11 ways to make anyone OBSESSED with you *dark psychology*
Summary
TLDRThis video script delves into the dark psychology of manipulation, warning viewers against using such tactics for forming relationships. It humorously frames the manipulative strategies while advising against them, emphasizing the importance of a healthy self-concept and genuine interaction. The speaker shares insights on how to recognize and protect oneself from manipulative behaviors, advocating for self-improvement and self-validation as a means to attract and maintain healthy relationships.
Takeaways
- 🚫 Avoid using manipulative tactics to make someone obsessed with you, as it leads to unhealthy relationships.
- 🎭 The facade of manipulation can be tiring to maintain and can backfire when the target realizes what's happening.
- 💡 Develop a positive self-concept to attract others naturally without resorting to dark psychology tricks.
- 🌐 Do not excessively immerse yourself in someone else's world; focus on your own life and energy.
- 🔄 Use the psychology of presence and absence to create intrigue, but do not stalk or invade someone's privacy.
- 💫 Command your own energy and live a life you love to naturally attract others without manipulation.
- 🔮 Understand what someone else wants and play into their fantasies to appeal to them, but do so ethically.
- 📉 Recognize and affirm someone's insecurities to make them feel good, but be cautious of using this knowledge manipulatively.
- 🔄 The 'hot and cold' method can create a sense of validation dependency, but it's important to use such techniques responsibly.
- 🎨 Allow people to project their fantasies onto you, which can be effective in seduction, but consider the ethical implications.
- 🤔 Identify moments of weakness in others and use them ethically to build connections, not to manipulate.
- 💣 Be aware of the potential for manipulation in relationships and work on self-improvement to protect yourself from such tactics.
Q & A
What is the main purpose of the video?
-The main purpose of the video is to warn viewers about the manipulative tactics some people use to make others obsessed with them and to offer healthier alternatives for attracting attention.
Why does the speaker advise against using manipulative tactics to make someone obsessed with you?
-The speaker advises against using manipulative tactics because they lead to unhealthy relationships, require maintaining a facade, and can ultimately backfire when the target realizes they are being manipulated.
What is one healthy way the speaker suggests to make someone naturally like you more?
-One healthy way suggested is to work on one's self-concept and perceive oneself positively, as this will naturally attract others without needing to resort to manipulation.
What is the psychology trick mentioned that involves being around someone more often?
-The psychology trick involves making oneself present around the person more often, as studies show that people tend to like and find others more attractive when they see them frequently.
Why does the speaker emphasize the importance of having a strong self-concept?
-The speaker emphasizes the importance of a strong self-concept because it helps in attracting others naturally and prevents the need for using manipulative tactics.
What is the 'hot and cold method' mentioned in the video?
-The 'hot and cold method' involves giving someone praise and approval to make them feel good, then suddenly stopping to create a craving for that validation, making them seek it from you.
What example does the speaker give to illustrate how manipulative tactics can work?
-The speaker gives an example of affirming someone's insecurities (e.g., a short man's insecurity about his height) and then using that affirmation to gain control over their emotions.
How does the speaker suggest identifying someone's insecurities?
-The speaker suggests identifying someone's insecurities by listening carefully to what they reveal about themselves and observing how they do not meet societal expectations.
What is 'love bombing' and how is it used in manipulation?
-Love bombing involves overwhelming someone with affection, praise, and promises to create dependency, which can then be withdrawn to manipulate their emotions.
What advice does the speaker give to protect oneself from manipulators?
-The speaker advises working on self-validation, having a healthy mindset, and going to therapy to protect oneself from manipulators who prey on weaknesses.
Outlines
🚫 Dark Manipulation Tactics Warning
The speaker begins by warning viewers against using manipulative tactics to make someone obsessed with them, emphasizing the negative consequences such as the inability to maintain healthy relationships. The speaker advises watching with an open mind to recognize if such tactics are being used against oneself and suggests healthier alternatives for attracting genuine affection.
💫 Building Self-Concept for Attraction
The script discusses the importance of self-concept in manifesting attraction, suggesting that a positive self-image can influence reality. It advises not to be overly present in someone else's life to maintain one's own power and energy. The speaker also mentions the psychological effect of familiarity, suggesting that being around someone more can increase their attraction to you, but cautions against stalking behavior.
🎨 Playing into Others' Fantasies
The speaker explains how understanding and playing into someone's insecurities and fantasies can lead to them becoming obsessed. They provide examples of how affirming someone's insecurities can make them crave validation, and how projecting a fantasy onto a 'blank slate' can be an effective seduction technique. The script also touches on the manipulative use of moments of weakness.
🌟 Harnessing Personal Power for Attraction
The final paragraph focuses on the idea that having a strong personal energy and a life one loves can naturally attract others without the need for manipulative tactics. The speaker encourages self-improvement and self-validation as a means to protect against manipulative individuals and to attract healthy, long-lasting relationships.
