How To Get A Woman Obsessed With You Only Using Texts
Summary
TLDRThis video script offers a seven-day strategy to make a woman obsessed with you, starting from securing her number on dating apps using humor and confidence to texting at specific times to avoid appearing needy. It suggests techniques like the 'Peak Interest' to gauge her interest and 'False Gender Method' to incite jealousy. By day four, it advises avoiding certain messages that can kill attraction and recommends better alternatives. The script also includes a six-point checklist to evaluate if she's worth dating and concludes with a multiple-choice question technique to successfully ask her out, promising an increase in her interest and likelihood of a positive response.
Takeaways
- 📱 Use the Tinder bait and switch technique to stand out and get a girl's number by sending an original, funny message followed by your phone number unexpectedly.
- 🕗 Establish a texting schedule to avoid appearing needy or overly available, and to build intrigue by showing you have a life outside of texting.
- 🔍 Test her interest level with the Peak Interest technique, which involves sending a message that might make her think you were with someone else to gauge her reaction.
- 💬 Avoid sending certain messages that can make you seem needy or weird, and instead focus on simple, open-ended questions about her hobbies or personal life.
- 👫 Consider seeking a female perspective on conversation starters if you're unsure, perhaps by talking to a sister, cousin, or using a professional service for advice.
- 🍿 Make her jealous with the false gender method by implying you're with someone of unclear gender, leaving her curious and possibly jealous.
- 📝 Use a six-point checklist to evaluate if the girl you're texting is worth pursuing, considering her communication habits and responses.
- 📉 If she exhibits negative texting behaviors, like not replying or being dismissive, it might be a sign she's not interested or not a good match for dating.
- 📆 On the seventh day, ask her out using a multiple choice question to give her options while also showing confidence and avoiding a direct rejection.
- 💡 Remember that self-control over your emotions is crucial for these techniques to work effectively and to avoid becoming obsessed with the outcome.
- 🤔 Reflect on your feelings and communicate them effectively; if needed, seek professional help to understand and manage your emotions better.
Q & A
What is the main goal of the 'Tinder bait and switch technique' mentioned in the script?
-The main goal of the 'Tinder bait and switch technique' is to stand out from other matches and get a girl's number by using an original, funny message to bait a response and then switching the way she expects you to respond by sending your phone number directly, showing confidence and assertiveness.
Why is it important to send a funny message as the first interaction on dating apps according to the script?
-Sending a funny message is important because a study analyzed 213 single women and over 1,700 first-time messages, finding that men were 12% more likely to get a response when the first message was funny.
What is the 'personal timetable' for texting a girl suggested in the script and why is it recommended?
-The 'personal timetable' suggests texting a girl in the morning between 6:00 and 8:00 a.m., avoiding texting from 8:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m., texting during lunchtime between 12:00 and 1:00 p.m., and then again after 8:00 p.m. until 11:00 p.m. This schedule is recommended to avoid appearing needy and to show that you have a life outside of texting, building up mystery and interest.
What is the 'Peak Interest technique' and how does it work according to the script?
-The 'Peak Interest technique' is a method to gauge a girl's interest in you by sending a message that implies you were out with someone else. Depending on her response, you can determine her level of interest and potential jealousy, which can help you understand if she is genuinely interested in you.
What are some examples of messages that should be avoided according to the script?
-The script advises avoiding messages that make you appear needy or weird. Examples include messages that are overly personal, aggressive, or that show a lack of self-confidence. Instead, it suggests keeping the conversation simple by asking about her hobbies or personal life.
How does the script suggest using the 'False Gender Method' to make a girl jealous through text?
-The 'False Gender Method' involves mentioning plans with a friend and using gender-neutral pronouns when referring to that friend. This creates a sense of mystery and can make the girl curious and potentially jealous, without directly lying or making her lose interest.
What is the Six-point checklist mentioned in the script for determining if a girl is worth dating?
-The Six-point checklist includes: 1) If she mentions other men when texting you, 2) If she replies with one-word answers, 3) If she gossips about others in her texts, 4) If she uses swear words in her texts, 5) If she goes silent on Friday and Saturday nights, and 6) If she leaves messages unseen or replies after long periods. These points help analyze her texting behavior and determine her interest and compatibility.
What is the recommended method for asking a girl on a date according to the script?
-The script recommends using a multiple choice question to ask a girl on a date, such as 'Do you want to go get coffee or dinner with me next weekend?' This method combines the kindness of giving her an option with the assertiveness of not giving her the option to say no, increasing the chances of her saying yes.
