Talking to children who are bereaved

NHS Education for Scotland
9 Apr 201905:22

Summary

TLDRThis video addresses how children of various ages cope with bereavement, emphasizing the importance of clear communication about death. It shares insights from bereaved children, highlighting their need for honest explanations and inclusion in conversations surrounding loss. The video stresses that while young children may not fully understand the permanence of death, they can sense grief and changes in their environment. For adolescents, it discusses the challenges of processing emotions and the tendency to seek information online. Overall, the video provides guidance for caregivers on how to support children through their grief and help them understand this difficult aspect of life.

Takeaways

  • 👶 Children need clear, honest communication about death to understand and process their feelings.
  • 💔 Using straightforward language about death helps children grasp the concept better and reduces confusion.
  • 👦 It's crucial to involve children in discussions around death, allowing them to ask questions and express their emotions.
  • 🗣️ Adolescents may challenge explanations about death, preferring to talk with peers or seek information online.
  • 🔍 Euphemisms like 'passed away' can confuse children; it's better to use the word 'died' to clarify the situation.
  • 👶 Babies may not have words to express grief but can sense loss and changes in their environment.
  • 💡 Encourage routines for young children to minimize disruptions following a death, helping them cope with grief.
  • 🤝 Support from family and professionals is essential for children, as a significant portion may require professional help.
  • 📖 Honest discussions about the cause of death can help children process their grief and understand their feelings.
  • 💬 Including children in grief-sharing moments fosters a supportive environment, allowing them to share their feelings.

Q & A

  • Why might talking to children about death feel daunting for adults?

    -Adults may feel uncertain about how to communicate the concept of death to children due to the varying reactions based on different ages and the emotional complexities involved.

  • What specific information do children need when a loved one is dying?

    -Children need clear and simple explanations about what is happening, including the possibility of death and what it means for the person’s body and mind.

  • How should adults explain death to primary school-aged children?

    -Adults should use direct language and avoid euphemisms, clearly stating that someone has died and explaining what that means in terms of the body's functions.

  • What role do parents play in helping children cope with bereavement?

    -Parents should include children in discussions and activities surrounding the death, allowing them to ask questions and express their feelings.

  • How do adolescents typically respond to bereavement?

    -Teenagers may challenge beliefs about death, prefer discussing their feelings with friends, or withdraw and express anger if their questions remain unanswered.

  • What challenges do very small children face in understanding death?

    -Very small children may not grasp the permanence of death and could mistakenly believe that deceased individuals can return, leading to confusion.

  • Why is it important to avoid euphemisms when discussing death with children?

    -Using euphemisms can lead to misunderstandings about death; children may become confused or misinterpret the situation, which can complicate their grieving process.

  • What should caregivers consider when handling babies after a death?

    -Caregivers should minimize changes to the baby's routine and focus on creating memories of the deceased, as babies may pick up on the grief around them.

  • How can healthcare professionals support children dealing with bereavement?

    -Healthcare professionals can provide guidance and resources to families, helping them navigate conversations and support networks to address the child's needs.

  • What percentage of children might need professional help to cope with bereavement?

    -Approximately one-third of children may require professional help to process their grief, while many can cope effectively with family support.

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