🎶 Closing with a Song and Reflection
The script concludes with a song and a reflection on the importance of being in one's own power and not chasing after others. It emphasizes the value of self-love and personal growth over manipulation and control in relationships.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Manipulative
💡Self-concept
💡Obsession
💡Vortex
💡Insecurities
💡Psychic Reading
💡Validation
💡Hot and Cold Method
💡Seduction
💡Love Bombing
💡Narcissist
Highlights
The video discusses manipulative tactics to make someone obsessed with you, but strongly advises against using them for healthy relationships.
Maintaining a facade and playing games in relationships can lead to exhaustion and eventual abandonment by the other person.
The speaker shares personal experience with psychic readings, emphasizing their accuracy and the value of such services.
Self-concept is crucial in manifestation; the video suggests having a positive self-image to attract obsession.
Excessive presence in someone's life can lead to a loss of personal identity and power.
Studies show that frequent exposure to someone can increase likability and attraction.
The video humorously discourages stalking someone on social media as a method to increase their obsession.
Being in your own 'vortex' with personal power attracts people naturally, without dark psychology tricks.
Understanding and fulfilling others' desires can make them obsessed, especially if they lack something in themselves.
A psychic reading can reveal insights about relationships and personal issues, as the speaker's experience suggests.
Playing into someone's fantasy can make them feel good about their insecurities and potentially obsessed.
The 'hot and cold' method is a manipulative technique to make someone crave validation and approval.
Self-validation is essential for protecting oneself from manipulative people.
Manipulating moments of weakness can be a powerful tool for those skilled in psychological manipulation.
Painting a picture of a shared life can entice someone to strive for a relationship.
Love bombing is a technique to overwhelm someone with affection, making them feel good and potentially obsessed.
The video concludes with a reminder to seek healthy, long-lasting relationships and to use the provided tips wisely.
Transcripts
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You're evil you're evil you're
manipulative you're powerless you're
weak you want to find cheap tactics and
tricks to make someone obsessed with you
and guess what I'm going to show you how
to do that exactly you're evil do know a
couple of things are going to happen
once you start to do these things number
one don't expect to ever have a healthy
relationship by the way I would totally
use a knife to do
this but the last time I used a knife in
my video video got taken down so you're
never going to have healthy
relationships number one because you're
going to have to keep up this facade
you're going to have to continue playing
this game and guess what it gets tiring
you are completely messing with
someone's mind and emotions and if that
person your target your victim become
smarter over time they're going to
realize what you're doing and they're
going to leave you which is why I highly
advise not using any of these tactics
you're evil but rather watching this
video with an open mind to be able to
recognize if someone else is doing this
to you if someone else is doing this to
you even though it will work you'll be
able to walk away and then you can watch
the video on my second channel for how
to not be obsessed with them anymore and
before that you guys I'm going to teach
you some healthy ways to make someone
obsessed with
you number one self-concept we talk
about self-concept a lot in
manifestation how do you perceive
yourself next week I'm coming out with a
full guide on how to entirely rewire
your mindset but until then figure out
what you want your self-concept to be if
you have the self-concept everyone hates
me nobody loves me I'm unlovable someone
will never be obsessed with you so have
your self-concept simply as everyone is
obsessed with me everyone loves me and
your reality will slowly conform to that
secondly don't excessively be in
someone's world or energetic field for
example when you're obsessed with
someone you're not living in your own
world anymore
you exist in their world you wake up you
check their stories you check their
Instagram you stalk their following or
whatever you do you're existing in their
world they have so much power over you
you're not even in your own world
anymore you need to actually entirely
retract your energy and put it back onto
yourself this is a psychology trick but
if you want them to naturally like you
more simply be around them more Studies
have proven that we tend to like people
more when we are around them and we find
them more attractive when we've seen
them a lot as well so St them I'm
kidding don't do that shh I never said
that you're evil don't do that if we
want to make that a little bit of a dark
psychology trick you can make yourself
present often like always be around and
then suddenly disappear when they want
you the most you disappear you need to
be in your own Vortex and you need to
have your own power and people will
naturally gravitate towards that you're
going to learn in this video and in my
second Channel video the root of all
obsession is actually people are lacking
something in themselves and they see it
in you which is why they want it and why
they become obsessed with it so if
you're able to command your own energy
you have strong energy you have a life
that you love people will naturally
obsess over you without you even needing
to do all these dark methods if you want
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number one so you need to figure out
what exactly is that other person wants
and then you can play to their fantasy
about it for example in the past if I've
become like infatuated with someone and
I'm like they're not even my type why is
this the case nine times out of 10 it is
because they have something I want and
they painted a picture with me with
having that thing that they have for
example maybe you are a poor Lonely Boy
that's not getting any girls you're
insecure you're overweight and you meet
this girl and she's beautiful she's
popular she lives an amazing life and
