How Girls REALLY Want You To Talk To Them (5 Pro Tips)

Summary

This video reveals key strategies for men to effectively interact with women, focusing on five crucial steps. First, approach confidently to demonstrate high status and reduce hesitation. Second, break rapport early to avoid a ‘nice guy’ vibe, creating intrigue through playful teasing. Third, show multiple levels of intent, building attraction gradually without rushing. Fourth, steer conversations toward plans for a meetup or activity, making the exchange of contact information a natural next step. Finally, master nonverbal communication, as your tone, body language, and eye contact are essential for creating attraction. Consistent practice and confidence are key to success.

Takeaways

• 😀 Confidence is key: Approach women with confidence without hesitation. Insecurity or hesitation signals lack of confidence and decreases attraction.
• 😀 Don't seek rapport too early: Trying too hard to find common ground too quickly can make the interaction feel forced and result in the friend zone.
• 😀 Break rapport strategically: Playful teasing or subtle challenges can disrupt the initial rapport and increase attraction by showing you're not overly eager.
• 😀 Layer your intent: Attraction is built through multiple levels of subtle intent throughout the conversation, not just one bold move.
• 😀 Focus on the action, not just the phone number: Always aim to steer the interaction toward a real-world activity or date, not just exchanging contact information.
• 😀 Women respond to nonverbal cues: Your body language, tone, and overall energy are as important, if not more so, than what you say. Women are finely tuned to these signals.
• 😀 Confidence can be developed: Even if you feel nervous, consistency in your approach and practice will improve your confidence over time.
• 😀 Subtlety matters: Exaggerated gestures might be too much, but small, nuanced shifts in tone and body language are key in creating attraction.
• 😀 The importance of consistent practice: To master the art of attraction, you need regular practice in real-world interactions to internalize the techniques.
• 😀 Mentorship can fast-track results: Working with a mentor can provide guidance and help you overcome common pitfalls, speeding up the improvement process.

Q & A

What is the first step in confidently approaching women according to the script?

The first step is to approach women with confidence. This involves overcoming hesitation, making the approach without excessive eye contact checking or hovering, and displaying certainty even if you're nervous. Confidence is key in showing high status and attracting women.

Why is it important to break rapport early in a conversation with women?

Breaking rapport early is crucial because women can sense when a man is seeking connection too quickly. Instead of trying to build rapport through questions or compliments, breaking rapport by teasing or playful challenges helps establish perceived value and keeps the interaction dynamic.

What does 'multiple levels of intent' mean in the context of flirting?

Multiple levels of intent means gradually increasing the intensity of your attraction signals throughout the interaction. This doesn't mean going straight into sexual intent, but slowly building up emotional engagement, which makes the interaction feel more natural and exciting.

What’s the best way to transition from a conversation to asking for a phone number?

The best way is to structure the conversation around agreeing to do an activity or meet up first. Once you’ve both agreed to an activity, asking for the phone number becomes a natural step, as it’s needed to coordinate the meetup.

Why should you avoid asking for a phone number before suggesting a meetup or activity?

Asking for a phone number too early makes the interaction feel transactional and often leads to a lack of real intent. Proposing an activity first creates a more relaxed and authentic connection, making the request for the phone number feel natural and aligned with the agreed plans.

What role does non-verbal communication play in interactions with women?

Non-verbal communication is essential in conveying attraction. A man’s body language, eye contact, and tone of voice must match his intentions. If the non-verbal cues are inconsistent with the words, the attraction won’t be felt. Women are highly tuned into these subtle signals.

How can practicing non-verbal communication improve your interactions with women?

By practicing non-verbal communication, such as eye contact, tone, and body language, you can enhance your ability to convey confidence and attraction. Repeated practice helps make these signals feel natural, which makes the interaction more impactful and authentic.

Why is the concept of 'breaking rapport' important in creating attraction?

Breaking rapport is important because it prevents the interaction from becoming too friendly or platonic. It helps establish a man as someone who is not overly eager or desperate for validation, which makes the interaction feel more exciting and less predictable.

What does it mean when the script talks about 'a man-to-woman dynamic'?

A man-to-woman dynamic refers to the interaction where the man subtly asserts his attraction and intent without being overly aggressive. It involves creating a sexual tension or chemistry through non-verbal cues and a gradual build-up of emotional engagement.

What should a man do if he's feeling nervous when approaching a woman?

If a man feels nervous, it's important not to let the nerves stop him from approaching. Nervousness is natural, and with practice, he can learn to control his body language, eye contact, and voice to still project confidence, making the approach more effective despite the anxiety.