How to BUILD A ROUTINE That Will CHANGE YOUR LIFE & Stay Consistent
Summary
TLDRIn this motivational video, the speaker shares three principles that helped them graduate medical school, grow a successful business, and work full-time as a doctor while maintaining their well-being. They emphasize the importance of creating habit loops, focusing on habits that align with personal goals, and practicing forgiveness when routines falter. The speaker encourages viewers to build habits gradually and to get back on track without guilt after setbacks, highlighting the balance between routine and enjoying life's memorable moments.
Takeaways
- 😀 Building a routine is about incorporating habits into a chain of events, not viewing them in isolation.
- 🏆 Habit loops are crucial for maintaining routines; they involve a cue, craving, response, and reward.
- 🌟 The speaker's habit loop example includes waking up, making a smoothie, enjoying it at the desk, and working for two hours in the morning.
- 🚀 Focus on habits that contribute to your personal goals, rather than following what's popular on social media.
- 🌱 Develop one or a few habits at a time to avoid overwhelming yourself and ensure they stick.
- 🏋️♀️ If you want to improve mental health, focus on gratitude, movement, and meditation.
- 🍎 For physical health, develop a nutritious breakfast habit and ensure daily movement and hydration.
- 📚 To increase productivity, consider habits like morning flow states or daily planning.
- 🌈 Forgiveness is key when developing a routine; allow for slip-ups and gently get back on track.
- 🌟 Recognize that rebuilding habits is often quicker than building them from scratch, so don't give up after a setback.
- 🌻 Balance is important; enjoy life's moments while maintaining healthy habits that contribute to longevity and happiness.
Q & A
What are the three foolproof principles mentioned in the script for building a successful routine?
-The three principles are: 1) Viewing habits as part of a chain of events (habit loop) rather than isolated events, 2) Focusing on habits that contribute to personal goals rather than following social media trends, and 3) Practicing forgiveness and resilience when routines are disrupted.
Why is it important to connect habits in a chain of events?
-Connecting habits in a chain of events helps create a habit loop, which makes it easier to stick to the habits as they are part of a routine that naturally leads from one action to another.
What is a habit loop and how does it help in maintaining habits?
-A habit loop is a series of connected actions that lead from one habit to another, creating a cycle that reinforces the habit. It helps in maintaining habits by making them part of a routine that is easier to follow and remember.
What is the significance of the morning smoothie in the speaker's routine?
-The morning smoothie is significant because it initiates a chain reaction in the speaker's routine. It leads to the craving for the smoothie, which in turn leads to working at the desk, and this routine helps maintain the habit of a 2-hour morning work session.
Why is it recommended to focus on one or a few habits at a time when developing a new routine?
-Focusing on one or a few habits at a time helps prevent overwhelming oneself and allows for better consolidation of each habit. It is a more manageable approach that increases the likelihood of success in building a new routine.
What should be the focus when choosing habits to incorporate into a routine?
-The focus should be on habits that contribute to achieving personal goals, such as improving mental health, physical health, or productivity, rather than following habits suggested by social media without considering their relevance to one's own objectives.
How does the speaker manage to get back on track when their routine is disrupted?
-The speaker practices forgiveness by not giving up on their routine when it is disrupted. They make a note of their wake-up time and gradually adjust it by waking up 15 minutes earlier each day until they return to their desired routine.
Why is it important to accept that routines will inevitably fail at some point?
-Accepting that routines will fail is important because it helps in maintaining a realistic perspective and reduces the feelings of guilt or failure when disruptions occur. It allows for easier re-entry into the routine without being discouraged.
What is the role of rewards in the speaker's habit loop?
-Rewards, such as the taste of the morning smoothie and the satisfaction of crossing off tasks, play a crucial role in the speaker's habit loop. They provide motivation and a sense of achievement, which helps in maintaining the routine.
How does the speaker emphasize the importance of balance between routine and enjoying life?
-The speaker emphasizes that while routines are important, they should not overshadow the enjoyment of life. They suggest that it is crucial to have routines that coexist harmoniously with the experiences and memories that truly matter in life.
