Know Your Personality: Melancholic Temperament

Cherry Durante
4 Jun 202011:39

Summary

TLDRThis video explores the four temperaments—sanguine, choleric, melancholic, and phlegmatic—focusing on the melancholic personality. It explains how melancholics are analytical, self-sacrificing, creative perfectionists with deep emotional sensitivity. Despite their introverted nature, they are loyal, detail-oriented, and disciplined. However, they struggle with pessimism, mood swings, and self-criticism, which can lead to feelings of inadequacy. The video highlights their strengths, weaknesses, and specific habits in areas such as friendships, work, and daily routines, offering insights into their unique characteristics.

Takeaways

  • 🧠 The theory of the four temperaments (sanguine, choleric, melancholic, and phlegmatic) explains differences in people's tastes, creative capabilities, strengths, and weaknesses.
  • 🎨 Melancholics are analytical, self-sacrificing, and perfectionists with a sensitive emotional nature, often enjoying the Fine Arts.
  • 🤔 Melancholics are introverted but can act extroverted during high moods, yet can become withdrawn and antagonistic during low moods.
  • 🤝 They are faithful and loyal friends, making friends slowly but maintaining strong, long-lasting relationships.
  • 🕵️‍♂️ Melancholics are analytical and excel at behind-the-scenes tasks, often choosing vocations that allow them to contribute to the betterment of others.
  • 🎶 Creative melancholics are often found in fields such as music, art, and athletics, with a higher percentage of geniuses among them compared to other temperaments.
  • 💡 They are emotionally responsive and use their emotions to drive reflective thinking, leading to competence in various fields.
  • 🔍 Perfectionist tendencies in melancholics lead to high standards and a meticulous approach to work, often exceeding expectations.
  • 🌧️ Melancholics can be pessimistic, with their first reactions often being negative, and they may struggle with self-confidence and self-esteem.
  • 🌀 Mood swings are a prominent characteristic, with melancholics experiencing both high and low moods that can make them irritable and prone to depression.
  • 🛒 As shoppers, melancholics are deliberate and decisive, often comparing prices and quality carefully before making a purchase.

Q & A

  • What is the theory of the four temperaments mentioned in the video?

    -The theory of the four temperaments categorizes people into four basic personality types: sanguine, choleric, melancholic, and phlegmatic. It explains differences in behavior, preferences, strengths, weaknesses, and why some people conflict or attract others.

  • How does the video describe melancholic individuals?

    -Melancholic individuals are described as analytical, self-sacrificing, detail-oriented perfectionists with a sensitive emotional nature. They tend to be introverted but can experience varying moods that affect their behavior.

  • What are some of the strengths of melancholic individuals?

    -Melancholic individuals are loyal, analytical, creative, and competent. They are faithful friends, finish tasks thoroughly, and often excel in creative fields such as music and art. Their perfectionism drives them to set high standards for themselves and their work.

  • What is a key weakness of melancholic people according to the video?

    -A key weakness of melancholic people is their tendency towards pessimism. They often react negatively to new ideas, overanalyze problems, and struggle with self-criticism, which can lead to low self-esteem.

  • How do melancholic individuals handle social relationships?

    -Melancholic individuals do not make friends easily, preferring to let others approach them. However, they are extremely loyal to their small circle of friends, maintaining lifelong relationships.

  • What are some of the behaviors of melancholic individuals when they are in a low mood?

    -When melancholic individuals are in a low mood, they can become withdrawn, irritable, and antagonistic. They may experience feelings of unworthiness and even fall into depression. These mood swings make them vulnerable to prolonged anger and revengeful thinking.

  • How do melancholic people approach work and tasks?

    -Melancholic people are detail-oriented, perfectionistic, and self-disciplined. They prefer behind-the-scenes tasks and will work tirelessly to meet deadlines and achieve high standards. They rarely seek recognition but take pride in completing tasks thoroughly.

