How to Create a Sexual Spark With a Woman - Examples

Summary

This script discusses the ability to create sexual attraction with women through confident and playful interactions. It contrasts neutral conversations that fail to spark attraction with those that display charm, humor, and masculinity. The speaker shares his expertise in mastering this art, emphasizing the importance of understanding the difference between how men and women perceive attraction. He provides examples of creating sparks through flirtatious teasing and challenges, explaining how these behaviors can translate into perceived confidence and desirability. The script aims to empower men to take control of their dating lives and make women feel attracted through their actions and words.

Takeaways

• 🔥 The ability to create a sexual spark with women can transform how you approach dating and interactions.
• 🚀 Having the power to attract women at will gives you confidence and excitement in social situations.
• 🤔 Attraction isn't just about luck; it's a skill that can be learned and mastered.
• 💡 Displaying attractive signals, such as confidence and playful challenge, can create a spark of attraction.
• 🙅‍♂️ Avoid neutral or unattractive signals that don't make an impact or show insecurity.
• 👩‍💻 Understanding the difference between how men and women perceive attraction is crucial for success.
• 💬 Playful teasing and challenging humor can be an effective way to create a spark and show confidence.
• 👫 Flirting is a subtle way to show interest and create a private world of connection between two people.
• 🚫 Insecurity and jealousy are unattractive signals that can repel women and harm relationships.
• 🌟 Once you learn to create attraction, you can enjoy a wider choice of women and control over your dating life.

Q & A

What is the main power discussed in the script that can change how one interacts with women?

The main power discussed is the ability to instantly create a sexual spark with any woman one meets, allowing one to attract women at will without relying on luck.

How does having the power to create a sexual spark change a person's approach to dating?

Having this power changes one's approach to dating by eliminating nervousness and uncertainty when meeting attractive women, instead feeling excited and confident about the potential to create attraction.

What is an example of an unattractive signal a man might send in a conversation with a woman?

An unattractive signal could be a neutral conversation without any attempt to create a spark, such as simply asking about her job and not engaging in playful or challenging dialogue.

What is the difference between attractive and unattractive signals when interacting with women?

Attractive signals include confidence, social intelligence, and playful challenging behavior, while unattractive signals are often neutral or show insecurity and a lack of assertiveness.

Why might a woman feel attracted to a man who playfully challenges her?

A woman might feel attracted to a man who playfully challenges her because it displays confidence, social intelligence, and masculinity, which are attractive traits, and it also creates a fun and engaging dynamic.

What is the term used in the script to describe the process of guiding a woman from the start of a conversation to more intimate relations?

The term used is 'the flow,' which refers to the process of creating a spark of attraction and then guiding the interaction naturally through various stages, such as conversation, dating, and potentially into a relationship.

How does the speaker suggest using humor to create a sexual spark?

The speaker suggests using humor by playfully challenging or teasing a woman in a way that is confident and charming, but not rude or offensive, to create a spark and show social intelligence.

What is the importance of being able to create a sexual spark in terms of male confidence?

Creating a sexual spark is important for male confidence because it demonstrates the man's ability to attract women without fear of rejection, showing he has 'the balls' to interact in a playful and assertive manner.

Why might a man feel frustrated if he only tries to be a 'nice guy' and doesn't create sexual sparks?

A man might feel frustrated if he only tries to be a 'nice guy' because women may not feel sexually attracted to him, even though he is being good to them, due to a lack of confidence or assertiveness that can come across as exciting and attractive.

What does the speaker suggest can be a result of learning how to create sexual sparks with women?

The speaker suggests that learning how to create sexual sparks can lead to having a choice of women, potentially enjoying multiple relationships or casual encounters before settling down, as many women will be attracted to the man's ability to create these sparks.

Outlines

00:00

🔥 The Power of Creating Sexual Spark

The paragraph introduces the concept of having the power to create a sexual spark with women, allowing men to attract women at will. It emphasizes that this power eliminates the reliance on luck and instead instills confidence in men to evoke sexual attraction. The speaker shares that while not every interaction will lead to a connection due to various factors like relationship status or compatibility, men can ensure they leave an attractive impression. Examples of unattractive versus attractive signals in interactions are promised to illustrate the point.

05:02

😳 The Importance of Attractive Signals

This section explains the difference between unattractive and attractive signals in communication. It uses the example of a neutral conversation with a woman named Jenny to show how failing to create a spark can lead to a missed opportunity. The speaker then contrasts this with the power of displaying confidence and playfulness, which can lead to a more engaging and attractive interaction. The focus is on how men can master the art of creating a spark through understanding and implementing these attractive signals.

