When a Girl Stares at You, DON'T Do These 6 Things!
Summary
TLDRThe video script discusses common mistakes men make when they notice a woman showing interest through staring. It emphasizes the importance of maintaining eye contact without breaking it first, not ignoring her advances, avoiding egocentric behavior, not fighting the urge to stare back, and not acting out of character or nodding repeatedly. The script suggests using charm and confidence to approach the woman, treating the situation like trying to make a scared cat comfortable, and highlights the need for men to be proactive in such scenarios.
Takeaways
- 😉 When a woman stares at you, it could be a sign of attraction, and it's important to handle the situation with confidence and grace.
- 👀 Maintain eye contact when noticed being stared at, but avoid being the first to break it, as it shows you're not intimidated and are in control.
- 🙂 Acknowledge her interest with a smile or a wink, but don't ignore her gesture; instead, use it as an opportunity to communicate non-verbally.
- 💡 Don't let the attention go to your head or become egocentric; maintain your normal behavior and show that you're comfortable with the attention.
- 🕺 Don't fight the urge to stare back; it's part of the silent communication between you two, but avoid being too obvious or comical about it.
- 🚫 Avoid becoming arrogant or acting out of character just because a woman is showing interest; be genuine and let the interaction unfold naturally.
- 🤔 Understand that staring is a form of subconscious communication that can convey more than words, so use it to gauge interest and build a connection.
- 👍 A single nod can be enough to acknowledge her stare, showing confidence and comfort without appearing insecure or uncomfortable.
- 🚶♂️ If you're interested in her, make the first move and approach her to start a conversation, as women rarely make the first move due to societal norms.
- 💭 Develop a sense of mystery and confidence that can draw people in, increasing your attractiveness without bragging or being overly self-absorbed.
- 📚 Learn from the experience and apply it to future interactions, improving your social skills and understanding of non-verbal cues in dating scenarios.
Q & A
What should you do when you notice a woman staring at you?
-You should hold eye contact and show dominance without being intimidated, and ideally make the first move if you are interested.
Why is it important not to break eye contact first?
-Breaking eye contact first can show submission and a lack of confidence. Holding eye contact shows dominance and confidence.
What is a good way to acknowledge a woman’s stare without using words?
-A good way to acknowledge her stare is by smiling or winking at her, which communicates your awareness and interest without words.
Why should you avoid becoming egocentric when a woman stares at you?
-Becoming egocentric can make you appear arrogant and inexperienced with female attention, which can decrease your attractiveness.
What is the recommended behavior if you are interested in a woman who is staring at you?
-You should maintain eye contact, acknowledge her gesture with a smile or wink, and eventually approach her to strike up a conversation.
Why is it advised not to ignore a woman’s staring gesture?
-Ignoring her gesture might lead to her shifting her attention to someone else who responds, making you miss an opportunity.
What can continuous nodding indicate when a woman is staring at you?
-Continuous nodding can indicate a lack of confidence and insecurity, which can be unattractive and turn her off.
How should you handle the urge to stare back at a woman who is staring at you?
-You should not fight the urge to stare back. Instead, maintain eye contact to communicate interest and confidence.
What is a major mistake men make when a woman is staring at them?
-A major mistake is becoming overly proud and acting out of character, which can come off as arrogant rather than confident.
Why should you not act like a 'silent stigma male' when a woman stares at you?
-Acting like a 'silent stigma male' can make you seem unapproachable and mysterious in a negative way, rather than confident and attractive.
Outlines
👀 Deciphering Female Interest: The Art of Eye Contact
This paragraph discusses the common situation where a man, having improved his physique and appearance, finds women staring at him. It explains that this could be a sign of attraction and that men often struggle with how to respond when they become the object of attention. The paragraph emphasizes the importance of maintaining eye contact as a display of confidence and dominance, rather than breaking it first. It suggests that a man should be patient and allow the woman to break eye contact, signaling his interest without being intimidated. The text also advises men to approach the woman and initiate a conversation, as women rarely make the first move. It highlights the importance of treating the situation delicately, like trying to gain the trust of a scared feral cat.