Why is it suggested to consult with a friend or a professional if you struggle with self-control over your emotions towards a girl?
-Consulting with a friend or a professional is suggested because having an outside perspective can help you distinguish between being genuinely in love and being obsessed, which is crucial for maintaining a healthy emotional state and building a positive relationship.
What is the significance of the 'betterhelp' service mentioned in the script and how can it be beneficial?
-The 'betterhelp' service is an online platform that connects users with licensed professionals for counseling. It can be beneficial for those who need to rationalize their emotions, understand their feelings better, and improve their communication skills, all from the comfort of their home.
Outlines
📲 Tinder Baiting and Texting Strategy
The video script begins by emphasizing the importance of messaging techniques when interacting with a girl on dating apps like Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble. It introduces the 'Tinder bait and switch' technique, which involves sending an original, funny message to elicit a response and then unexpectedly sending one's phone number to stand out and show confidence. The speaker warns against being predictable and encourages following a specific texting schedule to appear busy and interesting, rather than needy. The script also suggests using the 'Peak Interest' technique to gauge a girl's interest level by sending a message that might make her feel a bit jealous.
📅 Texting Timing and Emotional Control
This paragraph outlines a personal timetable for when to text a girl to avoid appearing needy or desperate. It advises texting in the morning between 6:00 and 8:00 AM, during lunchtime from 12:00 to 1:00 PM, and after 8:00 PM to show that one has a busy life. The script also introduces the 'False Gender Method' to make a girl jealous through text without losing her interest. It stresses the importance of self-control over emotions and suggests seeking professional help if one finds it difficult to manage feelings or distinguish between obsession and love, recommending online platforms like BetterHelp for counseling services.
🚫 Avoiding Common Texting Mistakes
The speaker identifies ten common messages that can make a man appear needy or weird, which can lead to a girl losing interest. To avoid this, the script recommends replacing these messages with simple and open-ended questions about the girl's hobbies and personal life. It also suggests seeking advice from female friends or family for better conversation starters. The paragraph further discusses the 'False Gender Method' for making a girl jealous through ambiguous references to social activities with friends of unspecified gender, and the importance of analyzing a girl's texting behavior to determine if she is worth dating using a six-point checklist.
📝 Assessing Worthiness for a Date
The final paragraph focuses on evaluating whether the girl being texted is worth asking out on a date. It provides a checklist of behaviors to watch for in her text messages that may indicate she is not genuinely interested or is not treating the interaction with respect. The speaker advises to seriously consider these behaviors before investing time and resources into a date. The paragraph concludes with a discussion on the best way to ask a girl out via text, suggesting a multiple-choice question that combines kindness with assertiveness, which is said to increase the likelihood of a positive response.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Tinder bait and switch technique
💡Confidence
💡Messaging schedule
💡Peak Interest technique
💡Jealousy
💡Texting etiquette
💡False gender method
💡Choice overload bias
💡Ghosting
💡Multiple choice question
Highlights
The Tinder bait and switch technique to stand out and get a girl's number involves sending an original, funny message followed by an unexpected response.
A study found that a funny first message increased the likelihood of a response by 12%.
Confidence and assertiveness can be demonstrated by sending your phone number directly after initial engagement.
Avoid being perceived as needy by following a specific texting schedule to appear busy and maintain interest.
Texting during specific hours can build mystery and show that you have a life outside of the conversation.
The Peak Interest technique gauges a girl's interest by sending a message that implies you were out with someone else.
A girl's response to the Peak Interest message can indicate her level of interest and potential jealousy.
Maintaining self-control over emotions is crucial for the effectiveness of these techniques.
Avoid sending 10 common messages that can make you appear needy or weird.
Replace bad messages with simple inquiries about hobbies or personal life to keep the conversation engaging.
Seeking a female perspective can help improve conversation starters and understanding.
The False Gender Method can create jealousy and intrigue without losing interest.
Using gender-neutral pronouns can make a girl wonder about your social activities.
Analyzing a girl's texting behavior with a six-point checklist can help determine if she's worth dating.
Deleting a number may be advised if a girl exhibits undesirable texting behaviors.
A multiple choice question when asking on a date can increase the chances of a positive response.
The Choice Overload Bias technique offers options while also showing confidence in asking a girl out.
