Ryland Adams Addresses Trisha Paytas
Summary
TLDRThe speaker expresses deep concern and confusion over a recent conflict involving their close friend Trish, who is upset with them due to an online situation. They regret that their podcast, which usually covers light-hearted topics, has become a source of distress for Trish. The speaker wishes Trish had communicated her feelings directly and hopes to mend their friendship privately. They emphasize their love and support for Trish, stating their intention not to engage in online drama and to handle the matter with respect and care.
Takeaways
- 🤔 The speaker is conflicted about addressing a personal issue publicly because they value their friendship with Trish over a headline story.
- 😢 Trish is upset with the speaker and others, and her feelings have been hurt by some online drama.
- 📱 The speaker has been receiving messages on social media about the situation, prompting them to address it.
- 👥 There has been some sort of conflict involving Trish, Jeffrey, and Hair by Jay, with negative comments made by the latter two.
- 🏠 The speaker has a close relationship with Trish, seeing her often and considering her one of their closest friends.
- 💔 The speaker is heartbroken over the situation and wishes Trish had communicated her feelings directly to them.
- 🤷♀️ The speaker admits they might not have been aware of Trish's true feelings or her desire for them to distance from Jeffrey.
- 🤝 The speaker acknowledges that both Jeffrey and Trish are independently their friends and they have never been in a situation to mediate between them.
- 😔 The speaker feels awful for contributing to Trish's distress and wishes the issue could have been handled privately.
- 🚫 The speaker does not want to engage in online drama and values Trish's friendship more than internet attention.
- 💌 The speaker expresses hope for mending the friendship and having an in-person conversation about the feelings involved.
Q & A
What is the main issue being discussed in the podcast?
-The main issue discussed is the drama involving Trish, Jeffrey, and Hair by Jay, which has become a hot topic on social media and has affected the friendship between the podcast hosts and Trish.
How does the speaker feel about Trish?
-The speaker expresses deep affection for Trish, considering her one of their closest friends, and wishes that she would have communicated her feelings directly to address the situation.
What is the speaker's stance on the drama involving Jeffrey and Hair by Jay?
-The speaker does not support the horrific things said by Hair by Jay and stands by Trish, expressing that they do not know Hair by Jay personally and have never followed him.
How often does the speaker see Trish?
-The speaker sees Trish very frequently, more than almost anyone else besides the podcast co-host, indicating a close relationship.
Why does the speaker feel bad about the situation?
-The speaker feels bad because Trish is scared and hurting, and the situation has played out publicly on the internet instead of being addressed privately.
What does the speaker wish Trish had done instead of the situation escalating online?
-The speaker wishes that Trish had come to them personally to talk things out, rather than letting the issue become a public spectacle on the internet.
What is the speaker's view on handling internet drama?
-The speaker believes in taking a step back, thinking, and breathing before reacting to internet drama, rather than responding impulsively.
What was the speaker's reaction after the last time Jeffrey was physically on the podcast?
-After Jeffrey was last on the podcast, the speaker visited Trish's house and they had a wonderful, loving time, indicating no immediate issues.
How does the speaker feel about Trish's decision if she chooses not to be in their lives?
-The speaker expresses that they will always love Trish and wish her happiness, even if she decides not to be part of their lives.
What is the speaker's final sentiment towards Trish?
-The speaker reiterates their love for Trish, apologizes for her pain, and expresses hope for mending their friendship and having an in-person conversation about their feelings.
Outlines
😔 Conflict and Concern Over Friendship
The speaker expresses their regret and sadness over a situation that has become a hot topic on their podcast. They emphasize the importance of their friendship with Trish, who is upset with them due to drama involving Jeffrey and Hair by Jay. The speaker feels hurt and confused because they consider Trish one of their closest friends and wish she had communicated her feelings directly. They lament the public nature of the conflict and hope for a resolution through private conversation, valuing Trish's friendship over internet drama. They also reflect on their own actions, wishing they had been more proactive in understanding Trish's stance and feelings.
🤗 Affirmation of Support and Desire for Resolution
Continuing from the previous sentiment, the speaker reaffirms their love and support for Trish. They pledge not to speak negatively about her online and express a hope to mend their friendship. The speaker wishes to have an in-person conversation to understand and address Trish's feelings, emphasizing their desire for open and honest communication. They acknowledge the unintended pain caused by their podcast's content and regret that it has affected Trish so deeply. The speaker concludes by reiterating their admiration for Trish and their hope for her happiness, regardless of the outcome of their friendship.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡friendship
💡podcast
💡hot topic
💡social media
💡drama
💡Trish
💡Jeffrey
💡confused
💡cut him off
💡iconic
💡mend
Highlights
The speaker expresses regret for the situation involving Trish and the podcast, valuing her friendship over a headline story.
Trish is currently upset with the podcast and the speaker is confused and taken aback by her reaction.
The speaker mentions drama between Trish, Jeffrey, and Hair by Jay, and disassociates from the negative comments made by Hair by Jay.
