Os Homens São Apaixonados Pelas Mulheres Que Têm Essa Postura

Summary

In this video, expert Emanuel Melo reveals the key attitude women can adopt to attract men who are initially not seeking a relationship. He explains how many women misinterpret a man's 'not ready for commitment' declaration, often leading to frustration and distance. The key is for women to respect his boundaries while remaining clear about their own desire for a deeper connection. By maintaining a light, non-pressuring approach, women can encourage men to reconsider their stance on commitment. Emanuel also introduces his course 'Mapa da Atração,' offering further strategies to deepen relationships.

Takeaways

• 😀 Women who adopt a certain posture can make men feel more attracted and invested in a relationship.
• 😀 Many women fail to adopt this posture, often taking actions that push men away from commitment.
• 😀 The key attitude to adopt is respecting a man's emotional boundaries when he says he's not ready for a relationship.
• 😀 When a man says he's not ready for commitment, women should listen and not expect him to change his mind.
• 😀 Expecting a man to change his mind based on charm or connection often leads to frustration and distancing.
• 😀 Men often want to remain friends with a woman, but may feel uncomfortable when the relationship moves too close to commitment.
• 😀 If a man is distancing himself, it may not be because of a lack of interest but because he's unsure how to handle the situation.
• 😀 Women who can communicate clearly that they are okay with no commitment while maintaining a connection are more likely to keep a man interested.
• 😀 If you respect a man's boundaries and make your own intentions clear without pressure, he may feel more comfortable and reconsider his stance on commitment.
• 😀 It's important for women to be upfront about what they want, but to also maintain a relaxed and respectful approach to avoid making men feel pressured.
• 😀 If you're not okay with a non-committed relationship, it might be best to move on and seek someone who shares your goals for a serious relationship.

Q & A

What is the key posture that attracts men according to the script?

The key posture that attracts men is listening and respecting when a man says he is not ready for a relationship. Instead of trying to change his mind, women should show that they are fine with not having a commitment, allowing the man to feel safe in the friendship without fear of leading the woman on.

Why do most women fail to attract deeper commitment from men, according to the video?

Most women fail to attract deeper commitment because they ignore or minimize a man's clear signals when he says he is not ready for a relationship. They believe that through charm or time, they can change his mind, which leads to frustration and distance in the relationship.

What happens when a woman doesn't respect a man's boundaries, such as not being ready for a relationship?

When a woman doesn't respect a man's boundaries, such as not being ready for a relationship, he may start feeling pressured or uncomfortable. This can lead to him becoming distant, avoiding commitment, and ultimately withdrawing from the connection, even if he was initially engaged.

How does a man feel when a woman tries to push a relationship despite him saying he's not ready?

When a woman tries to push for a relationship despite a man saying he isn't ready, he feels that his boundaries are being disrespected, leading to discomfort. He may start withdrawing or becoming cold, as he tries to protect himself from being pressured into something he’s not ready for.

What is the most effective way for a woman to communicate her feelings to a man who is not ready for a commitment?

The most effective way for a woman to communicate her feelings is to express that she respects the man’s decision not to seek a relationship but is still open to spending time together. She should make it clear that she is not pressuring him for a commitment, but also be honest about her own desire for a relationship.

Why do some women successfully attract deeper commitment from men even if the man initially says he's not looking for a relationship?

Some women successfully attract deeper commitment because they respect the man’s boundaries, do not pressure him, and are comfortable with the situation. This makes the man feel safe and allows him to gradually develop deeper feelings, possibly changing his mind about commitment over time.

What role does communication play in fostering a deeper connection between a man and a woman?

Communication plays a crucial role in fostering a deeper connection. It helps ensure that both parties understand each other's boundaries and intentions. When a woman clearly communicates that she respects a man’s stance on not seeking a relationship while expressing her own desires, it removes pressure and fosters trust, allowing the connection to grow naturally.

How should a woman handle a situation where a man starts distancing himself after they have grown closer?

A woman should address the situation by acknowledging the man’s boundaries and ensuring that he knows she respects his position. She should reassure him that she enjoys spending time with him without expecting more, which can alleviate his fears of being pressured into something he’s not ready for.

What is the importance of respecting a man’s emotional boundaries in building a healthy relationship?

Respecting a man’s emotional boundaries is essential in building a healthy relationship because it fosters mutual trust and understanding. When a woman respects these boundaries, the man feels more comfortable, less pressured, and more likely to develop deeper feelings, leading to a healthier and more stable connection.

What does the speaker suggest a woman do if she is seeking a relationship but the man is not ready?

The speaker suggests that if a woman is seeking a relationship but the man is not ready, she should be honest about her own desires while reassuring him that she is not pressuring him. She should allow him the space to decide without feeling threatened, and if necessary, move on if the situation doesn’t align with her own relationship goals.