5 Traits of The Top 1% Man
Summary
TLDRこのビデオでは、トップ1%の男性の生活がこれまで以上に良くなっている一方で、残りの99%の男性はこれまで以上に落ち込んでいると語られます。人生はレベルゼロから始まるビデオゲームのようなもので、毎日レベルアップするために努力しなければならないと述べています。本物の「ハイバリューマン」になるための5つのステップが紹介され、それには自己改善への長期的なコミットメントが必要であることが強調されています。また、本当の自由、逆境の乗り越え、強固なネットワークの重要性が語られ、これらが全て揃った時に初めて、真の意味で価値のある男性になれると語られています。
Takeaways
- 💼 トップ1%の男性にとっての人生はかつてないほど良くなっており、他の99%の男性にとってはかつてないほど憂鬱である。
- 🎮 男性の人生はゼロから始まるビデオゲームのようなもので、毎日レベルアップするために努力が必要。
- 🏆 他の男性があなたの代わりにレベルアップし、あなたの可能性のあった人生を奪う可能性がある。
- 👫 理想の女性を想像し、他の男性と一緒にいる姿を想像することで、現実の厳しさを直視する。
- 💪 高価値男性になることは、豊かさや外見だけでなく、内面の成長と自己改善に関するものである。
- 📈 高価値男性になるには最低5年間のコミットメントが必要であり、単なる短期間の目標ではない。
- 🚀 真の自由(財政的自由、場所の自由、時間の自由)を達成することが高価値男性の重要な側面である。
- 🔥 逆境や困難を乗り越えることは、男性が自身の価値を高めるために必要な過程である。
- 🤝 強力なネットワークを持つことは、高価値男性にとって最後のピースであり、影響力と保護を提供する。
- 📚 高価値男性になるためのプロセスは、良い習慣と長期的な自己改善に基づいている。
Q & A
トップ1%の男性の人生がこれまでで最高に良い理由は何ですか?
-トップ1%の男性は、自己向上と成功に向けて積極的に努力し、その結果、金銭的、社会的、個人的な充実を享受しているからです。
99%の男性の人生が抑圧的だと感じる主な理由は何ですか?
-競争が激しく、自己向上の機会を積極的に追求しないと、他の人に先を越され、希望する人生を手に入れることができないからです。
「高価値の男性」になるためには何が必要ですか?
-自分の弱点や依存を取り除き、内面からの改善と自己実現に取り組むことが必要です。
高価値の男性になるためのプロセスはどのくらいの時間がかかりますか?
-少なくとも5年間のコミットメントが必要であり、成功への内面からの取り組みと自己同一性の完全な統合が必要です。
高価値の男性とはどのような特徴を持っていますか?
-金銭的、場所的、時間的な自由を持ち、逆境を乗り越え、強いネットワークを築いている人物です。
真の自由とは何を意味しますか?
-金銭的に安定しており、どこにでも住むことができ、時間を自由に管理できる状態を指します。
高価値の男性になる過程で直面する逆境の重要性は何ですか?
-逆境は成長を促し、自身の能力と強さを証明する機会を提供します。
強いネットワークを持つことの重要性は何ですか?
-金銭だけでは解決できない問題に対処し、影響力と保護を提供するためです。
高価値の男性になるために逆境を自らに課す方法は?
-マラソンの走行やボクシングのような挑戦を通じて、自己限界を試し、自己成長を促すことです。
高価値の男性になることの最終目標は何ですか?