10:03

🚀 Creating a Spark Through Playful Challenge

The paragraph delves into the specifics of creating a sexual spark through playful challenges and humor. It suggests that while being a 'good guy' is important, displaying confidence and masculinity by playfully challenging a woman can be more attractive. The speaker provides examples of how to flirt and create a spark through humor and light teasing, explaining that this can show a woman that a man is not afraid and can handle various social situations, which is appealing in a partner.

15:05

🌟 The Impact of Confidence in Attraction

This part of the script focuses on how confidence plays a crucial role in attraction. It discusses how women are often attracted to men who display self-assurance and are not afraid to take the lead. The speaker gives examples of how a man can suggest a first date or ask a woman to do something for him, which can be seen as attractive because it shows leadership and assertiveness. The paragraph also touches on the idea that confidence can translate into other areas of life, suggesting that a confident man may be more successful.

😌 Overcoming Insecurity to Create Attraction

The final paragraph addresses the issue of insecurity in men and how it can be a barrier to creating attraction. It contrasts the negative signals sent by an insecure man with the positive, confident approach that can lead to a successful interaction. The speaker emphasizes the importance of learning how to create sparks of attraction and how this knowledge can change a man's dating life, allowing him to feel excited rather than nervous when approaching women. The paragraph concludes with a call to action for men to learn these techniques and take control of their dating experiences.

Keywords

💡sexual spark

The term 'sexual spark' refers to the initial attraction or chemistry felt between two people, often leading to a romantic or sexual interest. In the video, it is presented as a desirable outcome of interactions between men and women. The speaker discusses how men can learn to create this spark intentionally, which is central to the video's theme of improving one's dating life.

💡attract women

The phrase 'attract women' is used to describe the process of making oneself appealing to women, with the goal of garnering their interest or affection. The video's main theme revolves around techniques and approaches men can use to attract women, such as displaying confidence and using humor.

💡unattractive signals

Unattractive signals are behaviors or communication styles that do not appeal to the opposite sex and may hinder the creation of a sexual spark. The script uses the term to contrast with 'attractive signals,' illustrating examples of neutral or negative interactions that do not lead to attraction.

💡attractive signals

Attractive signals are actions, words, or body language that can increase one's appeal to others, particularly in a romantic or sexual context. The video emphasizes the importance of using attractive signals to create a sexual spark and gives examples of confident and playful behavior that can be considered attractive.

💡playful challenging

Playful challenging refers to a form of flirtation where one person teases or challenges another in a light-hearted, non-threatening manner. The video suggests that this approach can be an attractive signal, as it demonstrates confidence and can create a fun, engaging dynamic between two people.

💡confidence

Confidence in this context means having self-assurance and belief in one's own abilities, which is portrayed in the video as an attractive quality. It is highlighted as a key component in creating a sexual spark, as it can make a person more appealing and capable of initiating and sustaining attraction.

💡flirting

Flirting is a social behavior showing interest in another person, typically with the goal of exploring a romantic or sexual relationship. The video describes flirting as a way to communicate interest indirectly and playfully, which can lead to the creation of a sexual spark.

💡insecurity

Insecurity is a feeling of uncertainty or doubt about oneself, often related to fears of being unworthy or unlovable. The script points out that displaying insecurity, such as being jealous or overprotective, can send unattractive signals and hinder the process of attracting a partner.

💡the flow

The term 'the flow' is used in the video to describe a smooth, natural progression of interactions with a woman, from the beginning of a conversation to more intimate stages of a relationship. It suggests a state of ease and confidence that allows attraction to develop without forced effort.

💡charisma

Charisma is a personal magnetism or allure that some people possess, which can make them more attractive or influential. The video implies that charisma can be an attractive signal, as it involves a compelling and attractive presence that draws others towards the individual.

💡masculinity

Masculinity, as used in the video, refers to traditional male qualities such as strength, courage, and assertiveness. It is presented as an attractive signal that women may be drawn to, as it can convey a sense of security and protection.

Highlights

The power to instantly create a sexual spark with any woman you meet.

Having the ability to attract women at will, without relying on luck.

Perceiving women as exciting opportunities rather than unattainable objects.

Understanding that not all interactions will lead to a match, but the ability to create attraction is consistent.

The importance of displaying attractive signals during interactions.

Examples of unattractive versus attractive signals in conversation.

