Older Women dropping DEVASTATING TRUTH BOMBS on Modern Dating | Older women Hitting the Wall
Summary
TLDRВ этом видео обсуждается проблема одиночества и поиска партнера в возрасте после 50 лет. Женщины делятся своими переживаниями о том, как сложно найти любовь и создать семью в этом возрасте, и о том, что они чувствуют себя одинокими и недолюбованными. Также рассматривается гипокрISIя женщин, которые критикуют мужчин за то, что они выбирают молодых женщин, но сами делают то же самое. Видео заканчивается рассмотрением негативного влияния матерей на дочерей и их отношения.
Takeaways
- 🌱 "Прошло почти четыре года с того момента, как я полностью переосмыслила свою жизнь."
- 👵 "Будучи старшим, одиноким и бездетным женщиной, я сталкиваюсь с рядом проблем, включая отсутствие возможности забеременеть из-за отсутствия партнера."
- 💔 "Недавно я пережила небольшой приступ сердца, и это было разочаровывающим, потому что меня никто не поддерживал."
- 👶 "Хотя я могу завести ребенка самостоятельно или с помощью донора, я хочу иметь ребенка с тем, кого я люблю."
- 🚫 "Я считаю, что сегодняшние женщины плохо представляют себя, и это отражается на их отношениях."
- 👵 "Мужчины не заинтересованы в женщинах старше 50 лет, и это может быть угнетающим для женщин моего возраста."
- 🤔 "Я задумалась о том, насколько правильными были мои жизненные решения, особенно в отношении материнства и одиночества."
- 👩💼 "Я чувствую, что культура обманула меня, представляя идею самореализации и успеха в карьере как важные цели."
- 👵 "Я осознала, что старшие женщины, оставшиеся одинокими после развода, часто сожалеют о своем решении."
- 💔 "Я сталкиваюсь с трудностями в датинге и чувствую, что моя способность к связыванию может быть потеряна из-за долгого одиночества."
Q & A
Какой возрастной период охватывает скрипт?
-Скрипт охватывает возрастную группу людей в возрасте 50 и старше.
Что является основной проблемой, с которой сталкиваются женщины в скрипте?
-Основная проблема, с которой сталкиваются женщины, заключается в том, что они испытывают трудности в поиске партнера и воспитании детей в старшем возрасте.
Какие эмоциональные состояния описывает автор скрипта?
-Автор скрипта описывает чувства одиночества, разочарований, страха и сомнений в своих жизненных решениях.
Что автор скрипта считает главной причиной своего неудачного личного жизни?
-Автор скрипта считает, что одна из главных причин неудачного личного жизни - это неправильные выборы в жизни, включая выбор партнера и решения о материнстве.
Какие социальные проблемы обсуждаются в скрипте?
-В скрипте обсуждаются социальные проблемы, такие как одиночество, бездетность, отношения мужчин и женщин в старшем возрасте, а также проблема одиноких матерей.
Чем автор скрипта критикует современную культуру?
-Автор критикует современную культуру за ложные представления о самореализации и самодостаточности женщин, а также за иллюзии свободы и независимости.
Какие выводы автор скрипта делает о том, что ожидает женщин, старших 50 лет, на детском рынке?
-Автор делает вывод, что женщины старше 50 лет сталкиваются с пренебрежением и нежеланием мужчин их возраста, что делает их позицию на детском рынке невыгодной.
Что автор скрипта считает главным выигрышем от материнства?
-Автор считает, что главным выигрышем от материнства является то, что дети оказывают поддержку и заботу о матерях в их старости.
Какие проблемы автор скрипта видит в отношениях женщин старше 50 лет с более молодыми мужчинами?
-Автор указывает на проблемы, такие как несоответствие возраста и жизненных опытов, а также на то, что такие отношения могут быть основаны на эксплуатации и недостоверных мотивах.
Какие социальные стереотипы автор скрипта обнаруживает в отношениях и воспитании детей?
