The Invitation // Week 2 // Pastor David Marrero
Summary
TLDRThis powerful sermon centers around Jesus' invitation to 'come to me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.' The preacher emphasizes that true rest and healing are found not in religion or works, but in an intimate, transformational relationship with Jesus. He challenges listeners to let go of legalism, burdens, and a transactional mindset, and instead walk with Jesus, allowing Him to carry their burdens and teach them His 'unforced rhythms of grace.' The call is for a genuine, personal surrender to Jesus, not mere religious obligation, as the path to life, peace, and the fulfillment of our deepest desires.
Takeaways
- 🙏 Jesus invites us to come to Him and find rest from our weariness and heavy burdens, offering a personal relationship rather than a religion.
- 🕊️ True rest is found by walking with Jesus daily, allowing Him to carry our burdens, rather than trying to earn it through works or sacrifices.
- 🌿 Jesus' yoke is light and easy, as He promises to take on our loads if we trust and partner with Him, rather than striving in our own strength.
- 🔑 Developing intimacy with Jesus transforms us, as we learn His rhythms of grace and unforced obedience that flows from love, not obligation.
- 💔 Religion and tradition without a relationship with Jesus leads to weariness, legalism, and hypocrisy, missing the essence of God's intention.
- 🌱 Our relationship with Jesus should not be transactional, but transformational, allowing room for growth and unconditional giving from Him.
- 💫 Jesus is greater than any sacrifice, temple, or religious practice, and desires mercy and grace towards people more than outward observances.
- 🌊 Serving Jesus should not be a burdensome duty, but a joyful privilege flowing from our desire to please Him and express our love for Him.
- 🌻 True spiritual growth happens when we balance prayer with reading God's Word, allowing it to shape and disciple us in our relationship with Christ.
- ✨ Salvation is a free gift of grace from God, but developing our faith requires actively choosing to walk with Jesus and let Him transform us daily.
Q & A
What is the main invitation Jesus extends in Matthew 11:28-30?
-Jesus invites all who are weary and carry heavy burdens to come to Him for rest.
What does RSVP stand for, and how does it relate to Jesus' invitation?
-RSVP is a French term meaning 'respond if you please'. It relates to Jesus' invitation as a call to respond to His offer of rest and salvation.
What does the speaker suggest about attending events after accepting an invitation?
-The speaker suggests it's courteous to attend events you've accepted invitations to, especially weddings, where your attendance incurs a cost to the host.
How does the speaker compare God's invitation to human invitations?
-Unlike human invitations where guests are expected to bring gifts, God's invitation offers a gift (rest) to those who accept it.
What does the speaker say about the burden of legalism in religion?
-The speaker criticizes legalism in religion for being burdensome and not providing true rest, emphasizing a relationship with Jesus over religious rituals.
How does the speaker interpret Jesus' statement about His yoke being easy and the burden light?
-The speaker interprets Jesus' statement as an assurance that Jesus will take on our burdens, offering a partnership where He carries the weight, making our load lighter.
What point does the speaker make about the Sabbath in relation to Jesus' teachings?
-The speaker notes that the Sabbath, meant for rest and holiness, should not be misused or become a source of legalistic burden, emphasizing Jesus as the Lord of the Sabbath who offers true rest.
What does the speaker say about Jesus' approach to people and tradition?
-The speaker suggests Jesus prioritizes people over tradition and legalistic practices, highlighting His focus on mercy, grace, and personal relationship over religious duties.
What does the speaker mean by 'unequally yoked' in the context of the sermon?
-The speaker refers to being 'unequally yoked' as focusing more on religion and legalism than on a personal relationship with Jesus, which can hinder spiritual progress and rest.
What is the ultimate message of the speaker regarding coming to Jesus?
-The ultimate message is an invitation to form a personal, intimate relationship with Jesus, moving beyond religious obligations to find true rest, peace, and fulfillment in Him.
Outlines
📖 Invitation to Find Rest in Jesus
The speaker begins by reading Matthew 11:28-30, which is an invitation from Jesus to come to him and find rest from burdens and weariness. He emphasizes that this is a direct invitation for everyone, not just some. The speaker highlights that Jesus promises to give rest to those who come to him, unlike human events where guests are expected to bring gifts.
🕯️ True Rest Comes from Jesus, Not Religion
The speaker discusses the difference between Jesus and the temple sacrifices. While the sacrifices in the temple are great, Jesus is greater than the sacrifices. The true rest and comfort that people seek cannot be found in just going to church or through sacrifices, but by coming directly to Jesus. He emphasizes that Jesus wants to give rest to those who are weary, without any prerequisites or conditions.
⚖️ Jesus Values People More Than Religion
The speaker talks about the incident where Jesus healed a man with a shriveled hand on the Sabbath, despite objections from religious leaders. Jesus prioritized helping the man over following religious rules, emphasizing that a person's well-being is more valuable than rigid religious traditions. The speaker urges Christians not to become so focused on religion that they miss the needs of people.
🌱 Finding Peace Through Surrender, Not Works
The speaker suggests that some people try to find peace and comfort through their own works and efforts, rather than surrendering and trusting God. He emphasizes that Jesus wants people to come to him, even in their brokenness, and he will give them rest and peace. The focus should be on having a relationship with Jesus, not just following religious practices or rules.
