Women Want To Be Worshiped In The West And Men Rather Go Their Own Way

Summary

The video script addresses the issue of modern women seeking relationship advice from other women rather than from men themselves, leading to misconceptions and dissatisfaction. It criticizes the self-centered approach of many women who prioritize their own desires over building a mutually beneficial partnership. The speaker argues that men are increasingly opting out of western relationships due to the lack of traditional values and the prevalence of a me-first mentality. The script also touches on the negative impact of social media on women's expectations and the importance of considering a partner's needs for a successful relationship.

Takeaways

• 😡 Men are often frustrated by women seeking advice from other women about men's perspectives, believing it leads to misinformation.
• 😕 The speaker criticizes modern women for not understanding how to maintain long-term relationships, attributing it to societal changes.
• 😟 The divorce rate and declining marriage rates are seen as symptoms of a larger issue with gender dynamics in Western society.
• 😶 Men are portrayed as increasingly disengaging from relationships, preferring to seek companionship and marriage outside the West.
• 😒 The speaker mocks the idea that women are empowered by being alone, suggesting that companionship is more fulfilling.
• 😠 There's a perceived lack of respect and privacy from women when discussing relationship issues publicly, which men find off-putting.
• 😌 The speaker advises that for a man to propose, a woman should offer respect, honesty, commitment, privacy, and peace in the relationship.
• 😓 The narrative suggests that women who focus on their careers or material possessions are missing the qualities that truly attract men.
• 😔 The speaker expresses sympathy for men, contrasting the quality of life for elderly men and women, with a suggestion that companionship is beneficial for both.
• 😡 There's a critique of women who expect men to pay for dates but also demand equality, suggesting a double standard.

Q & A

Why do some women consult other women instead of men when they have questions about men's thoughts or feelings?

Some women consult other women because they believe that women can better understand and provide the answers they want to hear, often reinforcing their own beliefs rather than seeking an honest perspective from men.

What is the speaker's view on the current state of relationships and marriage in America?

The speaker believes that American society is not family-forward thinking, with a focus on getting men's attention rather than maintaining long-term relationships, leading to high divorce rates and a decline in marriage and childbirth.

What does the term 'ho flation' refer to in the context of the script?

'Ho flation' is used to describe the perceived increase in women who are seen as having high standards and expectations in relationships, which the speaker suggests contributes to the decline in men's interest in pursuing relationships.

Why does the speaker suggest that men are going overseas to find relationships?

The speaker implies that men are seeking relationships overseas because they can find women who exhibit more traditional feminine qualities and are less influenced by the perceived negative aspects of modern Western dating culture.

What does the speaker criticize about the way women approach dating and relationships as described in the script?

The speaker criticizes women for not being willing to compromise or negotiate in relationships, focusing on what they can get rather than what they can contribute, which he believes leads to men disengaging from the dating scene.

What qualities does the speaker suggest are important for women to exhibit if they want men to consider marriage?

The speaker suggests that qualities such as respect, honesty, commitment, privacy, acknowledgement, and bringing peace to a man's life are important for women to exhibit if they want men to consider marriage.

Why does the speaker argue that being alone is not beneficial for men or women?

The speaker argues that being alone is not beneficial as it can lead to a decline in quality of life and lifespan, and that having a family provides motivation, support, and a sense of meaning in life.

What is the speaker's opinion on the influence of social media on women's behavior and choices in relationships?

The speaker believes that social media has a negative influence on women's behavior and choices, leading them to adopt attitudes and behaviors that are detrimental to forming and maintaining healthy relationships.

What advice does the speaker give to men who are considering dating women with certain behaviors or lifestyles?

The speaker advises men to be mindful of the women they date, considering their lifestyle choices, behaviors, and the company they keep, as these factors can significantly influence the success and quality of a relationship.

What does the speaker suggest as a sign of a man's genuine interest in a woman?

The speaker suggests that a man's genuine interest is shown by his willingness to invest effort early in the relationship, such as trying to lock down the relationship after a few dates, rather than stringing the woman along.

