#10: Displays of High and Low Value Part 2: General Principles

Summary

In this video, the speaker, known as the 'Blue Pill Professor,' discusses masculine behaviors, relationships, and attraction dynamics between men and women. He explores ideas on building and displaying 'high value' behaviors to increase attraction, emphasizing traits like confidence, leadership, decisiveness, and physical fitness. The speaker critiques behaviors that show 'low value,' such as indecisiveness and emotional reactions, and advises men to embrace masculine roles while minimizing 'nice guy' tendencies. He provides examples of how men can elevate their value within relationships, particularly in situations of sexual rejection, advocating for stoicism and self-improvement.

Takeaways

• 💡 The speaker emphasizes the importance of understanding the nature of women and how men should respond to it in relationships.
• 📖 References are made to Hindu scripture (Mahabharata) and traditional views on women's behavior, highlighting certain traits described in ancient texts.
• 📉 Displays of low value (DLV) are actions that decrease attraction, such as indecisiveness, emotional outbursts, or overly fawning over a partner.
• 🏋️‍♂️ Going to the gym and lifting weights is advised as a key step to improving personal attraction and dealing with frustrations like sexual denials.
• 📈 Displays of high value (DHV) are actions that increase attraction, such as confident behavior, solving problems, and exhibiting masculinity.
• 🔧 Masculine behaviors like repairing things, leading in decisions, and physically taking charge are portrayed as universally attractive traits.
• 😎 Confidence and decisiveness are highlighted as essential traits for men to display in relationships, reinforcing their value.
• 👨‍🏫 The speaker advises being slightly cocky and assertive, suggesting it might enhance attraction without becoming too rude or overbearing.
• 🔨 Using humor with sexual innuendos after displaying masculine traits can increase attraction and maintain a fun dynamic in the relationship.
• 📚 The speaker encourages men to stop being the 'nice guy' and to develop their own interests, opinions, and assert their needs in the relationship.

Q & A

What is the central theme of the script?

The central theme revolves around relationships, particularly the dynamics of attraction and value in marriages or long-term partnerships. The speaker emphasizes displays of high and low value and how they affect attraction, especially from a masculine perspective.

What are examples of 'low-value displays' in the context of relationships?

Examples of low-value displays include being indecisive, emotional, angry, or out of control. The speaker highlights behaviors such as failing to exert masculine logic, getting upset during conflicts, or excessively catering to a partner as detrimental to maintaining attraction.

What advice does the speaker give for dealing with sexual denial in a marriage?

The speaker advises men to stop reacting emotionally to sexual denials, suggesting that showing frustration or sadness lowers value in the eyes of their partner. Instead, they should focus on maintaining composure and not letting the denial affect their self-worth.

What does the speaker suggest men should do to increase their 'high-value displays'?

To increase high-value displays, the speaker suggests engaging in masculine behaviors such as lifting weights, handling problems calmly, showing confidence, and leading in decision-making. Additionally, being physically fit and showing dominance in certain situations are emphasized as attractive qualities.

How does the speaker connect physical fitness to maintaining attraction in a relationship?

Physical fitness is portrayed as a crucial factor in raising one's value. The speaker encourages men to 'lift hard' at the gym to not only improve their physique but also to have a productive outlet for dealing with frustrations, particularly related to sexual denial.

What does the speaker mean by 'frame' in the context of relationships?

In this context, 'frame' refers to a person's sense of self-worth and confidence within the relationship. The speaker stresses the importance of maintaining a frame filled with high-value behaviors while minimizing low-value displays, thus ensuring that one's partner views them as attractive.

How does the speaker suggest men handle problems in a relationship to display high value?

Men are encouraged to handle problems with calmness and confidence. Solving problems efficiently, taking charge in decision-making, and showing leadership are considered high-value behaviors that can increase attraction from their partner.

What role does humor play in displaying high value according to the speaker?

Humor is seen as an important tool in sexualizing and maintaining attraction in the relationship. The speaker suggests using light-hearted humor, particularly after displaying masculine behaviors, to further establish a high-value image while keeping the relationship dynamic fun and playful.

Why does the speaker emphasize avoiding emotional reactions in conflicts?

The speaker believes that emotional reactions such as anger, sadness, or frustration are seen as signs of weakness and low value. By avoiding such reactions and remaining composed, men can maintain their perceived high value and avoid further damaging the relationship.

What is the speaker's view on 'nice guy' behavior in relationships?

The speaker criticizes 'nice guy' behavior, referring to it as low value. He suggests that men should stop being overly accommodating, emotional, or submissive, and instead focus on developing their own interests and asserting their needs in the relationship.