Make Her DESIRE YOU! - Easy Ways To Become More ATTRACTIVE TODAY

Summary

The video script discusses the concept of making people emotionally invested in you by using psychological tricks. It recounts the speaker's past experiences using such tricks to attract girls, and how he has since shifted to applying similar tactics positively to influence thousands. The script outlines five strategies: polarizing opinions, being relatable, encouraging emotional openness, creating an enemy, and maintaining an air of mystery. It concludes with the idea that these tactics can be used ethically to gain attention and success in the modern age.

Takeaways

• 😱 Jeffrey's attempt to make people obsessed with him using creepy methods backfired and scared people away.
• 🌟 Adonis naturally attracts obsession due to his leadership, attractiveness, and empathetic nature.
• 🤔 The speaker admits to using psychological tricks in university to make girls obsessed with him, which he now regrets.
• 📱 He confesses to invading girls' privacy by checking their phones while they were with him.
• 🔮 The speaker has transitioned from using these tricks negatively to positively, now helping men worldwide through psychology.
• 💭 Emotional investment is key to making people obsessed with you, which involves time, energy, and emotional influence.
• 🌐 Be polarized: Push people to love or hate you to create strong emotional reactions.
• 👟 Be relatable: People are more likely to obsess over someone they can identify with.
• 🗝️ Encourage people to open up to you; this deepens their emotional connection and investment.
• 🐉 Create an enemy: Having a common adversary fosters group identity and emotional investment.
• 🕵️‍♂️ Stay mysterious: Keeping some aspects of your life private can pique curiosity and keep people thinking about you.

Q & A

What is Jeffrey's approach to making people obsessed with him?

Jeffrey tries the creepiest and weirdest ways to make people obsessed with him, but this approach only scares people off.

How does Adonis naturally attract people's obsession?

Adonis has a natural aura that makes everyone in his tribe obsessed with him. He is the tribe leader, sexy, the best hunter, empathetic, and he uses special tricks to stay in people's minds.

What is controversial about using psychological tricks to make people obsessed with you?

Using psychological tricks to make people obsessed with you is controversial because it can be seen as manipulative and not genuine.

What was the speaker's experience with using psychological tricks in his second year of University?

The speaker used certain tricks to make girls obsessed with him, going from being a kissless virgin to having three girls in love with him at the same time.

What did the speaker do that he is not proud of during his time using psychological tricks?

The speaker looked through the phones of girls he was sleeping with while they were asleep, checking their text messages.

What is emotional investment and why is it important in making people obsessed with you?

Emotional investment is the time, energy, and effort someone spends thinking about you and how much their emotions are influenced by you. The more someone is emotionally invested in you, the more obsessed they are.

What are the five tricks to make people emotionally invested in you?

The five tricks are: 1) Polarized - push people to the extreme of loving or hating you; 2) Be relatable - be similar to them but slightly ahead; 3) Get them to open up - emotionally open up to you; 4) Create an enemy - have a common enemy to fight against; 5) Stay mysterious - don't reveal everything about yourself.

Why does creating an enemy make people obsessed with you?

Creating an enemy creates an 'in-group' and 'out-group' dynamic, making people identify with you and want to be on your side, which leads to emotional investment.

How can staying mysterious make people more obsessed with you?

Staying mysterious makes people want to piece together more about you, like solving a puzzle, which makes them think about you more.

What is the new currency in the age of business and success according to the speaker?

The new currency in the age of business and success is attention. If you can make people obsessed with you, you can become extremely wealthy and successful.

How can psychological tricks be used for good according to the speaker?

Psychological tricks can be used for good by learning them and applying them in a positive way, such as in self-improvement and personal growth.

Outlines

00:00

😱 Manipulating Obsession

The speaker discusses Jeffrey's attempts to make people obsessed with him through extreme and creepy behavior, which instead repels them. The contrast is made with Adonis, a natural leader who gains genuine admiration through his qualities and subtle psychological tricks. The speaker admits to using similar manipulative tactics in college to make girls obsessed with him, resulting in unhealthy relationships. He warns against such behavior, emphasizing the negative impact on mental health. The narrative then shifts to how he now uses psychological principles positively to engage a broader audience, focusing on emotional investment as a key factor in obsession.

05:01

🧠 Psychological Tricks for Cultivating Obsession

The speaker outlines five psychological tricks to make people obsessed with you: 1) Polarization, pushing people to have extreme reactions to you; 2) Relatability, being relatable yet slightly ahead of the person to make them think about you more; 3) Encouraging openness, which deepens emotional connection; 4) Creating an enemy, which fosters a sense of 'us versus them' and strengthens bonds; and 5) Maintaining mystery, which keeps people intrigued and thinking about you. The speaker reflects on his past misuse of these tricks and encourages using them for good, emphasizing the power of attention in the modern age of success.