The neutral conversation that fails to create a sexual spark.

The fear of rejection as a barrier to creating attraction.

How to master the art of creating a sexual spark through practice and experience.

The difference in what attracts men versus what attracts women.

The necessity of displaying confidence and masculinity to create attraction.

Being charming and a good guy while also showing daring in interactions.

Playful challenging humor as an easy way to create a spark for beginners.

Flirting as a way to communicate interest without being explicit.

How to use humor to create a playful challenge and attraction.

The impact of displaying unattractive signals like insecurity and jealousy.

The transformation from nervousness to excitement when approaching attractive women.

The concept of 'the flow' for guiding women from conversation to relationship.

The misconceptions most men have about attracting women and the importance of learning the correct techniques.

The empowerment of being able to create sexual attraction and the impact on dating life.

Transcripts

how differently would you live your life

if you had this power with women I'll

tell you what the power is and then I'll

show you how to do it it's the power to

instantly create a sexual spark with any

woman you meet you essentially have the

power to attract women at will you're

not relying on hopefully getting lucky

you have the power to instantly create a

sexual spark imagine that you had that

power right what happens is that rather

than looking at women and seeing them as

unattainable or Out Of Reach or too hard

to get what happens is that you feel

excited because you know that if you go

up and interact with her you are going

to be able to make her feel a spark of

sexual attraction for you it doesn't

mean that you're going to be able to

pick up every woman that you talk to

because some women aren't going to be

single and some women just aren't going

to be a good match for you you're not

going to like who they are but in every

case when you walk up and talk to a

woman you have the ability to create a

spark of Attraction inside of her she

actually feels attracted to the

attractive signals that you are

displaying when you're interacting with

her so I'll give you some examples now

so you can see what I mean by

unattractive signals versus attractive

signals and then I'll explain further

right so imagine that a guy went to a

party and when he got there he was

introduced to a girl named Jenny and

Jenny is an attractive girl he liked her

as soon as he saw her now in the first

example I'm going to show that the guy

is not necessarily being unattractive

but he's just being neutral right in the

last example I'll show unattractive

signals but in this initial example he's

just being neutral right and you'll see

that he's not creating a sexual spark

inside of her so the conversation starts

and he says oh hi how are you and she

says good thanks and he says I'm Dan

what's your name and she says Jenny

so what do you do she says she works in

it oh cool so how long have you been

doing that and she says about 5 years

all right that's cool so like you're a

programmer or something she says yeah

and he then says all right yeah cool so

did you have to go to university for

that and she says yeah right so he's

just having a neutral conversation with

her right he has an opportunity with a

woman that he finds attractive named

Jenny she's telling him what she does

for a living and he has an opportunity

right there and then to create a spark

between him and her but he doesn't do it

because he either doesn't know how to do

it or he's afraid that if he tries to do

it it won't work and he'll get rejected

and everyone will look at him and

they'll think he's a loser or whatever

and so on right so he just plays it safe

he just talks to her in a neutral way

because he knows that he can get along

with people right he can just have a

chat talk and so forth and he hopes that

Jenny's going to like him for some

reason she's going to like how he looks

She's going to like his shirt or

whatever it may be or what he does for a

living but it turns out that she's not

feeling a sexual spark with him he's

just another guy who doesn't make her

feel anything like he's just getting

along with her and she might see him as

a good guy and think yeah he's a good

guy and so forth but there's nothing

there there's nothing there between them

so now here's an example of creating a

sexual spark right this is something

that I'm an expert at this is something

that I mastered I went out there and

interacted with a lot of women and

hooked up with loads of women and

enjoyed that before settling down and

guys who watch my channel would know

that guys who are new here now you know

right I've done it hundreds of times and

it's very easy to do once you understand

how it works you can do it however

before I show you the examples I want to

point out that us men feel attracted to

women for different reasons than women

feel attracted to us men so when you

watch the following examples you might

be thinking well I wouldn't like it if a

woman said that to me I wouldn't feel

attracted if she was behaving like that

I like women who are nice and friendly I

like women who are just pretty and nice

and friendly to me I wouldn't want a

woman to be playfully challenging me

playfully messing with me playfully

teasing me and so on I just want a woman

to be nice and friendly and warm and to

be pretty and that's it yet it's

important to understand that women want

to feel something else when they're

interacting with us they don't just want

to feel nice little Sweet Emotions where

the guy is just being nice and friendly

women want to be able to feel our

confidence our masculinity our rawness

our daring but at the same time they

also want us to be Charming to be good