🙅♂️ Avoiding Common Mistakes When Noticed by Women
The second paragraph focuses on the mistakes men often make when they notice a woman's interest in them. It advises against ignoring a woman's advances, as this could lead to her moving on to someone else. Instead, men should acknowledge her attention with a smile or a wink, making her feel comfortable and not embarrassed. The paragraph warns against becoming egocentric or arrogant due to the attention, suggesting that a man should maintain his normal behavior and not let the attention inflate his ego. It also advises against fighting the urge to stare back, as this is part of a silent communication that can build attraction. The text recommends being oneself and enjoying the interaction, rather than trying too hard or changing one's personality.
🤔 Navigating the Subtleties of Non-Verbal Communication
The final paragraph continues the discussion on how to handle a woman's stare. It cautions against nodding repeatedly when a woman is staring, as this can signal a lack of confidence or discomfort. Instead, a single nod is recommended to acknowledge her attention without appearing insecure. The paragraph reinforces the idea that a woman's stare is generally a positive sign of interest and that men should approach the situation naturally. It concludes by encouraging men to watch the next video for advice on how to approach a woman who has shown interest, emphasizing the importance of understanding and utilizing non-verbal cues in social interactions.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Physique
💡Demeanors
💡Dominance
💡Attraction
💡Eye Contact
💡Staring
💡Confidence
💡Egocentric
💡Mystery
💡Approach
💡Nod
Highlights
Men often don't know how to respond when they become the object of attraction, as they are used to being the pursuer.
Women may stare at men they find attractive, just as men do, and this could be a sign of interest.
Staring is a subconscious indication of attraction, similar to how one might stare at a painting in a museum that captures their attention.
Men should not be the first to break eye contact when a woman is staring, as it shows dominance and lack of intimidation.
Ignoring a woman's stare may cause her to lose interest and allow someone else to engage with her.
Men should acknowledge a woman's stare with a smile or a wink to communicate interest non-verbally.
Becoming egocentric or arrogant in response to a woman's stare can be off-putting and may reduce one's dating value.
Men should not fight the urge to stare back, but rather engage in a silent dance of communication.
Acting out of character or becoming overly confident in response to a woman's attention can be perceived as arrogance.
Nodding repeatedly at a woman who is staring can show insecurity and discomfort, which may be unattractive.
A single nod is sufficient to acknowledge that you've noticed a woman staring without appearing insecure.
Men should maintain their natural demeanor and not change their personality in response to a woman's attention.
Men should approach the situation naturally and not make the staring a big deal, treating it as a normal occurrence.
The act of staring can be a clear sign of attraction and should be reciprocated to show interest.
Men should use their surroundings to their advantage, such as offering to buy a woman a drink to strike up a conversation.
The video suggests that further advice on how to approach a woman who is interested will be provided in a subsequent video.