The speaker regrets not being aware of Trish's feelings and wishes she had communicated her issues directly.
The speaker emphasizes their close friendship with Trish and the frequent interactions they have outside the podcast.
The speaker reflects on their own actions, questioning if they should have been more proactive in understanding Trish's stance.
The speaker expresses frustration at the situation unfolding publicly on the internet instead of being resolved privately.
The speaker wishes they could have addressed the issue personally with Trish to avoid public drama.
The speaker acknowledges Trish's emotional state, stating that she is scared and hurting.
The speaker denies any intention to contribute to Trish's distress and expresses a desire to mend their friendship.
The speaker emphasizes the importance of Trish's friendship over any internet drama or podcast content.
The speaker expresses a willingness to step back from the situation and take time to reflect before reacting.
The speaker shares their love and admiration for Trish, despite the current conflict.
The speaker regrets that their podcast, intended to be light-hearted and fun, has caused Trish pain.
The speaker reiterates their love for Trish and their hope for a resolution and a return to their friendship.
The speaker concludes by expressing their continued support for Trish and their unwillingness to speak negatively about her.
Transcripts
we have to address is
and i hate to do this because trish's
friendship means more to me
than a headlining story on this podcast
i hate that
we're a podcast that does hot topics and
i've somehow
become a laptop a hot topic that i feel
i have to address
in some sort of way because i've seen
i've been
flooded on all all elements of social
media regarding
this situation and trish
is um
mad at us right now and i guess the only
i'm i'm confused i was taken back
a little bit and i understand like she's
had
drama with jeffrey and hair by jay who
has hair by j obviously said horrific
things that i don't stand by
i don't support obviously i support
trisha over here by jay like
i've never followed this man i don't
know this man i've met him
once in passing yeah and the fact
that i'm so heavily involved with this
really does break my heart because i
love trisha so much
i consider her one of my closest friends
we see her
more than i see really anyone besides
you because you come over weekly for
this podcast and
i guess at the end of the day i truly
wish she would have come to me as a
friend
if she was hurting like the way that she
is
and talked it out with me and i wish
that it wouldn't have played out on the
internet like this
i just am really honestly confused
because i see her all of the time and
even
after the last time jeffrey was
physically on this podcast
i was at her house and we had a
wonderful loving time and i understand
maybe
it's hard for her to express
her actual feelings towards jeffrey to
us
or the gravity in which she's feeling
feelings towards jeffrey when she knows
we're specifically
friendly with jeffrey so maybe it's hard
for her to like
ask me to cut him off but at the same
time i just
i can't read someone's mind and i feel
like as an adult
i have two other adult friends that got
in
an altercation a year ago and maybe it
is my fault for
never having asked her where she
truly stands or wants me to stand i just
i i felt as though that was like their
lane i never hung out
i think one time i was with jeffrey
shane trish
and myself together like they're they
were independently friends
and they're both independently my
friends and
like like i said i see trish all the
time i love her and i
wish she would have just hit me up
personally so that
and so that we could have dealt with
this situation
and i feel awful i feel awful that i
contributed to
her feeling this way because she's
obviously scared and hurting
and doesn't want to be in the position
she's in i don't believe
yeah i have this podcast and trust me
there's
nothing i would rather do than just go
about business as normal and have
and handle it privately well and just
like i don't want to have drama on the
internet trisha's friendship to me means
so much more
than the internet yeah and so
i i'm just bummed out by it honestly
yeah i mean
i have a lot of love for trish too i
don't know her personally by any means
just from our one exchange on the show
and like since i met her in person i've
had nothing but
nice things to say about her and i'm a
fan of her and i'm a fan of her content
and what she does
and i just uh i find it deeply
regrettable that something that we
put out that was intended to be
light-hearted and fun
and commentary yeah caused her so much
pain
and i guess that's the i think the
reason for the confusion
is that this came after like we were
talking about jeffrey and kanye which
i mean we talk about hot topics on the
show the whole world was talking about
it not
i'm not justifying it like i guess it is
her feelings are valid however she's
feeling is 100
valid and shane did reach out to her
i wanted to kind of
let things play out for a second because
i really i learned a lot last year like
i jumped on some things too quickly last
year and
even when the internet is coming at you
i'm still
a person in regards to any drama on the
internet i think it's healthy to like
take a step back think about it breathe
about it like just because something's
coming at you doesn't mean i
necessarily need to react i'd rather
react publicly
really yeah and i and bottom line i love
trish so much i wish her all the
happiness in the world
even if she chooses not to be in our
lives and i think she's iconic i'll
always think she's iconic
i have so so so much love for her and
i guess that is where i'll leave it for
now i'm never gonna talk
badly about her on the internet yeah i
hope we mend our friendship and i hope
things are okay and we can talk about
how we're feeling
together in person in real time
eventually
i just want to you know echo your
sentiment like we love you trish i'm so
sorry that you're going through this
i don't stand by anything negative that
was ever said about you yeah
i continue to you know love and support
you yeah
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