Keywords

💡Obsession

Obsession refers to an excessive preoccupation or fixation on someone or something. In the context of the video, the speaker discusses how Jeffrey tries to make people obsessed with him, but his creepy methods backfire. The video also contrasts this with Adonis, who naturally attracts obsession due to his leadership and charisma. The concept of obsession is central to the video's theme of how to attract and maintain the attention of others.

💡Emotional Investment

Emotional investment is the degree to which someone spends time, energy, and emotional effort thinking about or being influenced by another person. The video explains that the more emotionally invested a person is in you, the more likely they are to be obsessed with you. This is illustrated by the speaker's past experiences where he used psychological tricks to make girls emotionally invested in him.

💡Polarized

To be polarized means to elicit strong reactions, either positive or negative, without leaving people in a neutral or indifferent state. The video suggests that by showing extreme versions of one's personality or viewpoints, one can push people to the extremes of loving or hating them, which results in obsession.

💡Relatable

Being relatable means being able to connect with others on a personal level because they see themselves in you. The video emphasizes that if people can relate to you, they are more likely to think about you more often, thus becoming obsessed. The speaker gives the example of how he became relatable to his audience by sharing his journey and experiences.

💡Open Up

To open up means to reveal one's inner thoughts and feelings. The video discusses how getting people to open up emotionally can lead to them becoming more obsessed with you because they have shared a piece of themselves. The speaker reflects on how he used this negatively in the past to manipulate girls.

💡Enemy

Creating an enemy is a psychological trick used to rally people around a common cause or against a common adversary. In the video, the speaker talks about how creating an enemy can make people more obsessed with you because it creates an 'us versus them' dynamic. He admits to using this trick both negatively in his past and positively in his current work.

💡Mysterious

Staying mysterious means not revealing everything about oneself, which can pique the interest of others and make them want to learn more. The video suggests that maintaining an air of mystery can make people more obsessed with you because it leaves them wanting to 'figure you out'.

💡Psychological Tricks

Psychological tricks refer to tactics or strategies that influence people's thoughts and behaviors. The video is centered around the idea of using such tricks to make people obsessed with you. The speaker shares both negative and positive applications of these tricks, emphasizing the importance of using them ethically.

💡Self-Improvement

Self-improvement encompasses the actions and practices one undertakes to better oneself. In the video, the speaker discusses how his work in self-improvement has led to people becoming obsessed with him because they see him as a guide or mentor in their own journeys.

💡Attention

Attention is the focus or regard that one pays to someone or something. The video posits that in the modern age of business and success, attention is the new currency, and being able to make people obsessed with you can lead to wealth and influence.

💡Empathetic

Empathetic refers to the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. The video contrasts Jeffrey's creepy methods with Adonis's empathetic nature, suggesting that empathy is a positive trait that can naturally lead to obsession because people are drawn to those who understand them.

Highlights

Jeffrey's desire to be obsessively thought about leads to using extreme methods that often backfire and scare people away.

Adonis naturally attracts obsession due to his leadership, attractiveness, and empathetic nature.

The speaker admits to using psychological tricks in university to make girls obsessed with him.

At 21, the speaker had three girls in love with him, showcasing the effectiveness of his tricks.

The speaker's past behavior included going through girls' phones to check their messages, indicating a lack of respect for privacy.

The speaker reflects on his past as a 'degenerate' boy, engaging in clubbing, drug use, and casual relationships.

The speaker has since used similar psychological tricks, but in a positive way to influence thousands of men.

Emotional investment is defined as the time, energy, and effort spent thinking about someone.

The speaker outlines five tricks to increase emotional investment in oneself.

The first trick is to be polarized, pushing people to either love or hate you.

The second trick is to be relatable, which makes people think about you more.

The third trick involves getting people to open up emotionally, increasing their obsession.

The fourth trick is creating an enemy, which fosters an 'us versus them' mentality.

The fifth trick is to stay mysterious, which keeps people intrigued and thinking about you.

The speaker warns that while these psychological tricks can be used negatively, they can also be used positively.

The new currency of success is attention, and these tricks can help one become wealthy and influential.

The speaker encourages using these tricks for good and doing the hard work even when it's challenging.