-内面と外面の両方で自己実現を達成し、自信を持って生き、周りから尊敬されることです。
Outlines
😢 男性の人生は厳しい競争の連続
男性の人生はレベル0から始まるビデオゲームのようで、毎日レベルアップしなければなりません。そうしないと、ほかの男性に先を越され、金銭的な可能性や人生のパートナーを奪われてしまうという厳しい現実がある。
😎 高価値な男性になるには自由が必要
高価値な男性になるには、金銭的自由、立地の自由、時間の自由が必要。100万円稼ぎでも世界中どこでも生活でき、リモートワークができてチームに任せられるなら、300万稼ぎで自由がない方が良い。
💪 逆境を乗り越えた男性が尊敬される
高価値な男性になるには、何らかの逆境や困難を乗り越える必要がある。困難な状況に置かれたり、マラソンに突然チャレンジしたりして耐え忍ぶ力が必要。それができる男性が女性からも信頼され尊敬される。
Mindmap
Keywords
💡トップ1%
💡99%の男性
💡高価値な男性
💡競争
💡自己改善
💡不安
💡自由
💡逆境
💡ネットワーク
💡内面の仕事
Highlights
You need to remove any crutches like money or looks that prevent you from truly developing your inner self to become high value
Becoming a high value man takes at least 5 years because you need time to fully integrate your accomplishments and identity
Having true freedom of time, location and passive income is more important than just making a lot of money
You must go through adversity and hardship to truly earn respect and become the type of man that others would follow
Having a powerful network of people who can help you is the final piece, but you must focus on self-development first
Transcripts
all right listen to me very closely
because life for the top one percent of
men is better than it has ever been
and for the other 99 of men it is more
depressing than it has ever been because
you see contrary to what they tell you
in the media life for a man is actually
quite hard it's a video game where you
start right at the beginning at level
zero and every single day you have to
work to level up you see because if you
don't some other guy will and that guy
will take the money that could have been
yours the life that could have been
yours and this is gonna be very very
very difficult for you to hear right now
but even the wife that could have been
yours and I really want you to let that
sink in I want you to imagine right now
your dream woman what does she look like
how does she carry herself what kind of
an incredible mother is she to your
future children how proud are you to
have her by your side you have that
image in your mind okay cool now I want
you to imagine her with another guy make
it graphic make it sting make it hurt
because you just lost your future wife
the future mother of your children to
another man because you decided you're
gonna around with some video games
while the other guy every single day put
one foot forward in front of the other
and leveled up and left you behind that
is the cold harsh reality for men it is
competition 24 7. there is no rest and
that is precisely why you need to become
a high value man now there is a big
misconception as to what is actually a
high value man and that's because most
of the guys that you watch online either
don't know what it actually means to be
a high value man or simply have not been
in the trenches long enough you can all
be in the trenches for two years and
think that you're going to be a high
value man and we'll get on to that in
just a second I'm going to share with
you guys five things in this video and
all five need to be true for you to call
yourself a high value man this is not
easy this is not a thing that you're
gonna get done in the next three weeks
or six months this is a commitment but
what other option do you have now the
first step in order to become a high
value man and this is really where I see
past the facade of a lot of the
manosphere community a lot of the red
pill Community a lot of you know what
used to be the pickup Community the
first step is you need to remove any
crutches let me make something clear you
should be rich you should have a good
body you should have abundance with
women but if you use those as crutches
well then you simply can't be high value
you know everyone thinks that they're
gonna to get a six pack and then you
know all of a sudden here you are high
value or they think they're gonna get
rich I see this a lot as well you know
they think well once I'm rich I'm a high
value man no you're not because you need
to understand especially when you're
dealing with a certain caliber of guy or
a certain caliber of girl it's a
commodity everyone has a good body
everyone's Rich it's expected to even
just get into the room it's a
prerequisite ladies and gentlemen I've
been uploading publicly on YouTube for
seven years you can go back to me at 15
years old when I was doing all the
things where I was meditating every
single day I was reading a book week
I've been doing this self-improvement
stuff for as long as I can remember
publicly on YouTube longer than anyone
else I know and documenting it and I
only felt high value maybe two years ago
18 months ago I mean imagine that I was
19 years old and here I was
multi-millionaire the girls the travel
the good body social status you know
everything you name it I had it but I
still knew I wasn't a high value man I
still knew I wasn't that guy you know I
look like that guy but I wasn't that guy
deep down because I didn't face the boy
I was still a little boy because I
didn't face my insecurities I may have
been the man but I didn't feel like like
the man at the end of the day if
everything else gets stripped around you
and the only thing that's left is you as
a person if you would feel naked if you
would feel exposed well then these are
simply crutches and you're not that guy
yet and that is why I don't believe from
scratch you can become a high value man
it's at least a five-year Journey
because first you work and you
accomplish and you strive and you
conquer and you do all these things that
from the outside make you look like the
man but then you actually need to become
that guy and you will know deep down in
your heart of hearts when you've
accomplished it and that leads us into
the next way to become a high value man
in order to become a high value man you
must reimagine the timeline you see most
of you guys think that you're going to
become a high value man within one or
two years and it's simply not gonna
happen I've never seen it happen in less
than five years because there's so much
internal work that goes along with it as
I mentioned first you do and then you