Outlines

00:00

😤 Misguided Relationship Advice

The speaker criticizes modern women for seeking relationship advice from other women instead of directly asking men about their thoughts and desires. They argue that women often prefer advice that aligns with their preconceived notions rather than the truth. The speaker also discusses societal issues such as 'ho flation,' where men feel discouraged from pursuing relationships due to the perceived imbalance in effort and commitment. They lament the decline in marriage rates and the rise in men seeking relationships abroad, where they perceive women to be more traditional and family-oriented.

05:02

😔 Lack of Respect in Relationships

This paragraph discusses the importance of respect and understanding in relationships. The speaker is frustrated with women who post personal relationship issues online instead of addressing them privately with their partners. They argue that this behavior shows a lack of respect and trust, which are essential for a healthy relationship. The speaker also touches on the idea that men are looking for peace and stability in a relationship, rather than just material success or superficial qualities.

10:03

😌 Traditional Gender Roles and Quality of Life

The speaker compares the quality of life for men and women living alone versus in a relationship. They argue that traditional gender roles contribute to a higher quality of life for both men and women. They also discuss their personal experiences with dating and relationships, suggesting that men in certain cultures are more assertive and proactive in pursuing relationships. The speaker encourages men to seek out women who align with traditional values and to avoid those who prioritize independence over partnership.

15:04

😒 The Impact of Social Media on Dating

In this paragraph, the speaker addresses the negative impact of social media on dating and relationships. They criticize women who focus on superficial qualities and who seek validation through social media rather than genuine connection. The speaker also discusses the importance of a woman's social circle in determining her values and behavior in a relationship. They advise men to be selective in choosing partners based on their social circle and to avoid women who may not be fully invested in the relationship.

Keywords

💡modern women

The term 'modern women' in the context of the video script refers to women who live in contemporary society and are often characterized by their independence and self-sufficiency. The video discusses how these women may face challenges in relationships due to societal expectations and personal beliefs. For instance, the script mentions that modern women are 'outraged' and 'single', suggesting a disconnect between their personal goals and societal norms.

💡relationships

The concept of 'relationships' is central to the video's theme, focusing on the dynamics between men and women. The script explores the complexities of romantic relationships, particularly the expectations and desires of men in these contexts. It criticizes the tendency of women to seek advice from other women rather than directly from men, highlighting a perceived lack of understanding and communication in modern relationships.

💡ho flation

'Ho flation' is a term used in the video to describe a perceived increase in the number of women who are seen as less committed or more promiscuous in their approach to dating and relationships. The video suggests that this phenomenon is contributing to a decline in the value of long-term relationships and an increase in casual hookups, as men feel they are putting in more effort than they receive in return.

💡degeneracy

The term 'degeneracy' is used in the video to criticize what the speaker perceives as a decline in societal values, particularly in relation to relationships and personal conduct. It is associated with a broader critique of modern society, where traditional values are seen as being eroded by hedonism, consumerism, and materialism. The video implies that this degeneracy is contributing to the breakdown of family structures and the rise in singlehood.

💡hedonism

Hedonism, as mentioned in the video, refers to the pursuit of pleasure and self-gratification as the primary goal in life. The script criticizes this philosophy as being detrimental to long-term commitment and stable relationships, suggesting that it leads to a focus on short-term satisfaction over building lasting connections.

💡materialism

Materialism in the video is linked to the emphasis on physical possessions and financial success as measures of self-worth and happiness. The speaker argues that this focus on material possessions can detract from the importance of emotional and relational fulfillment, leading to a lack of depth in modern relationships.

💡NPC

The acronym 'NPC' stands for 'Non-Player Character', a term borrowed from video games to describe characters that follow a set pattern of behaviors. In the video, it is used metaphorically to describe women who the speaker believes lack originality and depth in their thoughts and actions, particularly in the context of dating and relationships.

💡traditional gender roles

The concept of 'traditional gender roles' is discussed in the video as a contrast to the perceived changes in modern relationships. The speaker suggests that there is a longing for a return to these roles, where men and women have clearly defined and complementary responsibilities in relationships and family life. The video implies that the erosion of these roles has led to confusion and dissatisfaction in contemporary dating.

