YOU MUST stop texting her like this

TrueCam
24 Jan 202310:49

Summary

TLDRIn this video, the host, Red, offers advice on effective communication, particularly for men engaging with women on platforms like YouTube. He critiques a conversation example, emphasizing the importance of not being too eager or overly validating in text exchanges. Red suggests using humor and asking questions to maintain control of the conversation and keep it engaging. He also advises against double texting and overusing compliments, as these can show too much interest and potentially bore the other party. The video is a guide for viewers to improve their dating and conversation skills.

Takeaways

  • 📝 Always keep the conversation engaging and avoid simple, one-word answers to maintain control and interest.
  • 🔄 Never answer 'just' questions directly; instead, ask a question back to keep the dialogue flowing.
  • 🚫 Avoid double texting as it can show too much interest and desperation, which may not be attractive.
  • 🤔 Show interest but not too much; balance is key to not overwhelming the other person with validation.
  • 👀 Women often prefer the chase and like to feel they are pursuing someone who is slightly out of reach.
  • 🌟 Stand out from the crowd by not just saying 'hey' or 'what's up', which are common and uninteresting greetings.
  • 😴 Avoid dry and uninteresting text messages that don't prompt a response or continue the conversation.
  • 📱 Consider using voice messages or phone calls instead of text when appropriate, as texting can become monotonous.
  • 🏆 Maintain a competitive edge by being active and hitting milestones, which can make you more appealing.
  • 💬 Don't ask questions that might make you seem like you're competing with others for attention, keep the focus on the interaction.
  • 🔚 End the conversation on a high note and don't overdo it with compliments or validation; leave room for intrigue.

Q & A

  • What is the main topic of the video script?

    -The main topic of the video script is about the art of conversation, particularly in the context of dating and texting, and how to avoid common mistakes that may lead to disinterest from the other party.

  • What is the speaker's name and what does he represent in the script?

    -The speaker's name is Red, and he represents a knowledgeable figure who is giving advice on how to handle conversations, especially with potential romantic interests.

  • Why does Red emphasize not to answer questions simply in a conversation?

    -Red emphasizes not to answer questions simply because it can lead to a lack of engagement in the conversation. He suggests adding a question or comment to keep the dialogue flowing and to maintain control of the conversation.

  • What does Red mean by 'double texting' and why is it not recommended?

    -By 'double texting,' Red refers to the act of sending a second message without receiving a reply to the first one. It is not recommended because it can come across as desperate or overly eager, which may not be attractive to the person you are texting.

  • What is the advice Red gives regarding the use of validation in a conversation?

    -Red advises to avoid excessive validation, such as complimenting the other person too much, especially in the early stages of getting to know them. This is because it can make the person appear too interested and eager, which can be off-putting.

  • What does Red suggest as an alternative to texting to keep a conversation interesting?

    -Red suggests using other platforms like Instagram, engaging with the person's story, and sending voice messages as alternatives to texting. He also recommends trying to get on the phone with the person to make the conversation more dynamic.

  • Why does Red mention that women like to chase a man?

    -Red mentions that women like to chase a man because it creates a sense of challenge and desirability. It is a psychological aspect where the pursuit makes the man seem more valuable and attractive.

  • What is the speaker's view on the use of emojis in texting, particularly the heart emoji?

    -The speaker's view is that using emojis, especially the heart emoji, can be too forward and may give the impression of being overly eager or showing too much interest, which can be detrimental to the conversation.

  • What does Red suggest about the importance of having a 'lot' in the context of dating?

    -Red suggests that having a 'lot' refers to having a lot of options or a busy and interesting life. This makes a person more attractive because it implies that they are desirable and have a lot going on, making them a more appealing catch.

  • What is the final advice Red gives regarding the approach to conversations with potential romantic interests?

    -Red's final advice is to make the other person prove themselves to you, rather than the other way around. This means not being too available or eager, and instead creating a sense of competition where the other person is interested in joining your life.

  • What does Red suggest as a way to end the conversation in the script?

    -Red suggests ending the conversation by not over-texting and by not replying to every message, especially if the conversation has become dry or if the other person is not showing interest. He also emphasizes the importance of not double or triple texting.

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