🚶♀️ Walking with Jesus: A Transformational Relationship
The speaker contrasts a transactional relationship, where people remain only as long as they receive something in return, with a transformational relationship with Jesus. Walking with Jesus is a partnership that allows for growth and selfless giving. It's about spending time with him and learning from his example, at a pace that is comfortable for each person.
🌳 The Unforced Rhythms of Grace
The speaker emphasizes that Jesus invites people to walk with him and learn the "unforced rhythms of grace." This means letting go of control and trusting Jesus to carry their burdens, rather than trying to bear them alone. Jesus' yoke is light, and he promises to show people how to maintain rest and peace in their lives.
🔄 The Transformative Power of Relationship with Jesus
The speaker contrasts being "unequally yoked" with religion, where people are burdened and stagnant, with being yoked with Jesus, which brings freedom and movement. He emphasizes that following Jesus and keeping his commandments should not be burdensome when done out of love and relationship, not obligation. A true relationship with Jesus transforms and renews people's perspectives and desires.
🔥 Rekindling the Passion for Serving Jesus
The speaker challenges the audience to examine their motivations for serving in ministry and reading the Bible. He urges them to rekindle their passion for serving Jesus out of love and desire, not obligation or burden. He encourages them to approach their faith with the same enthusiasm and preparation they would for other important events in their lives.
🌅 The Privilege of Intimacy with God
The speaker emphasizes that having a relationship with Jesus and serving him should be seen as a privilege, not a burden. He encourages the audience to prioritize their time with God and not treat it as an obligation or something to be rushed through. The speaker reminds them that true intimacy with God comes from a desire to honor and please him, not just going through religious motions.
💝 The Father's Sacrifice and Invitation
The speaker reflects on the sacrifice made by God the Father in giving his Son, Jesus, for the salvation of the world. He emphasizes that God chose to extend his grace and invitation for a relationship out of love, not obligation. The speaker then issues an invitation for those who are weary and burdened to come to Jesus and accept his free gift of salvation.
🙏 Altar Call for Salvation and Renewal
The speaker concludes by giving an altar call, inviting those who want to accept salvation through Jesus or renew their relationship with him to come forward. He encourages those who have been blinded by religion or have grown weary to surrender to Jesus and experience true rest and transformation.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Rest
💡Yoke
💡RSVP
💡Sabbath
💡Religion vs. Relationship
💡Grace
💡Transformational Relationship
💡Burden
💡Legalism
💡Invitation
Highlights
Jesus in his very word said come to me the other title that I would give you, is, RSVP, RSVP now whenever you and I receive an, invitation for a wedding or a special, event they would ask ask you to, RSVP now RSVP is a French term that, translates to, respond if you, please.
Our relationship with Jesus is, not a forced, relationship he leaves it open-ended if, you want to be in relationship with him, then you have that opportunity to do, that the very words of Jesus is this, come to me all of you, not just some of you but come to me all, of you all of us have experienced being, weary or having a heavy burden he is, saying come to me all of you who are, heavy, burdened if you are weary Jesus says, come to me.
He simply says come to me all, of you and I would give you a gift and that, gift is rest how many of us here today, we need rest like we need a restful mind, we need a restful, heart I mean some of us we're having, nightmares we can't even sleep at night, you're sleeping but you're not sleeping, have you ever tried to sleep but your, mind keeps on running it just never, shuts down.
Jesus doesn't say come to, sacrifice church folks he doesn't say, come to sacrifice he says come to me all, who are weary and burdensome and I would, be your, Sabbath I would give you, rest it's not lined up on a day it's, lined up on who he is I am your, Sabbath.
Jesus is saying the highest point of, your favor is not what you do but is who, you, serve Sabbath means this it means rest, and it was intended for man and not for, man for the Sabbath in other words God, did not create Sabbath so that it can, control you God created Sabbath so that, it can work for you and although the, Sabbath is to be kept holy whenever it's, misused it will not give you rest.
Jesus is still talking here then he said, to the man stretch out your hand so not, only does he respond to the religious, leaders who are trying to Corner him for, blasphemy he then asks the man with the, shriv hand to pull it out so the Bible, says he stretched it out and it was, completely, restored they became, eyewitness of the miracle.
We got to be careful that we, don't become so churchy that we miss, people we got to be careful that we, don't become so churchy that we use the, Bible so that we can slap them versus, using the Bible so that we can Inspire, them we we got to be careful that we, don't become holier than D because we, are connected to Jesus that we should, downgrade everybody else who is not at, the same level that we are at.
The Bible, was never to hit people across the face, the Bible was supposed to be a, foundation that they can stand on and we, ought to be a reflection of that Grace, the same Grace that was extended to us, when we were hard-headed that same Grace, that was given to us when we weren't, listening to Jesus that same Grace that, when we were rebellious and it was, extended to us God is saying use that, words as a rock for others to stand on, not to beat the come down to their, grave.
Jesus does not want to, have Jesus doesn't want to have a, transactional, relationship a transactional, relationship is is like a business, transaction it is a deal built on, staying in the relationship as long as, you have something to, offer so Jesus as long as as you give me, what I need then I'm going to remain in, relationship with, you there is no relationship that will, last intimately no relationship no, dating relationship no friendship, relationship there is no relationship, that would last if it's only based on, transactional because transactional, relationship means that I'm only in it, because you got something to offer me.
