The #Narc INJURY A Narcissist NEVER RECOVERS FROM! You GOT Them REAL GOOD On THIS ONE!

Summary

In this video, the speaker addresses the audience, welcoming new subscribers and engaging with the community. They emphasize the importance of their Thursday night live streams for healing and growth, and encourage viewers to participate. The main topic revolves around dealing with narcissists, particularly the impact of personal growth and healing after being discarded by one. The speaker explains that the most significant narcissistic injury one can inflict on a narcissist is to thrive and glow up after being discarded, as it challenges the narrative they've built around you. This not only affects the narcissist's ego but also makes their family and friends question their character, highlighting the power of self-improvement as a form of resistance against narcissistic abuse.

Takeaways

• 😀 The speaker warmly welcomes viewers back to their channel, emphasizing the community and family aspect.
• 📅 They highlight the importance of their Thursday night live streams at 5 PM Pacific Standard Time, suggesting it's a key event for the community.
• 🎯 The channel's goal for each video is to reach over 2.1k likes, indicating a specific target for viewer engagement.
• 🔗 A mentorship program is promoted, with a call to action for viewers to register and participate for personal growth.
• 🧘 The video discusses the concept of 'narcissistic injury' and how it relates to interactions with narcissists, providing insight into psychological dynamics.
• 💔 It explains that when a narcissist discards someone, they aim to maintain control over the narrative and avoid looking guilty.
• 🚫 The script describes the narcissist's strategy to deplete the individual on multiple levels—financially, mentally, emotionally, and physically—to fit their preconceived narrative.
• ✨ The speaker emphasizes that the biggest 'flex' or power move against a narcissist is to heal, grow, and thrive after being discarded by them.
• 🤔 It points out that the narcissist's family and social circle may still be observing the individual's progress, which can influence their perception of the narcissist's narrative.
• 💡 The video concludes by encouraging viewers to focus on self-improvement and healing as a form of empowerment, which also challenges the narcissist's ego and credibility.

Q & A

What is the main focus of the video script?

The main focus of the video script is discussing how to deal with narcissistic injuries, particularly how a narcissist perceives being left by someone and how healing and thriving after such a situation can impact the narcissist.

What is the significance of the Thursday night live stream mentioned in the script?

The Thursday night live stream is significant as it is a platform where the community gathers to discuss topics related to healing and growth, transitioning from healing to wholeness to boldness.

What is the goal for the number of likes on the video as stated in the script?

The goal for the number of likes on the video is to achieve 2.1k plus likes, which is an indication of the community's engagement and support.

What is the 'biggest Flex' according to the script when dealing with a narcissist?

The 'biggest Flex' when dealing with a narcissist is to heal, become whole, and thrive after being discarded by them, which challenges the narrative the narcissist has been promoting.

Why does the script mention the importance of not looking like the guilty party to a narcissist?

The script mentions that narcissists don't want to look like the guilty party because it challenges their self-image and control over the narrative they present to others. They prefer to maintain an image of being in control and without fault.

What does the term 'flying monkeys' refer to in the context of the script?

In the context of the script, 'flying monkeys' refers to the people who support and enable the narcissist's behavior, often by spreading their narratives and defending their actions.

Why does the script emphasize the importance of healing and becoming whole after a narcissistic relationship?

The script emphasizes healing and becoming whole because it not only benefits the individual by restoring their well-being but also impacts the narcissist by challenging their false narratives and potentially causing them to be questioned by those around them.

How does the script suggest that a narcissist's family or friends might react when they see the person who was discarded thriving?

The script suggests that a narcissist's family or friends might start questioning the narratives the narcissist has shared about the discarded person, as seeing them thriving contradicts the negative image the narcissist has painted.

What is the 'narcissistic injury' the script discusses in relation to the narcissist leaving someone?

The 'narcissistic injury' discussed in the script refers to the emotional blow and damage to the narcissist's ego when the person they discarded not only recovers but also thrives and appears happier and more successful, which undermines the narcissist's control and narrative.

What does the script suggest as the ultimate goal for individuals who have left a narcissistic relationship?