💡emotional availability

Emotional availability refers to an individual's capacity to engage in and maintain meaningful emotional connections with others. In the video, the speaker argues that men are more likely to be emotionally available when they perceive a woman as a 'keeper', someone who embodies the qualities they value in a long-term partner. The video suggests that women who are seen as self-centered or lacking in certain qualities may struggle to attract emotionally available partners.

💡independence

Independence in the video is presented as a double-edged sword. While it is praised as a positive trait in women, the speaker also critiques an overemphasis on independence that may lead to a lack of interdependence in relationships. The video suggests that a balance between personal independence and the willingness to engage in mutual support and compromise is necessary for healthy relationships.

Highlights

Men are often perceived as going their own way due to societal changes and dissatisfaction with modern relationships.

Women tend to seek advice from other women about men's thoughts and feelings, rather than asking men directly.

The video discusses the importance of asking men directly about their views on relationships and marriage.

The speaker criticizes the reliance on traditional gender roles and the lack of effort in modern dating.

The video highlights the belief that American society is not family-oriented and that this affects relationship dynamics.

The speaker suggests that women lack the skills to maintain long-term relationships, contributing to high divorce rates.

Men are portrayed as increasingly disinterested in western relationships due to perceived imbalances and challenges.

The concept of 'ho flation' is introduced, referring to the idea that men are increasingly opting out of dating due to perceived unfavorable conditions.

The video touches on societal issues such as degeneracy, hedonism, and materialism affecting relationships and family life.

The speaker mocks the idea that women's independence is shown by their ability to pay for dates, challenging modern dating norms.

The video discusses the importance of privacy and respect in relationships, suggesting that some women fail to understand these values.

The speaker argues that women should focus on what they can offer in a relationship, rather than what they can gain from it.

The video suggests that men are looking for qualities like respect, honesty, and peace in a relationship, rather than material success.

The speaker shares personal observations about the differences in quality of life for elderly men and women living alone.

The video concludes with advice for women on how to be more appealing to men, emphasizing traditional values and relationship dynamics.