  • How does the video describe melancholic people's eating habits?

    -Melancholic individuals are picky eaters who take a long time to decide what to eat. They tend to be loyal to specific foods or restaurants and often prefer detailed preparation before eating or traveling.

  • What are the study habits of melancholic individuals?

    -Melancholic individuals are generally good students who enjoy learning. They have inquisitive minds and a strong appetite for reading. Their keen memory and attention to detail make them good spellers and help them retain large amounts of information.

  • What are melancholic parents like, according to the video?

    -Melancholic parents have high, often unrealistic expectations and tend to be strict. They may not praise their children easily, expecting high academic achievements, and have a tendency to bring up past mistakes. However, they have a great capacity to love, even though they may struggle to express it.

Outlines

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🧠 Understanding Human Temperaments

This paragraph introduces the concept of the four temperaments—sanguine, choleric, melancholic, and phlegmatic—and explains their impact on people's behaviors, preferences, strengths, and weaknesses. It highlights how different temperaments can cause individuals from the same background to react differently to events. The paragraph specifically focuses on the melancholic temperament, describing it as analytical, self-sacrificing, and perfectionist, with a sensitive emotional nature. Melancholics are introverted but can occasionally act extroverted depending on their mood swings. The segment also outlines the strengths of melancholics, such as their loyalty, analytical ability, creativity, competence, and self-discipline.

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📉 Weaknesses and Unique Traits of Melancholics

This paragraph explores the weaknesses of melancholic individuals, such as their tendency toward pessimism, moodiness, and perfectionism. They are often critical and suspicious of others, and their high standards can make them difficult to please. Melancholics are prone to mood swings, experiencing periods of gloom and irritability that can lead to depression. The paragraph also describes specific habits, like their picky eating, methodical driving, and deliberate shopping patterns. Melancholics are portrayed as careful and thorough in all aspects, whether it's deciding on a meal or managing finances.

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🎵 Melancholics in Everyday Life

This paragraph describes various everyday habits and preferences of melancholics. It mentions their meticulous study habits, where they tend to excel due to their inquisitive minds and attention to detail. Melancholic parents often have high, sometimes unrealistic expectations, and they struggle to express approval, often repeating their children's mistakes. The paragraph ends by inviting viewers to share their thoughts and subscribe to the channel for more content.

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Keywords

💡Temperament

A temperament refers to a person's natural disposition or personality type. The video focuses on the four basic temperaments (sanguine, choleric, melancholic, and phlegmatic) to explain differences in behavior and reactions. It’s a central concept, as the video elaborates on how these temperaments shape individuals' interactions, tastes, and emotional responses.

💡Melancholic

The melancholic temperament is one of the four personality types discussed in the video. Melancholics are described as analytical, perfectionistic, and emotionally sensitive. They are introverted by nature and experience a range of moods. The video provides examples of melancholics' strengths, like loyalty and creativity, as well as their weaknesses, such as moodiness and perfectionism.

💡Introvert

An introvert is a person who tends to be more focused on internal thoughts and feelings rather than external stimuli. The melancholic temperament, which is highlighted in the video, is characterized as introverted, meaning melancholics often prefer solitude and reflection over socializing. This trait influences their behavior and emotional responses in various scenarios.

💡Perfectionism

Perfectionism refers to a person’s drive to achieve flawless results and set exceptionally high standards for themselves and others. In the video, melancholics are identified as perfectionists who hold themselves and their work to very high levels of excellence. This trait leads them to produce detailed and thorough work but can also cause frustration and dissatisfaction when those standards aren’t met.

💡Mood swings

Mood swings refer to rapid changes in a person’s emotional state, often moving from high spirits to feelings of depression. In the context of the video, melancholics are prone to such swings due to their sensitive and introspective nature. Their moods can fluctuate based on internal reflection, making them feel cheerful at times and deeply withdrawn at others.