The script suggests that the ultimate goal for individuals who have left a narcissistic relationship is to achieve healing, wholeness, and self-improvement, which not only benefits them personally but also serves as a form of 'Flex' that challenges the narcissist's perception and control.

Outlines

00:00

📣 Introduction and Invitation to Live Stream

The speaker warmly welcomes viewers back to another video, acknowledging new subscribers and expressing gratitude to the community. They emphasize the importance of their Thursday night live stream at 5:00 PM Pacific Standard Time, encouraging viewers to participate and read the comments for a potentially transformative experience. The speaker also invites viewers to join and register for a mentorship program, providing a link in the community tab, and stresses the goal of reaching over 2.1k likes on their videos. They conclude by encouraging viewers to engage with the content and look forward to their participation.

05:00

💔 Dealing with Narcissistic Discard and Smear Campaigns

The speaker delves into the dynamics of relationships with narcissists, explaining how they aim to control the narrative when discarding someone to avoid appearing guilty. They discuss the narcissist's strategy of devaluing and discarding individuals, ensuring they are left financially, mentally, emotionally, and physically depleted to fit the negative narrative they've constructed. The speaker highlights the narcissist's reliance on their 'flying monkeys' or family members to support this narrative, and how the family may continue to observe the discarded individual's life, even on social media, to maintain control over the story.

10:03

✨ The Ultimate Narcissistic Injury: Your Glow Up

The speaker describes the most significant narcissistic injury a person can inflict upon a narcissist: thriving and healing after being discarded. They explain that when the discarded individual not only leaves the narcissist but also visibly improves their life—appearing happy, successful, and well-adjusted—the narcissist's narrative is undermined. This shift in the individual's life challenges the narcissist's portrayal and makes them look foolish in the eyes of their family and social circle. The speaker encourages viewers to focus on their healing and growth, as this is the most potent way to counter the narcissist's influence and regain control over their own narrative.

Keywords

💡Narcissist

A narcissist is an individual with an inflated sense of self-importance, often requiring excessive admiration and lacking empathy for others. In the video, the speaker discusses how a narcissist manages their image and narrative, particularly in the context of discarding relationships. The term is used to describe individuals who engage in smear campaigns and seek to control the narrative to avoid appearing guilty or foolish.

💡Discard

To discard, in the context of the video, refers to the act of a narcissist ending a relationship or removing someone from their life, often in a way that supports their self-image and narrative. The speaker emphasizes that when a narcissist discards someone, they aim to do so in a manner that maintains their control over the story and their perceived superiority.

💡Narrative

The narrative mentioned in the video pertains to the story or account that a narcissist constructs and maintains about themselves and others. It is a key concept as it relates to how a narcissist shapes others' perceptions and justifies their actions, such as discarding someone, to uphold their self-image and avoid blame.

💡Healing

Healing, in the video, is discussed as a process of recovery and growth after being discarded by a narcissist. It's portrayed as a powerful response to the narcissist's actions, as it challenges their negative narrative and demonstrates the individual's resilience and ability to move forward positively.

💡Wholeness

Wholeness is a state of being complete and undivided, often associated with mental, emotional, and physical well-being. The speaker in the video encourages viewers to strive for wholeness after a narcissistic relationship, suggesting it as a form of empowerment and a way to counteract the narcissist's attempts to diminish them.

💡Flex

In the context of the video, 'flex' is a slang term used to describe showing off or demonstrating one's success or well-being. The speaker describes the act of 'glow up' and healing as the 'biggest flex' one can give a narcissist, as it undermines their attempts to control the narrative and shows the individual thriving despite the narcissist's actions.

💡Smear Campaign

A smear campaign is a systematic attempt to tarnish someone's reputation by spreading false or negative information about them. The video discusses how narcissists may engage in smear campaigns to maintain control over the narrative and to ensure that they are not seen as the guilty party when discarding someone.

💡Flying Monkeys

In the video, 'flying monkeys' is a metaphorical term used to describe people who support or enable a narcissist's behavior, often by spreading their narrative or engaging in smear campaigns. The speaker uses this term to illustrate how a narcissist's influence can extend through others who help perpetuate their lies and control.