Transcripts

welcome back tribe have one here from

men only single unmarried modern women

outraged as 70% of men are going their

own direct one of my favorite Parts

about life is when you start to like a

guy you know there's one thing that will

never cease to amaze me it's how when

women have a question about how men are

thinking or what they may want instead

of asking men they do what they've done

for eternity now they go to women and

ask them what men think and feel because

in their minds they think women know

better than men what it is that they

think and feel usually because women are

going to tell them what they want to

hear and Men well they're going to be

honest with them brutally honest what's

even more amazing is how they use that

approach when it comes to relationships

how they'll ask other women what men are

thinking and feeling about relationships

or what they want instead of asking the

men like this one okay I need to know

something for those of you that are

married how did you get your significant

other to see the value in getting

engaged and getting married now with all

due respect to this lovely young lady

and I don't mean to disparage her in any

way she's asking the question of the

wrong people she's asking women what

they did instead of saying to men what

did she do and the reason she did that

is because she doesn't want to actually

hear the truth of what men are going to

tell her no she wants to get her beliefs

reinforced which is exactly what

happened in all the comments unfor

fortunately America is not a society

that's family Forward Thinking all the

knowledge that's being passed down to

the young women generation after

Generation Now in America is just how to

get a man's attention not how to keep a

man women have zero game when it comes

to keeping a man long term which is why

our divorce rate is what it is which is

why our marriage rate is now plummeting

which is why nobody wants to have kids

anymore which is why men are now going

overseas or their own way simply because

it's just not worth it to get married in

the west it's no longer even worth it to

have a relationship in the west a lot of

men are just checking out completely and

going hey dude it's not worth it the

cards are tilted against me I'm putting

in 10 times the effort to get a woman

that's 10 times less than what my

grandmother was it's called ho flation

it's real it's here to stay and only

getting worse we haven't hit Peak yet

society's crumbling with degeneracy

Hedonism consumerism materialism all

around us it's getting worse and worse

and worse people are more brainwashed

today than they've ever been the cell

phone in a woman's hands is practically

surgically attached to her it's making

them not have a single original thought

men are going on dates with robots NPCs

it's actually funny there's a bunch of

videos online that you can watch where

guys are mocking what it's like going on

a date with a woman where they literally

say the same [ __ ] I'm not like other

girls though and like I don't like to

party I don't really go out that much

literal robot MPC spewing machines not a

single original thought no one teaches

them how to keep a man what a man is

looking for they don't want to ask what

men want and then they're surprised that

the hypersexualization getting pumped

and dumped by Chads and Tyron casual

hookup culture all this is blowing up in

their faces and they cannot hold on to a

man longer than a few weeks because they

have nothing to offer a man and then

they're surprised why dudes are going

overseas starting families freeing

themselves financially and get a breath

of fresh air when they deal with actual

real feminine women it is what it is man

try to teach these girls they don't want

to listen though they want their cake

and cherry on top they don't want to

come to the table negotiate they don't

want to compromise on anything and

they're surprised nobody wants to put a

ring on it from the women on her video

they all told her a bunch of stuff which

isn't even remotely close to the truth

oh sure a few of them might have been

but the majority of them were just a

rehash of what women want from Men in a

relationship not what men want from

women it's why they're throwing out

things like well I had a great career or

job or I owned a house or any of the

other things that women look for in

relationships not men it was actually

pretty funny reading through the

comments and realizing that these women

have abs abolutely no clue what they're

talking about and yet they're all

reinforcing that they do and piling on

which isn't helping this young lady at

all in other words they're trying to

validate what she's already thinking in

her mind and that's exactly what she

wants them to do but is that going to

help her not a chance it hurts me to

even like be posting this but I have

waited so long for those things and they

haven't happened yet he can't see this

video I totally blocked

him it's amazing how they think that men

don't find out out about what they're

posting online just cuz you blocked him

doesn't mean he ain't seeing that video

in fact I can almost guarantee you he is

oh he may not tell you but if he's not

asking you to be his wife there's a clue

to one of the reasons why because you're

showing you cannot be trusted that what

occurs in your relationship you're going

to put out into the public instead of

keeping it private and privacy is

something men cherish along with respect

which again you're showing him no

respect by making this video because

instead of asking him what the problem

is instead of having an honest Frank

discussion you've decided to put it out

on the internet to ask all the girlies

to decide for him it shows clearly you

have absolutely no respect for what he

wants or needs so there's clue number

one why he hasn't asked you but like

girl to girl what are some of the things

that you did to accomplish that because

I'm really struggling to get him to see

my perspectives and how much marriage

would mean to me oh dear God it's like

clockwork isn't it what marriage means

to you here's a thought why don't you

ask him what marriage means to him why

don't you sit down and ask him why

haven't you asked me to marry you what

is it I'm not doing and perhaps more

appropriately what is it I am doing that

has caused you to not ask me to marry

you you know things like posting your

dirty laundry out on the internet for

example I love this man and we have

built so much together and I don't want

to leave him but and we all know what's

coming next she's going to make it about

her and talk about what she wants what

he wants not part of the conversation

which again is part of the problem men

are tired over and done with the

narcissistic me me me attitude of

today's modern women the one where their

wants and needs are the priority the

only priority and the wants and needs of

men are irrelevant but at the same time

I don't have those things that I have

been asking for and he says it's really

selfish of me to ask for them which is

him directly telling you he doesn't want