Walking with Jesus is, transformational and the reason that it, is transformational is because walking, is a pace that you and I can handle it, is time spent now if you ever ever, walked with a loved one holding their, hands and walking there is an intimacy, in that there is time to talk there is, time to to spend with each other and, there is a pace that both in both of us, can handle.
A yoke is a wooden, bar that oxs will wear and share the, burden by pulling the weight, together so oxin will pull the weight, you can you can see from this picture, you can see that they're both strong you, you can see that they're both capable of, sharing the weight but this image that, you're looking at right now is not what, Jesus is referring to Jesus is not, saying come to me right and I and we, will share the, weight Jesus promises that his yoke is, light which means while you walk with, him he will take on your, burdens.
Jesus not only will take your, burdens but he will show you how to, maintain, your, rest this is not about only holding, jesus' hand whenever we need something, from, him this is about us holding his hand, every single day this is about us, depending on his, wisdom that when we are in a position, where God has given us the strength that, we need and we necessarily don't need to, hold his hand anymore this is the moment, where you should squeeze jesus' hand a, little bit, tighter.
You should have a desire to please him you, should have a desire to worship him you, should have a desire to honor him and, Christians we've got to hear I am, blowing the hor I am sounding the alarm, you have got to be careful that you are, not playing with fire when God is, teaching us to be holy for he is Holy, but we keep on playing with that line, telling oursel that God is going to be, there.
Serving Jesus following Jesus is, is not a, chore this it's not a, chore it's not supposed to be a, burden it's not a burden you know why, because I want to be in relationship, with, Jesus so when I read his word and it, teaches, me about him this word is supposed to, disciple me so that I can apply it into, my, life.
Jesus never forced a relationship with, us listen to this he made the choice to, die and he made a choice to extend his, grace because he want wanted, to and this morning as I was praying for, this, word I was actually talking to my wife, and I said man baby it just hit, me we highlight so much about, Jesus but we forget that the father had, to make sacrifice as, well for God so loved the world that he, gave his only and begotten, son that whosoever believe in him him, shall not perish but have everlasting, life the father didn't have to give his, son to us he wanted to give his son to, us so much, so that when the, son was asking his father to take the, cup of suffering away from him his, father denied his requests by remaining, silent because he, chose, us.
Transcripts
Matthew chap 11 we're going to be
reading verses 28 through
30 Matthew
1128 through
30 we are on week two this is part two
of the
invitation we're going to be reading
words from Jesus himself a direct
invitation to you and I and this is what
it reads I'm going to read it from the
NLT then Jesus said come to me all of
you who are weary and carry heavy
burdens and I will give you
rest take my yoke upon you let me teach
you because I am humble and gentle at
heart and you will find rest for your
souls for my yoke is easy to bear and
the burden I give you is light I want
you to go ahead and repeat after me your
word word is written in my mind your
word is hidden in my heart your word is
a lamp unto my feet and a light for my
path I will seek you with all my
strength I choose to live my life
according to your word your word your
word oh Lord is eternal you may be
seated
I'm going to give you two titles today
you can choose the best one you
like the first one I'll give you is Come
to
Me Jesus in his very word said come to
me the other title that I would give you
is
RSVP
RSVP now whenever you and I receive an
invitation for a wedding or a special
event they would ask ask you to
RSVP now RSVP is a French term that
translates to
respond if you
please now this invitation is very
selective because your name is on it and
some invitations would actually put how
many are
invited on the receiving end it is our
responsibility to respond so if you
accept you would put the number of
people attending and mail back let me
park for a moment if you say you're
going to be there please be
there do you do know that especially if
it's a wedding do you know you do know
that they just paid a plate for you to
be there right it's courtesy if I'm
going to be there if I say I'm going to
be there I'm going to be there here here
is another note don't take more
people to a
party and and and invite your whole crew
with you if it was only two people that
were invited like it's just just stick
with just stick with the
number so if you if you accept it what
we'll do is we'll we'll mail back the
invitation nowadays we can actually
electronically
respond if you don't respond the
assumption is you're not
coming I want you to know here today
that God has sent us an invitation
and it is up to us to either respond to
this invitation or to not
respond our relationship with Jesus is
not a forced
relationship he leaves it open-ended if
you want to be in relationship with him
then you have that opportunity to do
that the very words of Jesus is this
come to me all of you
not just some of you but come to me all
of you all of us have experienced being
weary or having a heavy burden he is
saying come to me all of you who are
heavy
burdened if you are weary Jesus says
come to me so he sends invites to every
tired heart he he sends invites to every
tired
Soul he gives us an invitation so that
we can partner with him now you and I
know that life can be very hard much
distress disappointment Sorrows has
anybody experience disappointments or
Sorrows
sadness for some of us we've had
sleepless
nights Many Many Tears overflow of
tears and what I love about God is that
he doesn't give us stipulations or rules
before coming to him
he is saying that if this is what you're
feeling or this is what you're going
through then
come Come Just As You Are come with your
Broken Heart come with your confused
mind he he doesn't give you an
assignment to work on or ask you to
change or fix a few things in your life
before Drawing Near to him all he does
it says
come draw near to me and Jes Jesus says
I'll draw near to you come with your
broken self that's all he says all of