Transcripts
so you've been working on yourself and
you've built up a great physique and you
dress to impress but now the only thing
that happens is you find women keep
staring at you yes this should be a clue
that she might be somewhat interested in
you but many men don't know what to do
when they go from being the hunter to
the hunted you see women also have the
same demeanors as many men and will
stare at you if they find you attractive
granted she might take a different
approach in how she stares at you but
it's something you might need to get
used to especially if you've been
working hard to improve yourself today
we explore some of the mistakes that
most men make the moment they notice a
woman is interested in them in most
cases it's often an indicator that she's
attracted to you but since men don't
have experience being hunted they often
mess it up but what does it mean when a
woman stares at you why do people stare
at each other when it comes to people
staring at each other it's quite a
fascinating story you see men and women
are alike when it comes to spotting
someone they desire and when they do
they'll want to figure out why this
person is so attractive to them what
follows is the stare that occasionally
might seem weird you see we have our
attention drawn to the things we desire
and you can see this when you're walking
through a museum and a painting pops out
what you will inadvertently do is stare
at it subconsciously each time you walk
by this is a clear indication of
interest and your mind is building up up
numerous questions since we as human
beings hate unanswered questions we will
continue to stare at what grabs our
attention now women are the same and if
you've been focused on improving
yourself and how you look you are very
likely to find that women stare at you
more often the question here is what
should you do or rather what is it you
should not do if you also like her well
we've identified six things that you
have to avoid doing if you're truly
interested in a woman and she's staring
at you the ideal way you want to go
about this is to treat it like a scared
feral cat that you're trying to make
comfortable and allow to like you or get
close to you but what you should avoid
doing is just as important let's dive in
number one break eye contact one of the
things you should avoid doing when you
notice a woman staring at you is being
the first one who breaks eye contact you
see women are often those who have to
submit as a way of showing that you are
the one truly in control now holding eye
contact is a way of showing dominance
and that you are not intimidated by her
staring at you what you'll notice is
that eventually she will break eye
contact and this is when you can look
away this will often happen in just a
couple of seconds but you want to show
her that you have seen her staring at
you and you are wondering why if you do
happen to get her to break eye contact
First you will also notice that she will
stare at you again sometime later once
again the same principles apply and you
will need to hold eye contact for as
long as possible ideally this is when a
Charming Man who's been following this
channel should have an idea of how to
approach her yes the constant staring is
a clear sign of Attraction and one thing
you want to do is be the one making the
first move you see regardless of who a
woman is women rarely make the first
move as this has been ingrained in their
DNA if you choose your opportunity
wisely you should be able to not when
the correct moment is for you to make
the approach and strike up a
conversation number two simply ignoring
the gesture whilst it might seem very
tempting to Simply ignore the gesture of
her staring at you it doesn't yield you
any benefits to Simply Let It Go what is
bound to happen is someone else might
come by and steal her attention and
since they're actually responding she
will feel more comfortable and you will
have ultimately lost your shot instead
of simply ignoring the staring gesture
there are a couple of things you can do
number one is to have a smile and smile
at her you can follow this up with a
wink as well but the main thing is to
acknowledge the fact that she's been
staring at you you see the idea is to
communicate with her without using any
words and this can be done through
gestures or even some facial expressions
you want to make sure that she's
comfortable enough for you to approach
her and she should not feel embarrassed
about being caught staring now this all
depends on what whether you find her
attractive or not as some of the most
attractive women rarely even focus on
the men around them knowing that the
attractive man will come looking for
them in some way the final thing you
should do instead of ignoring her is to
either go over to her or signal her over
if this happens in a bar you can use
your surroundings to your advantage this
means you can call her over and offer to
buy her a drink You're simply looking
for a way to occupy her time and strike
up some kind of conversation so it is
important to not ignore any of her
advances in this manner as she might
simply move towards someone else and
choose to ignore you you don't want to
have her feel like she's embarrassing
herself or even put her in any state of
discomfort for staring at you remember
it's not purposely done number three
don't become egocentric one of the worst
things you can do when you notice a
woman staring at you is to allow it to
go to your head you see many men don't
have the luxury of women staring ing at
them which means they don't know how to
act when they see this they simply see
her liking him and it becomes an ego
thing you see the last thing you want to
do is to embarrass her in some way or
make her feel like she's the one
responsible for a change in your