to marry someone who makes it all about

her and doesn't care in the least about

him the reason he hasn't asked you is

literally right in your video it is that

obvious at least to the men the women

not so much and with all due respect

ladies this is exactly why men are done

in walking away from all of you it's why

they're done with dating done with

relationships and done with marriage you

all keep talking about what you want to

get from the relationship or marriage

but none of you are saying what you're

going to give in the relationship or

marriage other then well this and as

I've said a million times this ain't

worth what you think it is at least not

to men there's plenty of this to go

around without having to marry it so I

don't know help a girl out I need some

advice let me know well I just did but

let me summarize it for you if you want

a man to ask you to marry him you need

to give him what he's looking for and no

it's not that you have a big career or

that you own a house or that you pay

your bills or that you have a big wreck

or a great butt no it comes down to a

few things it comes down to things like

respect honesty commitment privacy

acknowledgement and the biggest one of

all peace are you bringing peace to his

life so if he's not asking you for your

hand in marriage you can be pretty much

guaranteed that you're not giving him

one or more than likely any of those

things and until you do he's not going

to ask you to marry him I feel sorry for

men and I never thought I would say that

on my side I work with the elderly

people I go to the houses I clean for

them and the difference in life I've

seen is crazy if a woman lives alone the

quality of her life the lifespan of her

life is so much longer than a man who

lives alone the house is not well kep

the standards are not high but if a man

lives with a woman his life is perfect

to the tea and I'm telling you men out

there you might think now that you're a

bachelor you're going to live the best

life you're going to hit up all of these

women on the side but the day it clicks

for a woman that she's is better off

living alone I'mma tell you your life

looks like even wearing that this why

you don't bring him back to the United

States you see what you get you see how

the mentality just seeps in see what I

told you this is why men in the comment

say whatever you do do not bring them

back this is what happens doesn't matter

how religious you claim you are how

traditional here's the end result

another one that's delusional that

thinks women are empowered by being

alone that collecting cats and box wine

is somehow a positive thing that having

your eggs dried up and choosing a career

over family somehow will derive you more

pleasure more happiness make you feel

more content and proud of the decision

you made that's not true being alone

isn't good for men or women this isn't a

competition the reality if you're alone

at 70s something years old is brutal for

men and women you should have a big

family around you you should fight like

hell to find a good person to marry

start a family have as many kids as you

could afford because life at the end is

[ __ ] meaningless when you don't have

somebody to share it with a spouse or

children to see grow up your own seed

that Spurs you to live longer Spurs you

to do more endless boundless motivation

you get from watching mes growing up

around you getting to relive childhood

through their eyes these people are

idiots don't listen to any of them like

a dark hole cuz I promise you it has

been the biggest color shock for me how

men alone live and how a woman alone

lives how she's just thriving she's

living her best life and if she's also

married they still live in a quality

life and I'm just telling you man you

have to be mindful you have to be very

Demir think about your future and stick

with one lady tell me why the guy I'm

dating has to make a point of him paying

every time we go out so we normally just

hang out at home hair color no [ __ ] you

want to be strong independent you look

like a feminazi man eer yeah pay half

the bill strong independent Boss B go on

then bust your wallet out equality yeah

but every now and then we'll go out for

dinner he has asked me out to dinner he

has picked the restaurant and he would

pick me up and then take me there and

then we're at Din and he's

like I'm paying for this

tonight or he'll say something like and

just to let you

know this one's on me obviously it's on

you I didn't even bring my purse my

wallet I don't have Apple pay set up

does he want a medal for like the bare

minimum but it's just iing me out lately

it's like obviously you're paying you

asked me here I was at home doing my own

thing that [ __ ] is so wild D you see

during the daytime on some of my videos

my woman's at home cooking I don't deal

with any of this [ __ ] this why I tell

you boys go overseas I put videos all up

on the second Channel walk around

Bucharest you can see what the girls

look like here I told you what the

quality of life difference is I tell you

how Society views the genders here how

men view women and how women view men

the traditional gender roles are alive

she doesn't [ __ ] she's smoking hot

doesn't cry about cooking loves to do it

makes bomb food always have a fresh meal

ready no complaints none of this [ __ ]

treats me like a king so I treat her

like a queen doesn't smoke doesn't drink

doesn't go out doesn't hang out with

dudes didn't even get the shot no clot

shots and they're out here they're

abundant outside of the degenerate West

you just have to have the balls to get a

blue book a plane ticket stay for an

allotted amount of time so you could

properly vet them and you will find good

decent women all around the world or you

can deal with pink hair who likes to

make Tik Tok videos because a guy says

this one's on me while giving him that

I'm empowered Spiel Don't Need No Man

probably conditioning him in some way to

have to go out of his way to show you

that he's willing to be a traditional

man and pay for the date Australia is so

hard I lived in London for 7even years

tearing the other down dating as a

30-year-old in Australia is so hard I

lived in London for 7 years guys would

come up to you bars like come to on the

street ask for your number like not even

in a creepy Annoying way in a way that

it was like flattering or like it just

is like normal human communication

dating in Australia not only is the

dating pool so small because there's

less people I guess the amount of effort

that Australian guys put in is insane

it's just nothing like they'll just they

just want to me you're 30 now so you

lived for 7 years in London you went

from 23 to 30 and you're surprised when

you went back home you're not getting

the same attention you got like you did

when you were in London boy oh boy does

the Wall come hard and fast so oblivious

to it message you for months and never

ask you out and never meet up and I'm

like what's your aim here like do you

just want a pen pal do you just want a

friend to message when you're bored like

let's hang out let's go to the [ __ ]