you and I will watch this I will give
you rest here is the gift if you come to
me here is the promise if you come to me
if you come to me I would give you rest
if your tired Soul comes to me I'll give
you rest if you're weary I'll give you
rest that is a promise now the
difference between between us and God is
this when you and I throw a party and we
send out an
invitation when they come to our
birthday party we are expecting them to
buy us a gift how many you know what I'm
talking
about if I invite you to my party don't
come to my party empty-handed I expect
you to buy me a gift if not you're
cheap if I invite you to come to my
wedding it is
it is it'll be nice for you to bring a
gift but God works the opposite
way when God sends an
invitation he gives you a
gift when he tells you to come to me so
in this Essence he says all who are
weary come to me and if you come to me
I'm going to give you a gift and that
gift is rest how many of us here today
we need rest like we need a restful mind
we need a restful
heart I mean some of us we're having
nightmares we can't even sleep at night
you're sleeping but you're not sleeping
have you ever tried to sleep but your
mind keeps on running it just never
shuts down he simply says come to me all
of you and I would give you a gift Not
only would I give you a gift of rest but
whatever it is that you need the Bible
teaches us that he sent us an invitation
for
salvation he sent us an invitation so
that we can be one with him
come with me I if you continue to read
the scripture in chapter 12 I want you
to know that there has become um there
is a discussion about
Sabbath the disciples were hungry so
they started to pick up some grains from
the fields and they ate them now I want
you to track with me
here because when it comes to Salvation
when it comes to rest God just wants you
to come to him there's nothing that you
could do to work or earn what God has to
offer so the the religious group
approached Jesus and said they were
breaking a law for working on the
Sabbath they were upset because they
were picking up grains and they were
eating Jesus corrects them by saying the
priest breaks the Sabbath all the time
because they have to do God's work on
the
Sabbath now Jesus was proven a point how
selective and biased a practice of the
Sabbath was then Jesus says in Matthew
12 6-8 follow me here I tell you that
something greater than the temple is
here if you had known what these words
mean I desire listen to this Mercy not
sacrifice you would not have condemned
the innocent for the son of man is the
Lord of the
Sabbath the son of man is the lord of
the Sabbath Now understand temple temple
was a place of sacrifice few months ago
we went on a whole Tabernacle series and
in that series I taught you that it was
a place of sacrifice that the first
entrance was the
Altar and only the priest and the holy
uh and and the and the high priest was
able to go into the temple it was a
place of sacrifice Jesus is saying in
this
scripture I tell you something greater
than the temple is here there are so
many people that are looking at
sacrifice and think that the sacrifice
is the highest point of God's favor and
yet Jesus is saying the highest point of
your favor is not what you do but is who
you
serve Sabbath means this it means rest
and it was intended for man and not for
man for the Sabbath in other words God
did not create Sabbath so that it can
control you God created Sabbath so that
it can work for you and although the
Sabbath is to be kept holy whenever it's
misused it will not give you rest let me
break this thing down a little bit
deeper Jesus is saying religion and its
tradition will not give you
rest that our routine will not give us
rest following rules being good doing
good would not give you rest what will
give you rest is all Who Come to
Me Jesus then goes to
church he then goes to church and the
religious group presents a man with a
shrivel hand in hopes that Jesus will
work and help this man by breaking the
law so they can arrest Jesus they wanted
to pit him with with blasphemy now when
on the Sabbath you were not supposed to
work they created all of these rules in
supporting the Sabbath healing someone
was one of the requirements that was
against the law so they tried to ask
Jesus this question is it unlawful to
heal on the Sabbath listen to what Jesus
has to
say Matthew 12 11-13 he said to them if
any of you has a sheep and it falls into
a pit on the Sabbath will you not take
hold of it and lift it
out here's the line that you have to
underline how much more valuable is a
person than a
sheep how much more valuable is a person
than
religion how much more valuable is a
person than the law how much more
valuable is a
person than religion therefore it is
lawful to to do good on the Sabbath
Jesus is still talking here then he said
to the man stretch out your hand so not
only does he respond to the religious
leaders who are trying to Corner him for
blasphemy he then asks the man with the
shriv hand to pull it out so the Bible
says he stretched it out and it was
completely
restored they became
eyewitness of the miracle
we have got to be careful that we don't
become so churchy that we miss
people we got to be careful that we
don't become so churchy that we use the
Bible so that we can slap them versus
using the Bible so that we can Inspire
them we we got to be careful that we
don't become holier than D because we
are connected to Jesus that we should
downgrade everybody else who is not at
the same level that we are at the Bible
was never to hit people across the face
the Bible was supposed to be a
foundation that they can stand on and we
ought to be a reflection of that Grace
the same Grace that was extended to us
when we were hard-headed that same Grace
that was given to us when we weren't
listening to Jesus that same Grace that
when we were rebellious and it was
extended to us God is saying use that
words as a rock for others to stand on
not to beat the come down to their
grave we all have needs we all have
needs but sometimes I feel Christians
have forgotten what God has done for
them we all have needs but sometimes I
forget of of that we forget what what
God has delivered us from we got to
remind
ourselves that we were broken and check
this out and we're still
broken we all have needs like like the
Sheep who wandered off from the rest and
fell into the hole we all have
needs G Jesus is consistent no matter
why you fell into the hole he extends
his hand to pick us
up he encourages us with his hope he
takes us in and Embraces us not one day
a
week every day of the week I'm here to
