Is it Haram for men and women to work together? | Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem -JAL

Just a layman *Sh. Assim Al Hakeem*
28 Mar 202107:23

Summary

TLDRThe speaker addresses the issue of gender interaction in the workplace, emphasizing the Islamic perspective on segregation between men and women. He argues that working closely together can lead to inappropriate interactions over time, even in religious settings. Using examples from Islamic teachings and real-life situations, the speaker stresses the importance of maintaining boundaries and avoiding casual conversations or socializing with the opposite gender. He advises men to remain professional, lower their gaze, and refrain from engaging in small talk or unnecessary interactions to avoid temptation and maintain modesty.

Takeaways

  • 😔 It is considered haram in Islam for men and women to work together in mixed environments, based on the Prophet's teachings that promote segregation.
  • 🕌 The Prophet emphasized the separation of men and women during prayer, encouraging distance between them as a form of modesty.
  • 👀 When men and women work closely, even with the best intentions, it's human nature to become more conscious of appearance and behavior, potentially leading to inappropriate interactions.
  • 🚶‍♂️ The speaker argues that spending long hours together in a mixed-gender environment can lead to relationships beyond a professional scope, even if it starts innocently.
  • ⚠️ Shaytan (Satan) is seen as influencing small interactions like sharing food or making small talk, which may lead to stronger personal relationships over time.
  • 😅 The speaker shares an experience of seeing men and women working together in a Dawah (Islamic outreach) organization, leading to marriages, but questions how many inappropriate things happened before marriage.
  • 🔥 The comparison is made between men and women working together and placing fuel next to fire, suggesting that it’s only a matter of time before inappropriate behavior occurs.
  • 🌍 If one must work in a mixed-gender environment due to cultural or professional necessity, strict boundaries should be maintained, including avoiding casual chit-chat or eye contact.
  • 🙅‍♂️ The speaker emphasizes lowering one's gaze and avoiding any socializing, even greeting with a 'good morning,' as a form of boundary-setting.
  • 🛑 The speaker believes that trying to be polite or friendly in such environments is risky and may lead to unintended attraction or temptation.

Q & A

  • What is the speaker's view on men and women working together in the same office?

    -The speaker believes it is haram (forbidden) for men and women to work together in close proximity because it can lead to inappropriate relationships and temptations.

  • Why does the speaker reference the Prophet's teachings regarding the arrangement of men and women during prayer?

    -The speaker refers to the Prophet's teachings on prayer to emphasize the importance of segregation between men and women. The Prophet said the best rows for men are at the front, and the best for women are at the back, indicating the need for separation even in religious settings.

  • What reasoning does the speaker give for men potentially behaving differently around women at work?

    -The speaker argues that men may alter their behavior around women by trying to look and act their best, such as trimming their beards, wearing perfume, or being overly polite, which could lead to inappropriate interactions over time.

  • Why does the speaker criticize even casual interactions between men and women in the workplace?

    -The speaker believes that even seemingly innocent interactions, like buying lunch together or being cordial, can lead to inappropriate relationships over time due to human nature and the influence of Shaytan (Satan).

  • How does the speaker view the example of marriages that resulted from men and women working together?

    -The speaker acknowledges that some marriages have occurred from men and women working together but cautions that not all interactions result in marriage and that many may lead to sinful behavior instead.

  • What is the speaker's stance on maintaining boundaries when working with women in a non-segregated environment?

    -The speaker advises maintaining strict boundaries by avoiding chit-chat, socializing, or direct eye contact with women, even at the risk of being seen as rude.

  • What example does the speaker use to illustrate how powerful individuals can also fall into temptation?

    -The speaker references a powerful man, potentially alluding to a former U.S. president, who was tempted by a woman despite his position, to highlight that even the most influential individuals are vulnerable to temptation.

  • What advice does the speaker give for men working in environments where segregation is not possible?

    -The speaker advises men in non-segregated environments to strictly limit their interactions with women, avoid friendly greetings or social conversation, and keep their gaze lowered.

  • How does the speaker suggest dealing with women who perceive a man’s strict boundaries as rudeness?

    -The speaker suggests that it is better for a man to be perceived as rude rather than risk engaging in inappropriate behavior, advising men to focus solely on their work and avoid unnecessary interaction with female colleagues.

  • What is the overall message the speaker is conveying regarding interactions between men and women at work?

    -The overall message is that free mixing between men and women in the workplace is dangerous and can lead to inappropriate relationships, so strict boundaries must be maintained to prevent temptation and sinful behavior.

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Связанные теги
Islamic GuidanceWorkplace EthicsGender SegregationProfessional BoundariesFree-MixingIslamic TeachingsShariah ComplianceWorkplace InteractionCultural PracticesAvoiding Temptation
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