guys so what I'm about to show you are

examples of being a good guy but also

having some balls having a bit of Daring

putting the woman on the spot and making

her feel challenged in a playful way

that attracts women for so many reasons

and I'll explain some of those reasons

as as I go through the examples but I

just want to point out that if you don't

ever understand this and you continue to

think that you just have to be nice to

women and you have to be friendly and

just get along with them in a nice way

then you'll be frustrated that they

don't feel turned on by you even though

you're being really good to them even

though you're doing lots of good things

for them you've got to understand that

creating a sexual spark is different to

just being the regular good guy that you

are you've got to be able to display

some traits that make a woman feel

sexual Sparks right so the conversation

starts off in the same way it's totally

fine to say Hi how are you and you can

even ask a woman what she does for a

living right it's not the best start to

a conversation but you can work with it

if you ask that sort of question you can

still create a spark right so in this

case I've said Hi how are you got her

name and she says that she works in it

then I create a sexual Spark by

displaying attractive signals well that

makes sense and she asks why right she

said that she works in it and I've said

well that makes sense and she's asking

why right because Suddenly It's like

what what why does it make sense why

does she seem like a girl who works in

it well when I first saw you I was like

well this girl looks like a nerd now it

makes sense you're a nerdy it girl it

suits you even if she doesn't look like

a nerd right I'm just messing with her

right and the attractive signals that

I'm displaying there is that I have the

confidence to do that when I'm

interacting with her the social

intelligence to be able to make a joke

in a situation like that and come up

with something like that she senses that

I'm not afraid of her but at the same

time I'm still being a good guy I'm not

being rude about it I'm not saying

something like well that makes sense

yeah when I first saw her I thought this

girl looks like a nerd instead I'm being

more Charming about I'm being more

charismatic I'm adding in a smile I'm

being a bit cheeky about it and the

woman can see that women sense these

things they know it they understand

what's going on and they see it as

flirting they don't take offense from it

and say what you're saying look like a

nerd yeah and tip a drink in your face

slap you and then everyone points at you

in the bar or the club or the party or

whatever it just doesn't work like that

women understand and for guys watching

this who haven't flirted with women

before you've most likely seen other

guys do it where they start flirting

with a woman and they say things that

you think well if I said that to a woman

I'd get slapped or I'd get rejected but

he's able to do it what's going on there

it's because the woman can sense that

he's flirting right he's only joking

with her so in this case you can then

follow up with something like no I'm

just kidding you don't seem that nerdy

you seem kind of cool all right so

you're continuing on with the joke there

you're giving her a bit of a compliment

and you're putting yourself in that

position where you're sort of in the

oneup position you're the cooler one

there but you're not being arrogant

about it you're still being playful

about it you're not saying something

like no I'm just kidding you don't seem

that nerdy I mean you're kind of cool

right you're being playful about it by

saying no I'm just kidding you don't

seem that nerdy you seem kind of cool

the woman then feels playfully

challenged in the moment she sees that

there's a flous Vibe back and forth

between you and her if you and her were

to go home together that night or were

to go on a date or get into a

relationship ship you're not just going

to be a boring flat neutral guy that

just says oh so how long you been

working it yeah right and did you have

to go to UNI to study that yeah right

how many years did you study at Uni yeah

okay now that said a guy doesn't have to

playfully challenge a woman all the time

it's just something that you can add in

that instantly creates a spark between

you and a woman right she FS that energy

of all right this guy isn't afraid of me

this guy has the confidence the balls to

play with me to mess with me to put me

on the spot right to make me feel a

little bit uncomfortable in a playful

way right and that then translates in

her mind as okay in the bedroom he might

be a little bit more confident than

other guys he might you know move me

around the bed with a bit more

confidence and assertiveness he might do

things that other guys are too afraid to

do in the bedroom additionally she can

instinctively start to feel that okay

this guy wouldn't be afraid if I

introduced him to my friends or family

he wouldn't be some shy awkward guy that

can't get along with anyone he can get

along with people and create that energy

right away he doesn't have a problem

creating a bit of a funny moment right

he's not afraid of that now that said

creating a funny moment between you and

a woman isn't the only way to attract

her right you can also attract women by

being masculine by being Charming by

being charismatic and so on yet using

playfully challenging humor like that is

one of the easiest ways to create a

spark it's the best for beginners right

when you're very confident and sure of

yourself you can interact with a woman

and use very subtle body language that

is coming from your deep confidence your

deep masculinity and she can sense it

and she feels attracted and turned on by

that but for beginners and for guys who

aren't good at picking up women using