Outlines
😀 Building a Successful Routine
The speaker discusses the importance of creating a routine that aligns with personal goals and habits. They emphasize that habits should not be seen in isolation but rather as part of a connected chain of events, ideally leading to a reward. The speaker shares their personal habit of working for two hours every morning before going to work, which has been a significant change in their life. They highlight the concept of 'habit loops,' where a series of connected actions and rewards help in maintaining a habit. The speaker also advises against adopting too many habits at once and suggests focusing on one or a few at a time to avoid overwhelming oneself.
😌 Embracing Imperfection in Habit Building
In this paragraph, the speaker addresses the common issue of feeling guilty when a habit slips or is interrupted, such as after a holiday or a significant event. They encourage viewers to accept that routines will inevitably face disruptions and to avoid feeling guilty about these setbacks. The speaker shares their own experience of adjusting their morning routine after returning from a trip and emphasizes the importance of forgiving oneself and getting back on track. They remind viewers that the key to success is not in maintaining a perfect routine but in the ability to recover and continue with the habit once the disruption is over.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Routine
💡Habits
💡Habit Loop
💡Flow State
💡Reward
💡Productivity
💡Forgiveness
💡Overwhelm
💡Tulis
💡Failure
💡Gratitude
💡Nutritious Breakfast
Highlights
The speaker emphasizes the importance of not viewing habits in isolation but as interconnected events in a habit loop.
A habit loop is initiated by a cue, followed by a routine, a reward, and a response, which helps in forming a consistent habit.
The speaker shares their personal habit of working two hours every morning from 5:00 a.m. to 7:00 a.m., which has significantly impacted their life.
The creation of a habit loop involves a morning smoothie that serves as a reward and a catalyst for a productive morning routine.
The speaker explains the concept of a habit loop, which is a popular method for forming and maintaining habits.
The importance of focusing on habits that contribute to personal goals rather than following social media trends is highlighted.
The speaker advises to focus on one or a few habits at a time to avoid overwhelming oneself and to build them solidly before adding more.
The concept of 'Tulis' versus 'hair on social media' is introduced, suggesting that one should not adopt all suggested habits at once.
Forgiveness towards oneself when a habit slips is crucial for maintaining a routine and not giving up on the habit entirely.
The speaker shares their experience of jet lag and how they gradually got back to their 5:00 a.m. routine without feeling guilty.
The idea that rebuilding habits is quicker than building them from scratch is introduced, encouraging persistence in habit formation.
The speaker emphasizes that all routines are bound to fail at some point and that it's important to get back on track after enjoying life.
The importance of coexisting harmoniously between routines and enjoying life's moments is discussed, suggesting a balance between discipline and joy.
The speaker invites viewers to watch a video of their typical daily routine for a more detailed understanding of habit implementation.
A call to action is made for viewers to like, comment, and subscribe for more content related to routines and positive habits.
Transcripts
if I asked you what your perfect routine
looks like how would you answer what are
the habits that you've always wanted to
start but never quite got around to or
what are the changes that you've always
wanted to make and they just never stuck
what are the bad habits that you would
love to completely erase we'll prepare
to never ever watch another video about
routines or positive habits because
these are the three foolproof principles
that allowed me to graduate Medical
School whilst growing a sixf fig
business and working full-time as a
doctor all whilst would you believe it
being the happiest healthiest version of
myself and I'm going to be honest it's
way more straightforward than I bet you
ever thought numero noo no woman woman
left alone building a routine is
actually quite straightforward it is
basically just incorporating a whole
bunch of habits but if you see a habit
as a solitary event detached and in
isolation from the rest of your day you
are doomed to fail all habits need to be
connected in a chain of events and
ideally one of those events should be
reward now let's take the Habit that has
made the most dramatic change to my life
and allowed me to continue working
full-time as a doctor whilst also
posting silly little YouTube videos
online every morning I do two hours work
between 5:00 a.m. and 7:00 a.m. before
going into work at 8:00 a.m. and let me
tell you there is absolutely nothing
remotely appealing about any of that but
there's one small factor blink and you
miss it that has allowed this Habit to
stick every morning when I wake up I
initiate a chain reaction that is so so
built into my muscle memory I could
almost do it with my eyes closed I make
my morning smoothie and then I sit at my