-Автор обнаруживает стереотипы о том, что мужчины должны быть сильнее и заботливее, а женщины должны быть самодостаточными и независимыми, что может приводить к проблемам в личных отношениях и воспитании детей.
Outlines
😔 Женщины в 50+ и их поиски любви
В этом параграфе представлена история женщины, которая переосмыслила свою жизнь в возрасте 50 лет. Она делится своими переживаниями о том, как это ощущение быть без детей и партнёра, и о том, что ей приходилось переносить одинокость и отсутствие поддержки в трудные моменты, такие как сердечный приступ. Женщина выражает свое разочарование в отношении современной культуры, которая обманчиво предлагает идеи самореализации и самодостижения для одиноких женщин. Она также критикует феминистскую пропаганду, которая не соответствует реальности, и выражает сомнения в отношении возможности быть счастливой одни и быть матью без отца для ребенка.
😠 ГипокрISIя и ложь в отношениях
Второй параграф сосредоточен на критике двойственности и нечестности некоторых женщин в отношении выбора партнёра. Автор обращает внимание на противоречия в мнениях женщин о том, когда старшие мужчины выбирают молодых женщин, и наоборот, когда старшие женщины выбирают молодых мужчин. В частности, он анализирует поведение женщин, которые выступают против такого выбора мужчин, но при этом сами ищут молодых парней. Автор также рассматривает психологические причины такого поведения и подводит выводы о том, что такие отношения не всегда приводят к счастливой жизни и могут спровоцировать разрушительные последствия для всех сторон.
😞 Родительская роль и влияние на дочерей
В заключительном параграфе автор рассматривает, как родители, особенно матери, влияют на формирование жизненных представлений и выборов своих дочерей. Здесь приводится история женщины, которая была воспитана матерью, которая постоянно подчеркивала свою нежелание иметь ребенка. Это влияние привело к формированию у женщины убеждения о том, что она нежелательна. Автор также обсуждает, как неправильные советы и примеры от родителей могут привести к проблемам в личной жизни их детей, особенно в вопросах отношений и материнства. В частности, он рассматривает ситуацию, когда молодая женщина оказывается беременной и остается без поддержки от отца ребенка, что ведет к созданию еще одной одинокой матери, которая может возложить всю вину на мужчин.
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Keywords
💡управление
💡одиночество
💡реальное ожидание
💡эмоциональное состояние
💡мать-одиночка
💡бiological clock
💡феминистская пропаганда
💡эмпирический опыт
💡социальные ожидания
💡психологическое состояние
Highlights
The speaker reflects on their life changes over the past four years, including being older, single, and childless.
They discuss their recent mild heart attack and the emotional impact of not having someone by their side during such a crisis.
The desire to have a child with a loved one is expressed, rejecting the idea of going it alone or using a donor.
The speaker critiques the way women present themselves and the societal expectations placed on them.
A personal account of turning 42 and the challenges faced by women over 50 in dating and relationships.
The realization that women over 50 may not be as sought after in the dating scene and the emotional toll it takes.
The regret expressed by some women post-divorce and the advice given to those complaining about their past relationships.
A critique of the feminist narrative that suggests women can be empowered through certain behaviors, which the speaker feels is misleading.
The speaker questions the cultural lies about empowerment and the pursuit of happiness through work and relationships.
The realization that work and career success may not bring the fulfillment expected in the long run, especially when facing health issues.
The speaker expresses their feelings of being less nurturing, accepting, and patient, and the implications for being a single mother.
A discussion on the challenges of dating in your 50s and the contrast between social media portrayals and real-life experiences.
The speaker shares their skepticism towards the idea that being an older single woman is something to celebrate, based on their personal experiences.
An account of the difficulties faced by women post-divorce, including the pressure and loneliness that comes with aging and dating.
The speaker calls out the hypocrisy of women who criticize men for dating younger women while doing the same themselves.
A critique of the double standards in dating preferences, where older men dating younger women are seen negatively, but not older women dating younger men.