Transcripts
no matter your age the way that you
message a girl will have a massive
impact on whether she likes you or not
which is why today I want to show you
exactly how to go from getting a girl's
number to making her obsessed with you
in just seven days let's start with day
number one use the Tinder bait and
switch technique to get a girl to always
respond to you on dating apps you will
bait her with an original message and
then switch the way she expects you to
respond so here's a simple technique
that I developed to always stand out and
get a girl's number day one you have to
understand that the problem with dating
UPS like hinge Tinder and Bumble is that
you're competing with hundreds of other
guys that have matched with her so you
understanding this you have to start by
baiting a response out of her with a
funny message now the reason you want it
to be funny is because during a study
that analyzed 213 single women and over
1,700 firsttime messages men were 12%
more likely to get a response when that
first message was funny the great thing
is that within the same study they
showed you what messages they tested and
one of the ones that got the most
responses was something simple ready it
goes hey did we have class together I
could have sworn we have chemistry but
Corney but you're not trying to beat
Kevin Hart out here you're just trying
to be more original than just a simple
hey now when she does respond understand
that this is a side of interest but this
is when you switch her expectations and
instead of responding like every other
guy responds you're going to respond by
just sending her your phone number with
no context and nothing else this method
will save you time and energy because
there's no point in you continuing to
message her if she's not interested in
taking it off the app plus you're going
to stand out from all the other guys in
the platform as you're showing
confidence and assertiveness and they're
now texting her directly that makes you
seem more valuable so now you're just
appearing different to her which will
make her even more interested in you but
we haven't made her obsessed yet to do
this with your crush you're going to
have to follow each of the next six
steps closely and you're going to do
each step every single day and you're
going to do one step a day because if
you don't you're going to end up like
every other dude in her life boring and
predictable and I can't allow that to
happen to you this takes us to day
number two never text her between these
hours if you want to make a woman
obsessed with you you need to understand
when you should and should not text her
so I created my own personal timetable
that I want you to follow of when you
should and you shouldn't text her you
have to understand if you follow this
you won't be like most guys because this
is where they messed up they'll text a
girl all day this just makes them seem
like they have nothing else going on in
their life it makes them seem needy so
for you to not end up like that you're
going to start and understand that it's
okay for you to text her in the morning
between the times of 6:00 and 8: in the
morning most people will be checking
their phones around this time because
this is when they wake up however from
8:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. you shouldn't
text this way you're going to appear
more busy with your studies or work then
you can text her during lunchtime
between the hour hours of 12: and 1 p.m.
however you should only text her again
until after 8:00 p.m. to show that you
were busy doing something important all
day build up that mystery however you
should stop texting her at 11:00 p.m.
you don't want to see mey like the only
thing you think about is her you need to
implement the schedule immediately on
day two and then for every day after to
show that you're interested but that you
also have your own life you're not
desperate for attention day three you're
going to use the peak interest technique
you see by day three the girl you
talking to is already interested she's
probably going to think you're some high
quality guy but to know if she's
actually interested in you you're going
to have to test this girl using the Peak
Interest technique to do this you're
going to first send her one of the three
following messages I have on screen here
the idea with this message is to kind of
make her think like you were out with
somebody else the point of this is that
you're gaging how she responds depending
how she responds is how interested she
is is in you if she doesn't respond at
all most might jump to conclusions and
think oh she's not interested in you
because your boy has created and battle
tested this formula we don't jump to
conclusion this actually means she's
very interested in you and is most
likely angry or jealous now if she
responds with something like asking who
you were with then this is also a good
sign that she's interested in you and
feeling a bit jealous now if she
responds with something simple and cold
like wrong person then it me mean she's
not interested in you now you need to
understand that these methods that I
built out they only work when you have
self-control over yourself and your
emotions over her now if you're hearing
that and you realize man I have no
self-control over my emotions or you
constantly become obsessed over girls
you start talking to then you need to
talk to a friend bro you need somebody
that can help you distinguish between
you being obsessed and you being
actually in love most of the time you're
obsessed which is what we're trying not
to do we're trying to get her obsessed
with you so having that outside
perspective can really help you gauge
right back in and if you don't have a
friend to talk to or you don't feel
comfortable yo go to a professional you
can try a service out like better help
or sponsor and the great thing is that
it's from the comfort of your home you
can talk to a licensed professional that
has clear distance from your situation
it can help you rationalize your
emotions to really parse out what you're
truly feeling whether it's love whether
their true interest or whether it's just
needy desperation or attention creating
up until now you've success L got her to
message you back on Tinder and then
taking it off to personal texting you're
also making yourself seem more important
by texting her in specific time blocks
and now you're making her go a little
crazy with jealousy with the Peak
Interest technique however to really
