CONNECTED, BUT ALONE? | Sherry Turkle (a summary-review)
Summary
TLDRIn her TED Talk 'Connected but Alone,' psychologist Sherry Turkle explores the impact of mobile communication on our psychological well-being. She discusses how our constant connectivity through devices alters our behavior and self-perception, potentially diminishing our capacity for self-reflection and authentic human connection. Turkle highlights the allure of sociable robots designed for companionship, yet lacking true empathy due to their absence of human experiences. She advocates for the importance of solitude in fostering self-awareness and real connections, warning that without the ability to be alone, we risk becoming more lonely. Turkle's talk challenges us to be the masters of our technology, not its slaves, to maintain meaningful relationships in an increasingly digital world.
Takeaways
- 📱 Technology, especially mobile communication, is so psychologically powerful that it changes not only our behaviors but also our identities.
- 🌐 We are constantly connected through our devices, which affects our relationships and our ability to self-reflect.
- 🤔 The speaker suggests that we should be the masters of our technology rather than letting it control us.
- 🗣️ Real-time, face-to-face communication is being replaced by edited and controlled online interactions, which can limit authenticity.
- 🤖 The development of sociable robots as companions raises questions about the nature of companionship and empathy in the age of technology.
- 🧠 Solitude is essential for self-awareness and forming genuine connections with others, but our reliance on technology may be eroding this ability.
- 🔄 The shift from 'I think, therefore I am' to 'I share, therefore I am' reflects how technology has changed our sense of self and community.
- 🏡 Being alone and comfortable with solitude is crucial for personal growth, but constant connectivity can hinder this process.
- 🧘♂️ Spiritual practices like those of Buddhists and Yogis emphasize the importance of solitude for self-discovery and inner peace.
- 👥 The fear of being alone can lead to using others as a means to feel less anxious or alive, rather than forming meaningful relationships.
Q & A
What is the main theme of Sherry Turkle's TED Talk 'Connected, but Alone'?
-The main theme of Sherry Turkle's TED Talk is the impact of technology, particularly mobile communication devices, on our psychological state and how it affects our relationships with others and ourselves.
How does Sherry Turkle describe the psychological power of cell phone devices?
-Sherry Turkle describes cell phone devices as psychologically powerful, meaning they have a significant impact on our brains and how we think, altering not just our behaviors but also our identities.
According to the talk, how does constant use of cell phones affect our relationships and self-reflection?
-Constant use of cell phones can cause trouble in how we relate to each other and also in our capacity for self-reflection, leading to a new way of being 'Alone Together'.
What does Sherry Turkle suggest we should be in relation to our cell phones?
-Sherry Turkle suggests that we should be the rightful owners and bosses of our cell phones, not letting them control us or diminish our ability to self-reflect and be alone.
How does Sherry Turkle differentiate between real-time conversation and communication through social media?
-Real-time conversation, according to Turkle, involves face-to-face interaction where you cannot control what you're going to say, whereas social media communication allows for editing and deleting messages, which is not real-time and lacks the authenticity of immediate human exchange.
What is the allure of sociable robots according to Sherry Turkle?
-Sociable robots are designed to offer companionship, and they are particularly appealing because they can provide a sense of connection without the complexities of human empathy and life experiences.
Why do robots, as companions, lack the ability to truly empathize with humans according to the talk?
-Robots lack the ability to empathize with humans because they do not have the experience of human life, including the arc of life from childhood to old age, and they do not face death or understand the full range of human emotions.
What does Sherry Turkle suggest is the impact of expecting more from technology and less from each other?
-Expecting more from technology and less from each other can lead to a shift in our sense of self and social interaction, where 'I share, therefore I am' replaces 'I think, therefore I am', potentially diminishing the value of solitude and self-awareness.
How does solitude play a role in forming real attachments according to Sherry Turkle?
-Solitude is the ability to be on your own and find yourself, which allows you to reach out to others with a clear sense of self, forming real attachments based on mutual understanding and shared experiences.
