Thomas Kilmann

LeaderLike You! by Robert Kahn
5 Mar 201307:15

Summary

TLDRThe video script explores the Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument, which assesses responses to conflict during change. It introduces five conflict-handling styles: competing, accommodating, collaborating, avoiding, and compromising, each with its pros and cons. The script uses dialogue to illustrate these styles, emphasizing the importance of adaptability and understanding the impact of one's approach on communication and outcomes in a changing environment.

Takeaways

  • 😀 Conflict is a natural part of change, often arising from differing goals and desires among individuals.
  • 📊 The Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument helps to understand how people react during times of change through five basic conflict-handling styles.
  • 🔍 Two key concepts in conflict resolution are 'cooperativeness', which is the willingness to meet others' needs, and 'assertiveness', which is the desire to meet one's own needs.
  • 📚 The Thomas-Kilmann grid is a visual tool that maps out conflict styles based on the axes of assertiveness and cooperativeness.
  • 🤝 The 'Competing' style is highly assertive but not cooperative, beneficial for quickly making a point but can lead to being seen as unapproachable.
  • 🙌 'Accommodating' is highly cooperative but not assertive, acting as a peacekeeper but risking being overlooked or undervalued.
  • 🤔 'Avoiding' is low on both assertiveness and cooperativeness, allowing one to step back from conflict, but may be seen as evasive or non-confrontational.
  • 🤝 'Collaborating' is high on both assertiveness and cooperativeness, ensuring everyone's voice is heard but can be time-consuming.
  • 🤝 'Compromising' balances assertiveness and cooperativeness, offering a middle ground but may appear as a negotiation tactic if overused.
  • 🔄 The script emphasizes the importance of adapting between these styles depending on the situation to effectively navigate conflicts.
  • 👥 The dialogues in the script illustrate how different conflict styles manifest in real-life interactions and decision-making.

Q & A

  • What is the purpose of discussing the Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument in the context of change?

    -The Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument is discussed in the context of change to understand how people react during times of change. Conflict is inherent in change, and the instrument helps identify the different styles people use to handle conflicts, which can arise due to differing interests and goals during change processes.

  • What are the two key concepts introduced in the Thomas-Kilmann model?

    -The two key concepts introduced are 'cooperativeness' and 'assertiveness'. Cooperativeness refers to the willingness to meet others' needs, while assertiveness is about the desire to meet one's own needs.

  • How is assertiveness defined in the Thomas-Kilmann model?

    -Assertiveness in the Thomas-Kilmann model is defined as the degree to which an individual is likely to meet their own needs. It ranges from low assertiveness, where an individual is less likely to meet their own needs, to high assertiveness, where they are very likely to do so.

  • What does cooperativeness represent in the context of the Thomas-Kilmann model?

    -Cooperativeness in the Thomas-Kilmann model represents the degree to which an individual is willing to meet the needs of others. It ranges from low cooperativeness, where an individual may not be willing to meet others' needs, to high cooperativeness, where they actively seek to do so.

  • Can you describe the 'Competing' style in the Thomas-Kilmann model?

    -The 'Competing' style is characterized by high assertiveness and low cooperativeness. It is beneficial when one needs to get their point across quickly and protect their interests. However, it can be detrimental if overused, as it may lead others to perceive the individual as uncooperative and unapproachable.

  • What are the advantages of the 'Accommodating' style according to the script?

    -The 'Accommodating' style, which is high in cooperativeness and low in assertiveness, is advantageous because it helps to smooth over conflicts and facilitate cooperation. It allows the individual to be seen as supportive and helpful in achieving group goals.

  • What could be a potential downside of consistently using the 'Accommodating' style?

    -A potential downside of consistently using the 'Accommodating' style is that the individual may become overlooked or undervalued, essentially becoming a 'doormat' where their own needs are consistently set aside and not addressed.

  • What is the 'Collaborating' style and its potential drawback as mentioned in the script?

    -The 'Collaborating' style is characterized by high levels of both assertiveness and cooperativeness. It involves taking time to hear from everyone and aims to find a solution where all parties' needs are met. The potential drawback is that it can be time-consuming, which may not be feasible in situations requiring quick decisions.

  • How is the 'Avoiding' style described in the script, and what is its potential benefit?

    -The 'Avoiding' style is described as low in both assertiveness and cooperativeness. It involves stepping back from conflict when it is not seen as worth engaging in. The potential benefit is that it allows the individual to avoid unnecessary conflicts and focus on more important issues.

  • What is the 'Compromising' style and its main advantage?

    -The 'Compromising' style is moderate in both assertiveness and cooperativeness, aiming for a 50/50 balance where both parties give and take. Its main advantage is that it allows for quick resolution of conflicts through mutual agreement, and it is flexible as it can adapt to other styles when needed.

  • What is a potential issue with relying solely on the 'Compromising' style as per the script?

    -Relying solely on the 'Compromising' style could lead to a perception of gamesmanship, where every interaction becomes a negotiation, potentially undermining the authenticity of the collaborative process.

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Conflict ManagementChange ManagementThomas-KilmannAssertivenessCooperativenessCollaborationCompromiseAvoidanceAccommodatingCompeting
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