playfully challenging humor in moments

like that is one of the easiest ways to

create a spark so here's another example

she says that she works in it and then I

say something like this so on our first

dat let's make it at my place because my

computer needs fixing at the moment and

you just look at her with a bit of a

cheeky smile she sees that you're just

being playful there you have the

confidence to say something like that to

suggest that you and her are going to go

on a first date and to tell her to

actually do something for you to do you

a favor women don't go around admitting

this but they like guys who have the

confidence the balls to occasionally

tell them to do something right because

that then translates into the bedroom

right telling her to get on her knees

for example and it can translate into

everyday life where the guy has the

confidence to tell other people what to

do so he may be a manager he may be a

leader and so forth and managers and

leaders tend to do better in life

financially of course if he's not a

manager if he doesn't work at that level

she sees the potential in him right she

sees the potential that he may do better

in life than a guy who's very shy and

unassuming and is afraid to ask for what

he wants or is afraid to ask a woman to

do something for him and another example

of displaying some attractive signals to

create a spark in response to her saying

that she works in it is right so you're

pretty you're smart but do you have the

third most important thing of all and

then she asked what that is the ability

to cook a good meal I mean are you a

good cook that is the question right so

suddenly she sees that you're confident

enough to say that she is pretty but

you're not sucking up to her about it oh

you're so beautiful sort of thing are

you're just saying it as a matter of

fact you're not intimidated by her

you're giving her another compliment by

saying that she's smart but then you of

pulling the rug out from underneath her

in a playful Way by asking if she can

cook you work in it oh it takes brains

to work in it right so let's see you're

pretty you're smart but there's a third

thing which is the most important

question of all she then ask what the

question is can you cook that is the

most important thing to us men of all

right so if she's beautiful she then

sees that yes you see her as beautiful

but you're not instantly impressed just

because she's beautiful she has to

impress you but you're only doing it in

a playful way you're not being serious

about it and saying well you know you're

pretty you're smart but can you cook

right I mean I like a woman who can cook

it's none of that sort of stuff it's

just you being playful Charming

charismatic creating a funny moment

between you and her and she then feels

spark fear she feels a spark because

you're being confident another spark

because you're being socially

intelligent you're able to say something

like that come up with something like

that you have the balls to do it the

masculinity to do it to put her on the

spot like that to calmly talk through

what you're saying right you're not

saying oh okay well you're pretty you're

smart but can you cook and being nervous

about it right you're saying okay so

you're pretty you're smart but there's

one thing that's more important than all

of that to us men she then ask what that

is can you cook are you a good cook that

is what matters most to us men you then

instantly create a spark with her where

there's flirting going back and forth

and flirting is where you playfully show

interest in the other person right

you're showing that you're interested in

her she's pretty she's smart you're

going to go out and a date with her and

so forth but you're only doing it in a

playful way flirting is an oh well

you're pretty and smart and can you cook

I like you flirting is a subtle indirect

discret language that women understand

but unfortunately a lot of guys don't

understand and it's the way to

communicate your interest in a woman

without actually saying hey I like you I

think you're pretty you want to go on a

date and do you like me too and so forth

It's a subtle conversation going back

and forth where you're showing interest

in each other where she says yeah I can

cook and yeah my best dish is blah blah

blah oh cool maybe you can cook me that

on our second date and you're flirting

about the idea of going on a date having

a second date her cooking something for

you it's not a serious thing but it

instantly creates this private World

between you and her a connection you're

not just talking to her like a neutral

Guy where you're just getting along and

you want to be friends with her you're

instantly creating something between you

and her so now here's an example of

displaying unattractive signals the girl

said she works in it and the guy then

says oh so yeah what's it like working

with so many guys you know you know

you're pretty so I suppose a lot of guys

are hitting on you at the office

immediately she knows that okay this

guy's insecure and if she were to get

into a relationship with him he would

most likely become a nightmare for her

in terms of being insecure and jealous

and overprotective when she went to work

and worrying about some male coworker

talking to her and so on he's clearly

sending unattractive signals there and

it's very obvious but what a lot of guys

don't know is that the unattractive

signals they are displaying are often

very subtle right that was an obvious

example but there are very subtle ones

as well and when a guy doesn't

understand how to make women feel

attracted he interacts with women that

he finds attractive they don't find him

attractive and then he starts to look at

women as being unattainable women like

that they don't like me I've tried

talking to women like that they don't