What is the potential consequence of not being able to be alone, as discussed in the talk?
-The potential consequence of not being able to be alone is increased loneliness and a reliance on others for a sense of self, which can lead to using people as 'spare parts' to support a fragile sense of self and a lack of appreciation for who they truly are.
Why do practices like Buddhism and Yoga emphasize being alone, as mentioned in the talk?
-Practices like Buddhism and Yoga emphasize being alone to foster self-awareness and introspection, allowing individuals to understand their inner selves, including their 'Angels and Demons', which is crucial for personal growth and emotional well-being.
Outlines
📱 The Impact of Technology on Human Connection
The first paragraph discusses the influence of mobile communication technologies on our lives, as highlighted by psychologist Sherry Turkle in her TED Talk 'Connected, but Alone.' Turkle has interviewed hundreds over 15 years and emphasizes that these devices are not just tools; they alter our behavior and even our identities. She points out that our constant engagement with phones, from waking to sleeping, affects our relationships and self-reflection. Turkle encourages us to be the masters of our technology rather than its slaves, maintaining the ability to self-reflect and engage in real-time, unedited conversations. She also raises concerns about the development of sociable robots designed for companionship, questioning their inability to truly empathize due to the lack of human life experience.
🧘♂️ The Value of Solitude in an Age of Connectivity
The second paragraph delves into the concept of solitude and its significance in the digital age. Turkle contrasts the philosophical notion 'I think, therefore I am' with the modern 'I share, therefore I am,' suggesting a shift from self-reflection to external validation. She explores the idea that solitude is essential for self-discovery and forming genuine connections, as it allows us to understand ourselves and our needs. Social media, she argues, often prevents this self-awareness, leading to a reliance on others for a sense of self. Turkle warns that without the capacity for solitude, we risk becoming lonely, even when connected. She uses examples like Buddhists and Yogis to illustrate the importance of being alone to achieve self-awareness. The paragraph concludes by emphasizing the importance of teaching children the value of being alone to prevent a lifelong sense of loneliness.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Psychologically powerful
💡Plugged in lives
💡Self-reflection
💡Alone Together
💡Real-time communication
💡Sociable robots
💡Empathy
💡Solitude
💡Isolation
💡I share, therefore I am
Highlights
Technology, particularly mobile communication, is leading us to places we don't want to go.
Cell phone devices are psychologically powerful, affecting how we think and who we are.
We are constantly on our cell phones, impacting our behavior and self-reflection.
Technology can cause trouble in how we relate to each other and ourselves.
The new norm is being 'Alone Together', where we are physically present but mentally elsewhere.
We should aim to be the boss of our cell phones, not let them control us.
The ability to self-reflect and be alone is crucial in the digital age.
Real-time communication is being replaced by edited, controlled messages.
Sociable robots are being developed as companions, raising questions about human connection.
Robots lack the life experience to empathize with human emotions like love and death.
Technology is making us expect more from it and less from each other.
The shift from 'I think therefore I am' to 'I share therefore I am' reflects our reliance on technology.
Solitude is the ability to be alone and gather oneself, which is essential for forming real attachments.
Lack of solitude can lead to using others as a means to feel less anxious or alive.
Constant connectivity can make us feel less alone, but it's solitude that truly reduces loneliness.
Teaching children to be alone is crucial for them to avoid loneliness.
Solitude allows us to be aware of our inner selves, which is often neglected in constant social interaction.
The importance of being alone is exemplified by practices like those of Buddhists and Yogis.