beach because there's beaches here let's

go get a drink like there's you could

literally just do anything now I just

have like 50 guys on my Instagram in my

DMs messaging me and like replying to my

stories I'm like you're my fans I'm not

dating you you're just a fan not trying

to flex but it kind of is a flex I have

no idea what y'all are talking about

with these monthlong six Monon long

situationship like talking stages I

can't relate I've never been in one of

those I never will be because you can

tell the guys who are just going to

string you along like that from the

first date in my opinion like their

effort right off the bat will literally

tell you why would you even be attracted

to a guy who strings you along forever

like if a guy isn't trying to lock you

down after like date two I'm sorry I

know that seems soon but like he doesn't

like you like men if you literally were

on a date with your dream woman wouldn't

you want to get her away from the men

pursuing her like immediately if you

like her a lot

yeah he's ashamed to be with you like if

he's in a long talking stage with you he

is ashamed to be with you and that

should give you the ick stop giving

yourself trust issues and Trauma For

What and feeling bad about yourself for

what there's probably tons of guys who

could have wasted my time if I let them

I'm not going to let them bye I mean you

know he's made Solid points if a man's

interested he'll show his interest uh

but can't take you seriously with the

horrible lip job Jesus is it so

challenging to find emotionally

intelligent available men present

yourself as the fun chick you tell

stupid stories about sex capades in

college you don't know how to cook you

can't clean you don't show any effort

the guy puts in all the work on the date

he's always stringing the conversation

along you sound like a robot NPC you

probably asked him what his asparagus

sign was in retrograde in retrograde

excuse me and then you expect him to be

interested in you and emotionally

available a guy will be immediately

emotionally available for a woman that

hits all the check mark just like the

girl said in that previous video it's

true if you look like a keeper a guy

will make it known sorry you told on

yourself you're a catch and release only

I'm starting to think like I'm too picky

and by this rate baby I think I'm going

to be single for a long time and that's

okay like I love myself and I really do

need someone that's going to be obsessed

with me in a healthy way just cats box

wine just start preparing the way I feel

about myself I love me so you should

love me too shock her while she's still

single with no man and probably won't

have one anytime soon they whine when we

don't pay for dinner and now they whine

when we do and they wonder why men are

going their own way in response to the

Muslim caretaker I work with the elderly

too the best houses are usually because

the man paid for her lifestyle he set

her up so she could relax and comfort

social media has destroyed generations

of women if a woman's friends aren't

Saints block her and ghost her these are

the the people who influence her life

and choices you cannot get rid of her

friends that's a good gem that people

forget all the time birds of a feather

flock together you know you are the

average of the people you hang out with

there's many ways that that was said but

pay very close attention to your woman

and the women she Associates herself

with if she hangs out trash your woman

is trash if she's got her friends your

woman is one too if all her friends stay

at home do cool girly things nit some

sweaters I don't know whatever it is

wine nights and reading books and

whatever it is cool dude you got

yourself a really interesting chick if

all her friends are out in the club

getting absolutely smashed talking about

crazy stories of hooking up with dudes

and your chick's the one in a

relationship cool it's a matter of time

dude cool all right that influence will

break apart your relationship and then

you're going to wake up one day talking

about stop being so insecure I'm just

going to go out hang out with the girls

I'm not going to do anything I'm in a

relationship while she's gobbling up

some chat uh-huh in there done that seen

it she'll be doing her darness to keep

her voice as straight and consistent as

possible while she's getting piped by a

dude on the phone acting innocent with

you mhm mhm okay let me know what you

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