become every time someone gets success
they then need to fully integrate into
that identity and into that success for
me it took seven years from the age of
14 when I really started my
self-development journey all the way up
until basically my 21st birthday that
that's really where I start to feel like
okay I don't feel like I have anything
to prove I feel like a high value man
because of who I am right because of my
abilities because my capabilities not
because of the things I have around me
and it's very hard to explain but you
just look in a guy's eye it's the
demeanor it's the way he carries himself
how self-assured he is it's just it's
hard to describe you just know you can
see it so for me personally as I said it
took seven years for you it might take
five years 10 years 15 years but what is
your other option it is a long long long
process but as I said what's your other
option because there is a guy right now
who's robbing you of your future life
because you simply refuse to face your
insecurities your past traumas all the
things that most people don't really
talk about but all the reasons why when
you hang out with influential guys you
hang out with girls they'll be able to
read through you they'll they'll be able
to see even though you you look like
you're the man you're just a little boy
and until you work on that you're never
going to be able to attract the people
that you want in your life now the third
thing you need to do in order to become
a high value man is have ultimate true
Freedom so that means Financial Freedom
location freedom and time time Freedom
listen to me I would rather make a
hundred thousand dollars a year and be
able to live anywhere in the world be
able to work remotely and be able to
build the systems and processes so that
way I have a great team who takes care
of it there's no such thing as passive
income don't let anyone tell you that oh
it's just passive income you just set it
and forget it no everything breaks down
no just like a car just like the things
in your house when you have things in
your life that are tested you put volume
through let's say that's even your
shoulder you know with enough time and
not taking care of it it can blow out
right it's the exact same thing with
your business don't think that you can
just build something and then just set
it and forget it and it's just gonna
spit out money and never break so
there's no such thing as passive income
but there is leveraged income using
leverage in order to find the right
people in order to find the right
solutions to actually deliver the
service or the product or whatever it is
that you're doing so I would much rather
make a hundred thousand dollars a year
and have location and time Freedom they
make a million dollars or hell even
three million dollars and be stuck in
one city and have someone tell me hey at
this time you come to office at this
time you have to leave you don't have a
say in when you get to go to the gym
when you get to hang out with your
friends oh you go on fire on a really
fun trip with your friends too bad you
already use your vacation days for the
year and the funny thing is when I say
this people think like office jobs right
right but they're forgetting about the
footballers they're forgetting about the
actors they're forgetting about all the
famous people they look up to and think
oh they have freedom well they don't
they had a team they had a manager they
had people in their Corner telling them
look we haven't made enough money this
year we haven't sold enough tickets this
year and you know I've talked about this
stuff a lot so I really don't want to
hammer the point home any further so
just remember you need true freedom and
true freedom is not just making a lot of
money now the fourth thing you need in
order to become a high value man is some
sort of adversity in your life so either
that adversity and hardship is forced on
you for example with me having to
support and take care of a single mother
that was really not the easiest thing to
come to terms with at the age of eight
or nine years old and without going into
too much detail here just having a very
difficult upbringing to deal with and
just going through and seeing a lot of
things that just made me very angry and
upset at the world at a very young age
so this certain adversity there's
certain challenges that just force
certain people to step up an unfortunate
thing is 80 of time when men are put
through that they don't step up they
don't pull up their boots and become the
person they need to become to face the
challenges and that's just the
unfortunate nature of the world but you
simply cannot be a high value Man
without putting yourself through the
fire I want you to wake up every single
morning look at yourself in the mirror
and ask yourself honestly would I follow
this man into war stare in the mirror
and be honest with yourself what do you
see now I know some of you guys are
looking at this and going okay well I
come from a middle class family or maybe
even a wealthy family or you may have
just generally had a very cushy life in
general well that's fine as long as you
force adversity and hardship on yourself
so whether that be small things I
remember even me when I was 15 16 I used
to do a bunch of cold approach and you
know I used to it taught me a lot about
how the world works and as men we all
know that anxiety of like looking at a
girl and being like do I speak to her do
I talk to her all that stuff so I did a
lot of that growing up and I think even
that adversity shaped a lot of who I am
today I will never ever look at a girl
three times the first time I might look
and acknowledge oh wow that's you know
that's a very beautiful girl the second
time I might look over again and at that
point I have to either make the decision
am I going to be man enough that night
or that day to go up and say something
and say hi and introduce myself or am I
not going to do it but at least it's a
skill that I don't think is necessarily
too effective for the main goals that
most guys want but it is a skill that's