💡Loyalty

Loyalty is the quality of being faithful and supportive to people or causes. The video describes melancholics as highly loyal individuals, especially when it comes to friendships. They may not make friends easily, but when they do, they are committed for life. This loyalty extends to their work ethic and personal relationships.

💡Analytical

Being analytical involves the ability to think deeply, assess details, and diagnose problems. Melancholics are noted for their strong analytical skills in the video, making them highly dependable in planning and problem-solving roles. They approach tasks with precision and can foresee potential obstacles in projects.

💡Creativity

Creativity is the ability to generate novel ideas or artistic expressions. Melancholics are described as particularly creative individuals, excelling in fields like music, art, and athletics. The video notes that a higher percentage of geniuses tend to be melancholic, highlighting their unique capacity for reflective and emotionally driven creative output.

💡Self-sacrifice

Self-sacrifice refers to the act of putting others’ needs ahead of one’s own for the greater good. The video explains that melancholics often choose careers that involve helping others and are driven by a deep desire to contribute to the well-being of their fellow humans. This trait exemplifies their willingness to make personal sacrifices for the benefit of others.

💡Pessimism

Pessimism is the tendency to focus on negative outcomes or expect the worst in situations. The video portrays melancholics as pessimistic, especially when faced with new ideas or challenges. Their analytical nature can cause them to focus on potential problems, making them hesitant or cautious in their decisions and relationships.

Highlights

The theory of four temperaments explains differences in people’s tastes, strengths, weaknesses, and creative capabilities.

The four basic temperaments are sanguine, choleric, melancholic, and phlegmatic.

Melancholic individuals are analytical, self-sacrificing, perfectionists, and very sensitive by nature.

Melancholics are introverts but can experience extroverted moods, leading to high mood swings.

Strengths of melancholics include being faithful, loyal, and analytical, often finishing tasks on time and diagnosing project risks accurately.

Creative melancholics tend to be musical, artistic, and athletic, with a higher percentage of geniuses found in this temperament.

Melancholics have strong perfectionist tendencies, making their work excellent due to their detail-oriented nature.

Weaknesses of melancholics include pessimism, where their first reaction to new ideas is often negative.

Perfectionism in melancholics can lead to self-criticism, introspection, and low self-esteem.

Melancholics are prone to mood swings, with highs resembling extroversion and lows leading to feelings of unworthiness and depression.

Melancholics can be thin-skinned and prone to holding onto long-term anger in the form of revengeful thinking or self-persecution.

Melancholics are very picky eaters, taking a long time to make decisions, and are often loyal to specific foods or restaurants.

Melancholic drivers are highly prepared, often studying maps and keeping detailed records of their trips, including gas, oil, and car repairs.

Melancholics are careful and deliberate shoppers, often comparing prices and quality and being loyal to specific brands.

Melancholics are good students, with inquisitive minds, strong memories, and a voracious appetite for learning.

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have you ever wondered why you think and

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act the way you do or why your brother

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or sister despite growing up in the same

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household as you respond to a certain

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event differently

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nothing answers those questions better

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than the theory of the four the pyramids

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it explains differences in people their

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tastes their creative capabilities their

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strengths and weaknesses it explains why

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some people conflict with others and

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while others are attracted to each other

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there are four basic temperaments

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sanguine choleric melancholic and

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phlegmatic if you want to know your

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temperament click the link below and

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take the test in this episode of

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everyday learner we will understand the

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strengths weaknesses and habits of a

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melancholy let's get started melancholic

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our analytical self-sacrificing lifted

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and perfectionists with a very sensitive

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emotional nature no one gets more

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enjoyment from the Fine Arts than the

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melancholy by nature they are introverts

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but since their feelings predominate

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they experience a variety of moods

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sometimes they have high moods the

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custom to act more extroverted

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however at other times they will be

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gloomy and during these periods they

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become withdrawn and can be quite

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antagonistic

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strengths of a melancholy faithful and

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loyal a melancholic is a very faithful

