UNDERSTANDING FEMALE ATTRACTION: THE REAL REASONS WOMEN CHOOSE MEN
Summary
TLDRThe video script discusses the impact of men's career success and lifestyle on their romantic relationships. It suggests that those with demanding careers attract women interested in material benefits rather than emotional connection, leading to higher chances of infidelity. The script also touches on the paradox of beautiful women and wealthy men being more likely to be cheated on, due to attracting partners valuing their assets over a genuine bond. It criticizes the 'red pill' philosophy for creating fear and weakness in men, urging them to seek healthy relationships based on mutual respect and understanding, rather than focusing on superficial gains or defenses.
Takeaways
- đ§ Focusing solely on appearance can attract women interested in lifestyle rather than emotional connection.
- đŒ Men with demanding careers may attract partners who are more interested in material benefits than quality time.
- đ High earners should consider the type of women they attract and whether they prioritize emotional connection or material perks.
- đ The risk of infidelity may be higher in relationships where emotional connection is lacking or where partners are attracted to lifestyle over person.
- đ€ It's important to question what truly makes a relationship worth the sacrifices and to reflect on one's motivations for wealth and relationships.
- đ° The pursuit of wealth for the purpose of attracting women may lead to attracting women who are interested in money rather than the individual.
- đ« If a person is attracted to someone primarily because of money, they are replaceable by anyone with money, indicating a lack of genuine connection.
- đ ââïž Physical attractiveness alone does not guarantee a fulfilling relationship; compatibility and shared values are crucial.
- đ¶ââïž Men who are not primarily driven by physical beauty may have different relationship dynamics compared to those who highly value it.
- đ« The 'red pill' philosophy can create fear and reinforce negative beliefs about women and relationships, rather than fostering healthy relationship skills.
- đ Successful relationships are built on good selection, healthy boundaries, and self-esteem, not on fear or manipulation.
Q & A
What happens when men focus solely on a woman's appearance rather than her character?
-They attract women who are interested in their lifestyle and material benefits, rather than seeking an emotional connection, leading to relationships where infidelity may not be a significant concern for these women.
Why do men with simple jobs and careers tend to attract women who value quality time?
-Because their less demanding careers allow for more personal interactions, attracting women who prioritize emotional connections and shared experiences over material wealth.
How does a busy career impact the type of women a man attracts?
-A man with a very busy career may attract women who are more interested in the perks associated with being with him, such as financial security, rather than a deep emotional bond.
What is the potential downside of attracting women based on material wealth rather than emotional connection?
-The downside is that these women may be more likely to cheat, as they may not be emotionally invested in the relationship and may seek emotional experiences elsewhere.
Why do some people believe that having wealth will attract better quality partners?
-Some believe that wealth can provide access to a wider range of potential partners, including those who may be more attractive or desirable. However, this can be misguided if the focus is solely on material attraction rather than genuine compatibility.
What is the potential issue with using money as a primary motivation for attracting a partner?
-Using money as a primary motivation can lead to attracting partners who are more interested in material benefits than in building a genuine, emotionally connected relationship.
Why might a beautiful woman be more likely to be cheated on according to the transcript?
-A beautiful woman may be more likely to be cheated on because the men who are attracted to her are often those who highly value physical beauty and are willing to risk rejection to be with attractive women, which can lead to infidelity.
What does the transcript suggest about the relationship between a man's libido and the type of woman he chooses?
-The transcript suggests that a man with a high libido and a strong attraction to beauty is more likely to choose a physically attractive partner and may be more prone to infidelity.
What is the 'red pill' movement mentioned in the transcript, and how does it affect men's perceptions of relationships?
-The 'red pill' movement refers to a community that shares certain beliefs about gender dynamics and relationships, often promoting the idea that women are inherently manipulative. This can lead to a distorted view of relationships and reinforce negative stereotypes.
How does the 'red pill' movement potentially harm men's ability to form healthy relationships?
-The 'red pill' movement can harm men's ability to form healthy relationships by fostering fear and mistrust of women, rather than teaching effective communication and relationship-building skills.
What advice does the transcript offer to men who feel they are being 'played' by women or who have been hurt in relationships?
-The advice is to focus on self-improvement, setting healthy boundaries, and developing good selection criteria for partners, rather than blaming women or seeking to protect oneself from perceived 'evil'.
Outlines
đŒ The Paradox of Success and Relationship Dynamics
The first paragraph discusses the unintended consequences of success on romantic relationships. It suggests that men with simple jobs attract women who value quality time, while those with demanding careers draw women interested in the lifestyle perks, such as access to a credit card, rather than an emotional connection. This dynamic can lead to infidelity, as the women attracted to the latter group may not be emotionally invested and thus more likely to cheat. The speaker emphasizes the importance of understanding what one truly seeks in a relationship and warns against the pitfalls of valuing material wealth over genuine connection. It also touches on the idea that money can attract women who are replaceable by any man with money, highlighting the difference between superficial and deep relationships.
đ« The Red Pill Philosophy: A Detriment to Healthy Relationships
The second paragraph critiques the 'Red Pill' philosophy, which the speaker describes as a harmful ideology that can exacerbate men's fears and insecurities in relationships. It suggests that successful men do not engage with this content, as it appeals primarily to those struggling with women, often due to poor selection or past hurts. The Red Pill is accused of teaching men to fear women and to adopt strategies that protect them from perceived female 'evils,' rather than fostering healthy relationship skills. The speaker argues that this philosophy validates and amplifies men's shortcomings, leading them to select inappropriate partners and create weak, fear-based relationships. The paragraph concludes with a hypothetical scenario where the speaker, as the 'Empress of the Red Pill,' would aim to correct these misguided beliefs and teach men to value self-esteem and boundaries over materialistic and superficial attractions.