The speaker discusses the emotional turmoil of being single and the impact of past relationships on their current dating life.
A reflection on the pressure and fear women face as they age and the societal expectations around marriage and children.
The speaker shares their thoughts on the role of social media in perpetuating false narratives about single life and dating.
A discussion on the challenges of finding genuine connections and the impact of being single for an extended period.
The speaker highlights the discrepancy between the feminist propaganda and the real-world experiences of women in dating and relationships.
An account of a woman's experience with egg freezing and the emotional toll of facing potential infertility.
The speaker calls out the victim mentality of some women who blame men for their dating and relationship struggles.
A critique of the advice given by some mothers to their daughters, which may lead to poor dating choices and life outcomes.
The speaker discusses the consequences of poor parental guidance and how it can lead to the creation of single mothers and the blaming of men for societal issues.
Transcripts
It's been almost four years since I completely uprooted my life.
I it's about being older
and being single and not having children,
because I don't even have a person to get pregnant with.
A few weeks ago, I suffered a mild heart attack.
I didn't think I was going to make it, and it was just disheartening
to not have anybody there.
Yet here we made it to the end and it didn't happen.
Sure, I could go get pregnant on my own or like,
get a donor, but I don't want that.
I want to have a baby with the person that I love.
I wish women really understood nowadays how horrible we present ourselves.
Here's something men need to understand about women over 50.
They don't care about you.
Honestly, a lot of women treat them like trash and I will be 42 in a month.
I am 50 years old, so I'm 46 years old
and men my age just don't seem to like me.
It is rough.
It is incredibly.
There are a lot of women, 510 years post-divorce
that I've spoken to that have told me I regret leaving him.
I regret breaking up with him every time I hear a woman complain
about her baby daddy.
In particular black women that complain about her baby dad.
The first thing I say is you chose him.
You chose him.
And you might be saying, well, you chose this.
So, you know, you make your bed and I get it.
I did choose it.
I'm just questioning life and I'm just wondering if
anybody else feels like they've made all the wrong decisions in life.
You know, I don't have space to show up as the best mom that I can show up is.
I'm less nurturing.
I'm less accepting. I'm less patient.
Nobody wants to hear this.
Because what you want me to say
today is actually being a single mother is totally possible.
It actually isn't. It's not.
It was never meant to happen for the human race.
Number one, I felt I had been kind of lied to by the culture.
The idea that I could fight my way to empowerment.
This idea that, you know, you can sleep your way to feeling.
Feeling like a girlboss, the boss bitch.
And once you have as a woman your children,
your life is like, yeah, work is important.
It's not my main focus when I'm on my deathbed.
I'm not going to go.
I'm sure glad. I'm happy I worked a ton.
It's not.
It doesn't carry as much weight on my health.
It's filled me and it's going to be there for me.
Yes, guys, the truth truly hurts
when talking about older women revealing their true dating experiences
instead of the feminist propaganda plastered all over social media.
Good morning everyone.
So I haven't done an update in a bit on the dating in your 50s.
So much fun!
I'm having such a fun time so
then you tell yourself, you know, it's okay, I'm strong,
I'm happy, I'm doing fine.
Yeah, right.
Please drop a like on the video.
If you think that people that are constantly screaming at you
about how happy they are are probably lying.
And comment down below what you think.
Currently, social media is flooded with women claiming it's
wonderful to be old and single because it aligns
with the narrative of women not needing men.
But when you ask real women that don't want to sell, you a course
or some dating consultancy service on how life actually
is, then it would tell you a completely different story.
This whole dating thing, especially at my age over
50, is just bullshit.
I wonder if I have lost the ability to connect.
You know, having been single a long time, dated a lot, like,
have I lost that ability to know when women hit 30 and they're like, oh,
I'm not married, don't have kids.
They definitely go through this panic.
It's hard to get a guy to even get to the point of actually
going on a date or meeting for the first time.
You see, I already proved this massive discrepancy between the false narrative
and the real world experience when it comes to women
getting older and continuing to date.
