Ways To Text Women (TIER LIST)

Summary

This video script offers practical advice on how to communicate effectively with women via text. It covers different texting personas, including the casual, interviewer, emotional guy, and snapchatter, each offering insights on what works and what doesn't. The script emphasizes confidence, non-neediness, and genuine interactions as key elements of successful communication. It also warns against behaviors like replying too quickly, excessive questioning, or texting multiple women simultaneously, highlighting that being natural and showing genuine interest is the most attractive approach.

Takeaways

• 😀 Casual guys who are carefree, independent, and don't give off creepy vibes are often the most attractive to women.
• 😀 Avoid constantly asking questions, as it can make the conversation feel dry and one-sided, signaling disinterest.
• 😀 Texting 'I miss you' or showing emotional neediness can be a turn-off; instead, maintain an active and busy lifestyle to create desire.
• 😀 Snapchat can be a good platform for younger individuals, combining text and photos for a more engaging conversation, but be cautious of competition from other guys.
• 😀 Replying too quickly to messages can make you seem overly eager, which is generally unattractive.
• 😀 Responding to a girl's social media story provides a natural way to start a conversation, making it feel more organic and less forced.
• 😀 Texting multiple girls at once (volume shooting) can work for some, but it risks lowering your value if a girl sees you're talking to too many others.
• 😀 Polarizing energy is important to avoid being friend-zoned; don’t stay too casual for too long or risk being seen as just a friend.
• 😀 Women are attracted to context in conversations. Responding to stories with thoughtful remarks (e.g., asking about a coffee shop) creates a more engaging interaction.
• 😀 Avoid giving off desperate vibes by texting multiple girls without any clear interest or value; it can diminish your perceived worth.

Q & A

What is the key trait of a 'casual guy' in texting interactions?

A casual guy is carefree, doesn't reveal too much, and comes across as independent. He avoids giving off creepy vibes and maintains a laid-back attitude, which is attractive to women. However, it's important to introduce some polarizing energy to prevent being friend-zoned.

Why is being too casual in texting risky?

Being too casual for too long can lead to being friend-zoned. It is essential to balance casualness with some level of romantic and sexual tension to keep the other person interested.

What is the problem with the 'interviewer' texting style?

The interviewer texting style involves asking too many questions without offering much personal engagement, leading to dry conversations. It makes the interaction feel like an interview, which can be off-putting to the other person.

How should you approach texting a woman if you're getting short, dry responses?

If a woman is giving short answers and not asking questions back, it's a sign that she's not interested. In such cases, it's best to stop asking more questions and reassess your approach.

Why is texting 'I miss you' seen as a negative in dating?

Texting 'I miss you' too early or too frequently gives off a needy or desperate vibe. Men should maintain a masculine, active energy and focus on being busy and independent, while women should be the ones to express missing the man.

What makes Snapchat a good platform for texting, especially for younger guys?

Snapchat allows for a mix of text and photos, offering more personality and engagement compared to simple text messages. This can be especially effective with younger women, but caution is needed since many girls may be chatting with multiple guys on the platform.

What is the potential downside of replying too quickly in text conversations?

Replying too quickly all the time can come across as desperate or overly available, which can be unattractive. It’s important to avoid constantly being too eager in your responses.

How does replying to a woman's story help in starting a conversation?

Replying to a woman's story provides natural context for a conversation. It feels more organic than a cold message, as it builds on something she has already shared, making it more likely for her to respond positively.

What is the 'volume shooter' strategy in texting, and why can it be problematic?

The 'volume shooter' strategy involves texting multiple women at once to keep options open. While it can work if you have high social value, it can be seen as desperate if a woman finds out you're messaging many others, which can lower your perceived worth.

What is the role of context in successful text interactions with women?

Context plays a crucial role in making a text interaction feel natural and genuine. Referring to something specific, like a woman’s story or a shared experience, can increase the chances of a positive response compared to sending a generic compliment or message.