tell you that Jesus is the Sabbath seven
days a week and I am so grateful that
Jesus does not take a day off but yet he
gives us himself all the time come to me
all who are
weary that the hurts and pains of his
creation does not supersede the the
practice of Sabbath according to how
Jesus defines it how Jesus declares it I
I believe that some of us are trying to
find our Peace by doing the
work we're trying to find our Peace by
doing the work we're trying to find that
Comfort by doing the work rather than
surrendering and trusting
God that when life has Us by the
throat when we are suffering with
emotional
distress that our mental health is
unstable Jesus wants to make it clear
that something great
that something greater is here than the
temple something greater is here than
the sacrifices you make in other words
the sacrifices we make in the temple are
great but Jesus is greater than the
sacrifice I'm going to take you deeper
coming to church is great but there's
something greater you don't go to church
you go to Jesus knowing that Jesus
presence is in the
church
God does not say all who are weary come
to church he says all who are weary come
to me you've got it all twisted you are
approaching it with the religious matter
which means let me go to church cuz I
need to be fixed and Jesus is saying you
can go to church and walk out the same
way but if you come to me I can fix
you I can fix you in your home I can fix
you in the street I can fix you no
matter where you find yourself you don't
need to be in a church building to be
fixed all you need to know is come to me
all who are all I know is that in the
Midnight Hour these Church doors are
closed what are you going to do then you
can call on the name of the Lord and he
would be with
[Applause]
you the sacrifices we make in the temple
are great but there's something greater
and that greater is
Jesus Jesus doesn't say come to
sacrifice church folks he doesn't say
come to sacrifice he says come to me all
who are weary and burdensome and I would
be your
Sabbath I would give you
rest it's not lined up on a day it's
lined up on who he is I am your
Sabbath it takes courage and humility to
release control and trust
God a lot of
humility
it also takes understanding on how
coming to Jesus will give you real
rest how does coming to Jesus give you
real rest I want to read same scripture
Matthew 11:28-30
but but I want to read it from The
Message Bible and this is how it
paraphrases it are you
tired worn
out burned out on
religion come to me
get away with me and you'll recover your
life I'll show you how to take a real
rest walk with me and work with me watch
How I do it learn The unforced rhythms
of Grace I won't lay anything heavy or
ill fit fitting on you keep company with
me and you'll learn to live freely and
lightly the the key word that we cannot
miss is with
me God says walk with me work with me
learn from me keep company with me that
this is a
relationship that this is not religion
this is
relationship Jesus is speaking to a
Jewish people who has worked very hard
in holding up the
law policing people's behavior and in
many instance playing God by judging and
condemning that when you play such a
role you have to hold up an
image that is
hard you have to hold up an image that
isn't even organic it isn't even real
and throughout scripture Jesus will call
these religious people Hypocrites you
know why because when they pray they
only did it to be heard
when they gave they only did it to be
seen the issue isn't prayer the issue
isn't giving the issue is the motive and
the
agenda matter of fact Jesus teaches us
to give teaches us to pray but you have
got to define the why you pray in your
life you got to Define why you give in
your life the Bible says that if you're
not going to give what laugh then don't
give at
Allelujah keep that money to yourself
keep your gift to yourself if all you're
going to do is show up in Ministry and
complain don't show up
then don't don't show up if you have a
complaining heart and you're always
bickering and you're always mad and
you're nasty ain't nobody want that
spirit in the
atmosphere ain't nobody want that nasty
you have got to First work on coming to
Jesus so that you can fix that bad
attitude so that when you give yourself
unto the Lord then what you offer up is
praise and worship not your
nasty the issue isn't these
principles my my heart as a Christian
breaks for those who are tired and
you're tired because you've been
practicing religion way too long we've
been trying to tell people that this is
not a religion this is a relationship
with Jesus it is completely different
are you feeling burn
out are you burned out because you have
tried all of these things that you've
heard in the preaching and yet you are
not seeing and feeling the fruits of it
something's
wrong when we treat Christianity as such
we are missing the very essence on what
God created us in the first place very
simple but here's the message Jesus
invites us to be in relationship with
him it is an invitation to be
one it is an
invitation to be with him and in him if
you're weary tired walk with me he says
and I'll give you a gift I'll give you
rest you know what Jesus doesn't want to
have Jesus doesn't want to have a
transactional
relationship a transactional
relationship is is like a business
transaction it is a deal built on
staying in the relationship as long as
you have something to
offer so Jesus as long as as you give me
what I need then I'm going to remain in
relationship with
you there is no relationship that will
last intimately no relationship no
dating relationship no friendship
relationship there is no relationship
that would last if it's only based on
transactional because transactional
relationship means that I'm only in it
because you got something to offer me
now there is another type of
relationship that we've really got to
start focusing on which is the
transformational
relationship Jesus is not about the
transaction he is about the
transformational relationship the trans
transformational relationship it gives
us room to grow it gives us room to
evolve it is a relationship of giving
towards each
other it is a relationship about
selfless
giving not selfish because when I am
when I'm selfish then I am only giving
because I'm expecting a return but when
I am selfless I am giving because I want
to make you PR proud I am giving because
I love you walking with Jesus is
transformational and the reason that it
is transformational is because walking
is a pace that you and I can handle it