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friend but unlike the sanguine he does

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not make friends easily he does not

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approach people but rather lets them

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come to him a melancholic friend is a

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friend for life as they are loyal to

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their small circle of friends analytical

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a melancholy person could always be

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depended upon to finish the job in the

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prescribed time they rarely seek the

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light light but prefer to do the

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behind-the-scenes tasks they often

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choose a very sacrificial vocation for

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life for they have an unusual desire to

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give themselves to the betterment of

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their fellow men their exceptional

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analytical ability costs them to

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diagnose accurately the obstacles and

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dangers of any project they have a part

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in planning creative Mellon colleagues

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are typically musical artistic athletic

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or sometimes all of the above a higher

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percentage of geniuses are melancholic

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than any other types a melancholic is

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emotionally responsive but unlike the

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sanguine is motivated to reflective

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thinking through his emotions

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competent a melancholic has strong

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perfectionist tendencies this standard

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of excellence exceeds others and his

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requirements of acceptability in any

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field are often higher than anyone else

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they are very detail-oriented which make

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their work excellent

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they're extremely self discipline

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individuals they rarely eat too much or

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indulge when they engage in a task they

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will work around the clock to meet

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deadlines and they're high self imposed

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standards witnesses of a melancholic

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pessimistic anyone who's worked with a

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gifted melancholic can anticipate with

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his first reaction to anything will be

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negative the minute a new idea or

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project is presented his analytical

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ability ignites and he begins to conquer

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every problem and difficulty that may be

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encountered in the effort disappointing

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experiences make him reluctant to take

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people at face value thus he's failed to

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be suspicious with others seeking out or

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shower him with attention perfectionist

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Mellon colleagues have to constantly

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fight the spirit of criticism there are

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very high standards which make them

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impossible to satisfy the same high

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standard is usually turned inward by a

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melancholic making him very dissatisfied

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with himself he died SEC's himself with

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the continuing barrage of introspection

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until he has no self-confidence or

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self-esteem left moody one of the most

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prominent characteristics of a

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melancholic temperament

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concerns his mood swings on some

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occasions is so high that he acts like a

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sanguine another's he is so down that he

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feels like he is unworthy or

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lovable the older he gets the more he's

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prone to experience dark moods during

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such times he will be irritable and

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unhappy such moods make him particularly

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vulnerable to depression a melancholic

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is thin-skinned Antakya types he is very

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capable of long-term snow burning anger

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in the form of revengeful thinking

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patterns and self persecution eating

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habits Lenin colleagues are very picky

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eaters it takes them forever to make up

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their minds about what to order

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they can also be loyal to a specific

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food or restaurant

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melancholic drivers never leave home

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without preparing for the trip well in

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advance they studied the map and know

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the best route from A to Z about that

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impairment they are the most likely to

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keep a complete blood of their driving

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history including gas and oil

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consumption and even car repairs

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shopping Mellon colleagues are

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deliberate and decisive shoppers to

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compare prices and quality quite

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carefully they run their hands over the

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item try it on two or three times before

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buying it they create traffic jams

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waiting to make up their mind in the

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grocery store big know where everything

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is have a grocery list are loyal to a

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specific brand a like and saved all the

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receipts study habits Mellon colleagues

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are usually good students who enjoy

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learning

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they have inquisitive minds and usually

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have a ferocious appetite for books

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they're blessed with keener attentive

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minds that enable them to remember a

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multitude of details as a rule they are

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good spellers because they take mental

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pictures of each word child disappeared

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melancholic parents have high too unreal

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expectations and dole out praise very

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academically their children know that

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anything less than a is a fail

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legalistic by nature they usually have

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rules for everything and procedures that

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must be followed

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one of the biggest parental feelings is

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that they have a tendency to bring up

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their child's mistakes over and over

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again it is hard for men and pollux to

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be approving because their standard is

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so high they have a great capacity to

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love their children but they need to

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