behavior this will tell her that you
don't have any real experience with
women who give you attention and it
might seem like you don't have any
dating value a good quality man will
just allow her to stare and focus on
himself he will continue being the
normal person he is and understand that
it might be the way he currently is
that's making her stare you want to show
that this is nothing new to you and
you're used to having women stare at you
what you'll notice is that a silent kind
of confidence will radiate from you and
this creates an aura of Mystique around
you that makes women like you even more
additionally you'll notice that she
talks about you to her friends and this
can mean that more and more people in
the room will stare at you as well you
want to have everyone feel like this is
everyday practice for you and it happens
quite often it's these additional levels
of confidence that truly draw people in
and will increase your sexual value so
don't let it go to your head and don't
become egocentric bragging about this as
it might be at the cost of those around
you you don't want to be the silent
stigma male that everyone loves but
doesn't understand we've touched on the
power of mystery on many different
occasions on this channel and would
recommend that you also check out some
of the other videos number four don't
fight the urge to stare back whenever we
stare at someone it's natural to check
yourself and then simply Look Away now
we've already mentioned the fact that
you should hold eye contact for as long
as she permits but you also don't have
to fight the urge to stare back you see
since staring is something that is often
frowned upon you will more than likely
find yourself and every part of your
being telling you to look away is you
might just come across as being weird
and she might be asking herself why
you're staring at her however if she's
the one who's been staring at you it's
time to understand that this encounter
between the two of you is somewhat of a
silent dance yes this means that both of
you are actually communicating in your
minds and it is this form of
subconscious communication that is often
communicating things that words will
never be able to do what's happening is
that you're exchanging information and
if you have experience your facial
gestures can be quite enticing to even
turn her on as we've mentioned your go
goal is to get her to talk to you as
soon as possible which is a way of truly
gauging her real interest levels so you
mustn't fight the urge to stare back
whilst it might seem normal to you the
act of trying to stare at her without
being obvious can often be comical and
is not attractive at all so if you like
her and she's staring at you you should
continue to stare back ideally this will
also communicate to her that you're
interested or that you find her
attractive we've already touched on the
wink and slice smirk that can say words
about your personality and in many cases
even draw her in simply just be yourself
and you need to have some fun with it as
well number five don't become the
you see one of the big issues
with Modern Men is they simply don't
know what to do whenever a woman is
touting their ego in fact many men
become so puffed and proud of themselves
they simply act out of character and
their levels of self-confidence can
rapidly rise through the roof if you're
not careful it's very important to know
that if a woman is staring at you it's
no big deal and you should also treat it
as such don't do the whole hey baby
routine when you think she likes you
instead of being confident this can come
off as very arrogant she staring at you
for a reason and it's not for you to
change your personality in any way
additionally many men might become so
self-absorbed that they tell everyone
around them forgetting that this is a
silent form of communication that could
lead to something even more beautiful
and she's also taken a risk by doing so
as she might be judged by those around
her since women should never be the ones
making the first move as we've already
mentioned the best course of action is
to just accept it for what it is and
it's no different than having a random
stranger stare at you you can simply
ignore them or walk away if you feel a
little threatened however it's best to
Simply Be Yourself and continue to focus
on what you're doing the occasional
reciprocal act will be enough to keep
her attention
number six nodding repeatedly the act of
nodding at a woman when she's staring at
you might seem natural in fact people
often nod at each other when they catch
someone staring at them as a way
acknowledging that they've been seen and
that the other person might be fine or a
little uncomfortable with someone
continuously staring at them however
continuous nodding shows a lack of
confidence and a little insecurity in
fact it might show that you're a little
uncomfortable with her staring at you
and this is what will often turn her off
off immediately if you're going to nod
at her you should stick to a single nod
to acknowledge that you have seen her
and that you are completely fine and
confident with the fact that she's
staring you down also you don't want to
approach her with the demeanor of what
are you looking at this is perhaps one
of the most important things to keep in
mind always try to focus on keeping
things as natural as they can possibly
be whenever a woman is staring at you it
is most generally a good sign and it
also means that she's checking you out
with women now having so many options in
men who pursue them this is quite a rare
phenomenon to occur but once you notice
this you'll eventually need to approach
so make sure to check out this next
video on how to actually get a woman who
likes you
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