💡Glow Up

A 'glow up' refers to a significant transformation or improvement in one's appearance or lifestyle. The speaker in the video uses this term to describe the act of improving oneself after being discarded by a narcissist, which serves as a powerful response that challenges the narcissist's narrative and shows their inability to diminish the individual.

💡Ego

Ego, in the video, represents the self-esteem and self-importance of a narcissist. The speaker discusses how the act of healing and 'glow up' by the individual can be a significant blow to the narcissist's ego, as it contradicts their narrative and undermines their self-image, causing them to lose control over the situation.

💡Mentorship Program

The mentorship program mentioned in the video is a resource offered by the speaker to help individuals grow and develop beyond their current circumstances. It is presented as a way to support healing and wholeness, particularly for those recovering from narcissistic relationships, by providing guidance and community.

Highlights

Welcome back to another video on MPD and relationships, addressing the audience and new subscribers.

Invitation to participate in the Thursday night live stream for healing and growth.

Encouragement to like the video to reach a goal of 2.1k likes.

Promotion of the mentorship program for personal growth and development.

Discussion on the narcissist's desire to control the narrative when discarding someone.

Explanation of how a narcissist aims to avoid appearing guilty or foolish.

Description of the narcissist's smear campaign to maintain a consistent narrative.

Detailing the narcissist's efforts to leave the individual in a vulnerable state after discard.

The importance of the individual's healing and wholeness as a significant narcissistic injury.

How the individual's success after discard challenges the narcissist's narrative.

The impact of the individual's improved appearance and well-being on the narcissist's ego.

Advice on how to move on and 'glow up' as a form of self-care and defiance against the narcissist.

The significance of the individual's happiness and success in questioning the narcissist's character.

Final thoughts on the importance of self-care and looking forward to the next video.

Transcripts

hey hey everybody welcome back to

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members hello and welcome of course to

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y'all let's jump into the topic of this