is time spent now if you ever ever
walked with a loved one holding their
hands and walking there is an intimacy
in that there is time to talk there is
time to to spend with each other and
there is a pace that both in both of us
can handle it is true that there's some
of you who can outrun me and there are
others that I can outrun the Bible does
not say run with me he says walk with me
and the reason that God said walk with
me and not run with me is because he
recognizes we cannot keep up in his pace
so he throws up his pace so that we can
be in a pace that is comfortable in
growing in relationship my relationship
with my wife has to be
intentional because our lives are so
busy that if she tries to keep up with
me or I try to keep up with her then we
would always miss each other so we are
intentional about sitting down and
spending time with each other checking
in with one
another God wants you to walk hand in
hand with him every single day we work
and we work hard we work for our
wages we work for our career paths we
will work in our
relationships but Jesus says walk with
me because my yoke is
light it it is a different type of
expectations you and I know even in a
dating relationship there is
expectations that we have to meet and at
times it gets
tiresome but Jesus says no if you date
me it's a different type of
relationship because the truth is is
that Jesus don't need nothing from us
and Jesus Is God all by himself he don't
need us to feed his ego because he knows
who he is we're the ones that need God
so it isn't to our benefit that we walk
with him are you with me today now let
me take you deeper a yoke is a wooden
bar that oxs will wear and share the
burden by pulling the weight
together so oxin will pull the weight
you can you can see from this picture
you can see that they're both strong you
you can see that they're both capable of
sharing the weight but this image that
you're looking at right now is not what
Jesus is referring to Jesus is not
saying come to me right and I and we
will share the
weight Jesus promises that his yoke is
light which means while you walk with
him he will take on your
burdens Jesus recognizes I am bigger and
I am stronger than
you all I need you to do is walk with me
I don't need you to stop I need you to
keep on going I'm going to carry your
load so you're going to have to trust me
if you trust yourself then what's going
to happen is it's going to weigh you
down if you put your trust in money then
it's not going to give you what you need
if you put your trust in a relationship
it's not going to get you what you need
God is trying to say these these things
that we put our weight into or or we
carry it's too heavy for us to bear it's
going to crush you but put that on me
trust me with your finances trust me
with your relationship
trust me with your heart trust me with
your mind Jesus promises that his yoke
is light because he's bigger he's
stronger he just don't want you to stop
he not only will take on your burdens
but he will show you how to maintain
your
rest this is not about only holding
jesus' hand whenever we need something
from
him this is about us holding his hand
every single day this is about us
depending on his
wisdom that when we are in a position
where God has given us the strength that
we need and we necessarily don't need to
hold his hand anymore this is the moment
where you should squeeze jesus' hand a
little bit
tighter have you ever had have you ever
had someone coming to you and tell you
don't do that but you felt like you were
ready so you did it anyways
don't do that it it makes me laugh when
when when when our kids sometimes they
can't wait to leave the house I'm like
really you can't wait to pay the bills I
I can't wait to see you pay rent I I
can't wait to see you pay the phone bill
I can't wait
to right that that's I can't
wait but but when you when you think
about it there are certain people who
leave God
premature you're holding his hand
because you need him but when you find
the strength and you feel like you're
completely healed you walk away from
Jesus thinking to yourself I can do this
all by
myself and the farther we are away from
God then it is the enemy's plan so that
it could create a distance from his
presence Jesus not only will take your
burdens but he will show you how to
maintain I want to learn not only how to
have peace but I want to learn how to
keep
peace I I I don't want to learn just
peace in moments and times I want to
learn how can this be a part of the
fabric of my
DNA I want to learn what it feels like
to be comforted in the middle of my
sadness I don't want to just be sad God
give me comfort in my Sadness the Bible
say blessed is the one who Mourns for
they will be comforted that God would
comfort you in your mourning that if
you're grieving God says I would comfort
you
that Jesus himself says that every tear
that falls from your eyes that I watch
this now that I would put it in the jar
and guess what and it will be returned
as a reward
Hallelujah see part of this journey with
us Walking With Jesus is him discipling
us where to put our
Focus what to do with our burdens how to
heal Jesus is teaching us because he
doesn't want us to be a seasonal
experience God doesn't want us to
exclude him from our life he wants you
to include
him your burdens God says put it on me
Jesus is saying that life is lighter
with me than without
me troubles and difficult times are much
lighter when you let me carry the burden
I can't explain it to you but I can
explain it through
scripture how many times I have felt the
peace of God in the middle of my
tribulation the tribulation is still
there emotionally I'm still racked but
there is a
peace that gets me up in the
morning it is a peace and a strength
that allows me to take that
step it's something that is super
natural that only comes when you are in
Christ
Jesus says Watch How I do it learn the
Rhythm and the unforced rhythm of Grace
Grace is what God created after the fall
of Man Grace is what gives us what we do
not
deserve
Grace I like what doug clay said the
general superintendent of AG he says the
yoke is more partnership and relief than
it is about
control it is more partnership do you
want to partner with Jesus
today do you want to be yolked with
Jesus
today what will your life look like if
you truly surrender yourself to him what
will your life look like if you would
Surrender Your Will to
him we are partnering with Jesus not
excluding but
including now Jesus in context when he
was saying this here's what he was
saying he was saying I I want you to