she paints a picture of you two being
together by you being with her you're
going to get Social recognition people
are going to look at you differently
they're going to treat you better and
you become obsessed with her because
number one she to the picture she played
to your fantasy and number two she has
something you don't
have the easiest way to do this is
actually to figure out someone's
insecurities and then affirm it to them
a really easy example is short men short
guys naturally they're insecure about
their height whether it's something
objectively to be insecure about or not
I don't know we're not talking about
that but they are insecure and something
I've observed in a lot of shorter than
average men is because of this they
crave so much female validation I was
discussing this with one of my friends
the other day he we love to talk about
psychology human behavior and we were
saying why are all the top male
YouTubers especially in finance they're
all 5'8 5' 7 and our theory was because
perhaps they feel so insecure they need
to MOG in other areas and like
excessively MOG which is why they become
so rich they get so much clout on social
media and then they use that to get
girls to ultimately make them feel
better about being a short King and this
is a pattern I've observed time and time
again this is just an example so what
happens if you get a short King don't
even mention his height just be like
just so masculine and strong and tall
and
B don't ha the player hate the game
that's what I've noticed how do you
figure out someone's insecurities
sometimes it's easy to see for for
example just look at societal
expectations number one if they don't
fall into that expectation they're
probably insecure about it and if
they're not you just need to listen
because everyone reveals who they are
and what they're insecure about just by
talking you just need to shut up and
listen number two hot and cold method
now we talked about this in the other
video I'm going to give you a technique
a little bit more devious and further
than what we talked about previously so
in the context of making someone feel
good about their instit Securities you
want to keep giving them praise and
approval and eventually you want to stop
maybe abruptly they're going to Crave
this again because you become their
source of validation and then they're
like what do I do what do I do without
this validation this will especially
work on people who simply can't validate
themselves which is why all people who
are manipulators and they're narcissists
they go for weak targets which is why I
stress in all my videos guys you need to
have a healthy mindset you need to go to
therapy you need to work on yourself
because there are [ __ ] evil people in
the world that's why it's so important
you need to self validate in order to
protect yourself from those people and
this happens in really subtle ways
imagine you're talking to someone new or
you meet a new friend and they're really
affirming all your insecurities they're
giving you approval over things even if
you're not asking for approval
eventually you just simply crave it for
example maybe you're a photographer and
every time you post a photo that friend
comments love this photo love it and
they do this 10 times and then they
randomly stop you're going to be like is
this a good photo why didn't they
comment and then they don't do it for a
couple of photos and boom next photo
they comment love this photo dopamine
hit you just got their approval again
let them project a fantasy onto you we
talked about this in terms of
insecurities and you know that person
usually has something you want but in
terms of Seduction especially it is
really good to play to someone's Fantasy
by entirely being a blank slate so they
can paint whatever picture they want
onto you and you go along with that if
you ask me that's a really tough facade
to keep up but I've seen it work whether
or not you have the capability to do
that honey that is up to you but it
works manipulate their moments of
weakness this again can stem from the
earlier points if someone shows weakness
to you or their insecurities you affirm
it and you make them feel good and then
at a later point in time you can
weaponize it against them
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that's a great example of him
manipulating a moment of weakness
because afterwards I actually liked him
it wasn't until this all wore off that I
was like I don't like this man he's a
[ __ ] psychopath people who are
cunning manipulative they're going to
sense when you're weak they're going to
swoop in and they're going to get what
they want from you paint a picture of
their life with you especially if they
want what you have oh my God we can do
this trip together imagine how beautiful
our kids are going to look you can also
talk about oh my future husband or my
future wife because they're naturally
going to be like um why are you talking
about that when I'm right here like that
should be me and they try to prove
themselves harder to you doesn't work on
everyone just works on them if they're
weak and a lot of people are weak love
bomb them that can go into future
promising as well but love bombing works
but you need to learn what they are so
you can pull away when you love bomb
someone you just simply make them feel
good you do all the future promising you
affirm all the insecurities if they
think they're ugly oh my God you're the
most beautiful woman I've seen in my
life if they're a short King you and you
MOG every other single man with your
energy and masculinity anyway guys that
is the end of this video I really hope
you took away something from it you
probably did if you're a narcissist a
sociopath blah blah blah I'm scared of
you everyone else please use these tips
wisely and hopefully protect yourself
from people who use these tips because
there are a lot of weirdos in the world
and remember we want to attract healthy
relationships with people that are long
lasting which which means you should be
using the healthy tips I shared with you
where you know you have good
self-concept you're working on yourself
you're building your own garden and
letting the butterflies come versus
chasing
and and just like being in your own
power so so the video on my second
channel will also be out shortly love
you guys and I'll see you very
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