make her obsessed and get her to go on a
date with you you'll still need to know
about the 10 messages you shouldn't be
sending her the false gender method
determine whether you even want to take
her on a date and finally a multiple
choice option to fully get her to say
yes all of this will happen in the next
4 days day number four never send these
10 messages by day four most guys will
stop receiving messages from girls most
girls will just ghost them because you
most likely centor one of these eight
messages if you want to make sure this
doesn't happen to you by day four and
she continues to have interest and
instead keeps getting obsessed with you
you should never send her these 10
messages you see on screen these
messages make you appear needy or weird
which is is the exact opposite of what
you want when she's desperate for your
attention So to avoid this I want you to
replace these eight bad messages with
instead keeping the conversation simple
by asking her about her Hobbies or her
personal life with these 10 better
messages with these messages you see on
screen anytime you're unsure of what to
said these are always a good fall back
they'll never seem needy and will'll
always start a great conversation and
look sometimes if you're really unsure
of what to talk about talk to your
sister talk to a cousin talk to a girl
and get the female perspective as they
can help you how to initiate a
conversation if the 10 messages that I
gave you don't work but my messages
always work and like I said if you don't
have that contact you can always go
online and have that personal friend
from a service like better health
because in there you get access to
thousands of counselors and you can even
personally choose which counselor works
for you so maybe for you you want more
of a female counselor so you can better
understand their perspective this is
going to help you get a better
understanding better communicate with
them and they can also help you better
understand your feelings and how to
express them you can do it from your
laptop on a video call on a regular call
and or you can contact them through
messaging if you really need to talk to
somebody quickly if you guys want to
check out betterhelp I'm going to have
the link down below and you'll get 10%
off your first month of therapy by
signing up through my link
betterhelp.com men's fashion day number
five make her jealous with the false
gender method 5 day five if you made it
and she's still texting you she's into
you bro but to really make somebody
obsessed you need to learn how to make
them jealous through text and you have
to do this without having her lose
interest in you so to do this I want you
to use my false gender method you're not
going to find any of these techniques
anywhere online these are battle tested
by your boy so to start you're going to
want to message a friend and see if
they're interested in seeing some movie
that night then at some point during
your conversation during your time
blocks ask her what she's doing that
night then when she reciprocates and
asks you what you're doing just say yeah
you're seeing some movie with a friend
if she responds what friend you can
respond back using gender neutral
pronouns like they them or you can just
say something like oh you don't know
them now your boy probably might not
like this but a true friend will take
one for the team and then if you really
want to take it up an extra level
instead of saying good night later that
evening you will reply to her message
the next morning as though nothing
happened then this is when she's left
wondering what what you were doing all
night that you weren't able to respond
and that will drive her crazy this takes
us to day number six determine whether
she's even worth taking on a date here's
the thing most guys are so desperate for
female attention that they never even
consider if they even like this girl if
they even want to date her so before you
waste your resources and ask her out I'm
going to show you how to tell if she is
worth dating by just analyzing how she
texts you I'm going to give you a
Sixpoint checklist that I want you to
run against the girl you're currently
texting against your crush and then I'm
going to show you how to analyze the
results first does she mention other men
when she text you second does she reply
with one-word answers third does she
gossip about other people when texting
you fourth does she use swear words in
her text five does she suddenly go
silent on Friday and Saturday nights and
six does she leave your messages unseen
or wait long periods to reply look if
she just does one or two of these it
could mean that she's just busy or maybe
she doesn't like texting if she does
three or four of these however I would
seriously consider whether she's worthy
to take on a date and if she does five
or more of these just delete that number
because if she's treating you this way
with how she text that in-person date
will go terribly wrong she takes us to
day number seven you will ask her on a
date with a multiple choice question by
day seven the girl you're talking to is
now obsessed with you which means it's
time to ask her on a date but when it
comes to asking a girl on a date through
text most guys will use one out of two
techniques without realizing there is a
third option that's better that again is
designed by your boy it is fail prooof
see the first method just involves you
asking a girl straight up on a date
which will make you seem like a nice guy
and sure some girls might find it sweet
but you'll never come across a sex the
second method involves telling a girl
you're going to go on a date with her
most men will think that this comes
across as assertive and a lot of women
will do the same but there's somewhere
that might not like it for those it you
might come across as too arrogant and
you might put her off the third group
however says something to the girl like
do you want to go get coffee or a dinner
with me next weekend with this technique
you're taking out of the kindness from
the first option because you're giving
her an option of what she likes but
you're also showing confidence and
assertiveness by not giving her the
option to say no this is a method that
scientist call Choice overload bias this
won't only just make you look better it
will pretty much in increase the chances
of her saying yes if you follow my
strategy for the next 7 days with your
crush I promise you you will make her
obsessed with you
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