like me you know maybe I need to accept

that type of woman

that's the only one that seems to like

me right but he doesn't want that he

wants a girl like that or a girl like

that you know she's attractive she's

attractive I like her I like her I want

to be with a woman like that yet when he

interacts with her he doesn't create

Sparks of Attraction so when you have

the power to create Sparks of Attraction

inside of a woman you suddenly stop

feeling nervous and unsure of yourself

and anxious about walking over and

talking to a woman because you know that

if you walk over and start an

interaction with her you going to be

able to make her feel Sparks of

Attraction it doesn't mean that you're

going to be able to pick up every woman

that you talk to because sometimes a

woman is a bit harder to get than others

and if you don't have the knowledge of

how to handle that and stay in the

interaction and move things forward you

might just give up and walk away or she

might not be the type of woman that you

like personality wise or her

intelligence level might not be where

you want it to be and then you lose

interest and walk away but in other

cases where the woman is good for you

right you like her you're attracted to

her and you get along with her and the

vibe is good you're able to get a result

so rather than feeling anxious and

nervous and Afraid and unsure when you

see a woman that you find attractive you

actually feel excited because you know

that if she's single and you like her

something's going to happen there you're

going to kiss her you're going to have

sex with her you're going to get her

number you're going to set up a date

you're going to start a relationship

you're going to have fun times and

you're selecting her you're in control

you're not waiting and hoping and

wishing and just maybe one day a girl

that I like will like me you see an

opportunity with a woman that you find

attractive whether you're going through

your everyday life or you're at work or

you're at a party you're at a bar a club

wherever it may be you see an

opportunity with a woman that you find

attractive you walk over attract her and

move things forward right if she's

single and she's a sort of woman that

you like you get the result if she's not

you just talk to another woman and you

get the result with her so can you

imagine how different your life would be

if you had the power

of being able to create a sexual spark

inside of a woman as soon as you started

interacting with her how different would

your dating life be how differently

would you approach your dating life

right when guys first learn how to do

this for me most guys just want to be

able to get a girlfriend and that's fine

get yourself a pretty girlfriend settle

down no problem but what happens is that

a lot of guys who learn my secrets on

attracting women use it and they realize

that most of the women they interact

with

like them now right so the guy had been

going through life thinking that he

would be lucky if he got himself a girl

to suddenly right lots of pretty girls

like me and what happens then is many

guys decide to just play the field or to

enjoy their choice with women for a

while which is what I did as well right

having sex with lots of women having

multiple girlfriends at once and then

when I was ready I settle down now I've

given you some examples of how to

attract women in this video and if you

want to learn my best best ever

techniques for instantly creating a

spark when you begin interacting with a

woman and effortlessly making her feel

more and more attracted to you then I

recommend that you read my ebook the

flow or listen to the Audi book version

essentially you create a spark of

Attraction when you first start

interacting with a woman and then you

guide her through what I call the flow

when you do that you effortlessly flow

from one step to the next so you flow

from a start of a conversation all the

way to sex and into the start of a

relationship like it's the easiest thing

in the world it just flows naturally and

easily something really cool about all

of this which is sad at the same time is

that most guys don't think that this is

possible Right most guys think that if

they're going to get a chance with a

woman she has to like them based on

their physical appearance or the guy has

to be successful in life or something

like that he can't actually talk to her

and make her feel attracted that's not

possible that's what most guys think

most guys think that women feel

attracted to men in the same way that

men feel attracted to women in that we

can look at a woman and instantly feel

attracted to her instantly like her and

she doesn't have to do anything else to

impress us and we' kiss her and have sex

with her no problem and for some guys

that even have a relationship with her

simply based on her looking the way that

she does and just being a bit friendly

that's it done so most guys think that

it works the same way they got to look

as good as they can and then be friendly

and then the girl's going to like them

so if a guy thinks like that and

interacts with a woman and she doesn't

want to be with him sexually he thinks

what I'm not good-looking enough that's

why he doesn't actually know that he can

create a spark of sexual attraction when

he interacts with her he can create

multiple Sparks and it's easy it's

simple so on one hand it's sad but on

the other hand it's cool for you because

if you actually learn this stuff you

will see that most guys don't know it

and you're able to enjoy your choice

with women because most guys don't know

how to attract women they just talk in a

neutral way or they talk in ways that

turn women off but if you're a guy who

can create Sparks of sex attraction

inside of the women that you talk to you

enjoy your choice of women