desk with said morning smoothie and the
best part the Smoothie tastes bloody
good without even intending to I created
a habit Loop if you're not familiar with
habit Loops then do not worry all will
be explained and revealed the queue is
waking up and making my morning smoothie
which leads to the craving which is how
Bloody good my smoothie is and I tend to
drink it at my desk thus leading into
the response which is my 2hour morning
Flow State and to top it all off I
always keep a piece of paper next to my
laptop every single morning with all my
tasks that I want to complete on that I
cross off with a big red pen when I've
done them as a reward and just like that
we have a completed habit Loop that I
never even intended on creating to build
a good routine never view habits in
isolation always try and frame them in
the context of a habit Loop and I can
understand thinking of ideas for each of
those four stages can be really
difficult but the concept of a habit
Loop is actually really really really
popular and if you are struggling to
think of any ideas just Google it there
are literally thousands of examples and
ideas online and try a couple and see
what works for you principle two the
tulis versus the hair on social media we
are bombarded by the habits that we
should be doing wake up at 4:00 a.m. 500
a.m. 10K have a cold shower journaling
gratitude green juice no screen time
meditate for 30 minutes no firstly
whilst all those habits are great you
need to focus on the ones that are
actually going to contribute to the
goals that you personally want to
achieve for example if your mental
health is on the floor you should
probably focus on a daily gratitude
practice and moving your body and
meditating or if you want to work on
your physical health then obviously
develop a nutritious breakfast habit
that you absolutely adore and get your
daily steps and move your body and drink
your water and if you want to be more
productive focus on brain dumping having
a daily Forest Target or getting into
the habit of a morning Flow State but
don't just do all of them at once
because social media tells you to
secondly you don't want to overwhelm
yourself personally when I'm trying to
develop a positive habit I try and only
focus on one at a time maximum three and
once I've solidified that one two or
three only then will I try and build up
on my routine just like the tortoise and
the hair slow and steady wins the race
three the most important habit by far
When developing a daily routine
forgiveness I recently went away to
America for a family wedding and I had
the most incredible time but obviously
when I came back I was so jetlagged that
5:00 a.m. was not happening I was
basically Waking Up 5 minutes before I
had to leave for work to be honest with
you now is that a sign for me to give up
on my 5:00 a.m. morning 2hour workflow
habit that I worked so hard hard to
build all because I feel guilty and like
all my hard work had gone down the
toilet absolutely not I just committed
to making note of what time I woke up
every day and tasking myself with waking
up just 15 minutes earlier every morning
until I got back to 5:00 a.m. and let me
tell you it took me a lot less time to
get back to 5:00 a.m. than it took to
develop that habit in the first place so
tell me why whenever I'm talking about
positive habits with my friends and
family the number one failure that I
hear about is when they successfully
build up a positive habit and then they
let it slip for a day or a week and then
instead of feeling proud of themselves
for sticking to it for that long they
feel deflated and guilty and that guilt
prevents them from just getting back to
it and recognizing that rebuilding
habits is so much quicker than building
them up in the first place when you
start any positive habit or new routine
it is important to accept one thing all
routines are doomed to fail these habits
that you've spent weeks building up will
crumble before your eyes it might be a
holiday or a friend's birthday or
anything that breaks up the normal
mundane every day aka the most important
and beautiful memories in our life I
definitely don't need to tell you this
but when you're 90 you won't be telling
your grandkids about the days when you
woke up at 5:00 a.m. or had a cold
shower for 10 minutes you'll be telling
them about your friends your trips your
laughs your meals your drinks the happy
memories but ironically it will probably
be the runin and the Gratitude journals
and the healthy the diet habits that
allowed you to get to 0 in the first
place so I'm not saying that either of
these two things are more important than
the other what I'm saying is the
importance lies in the two things
coexisting harmoniously when your
routine inevitably goes down the drain
because you are enjoying life be proud
that you stuck to that habit for as long
as you did and get straight back to it
if you want to see what my typical daily
routine looks like then I will pop a
video here or if you want to see a
little bit more of my life then I will
put a recent weekly Vlog here I hope you
enjoyed this video if you did please
don't forget to like comment and
subscribe I hope you have a wonderful
wonderful wonderful week and I will see
you in the next video
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