video okay let's jump into the topic of

this video one of the biggest

narcissistic injuries that you could

ever give a narcissist y'all this is

your biggest Flex okay this is your

biggest Flex now I want you to

understand something when a narcissist

is able to discard you

okay and basically keep the narrative on

the same level or the narrative doesn't

have to change because they've discarded

you then they get the flex you know what

I'm saying they get to control the

narrative they get to tell people this

is what happened this is how it went

down or whatever and they Pride

themselves on that because one thing

that a narcissist doesn't ever want to

do is look like the guilty party they

don't want to look like the one with egg

on their face okay they don't want to

look like the stupid one they don't want

to look like that okay they just don't

so what happens is when you're dealing

with them

okay and you're you're in that place

where you're at that devaluation place

you know you're at the devaluation

possibly the discard The Narcissist

takes it upon themselves okay to make

sure that they you know reignite that

smear campaign and just continue to kind

of go in that vein why because they want

to make sure that when they discard you

or they shelf you that they have the

backing of their flying monkeys their

family you understand what I'm saying

that they they want to make sure that

that narrative stays consistent with

what they've been saying all this time

about

you but let me tell you something when a

narcissist leaves you they leave you for

uh dead okay in the water that's what

they leave you for I mean they want to

make sure that you are strapped as far

as financially they want to make sure

that financially they've depleted you

mentally emotionally physically they

want to make sure that they have

basically strapped you on every level

all right that's what because when they

do that it fits the

narrative are the lies that they've been

telling people about you all the time

saying that you know you were

irresponsible they had to do all of

these different things for you oh you

really did all of a sudden your your uh

uh that clan of crows that you came from

know that you have always been

irresponsible that you've never been one

to you know that narcissist has never

been wanting to really take care of

their business but now all of a sudden

they've grown into this responsible

person they've grown into you know

whatever it is that they're

doing now all of a sudden they're just

this responsible individual okay all

right so what's crazy about that is now

you know it's like and the and the the

the flying monkeys and the family

somehow sit down and take that in and

believe it they know it's a lie but

they're still going to listen to what

the narcissist

says but baby let me tell you something

this is what this is what happens when

the when it

switches when when you leave or when the

narcissist leaves you the biggest

narcissistic injury one that you the one

that you could that that

really I mean

make them go sit all the way down is

baby when you glow up and when you heal

and become whole after that discard they

don't have an answer for

that that right there switches the whole

narrative and I've said it before but I

I I want y'all to really understand how

much your healing and your wholeness how

much that hurt hurts them how much that

makes them look like an idiot a fool and

everything in between you understand

what I'm saying because at that point

cuz let me just tell you something the

family is still checking up on you okay

the narcissist family is still checking

up they still trying to see what's going

on what you doing some of y'all probably

saw the narcissist family following

y'all on so uh social media where

they're still because they want to know

what you're doing cuz you real

interesting okay

you were I mean you were the life of the

party you was all at when you were with

that bird yes they were trying to see

why you were with him or her because

they know that they they already knew

that that you were with a a a whole bird

a a backwards flying pigeon with the

feathers Miss I said it they knew that

okay so when you take the time to to

heal and become whole not just not just

leave the narcissist and never go back

but I'm talking about they seeing you on

social media and you looking well baby

okay your hair is together okay your

haircut is on point bro you done you

done you done went uh straight black or

even if you got your salt and pepper

going on it don't matter but your

haircut is you you on point ladies y'all

got your nails done your your outfit

your shoes is on point on bang on hit

whatever you want to call it when you do

doing all of that and you looking well

and you not only looking well but you

living well I'm going tell you something

one thing you can't do is you can't fool

a narcissist about how you really

feel these birds know when you're happy

and when you're not okay but when you

heal and become whole to that level see

they like it when you get out there and

try to front like you're doing good

right and then they they call you and

they just like oh what's going on and

you pick up the phone see they know if

you pick up the phone and they call you

and you up on social media you you you

fronting like you doing good but when

they call you you pick up the phone they

know you ain't you're not serious you

you you're not really done with them you

know what I'm saying they don't that

right there don't bother them because

they still they still have a way to

contact you you understand what I'm

saying they still got a way to get in

you know but when

baby they can't call you

they can't text you they can't get in

contact they can't come by they can't I

mean whatever it like they just don't

have any access and you up on social

media looking like all of that okay and

uh everything look you looking like Lou

Chanel and whatever else you want to put

in in between Michael Coors coach

whatever you want I mean whatever it is

you like lagerfield whatever it is you

like okay okay your stuff all right you

looking like Macy's and nor whatever it

is you like okay

B and guess what and they can't there's

no way they can do anything they can't

access that right there that right there

that's a huge blow to that ego because

they know that not only are they seeing

it but the flying monkeys are saying it

too you know why cuz they got them

watching you and the flying monkeys are

saying well I thought you said this and

that about her I thought you said blah

blah blah blah blah blah blah but what

I'm seeing here is that she looking way

better than she did when you she was

with you or he looking way better than

he did when y'all was together like what

happened what wait wait wait wait what

happened yeah so you see how the

narrative and see the narcissist don't

have an answer for that

they don't have an answer so this is why

I tell you all get to that place of

healing and wholeness because at that

point you don't care nothing about what

the narcissist saying doing or anything

else you like I don't baby I don't care

what you do I don't care what you say I

don't care where you go I don't care I I

just on car on car okay I just don't I

don't care how about that because when

you get to that place I'mma tell y'all

something that's a flow to their ego

that they they can't come back from

because what it does is it makes

everyone around them question them yeah

that's what it does makes everyone

around them question them not question

you but question the narrative that

theyve put out there on you ain't that

sweet so guess what they're ens snared

like the Bible says with by their own

words that part that

right there okay so that's your biggest

Flex is to move on get on your glow up

your heel your hold you know get your

healing and hold this on that's your

biggest Flex cuz I'mma tell you

something it's the worst thing that a

narcissist can ever encounter as far as

ego wise is the fact that they the one

that they counted out the one that they

lied on so much and said was down for

the count came back has been

resuscitated ated and not only

resuscitated but baby you came back with

a vengeance okay you looking good

smelling good eating good lit living

good you done I mean you you you have

jumped 25 levels since you've been with

that bird now what they going to say

hello that's it that part right there

that's the worst narcissistic injury

that you could ever give them because it

makes everyone around them question

everything about their character all

right all right family so listen y'all

be really good to yourselves I love you

all take really good care of yourselves

all right and I will see you all on the

next video family and I will see you all

healed and whole at the top Shalom

family peace