡Hati
💡Astagfirullah
💡Kosakata Kotor
Highlights
The importance of faith as a guiding principle for doing good in life, with instructions to see, hear, and speak what is good.
Faith helps individuals avoid inappropriate sights by guiding the physical senses to reject what is improper.
Surah An-Nur (Quran, 24:30-31) emphasizes the role of faith in protecting men's and women's eyes from seeing what is inappropriate.
Faith has a 'transmission wave' that enters through the body, guiding actions such as turning one's eyes away from unworthy sights.
Iman (faith) becomes a standard for deciding what can and cannot be viewed or done in the context of modesty and behavior.
The influence of faith on behavior, particularly how those without faith may view clothing and modesty differently than those with strong faith.
Faith acts as a protective measure, automatically guiding a believer to avert their eyes from indecent images or actions.
The connection between faith and vocabulary: The stronger one's faith, the more refined and pure their speech becomes.
Reference to Quran surah 49 (Al-Hujurat), verses 11-12, emphasizing how higher faith leads to better, more positive vocabulary.
Al Hasan, the grandson of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), is mentioned as an example of someone who had impeccable behavior and speech.
The importance of understanding Islamic history through figures like Al Hasan, who had behavior and a face that closely resembled the Prophet.
Al Hasan's restraint in the face of insults, as he was unable to find words to retaliate, fearing that any response could hurt the offender.
The idea that when someone with a pure heart tries to respond to an insult, they struggle because their heart lacks the vocabulary for malice.
Al Hasan’s example of avoiding verbal retaliation teaches the concept of not lowering oneself to the level of those who insult.
The principle of not engaging in mutual insults, as this only results in mutual degradation.
Transcripts
[Musik]
dorongan dari iman itu yang memberikan
kepada kita perintah untuk berbuat baik
dalam kehidupan
maka diminta melihat yang baik telinga
mendengar yang baik mulut berkata yang
baik itu ada nanti ayat yang di Quran
makanya ngajinya yang total
misal mata nih Quran surah 24 surat
cahaya an-nur ayat 30 untuk laki-laki
ayat 31 untuk perempuan kalau imannya
dilatih dengan kuat nanti iman itu punya
transmisi gelombang masuk lewat fisik
kita dibimbing fisik untuk melihat masuk
ke mata melihat
sampaikan katakan Muhammad Shallallahu
Alaihi Wasallam kepada setiap Insan
Beriman tuh yang ada imannya
iman itu masuk ke dalam mata maka Iman
akan menjaga mata supaya melihat yang
baik-baik saja yang tak layak dilihat
Iman akan berkata palingkan
makanya mata itu punya pandangan standar
Iman punya pandangan standar yang bukan
nerima
sehingga nampak bagi kita ukuran Coba
kalau kita beriman itu kan pakaian itu
Nggak semuanya bisa dilihat
apa Bu Nggak semua bisa dilihat bagi
orang yang tidak beriman pakaian
terhormat itu banyak ragamnya
aurat terbuka pun mungkin biasa karena
nggak ada Iman bagi orang beriman tidak
imannya mengatakan palingkan itu
dilarang ada batas yang harus dilihat
Jadi kalau di tempat lain tertentu
misalnya ada yang mengatakan itu biasa
saja itu pakaian terhormat untuk mereka
Iya karena nggak ada imannya bagi orang
beriman itu standarnya Apa standar iman
itu yang menentukan hubungan kita dengan
Allah
makanya ada aturan dan ada hikmah di
dalamnya
Coba kalau antum lihat tayangan-tayangan
misalnya lihat gambar di YouTube
Ada Ada terbuka aurat
iman itu pasti otomatis bekerja
kalau imannya kuat palingkan
tangga berpaling Astagfirullah
demikian masuk ke lisan juga begitu Itu
imannya dulu sebelum lisannya
ya Quran surah 49 al-hujurat ayat 11
sampai 12 ya
semakin tinggi imannya semakin baik
kosakatanya karena isi hatinya baik
semua
kalau sudah menemukan yang baik itu
susah mencari kosakata yang kotor
Al Hasan cucu nabi tahu
kalau kenal mungkin nggak kenal Tapi
nggak tahu Itu nggak mungkin itu
cucu Nabi Al Hasan dan Al Hasan pernah
dengar ya
kami di pesantren itu
membuka
ruang tunggu ada dua kanan dan kiri di
pesantren yang sedang kita bangun kami
berikan namanya dua cucu Nabi Al Hasan
dan
setiap tempat ada bangunannya di situ
ada edukasinya Kenapa dinamakan Al Hasan
di situ ada sejarahnya siapa beliau dan
sebagainya dan seterusnya Al Hasan itu
punya anak
kalau ingin melihat perilaku yang paling
mirip dengan nabi itu Al Hasan
kalau ingin melihat wajah yang paling
mirip dengan Rasulullah SAW itu
Makanya belajar sejarah bagaimana
akhlaknya Al Hasan Ibnu Alif
radhiyallahu Ta'ala
belajar sejarah
itu diantara yang paling dekat dengan
Alquran
yang lisannya paling lembut
jadi sedang jalan dengan anaknya di masa
sedang jalan
kan ada satu masa fitnah kubra itu ada
fitnah yang sangat besar
sampai orang berani mencaci maki cucunya
nabi
dan itu terkena orang sholeh
beliau
anaknya berkata kepada ayahnya
Kenapa nggak dijawab maksudnya nggak
diklarifikasi
demikian Apa jawabnya
Bapak tuh nggak tahu cara jawabnya
bagaimana
sebab nyari kata-kata yang untuk
membalas itu itu nggak menemukan dalam
hatinya dikhawatirkan takut menyakiti
orang yang menyakitinya
itu yang sering saya katakan mencela
yang sudah tercela itu buang-buang Ini
lagi kalau sama-sama mencela Ya
sama-sama kotor kan beliau itu mencari
ke dalam hatinya sampai nggak menemukan
kata-kata kotor atau sekedar untuk
mengatakan saya tidak seperti yang anda
sampaikan karena khawatir kalimat itu
justru menyakiti orang yang sedang
menyakitinya
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