take off the burden of legalism towards
the religious
group I want to I want you to take off
that burden of
legalism that if you're tired of
religion take that off because it's
weighing you
down this is what this is what watch
this now this is what being unequally
unequally yolked look like when
religious comes before
Jesus this is what unequally Yol looks
like you got Jesus that is ready to walk
with you but because you are more
focused on religion than you are Jesus
there's no movement in your
life because there is no focus on Jesus
and your faith then what happens is
we've got people that are stagnant they
are dry and they are dead and Jesus is
saying draw near to me just just give me
some of that Faith just faith enough
that that is that is as big as a mustard
seed that's all I need
I don't even need your strength all I
need is your faith in me all I need you
to do is trust me that I am more than
capable of helping you in the season
that you win I know you're in a dark
time in your life I know there is a
cloud over you and I understand Jesus
says that there are people that walk
through these doors and you have a smile
on your face but no one sees you when
your head hits the pillow and how dark
it is no one is there being a witness
with the nightmares and having sleepless
nights and Jesus says I am there all the
time and I see
everything this is what unequally yolked
is when you are so much focused on the
church then you are Jesus when you think
that Ministry would heal you and not
Jesus when you serve and you serve and
you serve preaching would not heal me
Jesus would heal me preaching is my gift
preaching is my calling I am a pastor
but I am beyond a pastor don't limit me
to a title and a position I am a son of
a god of the most high that's who I am I
am royalty I am
prood don't limit me to a
position I am more than a
position I am a
child I am a child of God unequally
yolked looks just like that when
following Jesus and the Commandments
become burdensome have you ever felt
that like ah it's so
hard and it becomes a burden and we have
misplaced our relationship from intimacy
to a
burden God didn't create the ten
commandments so that it could be more of
a burden for you you know what it says
in 1 John 53 loving God me means keeping
his
Commandments and his Commandments are
not burdensome which means if the
Commandments are burdensome to you then
something is wrong let me tell you
what's wrong what's wrong is that you
have and you're carrying the spirit of
religion on
you if the Commandments are
burdensome when you and I when we live
to please from a place of love and not a
place of obligation the relationship is
much easier and less
burdensome so as a Christian it brings
me joy in keeping to his Commandments
why because I want to keep his
Commandments it brings me joy in keeping
his
Commandments I don't have to keep his
Commandments I want to keep his
Commandments you don't have to you can
break all of them and the Bible says if
you broken one you have broken all of
them you can break them
you can miss the mark every single day
if you want you can choose not to
believe God is not going to force you to
believe him God is not going to force
you to trust him God is not going to
force you to love him because that is
not a real relationship try to be in a
relationship where you are forced to
love somebody that you don't
love so much
so because I want to keep to these
Commandments
when I mess up I feel
bad because I desire to love him through
my
obedience when I know what God has
placed in his word for me when I
recognize what God loves and God hates
when I disappoint myself through not
following through with the laws of Jesus
it breaks my heart I wonder does it
break your heart when you
sin or do you just Live Another Day
thinking to yourself what Grace is there
that is a religious spirit that needs to
be taken off of you you should feel the
weight of the
sin the Bible teaches us that when we
repent that we will turn from meaning we
have no desire in returning to the junk
that God has delivered us from you
should have a desire to please him you
should have a desire to worship him you
should have a desire to honor him and
Christians we've got to hear I am
blowing the hor I am sounding the alarm
you have got to be careful that you are
not playing with fire when God is
teaching us to be holy for he is Holy
but we keep on playing with that line
telling oursel that God is going to be
there serving Jesus following Jesus is
is not a
chore this it's not a
chore it's not supposed to be a
burden it's not a burden you know why
because I want to be in relationship
with
Jesus so when I read his word and it
teaches
me about him this word is supposed to
disciple me so that I can apply it into
my
life so when I read statistics that only
11% of
Christians read their Bible a day it
concerns me new
life some of y'all pray more than you
read the word and I'm here to tell you
that you've got to balance out your
spirituality with him you can't just
pray pray pray because let's just be
honest most times when we pray we're
asking something from
him but how are we going to be
shaped how are we going to be discipled
how are we going to be corrected how are
we going to be encouraged how are we
going to know Our God if we only read
the
Bible whenever we decide to read the
Bible I wonder how long we will live if
we treat oxygen the same way that we
treat reading his
word it's not a
burden because I want to be in
relationship with
him it's not a burden to come to church
oh I got to go to church again stay
home you could stay home
home you hear it's not a burden to come
to church you know what it's about it's
about me wanting to go to church I got
up this morning and I was excited
because I was going to wear my shirt
from India I got excited because I
matched my clothes and I didn't wait
till this morning you know what I did
I'm so giddy that last night I started
ironing my clothes and I am preparing to
enter the house of
God I I'm looking looking forward to
y'all remember the days when you used to
go to the club you used to iron your
clothes you used to look at yourself in
the mirror you used to check yourself
out you probably changed a couple of
times before you walked out the door why
because you wanted to look your best I
just wonder Saints how many of us put
that much attention into going in the
house of
God there you are with your with your
CBS gear and your socks gear and your
Bears gear I'm a sports fan so I tell
you how many times do we cheer cheer
cheer raah Rah raah for a team that we
choose but yet when we come to church