Transcripts

Jeffrey would love to have people

thinking about him invested into him

obsessed with him and so he tries the

creepiest weirdest ways to make this a

reality but all it does is just scare

off the people that Jeffrey actually

wanted in his life the girl that Jeffrey

wants to attract is Obsession about

someone else Adonis

Adonis has a natural aura about him

everyone in his tribe can't help but be

obsessed with him not only is he the

tribe leader but he's sexy not only is

he the best hunter but he's empathetic

he brings the full package and he even

uses special tricks to make sure that he

stays in his people's minds do you think

it sounds controversial to make people

obsessed with you using psychological

tricks

yes do you want to do it anyway yes in

my second year of University I was a boy

and I used certain tricks that you're

going to learn here but I need to

explain okay first I use certain tricks

to make girls obsessed with me I went

from being a kissless virgin literally

kissless virgin about two three years

prior to this and when I'm age 21 I was

using these tricks to the point of

having three girls in love with me at

the same time and two of them knew about

each other and they'd often like saw

fight and argue with each other when

they see children in the club they were

constantly thinking about me and they

were free whenever I wanted to [ __ ] I

would literally just text them come to

my room and boom literally 20 30 minutes

later she would be there and I wasn't a

good person then so this was four or

five years ago I was just like a

degenerate [ __ ] boy going to clubs

taking drugs and you know sleeping with

lots of girls and stuff I wasn't like a

nice person back then but I do remember

one thing I did which I'm not proud of

but like one of the girls that was

obsessed with not even one honestly I

was gonna say one of the girls but

honestly most of the girls who were

obsessed with me who I was sleeping with

in University I'd often just look

through their phones like they'd usually

just show me their passcodes and stuff

and so when they'd be like asleep next

to me I just like they're doing this

because like it's just interesting

actually been chatting [ __ ] she's been

[ __ ] anyone else let's just find out

but I don't recommend doing this bro

this isn't like it's not good for your

mental health at all and it just yeah

it's just not good for you but like let

me tell you the story of what I did this

girl's asleep next to me take a phone I

know the passcode I'd answer and I start

looking through the text and bro this

happened more than once with like

different girls I'd look through the

text and the best text to look through

if you are like a bad person you want to

look through with girls but I don't

recommend doing this plus if you are

going to do it the best text to look

through her not to look for guys it's

actually to click on her female friends

and actually to see like has she been

talking about like oh yeah [ __ ] this guy

yesterday I click on this girl's female

friends on her text messages and

literally they're all just about me

they're even like the cutest saddest

[ __ ] of like oh my God Hamza just text

me and he's in the club he's thinking

about me yes this was quite a long time

that I was using like certain tricks to

make girls obsessed with me and honestly

I've used similar tricks but now in a

good way from what you're seeing right

now years later I've used psychology to

say more than relevant to be in the

minds of thousands of men around the

world there are thousands of guys who

are seemingly obsessed with and that has

led them to change their lives or

perhaps changing their lives has made

them obsessed with me it's the same

psychology either way I've just used it

differently in a positive way now you

want to make people obsessed with you

this is exactly what you do you get them

to emotionally invest into you emotional

investment simply just means the time

energy and effort someone spends

thinking about you and how much of their

emotions is influenced in any way by you

if you are let's say a stoic guy who's

focused on your purpose and you have

like a girl you're probably not that

emotionally invested into her because

you don't spend all day thinking about

it but if you're more of like a feminine

guy a younger guy you're less successful

you're more of like a normal guy you're

probably quite heavily emotionally

invested in not just your girlfriend but

maybe even just a like a girl that

you've got a crush on you so emotionally

thinking about her all the time you know

you're so excited when she sends you a

text message flip this around and the

more that someone else thinks about you

cares about you feels things because of

you the more that they are obsessed with

you and there's five tricks five things

we can do to spike how much they are

emotionally invested into you Number One

Polarized polarized means to push people

to the extreme dreams of loving you or

hating you too many guys are so soft and

so weak that they'll keep people near

the middle that they don't want to

offend anyone the only way that you'll

find who is real the only way that

you'll find people who really [ __ ] with

you is by pushing people to the extremes

and like really showing almost quite

extreme versions of your personality and

your viewpoints because when you show

those like extreme viewpoints that you

have that's when anyone else who's

similar to that will be like oh wow I

love that guy I love his takes or some

people will say wait I hate him either

way whether they love you or hate you

they're obsessed with you the second

psychological trick that you can use to

make people obsessed with you is to be

relatable and you can see that so

clearly with this channel if you are

relatable if you are just like that

person they'll think about you more

because they're able to like put