In my Age of Desperation
video linked up here where I went to do the lies of egg freezing.
When you ignore the social media hype and just look at the actual numbers.
Things start to look a lot more depressing.
And women are not freezing to fertility at all.
I really thought this process would, like, slow down my biological clock,
and I wouldn't feel as much pressure, and I feel way more pressure now.
And now we are seeing real little
proof of this from Coco Beauty, where she had a complete mental breakdown
when she tried to go freeze her eggs and found out that she's close
to being infertile and that it might never work.
I've been like crying the entire day.
And you know, people say like, oh, you're not alone.
This have so many women.
But, I mean, it feels really.
It feels very alone.
It's lonely.
You see, she's yet another victim of the feminist propaganda machine
that she herself is actually guilty of participating in.
And so now, in this video, we're going in deeper, starting with,
first, the hypocrisy and lies of all the women contradicting themselves,
then following up with the problem of all the women dating younger men
and finishing with the grand finale of all the women creating single mothers
out of their own daughters to then blame the whole disaster on, of course, men.
Classy.
So first up is this lovely lady who is a certified jaded man hater,
and this becomes very clear very quickly when you listen to her talking about older
men dating younger women, the only kind of men that date
and marry women that are substantially younger than them are insecure men.
these are men that's
want to
exploit women that want to dominate women.
Okay, so clearly older man dating younger women is bad.
That's her stance right now.
Let's see what she thinks about older women dating younger men.
Let's talk about older women who date younger men.
And, I am one of them.
This woman makes a whole video vilifying men that they younger women.
But it turns out she's doing the exact same thing.
But I'm not surprised because, like I showed in my Passport Bro series
linked up here it is these types of Western women
who constantly complain about men and their dating preferences, but end up
being massive hypocrites since they do the exact same thing as Clint brings in.
It is more choleric and male toxicity.
That made me decide to go to Italy today.
I've ever been to the Balkans, you know what I'm talking about.
And it's all men.
Yeah, you can't really expect that type of chivalry that I have found
in other countries, but it gets better when you listen to why she's doing it.
I do that for two reasons.
Number one, physical.
It's basic principles of attraction and no, lady, that's what men say.
Younger women are hot.
It's not rocket science.
But somehow when men say this and date younger women, it's a problem.
And it's called exploitation.
It's simply ridiculous.
Now moving on to the 40 something party girl from Vegas
who constantly switches between being okay and having a mental breakdown. Why?
Because I've been her.
So to set the scene here, she's in her 40s and she only dates
younger men, which she really wants to make clear.
I'm getting a 24 year old,
and, I'm 41.
I prefer to date younger men.
I date younger men pretty much exclusively.
Okay, so we get it.
She only dates younger men.
So how is that working out? Men are cowards.
Men will meet the woman of their dreams.
But because they're not willing to live up to her light
or her standard or her, whatever they perceive it to be,
they will take advantage.
They'll destroy her.
They was there really any other outcome here?
I mean, let's face it, every single time we see a woman so adamant and so angry,
what I want to know is, why do you care about how wonderful her
life is and explaining to you that she's perfectly fine?
Then clearly that is not the case.
But anyways, it's about to get a lot worse since remember, she thinks that men
are cowards for not committing to a woman and she does not want to play games.
I thought at this point he was done with these games,
except this is the same woman who was considering marrying a guy
while she was already dating another guy for almost two years, and both
who I've been dating since July of 2022, is almost 18 years younger than me.
Okay, so two weeks ago I on my birthday, I was proposed to
by somebody that I've known since ninth grade.
Are you kidding me?
So this woman talks about men playing games is in a two year relationship.
We are still dating. I don't know what to tell you.
We like each other.
He's kind.
Doesn't shut down and tell me that I'm crazy like my my own age.
When she gets proposed to by another man and she's seriously considering it
because my initial response was going to be like, okay, we can talk about this.
We can negotiate our way into this.
You know, he's a gorgeous, romantic, sensible man.
I care about this man.