there we go we are with our Sofer Spirit
there we go with our hands crossed there
we go entering into a place as if it's a
burden and not a privilege entering into
a place where the presence of God is
we're constantly on the clock we got to
go to the next place we got to go to the
appointment when is Pastor D going to
finish preaching cuz I got something
else to do when God is trying to tell
you slow
down slow
down isn't it funny we are seeking a
miracle from God but we put him on a
clock we put them on a clock you know
why half of people would not come to
Thanksgiving service cuz you're going to
be too busy putting a turkey in an
oven
people won't even come to Christmas Eve
service why because they're too busy
getting the house ready to have a
party got to set our priorities
straight this it's not a
burden is that a burden to serve in
Ministry people always come to me
especially how do you do it it's not a
burden I love what I
[Music]
do is it hard
yes listen God gave me a
gift and I have no desire to sit on
[Music]
it go God is giving me
something so that I can use it for
him how how many of
us are sitting on a
gift don't don't don't be cute about it
oh I do this for the glory of God you
don't do it for the glory of God you do
it for your
Glory my business I do it for the glory
of God but yet you ain't spending time
with God you ain't faithful with your
Tidings you you you just you're just
doing and doing and doing but yet you
have no time I'm doing it for the glory
you're not doing it for the glory of God
it's like putting lipstick on a
pig am I am I am I preaching hard
[Applause]
today
life life is
hard every time a teacher comes to me
and says I want to get out I will always
ask him did Jesus tell you to get
out no this just just listen to me did
Jesus tell you to leave your job like if
you're a teacher don't you think that we
need more
faithful Bible
believing people in the school
system
am no if if if God told you to shift
then you
shift but you don't do it because it's
hard God didn't
create us to be
weak and to allow challenges to defeat
us we don't give
up on our Prof in our on on on
our prodigal sons or daughters because
it's hard
we love
them it's not a
burden to serve
Jesus it's a
blessing it's an
honor it's not a
burden when we feel like our
relationship with Jesus is a
burden we have now turned our want
to into have
to we have turned
intimacy into
obligation I'll close it here I got a
lot more to say but I'll close it right
here
Jesus never forced a relationship with
us listen to this he made the choice to
die and he made a choice to extend his
grace because he want wanted
to and this morning as I was praying for
this
word I was actually talking to my wife
and I said man baby it just hit
me we highlight so much about
Jesus but we forget that the father had
to make sacrifice as
well for God so loved the world that he
gave his only and begotten
son that whosoever believe in him him
shall not perish but have everlasting
life the father didn't have to give his
son to us he wanted to give his son to
us so much
so that when the
son was asking his father to take the
cup of suffering away from him his
father denied his requests by remaining
silent because he
chose
us this thing is deeper than a
religion this thing is about a
relationship a
transformational relationship would you
stand to your feet
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here's my
call matter of fact put up the scripture
for me re Revelations
22:17 the Holy Spirit and the bride the
church believer say
come and let the one who hears say
come and let the one who is thirsty come
and let the one who wishes take and
drink the water of
life without
cost salvation is
free growing in your
faith is different from the actual
Saving Grace
the Bible teaches us that it is by his
grace that we are saved which means
there is no works that you and I have to
do now if you want to develop your faith
the Bible says you ought to work out
your
salvation which means that there are
principles that God teaches us which is
one is here walk with him let him
disciple him let him disciple you but if
you're here today and you're saying I
want that free gift of
Salvation I want Jesus to save me not
religion maybe you're in this place and
religion has gotten you
tired maybe you have put the focus in
all the wrong places you have been a
faithful member you've been a faithful
tither you have been faithful in the
things that you have done here at New
Life Covenant but you still find
yourself tired and God is trying to tell
you you have got to come to
me I will satisfy your
thirst I would feed you bread that would
satisfy your
hunger would you bow your heads and
close your eyes if you're in this place
and you say Pastor D would you pray for
me I want salvation I want to be in
relationship with Jesus I want to be one
with him if that is you would you lift
up your hands where you're at we want to
pray for you anybody else I see hands
that are lifted I want to be maybe
you're a prodal maybe you're one that
has run from Jesus and Jesus is saying
here today come come to me all who are
weary if you're here today and you're
saying pastor D I have been blinded by
religion I have saw things the wrong way
but today I am ready to commit myself
and run to Jesus Jesus says come to me
all who are weary all who are tired if
you are weary if you are tired if you
feel sadness if you are disappointed I
want to tell you here today Jesus says
my yoke is light cast all your cares
upon the Lord no one and nothing can
give you what Jesus can give you you
have tried everything else but today I
tell you try Jesus if that is you lift
up your hands right where you're at and
this call is for those of you that are
watching online as well when I count to
three what I want you to do with every
courage and with humility get out of
your seats and make your way up here at
the altar let me tell you what insanity
is insanity is wanting to change but yet
doing the same thing over and over
expecting different results if you want
to see new results I'm here to tell you
you are a new creation in Christ Jesus
he'll give you new results he'll give
you new breath he'll give you new
strength he'll give you new hope he'll
give you new peace if that is you today
when I count to three just come out of
your seats one two three let the Holy
Spirit pull you from your seat meet me
at this altar this is not about religion
this is about Jesus this is not about
your deals this is about your heart
desires
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