themselves in your shoes and if you're

able to be relatable but slightly ahead

of them especially in the things that

matter they'll be so like you know

emotional they'll be thinking like well

like that guy's so similar to me but

he's done something different for

example let's use me when I'm 10 years

old and I'm a little brown kid right

specifically Brown okay and I see some

millionaire walk past and the

Millionaire's an old white guy oh wow

that's really interesting he's a million

oh imagine if I then see a millionaire

who's a brown guy who's only slightly

older than me maybe he's like 20 years

old which one am I able to relate to

more well of course the younger Brown

guy he's going to be in my mind a lot

more than [ __ ] Colonel Sanders if

he's in my mind more than I'm more

obsessed with him I'll be going home

thinking he seems similar to me how did

he make so much money the third thing

you can do to get people obsessed with

you is to get them to open up and this

is perhaps like the one that I use quite

like negatively and maybe manipulate I

didn't I mean I don't know for just

obviously a few years ago back in the

[ __ ] boy days like it's you know girls

are in love with me she's next to me

sleeping and stuff and you know

obviously being sexual and stuff it

opens up and so if she's gonna open up

emotionally to me more and tell me like

you know deeper things or experience

deeper emotions with me and of course

she's going to be more obsessed with me

and again this is what I've been able to

do in a more positive way with what I'm

doing now because the nature of the work

that we do here talking about

self-improvement the deep [ __ ] that

we've been through usually when I'm

speaking to my boys who follow me you'll

end up opening up and telling me some

stuff and when you open up to someone

you start thinking about them more you

start obsessing over them all because

you've kind of shared a piece of your

experiences feelings and maybe traumas

the four psychological trick that you

can use to get people obsessed with you

and perhaps my favorite which is ah I

feel like a bad person talking about my

[ __ ] buddies but it's like it's a part

of me um you know I'm grateful for

everything expressed the fourth thing

you can do is create an enemy we have an

enemy don't we and you know some people

think it's Jeffrey not really Jeffrey's

like the younger version of us who's

just not really on self-improvement but

he's not like a bad person the enemy is

the modern addictions the modern sort of

system that has bred us and conditioned

us to be weak it's the social media

companies the porn companies only fans

that is the enemy if you create an enemy

for yourself and the person that you

want to obsess over you it will create

the psychological term what's called in

group and out group people will identify

with you and want to be on your side

it's like you're fighting a war and that

is so Primal so animalistic that people

will just automatically think about you

and our side more which is emotional

Investments I I use this in a quite

negative way to be honest I never

started doing this purposefully when I

was like a [ __ ] boy you know creating an

enemy meant that there was like two

girls who were arguing with each other I

didn't do that like on purpose thinking

oh yeah if I create an enemy a little

it'll be psychological trivia it was

just more that like I was [ __ ] two

girls and like

I didn't really do it on purpose but it

ended up achieving what I wanted at the

time and now it's very clear that I'm

doing it purposefully I have created an

enemy for us because it's causing us to

rise up and actually take this so much

more seriously and the fifth thing

you're really gonna like this one the

fifth thing that you can do to make

people obsessed with you stay mysterious

a lot of guys don't have the confidence

for this and they'll spill everything

about them straight away and so once the

mystery is gone it's kind of like yeah

well I don't need to think about you

anymore do I so when you meet a new girl

for example are you the kind of guy who

just opens up and just talks and talks

and talks and talks or do you maintain

like almost a level of mystery because

if you keep some mystery if you don't

reveal everything about you it will make

the other person think about you more

not less more because there's more that

they want to piece together they want to

like solve you they want to like figure

you out if you tell someone everything

there is about you which most guys they

are my favorite color my favorite type

of music what's your favorite type of

music yeah I play video game

today but today I did

until 3 P.M and then I most guys aren't

mysterious at all so it's obvious that

like most girls aren't going to be

obsessed with that guy the girls are

obsessed with the guy who stays

mysterious maybe you're watching this

right now thinking wait this is

controversial as [ __ ] I don't want to be

a bad person you can use these

psychological tricks for good psychology

is not inherently a bad thing it can be

used negatively and I hold my hand up I

hold like responsibility for this and

say yes I use it in a negative way but

it can also be used positively and again

I hold my hand up and say yes I take

responsibility I have used it in this

way it sounds kind of bad to learn and

to utilize you know tricks to use on

people but I think it's better to learn

this stuff and use it in a good way than

it is to just like blindly navigate in

the dark we are in a new age of business

and success and we're in the age where

the new currency is attention if you can

make people obsessed with you you can

become extremely wealthy extremely

successful and you can make huge

movements so you can use these

psychological tricks that will make

people obsess with you for good do the

hard work especially when you don't feel

like it mwah