Now, mind you, this is not the 1950s anymore.
And men are not just walking around proposing to every single woman.
So, you know, a lot went down before that dude was even considering a proposal.
Plus he actually believed she might say yes,
which is what she was actually considering a comment card, even though
I kind of had a sense that was coming, I still wasn't, like, totally prepared
until I told him I was like, I really need to think about this.
This is a really big deal.
This is why guys, I
and almost every creator in the space constantly says that marriage is dead.
I made a video on divorce
linked up here, showing how insanely bi is the family courts are.
And if you marry a woman like this,
I guarantee you you will experience that firsthand.
Now, obviously this woman is broken beyond belief, but to prove
that it wasn't men who broke her, I'll let her explain how this happened.
So here's the thing.
I was raised by a mother
who didn't want me, and so she spent
my entire developmental years like, I'm gonna try and say this without crying.
Letting me know that she didn't want me.
That I was,
a burden, to do things on my own.
Like she just did.
Yeah.
Very dismissive of my entire existence.
So I grew up with a belief system that nobody wanted me.
That internal belief system has a way of rearing its ugly head.
In fact, like I was sued idle by the time I was nine.
Yeah, it's pretty bad.
However, it is a great segue into our final
and most disastrous situation of how all the women are setting up
their own daughters for failure in both dating and life in general.
Because this Karen.
Yep, her name is actually Karen has a truly gorgeous daughter
who seems very lovely and wholesome.
And so you might think, hey, perfect wife material, right?
Well, hold on, because before you guys go off and find a woman just like this,
let me remind you
of something that Patrick Bed David once said that really resonated with me
since I actually lived this experience with the five friends you call after.
We had a terrible fight.
So she gives me the names divorce.
How about this one? Divorce?
How about this one single? How about this one married?
How about this one single? I said, you calling these guys?
So you call these five people, guess who they're going to defend?
You said. Who?
Said you?
Yes. Guys, I can't stress this enough.
Before you commit to a woman, be really careful.
Who our closest advisers are since there will be your biggest problem
going forward.
And so when your girlfriend's mother is her bestie, who
she runs to for advice and that mother is batshit crazy,
or a jaded man hater on a quest to find herself,
I am back back on here,
back in the UK and back to
being the me before the trauma.
Then yeah, you're going to have a horrible time now.
As with everything in life,
you will always find someone doing it bigger and better.
And so when it comes to terrible
mom advice and guidance, Beth here really takes the cake.
A lot of men over 50 said that they wanted much younger women.
However, with years comes age but also maturity
because while Beth was making over a thousand TikToks,
instead of providing her daughter with solid advice and guidance,
little Brenna over here was getting pumped and dumped raw at Northern
University, Illinois, which obviously led to the one and only possible outcome.
Boom, big old belly.
Now, if you're thinking, well, maybe she met a nice guy, she fell in love
and they're going to form this nice little family, a race, a bunch of kids.
No, this dude wants nothing to do with her or the kid, allegedly,
because we can't really trust new moms crying on TikTok since we
all remember Cake Mom.
I'm her ex-husband.
And, All right, now I have full custody of our kids.
As you can see, I have all weekdays and weekends, and for her
to get any right back to the kids, these are the things that she needs to do.
And yes, child support.
She knows that it's up to over $21,000.
So yeah, that got debunked real quick.
But yeah, if true, Brenna got herself knocked up by some deadbeat
who doesn't care about her at all and doesn't want anything to do with her
child.
Now, mind you, I will always say if it is your kid, take care of it fully.
I mean, definitely get a paternity test, perhaps even two just to make sure.
But if it is your baby, take care of the little fucker.
Come on.
It is your own flesh and blood that means something.
However, this is another classic case of a guy who clearly did
not give a damn about a girl and a girl still letting him hit it raw, creating
yet another young single mother who's going to blame men for all her struggles.
All because Beth over here was too busy focusing on her own
dating profile and lecturing us on all the things that men do wrong.
Great job Beth.
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