very incredible and teaches you a lot
about adversity and difficulty so
whether that's learning cold approach
whether that's running a marathon I had
a very difficult summer of 2020 where I
had crippling anxiety attacks and by the
way you know I'm a person that I've been
meditating for the longest time ever I
would sit and I would meditate I'm like
oh I can just meditate away no it never
went away and the only thing I could
think about for three weeks straight
from morning to night was how I was
gonna delete myself and there's a big
difference between thinking about it and
thinking about how you're going to do it
once you start getting into the hey how
am I going to do it that's a very
different level of severity
um
like over the past two three weeks I
just keep waking up with this crippling
crippling anxiety
no
I just don't feel like myself the reason
I say that is because I made the
decision I am going to run a marathon in
two weeks with no preparation I never
run more than eight kilometers in my
entire life and I made the decision that
in 14 days I'm gonna run 42 kilometers
with no training on a cold rainy day in
London in December with no flat roads or
perfect route or anything I felt like
after the summer of 2020 after you know
having a very difficult summer I felt
like I had nothing left I didn't believe
in me I didn't believe in my Powers I
didn't believe in how strong I was so I
had to put myself through something
difficult to go you can get through
anything if you can get through that you
can get through anything so if you grew
up with an amazing loving families
without too many difficulties there's
absolutely nothing wrong that's
beautiful it's amazing you had that
experience it's amazing that you had a
good reference for what a good childhood
is but you have to put yourself through
the fire you have to find a way and it's
funny after I ran my marathon in 2021
and 2022 I had my two biggest years when
it comes to every aspect of my life I
really leveled up the last two years but
now I feel like I'm starting to get a
little soft again which is why next year
I'm dedicating myself to boxing to
really committing to the craft to
getting punched in the face over and
over and over and putting myself through
that adversity so that way the year
after I can have my first proper fight
just remember that a man that has never
been through hardship can never truly be
a man that women respect or follow into
war the last thing that you need in
order to become a high value man is a
strong Network and out of all the things
that I listed I'd say this is the least
important and the last piece of the
puzzle you know a lot of people obsess
about networking in their first few
years of starting this journey for me it
was the opposite I just put my head down
put my head down and I'm like I am gonna
become an incredible man I'm gonna work
on myself I'm gonna do it for more than
a decade and when I pop my head up the
people that I used to look up to are
respect rather than me trying to network
with them they're going to reach out to
me or we're going to get introduced as
peers as equals and that is exactly what
has happened in the last two years so
that's why I'm saying I believe that
this is the fifth and last step of this
puzzle but it is extremely important to
have a strong Network in your corner you
know there's a lot of things that money
alone simply cannot fix you need a
network you need a problem solver in
your corner you need people who can
protect you your loved ones and you need
people who can get their hands dirty if
need be see there is not a single
problem that's been presented to me in
the last year or two years that I have
not been able to fix myself or through
my direct Network and let me tell you
you will earn the respect of both men
and women if you are that person if you
have that sort of influence that sort of
power that sort of status that sort of
pull I mean even the other day there was
a specific thing that one of my good
friends Hamza needed help with within a
few hours I had taken care of it and
he'd sent me this message
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as I said the world can be very cruel so
once you start winning you need a
network you know it's another level to
be able to get someone's documents
pushed through because you have that
level of power in a specific country
it's another level of power to be able
to ban someone from a specific venue or
specific chain of restaurants because
the owner owes you a favor and it's
another level of power when you have
people in your corner then make sure
that if anyone messes with you or your
loved ones they will face Swift and
aggressive consequences and by the way I
don't know what any of this is like I'm
just hypothetically imagining so anyways
this fifth point is really just the
cherry on top you need to address the
first four points and then you can
really get onto this fifth point and
really become someone that's powerful
influential and whatever the problem is
either you or the problem solvers in
your corner that work directly for you
that owe you favors they will make sure
it's taken care of swiftly and
professionally so ladies and gentlemen
that is the five ways how you become a
high value man you don't become a high
value Man by you know making a bunch of
money and buying a Lambo and then going
to the club and popping bottles and by
the way all that stuff is okay you know
maybe seven eight times a year I go to a
club and I just spend money money with a
bunch of my friends just because why not
we can and I buy a bunch of expensive
stuff and I live a great life but I
don't think that makes me the man it's
the five things that I talked about here
that really makes you a top one percent
man now these are the five things but in
order to accomplish them you need good
habits so that's why I want you to watch
this video next which are the three
habits that made me a millionaire at the
age of 18. go check that out and I will
see you guys in the next video
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