Transcripts
okay one of the resources for this topic
communication and globalization is a TED
Talk by Sherry Turco entitled connected
but alone
so she she started Technologies of
mobile communication and have interview
interviewed hundreds of people about
their plugged in lives over the past 15
years she's a psychologist so with that
studies that she made these are the key
points that she mentioned in her talk
she said
we are letting technology takes us to
places that we don't want to go our cell
phone devices are so psychologically
powerful psychological meaning it
affects our brain how we think so our
cell phone devices are so
psychologically powerful that they don't
only change what we do they change Who
We Are
we are on our cell phones all the time
from the moment we wake up till our
sleep and of course in between we are
texting or scrolling on our device while
having our meals in the classroom
meetings Church funerals and Etc are you
one of this are you
are you are you those kind of person who
uses cell phones all the time
so she said that it can cause trouble
and how we relate to each other and also
trouble and how we relate to ourselves
and our capacity for self-reflection
we are getting used to on the way on the
new way Alone Together
so I hope that you are not
um you are not victimized by your cell
phone but be the rightful owner be the
be the boss of yourself and not your
cell phone be your boss I hope that you
are still have the capacity to
self-reflect when you say self-reflect
know how to be alone and know how to
talk to yourself without looking at your
cell phone
before
um because of the use of cell phone she
said
there before without the use of cell
phone we can still Converse we can still
communicate with our friends
um or constantly communicate
in
like real conversation which means it
takes place in real time and you can't
control what you're going to say
no there's an actual face-to-face
exchange of information but because of
social media most of us we communicate
through messages and we can edit we can
delete what we say so it's not anymore
real time doesn't
um
foreign so she have she has a question
would you rather text or talk to your
friend
how about you I'm asking you a question
would you rather text or talk to your
friend
okay she said we are tempted by machines
that offer companionship we are
developing robots sociable robots that
are specially designed to be companions
so so this is apart from cell phone
right so this is talking about
technology and she said that we are also
developing robots like the real robots a
human robot companion so they they call
it sociable robots that are specially
designed to be companions like to the
elderly to our children to us a robot
that has no experience of the Arc of
human life it can it can't empathize it
doesn't face death it doesn't know life
so
like the the invention of robots as
companions to human and that maybe we
fear that it that these robots can
replace us humans but she said that the
robot doesn't have experience of the
human life because it doesn't have life
it has battery life so it doesn't know
what life is from childhood to adulthood
and to elderly
so since the robot doesn't have those
experience it cannot empathize it cannot
relate the human life and it also
doesn't face death
foreign
death in the family
um love and love and death and hurt then
we can empathize the other person but
robots can't because it doesn't know
life
we expect more from technology and less
from each other and in this age she said
it's instead of
I think therefore I am but because of
the technology I share therefore I am
she also talks about being alone so she
asked how do you get from connection to
isolation
Solitude is the ability to separate
meaning your ability to be on your own
not being with friends or connected to
anyone
it's the ability to separate to gather
yourself Solitude is where you find
yourself
when you are on your own that's where
you find yourself so you can reach out
so when you find yourself you can reach
out to other people and form real
attachments because when you're aware of
yourself and you know who you are then
you know what kind of friends you wanna
hang around and you know what are the
knowledge and ideas that you want to
share so you can so when you when you
Solitude is where you find yourself so
you can reach out to other people and
form real attachments
not fake ones
because of the social media we're not
being true to ourselves
we don't have the capacity when we don't
have the capacity for Solitude or being
alone we turn to other people in order
to feel less anxious or in order to feel
alive
you need to attack someone we're so too
dependent on being with another person
to feel alive because we are not happy
being ourselves being on our own
can you live on your own can you be in
the house on your own for maybe a week
or if you can't talk to anyone
so when it happens we're not able to
appreciate who they are if if
constantly being with someone else
it's as though we are using them as
spare parts to support our fragile sense
of self
we slip into thinking that always being
connected is going to make us feel less
alone
but it's the opposite if we are not
going to be alone we are going to be
more lonely
if we don't teach our children to be
alone they will only know how to be
lonely so that's the impact of being on
solitude
that's why
Buddhists
Yogi they go to the mountains or they go
to the cave on their own to be alone so
that they'll be aware of themselves
their their inner Angels and Demons
Inside and that's they've and because of
that they've shown how important it is
to be by ourselves
other person we don't have time to look
at our ourselves the inner selves
so this is what she's talking about
so that's about this video connected but
but alone by Sherry torkel from based on
her observations and studies for 15
years about social media communication
and Technologies
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