Mindmap
Keywords
đĄEyesight
đĄEmotional Connection
đĄCheating
đĄQuality Time
đĄCareer
đĄSelf-Selection Bias
đĄRed Pill Movement
đĄSelf-Esteem
đĄBoundaries
đĄLifestyle
đĄIntellectual Challenge
Highlights
Men with busy careers often attract women interested in their lifestyle rather than an emotional connection.
Women who desire quality time may avoid relationships with CEOs or individuals with demanding jobs.
Individuals should reflect on what truly makes a relationship worth the sacrifices.
Wealth as a motivation for attracting women can lead to attracting those who are replaceable by another wealthy man.
The quality of women attracted to wealth may not be based on genuine connection but rather material benefits.
Men who are terrified of rejection are more likely to approach and be attracted to beautiful women.
Beautiful women and rich men are paradoxically more likely to be cheated on due to the type of people attracted to them.
Men with a high libido and appreciation for beauty may be more likely to stray in relationships.
The red pill movement is criticized for creating fear and weakness in men, rather than fostering healthy relationships.
Successful men with women do not typically engage with red pill content, as it appeals more to those struggling with relationships.
Red pill content may exaggerate existing fears and poor selection strategies in men.
The red pill movement is accused of not teaching men the skills for healthy relationships but rather how to protect against perceived female 'evil'.
Being the 'Empress of the red pill' would involve debunking the base assumption that women are the enemy and teaching healthier relationship dynamics.
It is suggested that issues with women in relationships stem from low self-esteem and poor boundaries, not the women themselves.
The red pill movement is said to teach men to select women based on superficial criteria, leading to unhealthy relationships.
The transcript emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and understanding one's motivations in relationships to avoid unhealthy patterns.
Men are encouraged to delete dating apps and red pill content to foster healthier perspectives on relationships.
Transcripts
so what happens is they lose their
eyesight when when it comes to her
character and they focus entirely on her
appearance so they end up attracting
women who just like his lifestyle who
don't care if there's a lot of emotional
connection won't mind that you're
working 20 five hours a day eight days a
week um because she's got access to your
credit card and that type of woman is
completely different to the woman that
begs you for a few days off so she can
spend more time with you so what happens
is men that have simple jobs simple
careers attract women who like quality
time men that have very busy careers
that take over their world they attract
women who just like the perks of being
with you and those women are so
emotionally disconnected to you that
cheating doesn't feel like anything to
those women whereas a women that build
with you and are emotionally connected
to you crave quality time they don't
want that CEO lifestyle so they filter
themselves out so you end up with a pool
of women that are more likely to
cheat it's really interesting yeah this
is why people really have got to ask
themselves the question what is going to
need to be true for this relationship to
be worth the sacrifices yeah and if your
answer is sex you're in real trouble and
you have to ask yourself if your
motivation if your motivation for
becoming rich is getting more women you
have to think about the quality of women
if you couldn't access her without money
then chances are any man with money can
access her and if you yeah so if if you
can access her without money she's your
level but if it takes money to access
her you are replaceable by the next man
who's an ATM so don't do it
unfortunately we have to be realistic
with our expectations if you're a four
out of 10 guy that happens to be a
millionaire but the reality is a 10 out
of 10 girl is still not going to be
physically attracted to you she's still
going to just be attracted to your
lifestyle so she's more likely to still
get her physical needs met elsewhere and
the amount of women I see cheating on
their Rich husbands is unbelievable the
weird thing about this for me and it may
just be that you're right and there's a
self- selection bias
for the female version of sociopathy
quite frankly because typically men
cheat because they want a novel sexual
experience and women cheat because they
want an emotional experience that
they're not getting from their spouse
yeah um but this is a totally different
thing but I Al yeah because usually the
emotional connection is limited when a
man is so busy um but I would I say rich
men have it the same way beautiful women
are more likely to be cheated on and
people are always confused by that
because they'll say to a beautiful girl
that gets cheated on like you're so
beautiful how did he cheat on you and I
always say you're the most likely to get
cheated on if you're a beautiful woman
and the reason being is in order to you
got to remember men are terrified of
women and terrified of rejection it's
not a nice feel
that man that is able to go to the 10
out of 10 in the club or the 10 and 10
the street and try and approach her and
try and be with her is a man who wants
women and wants beautiful women so much
that he's he's able to forgo his risk of
rejection he really likes Beauty so that
man is always going to be attracted to
beautiful women beautiful women are a
big value to him he likes that that's a
important outcome for him in his life so
when you're with a woman who's super
beautiful are you've been with other
beautiful women or beauty means a lot to
you you're willing to risk rejection for
it so unfortunately what happens to
women is that shy quiet good reserved
man if she's really beautiful he won't
approach her he doesn't act he doesn't
care to go through the potential
rejection to get to her but the guy that
has plenty of women who really values
sex really wants sexual intimacy really
likes beauty is the only pull of men
that come to her and that man is more
likely to be unfaithful sexually so
beautiful women and rich men and they're
the most likely to be cheated
on that's really fascinating I don't
think that's what people expect so yeah
it's not I mean it's not necessarily the
case all the time but the reality is if
I see a man and he's chosen a a very
very like simple not so pretty girl that
doesn't look after us up that man has a
libido that's different to a man that
has a Playboy Bunny wife he's libido is
different he's a type of guy that's okay
with average and isn't super super
distracted by Beauty and just is sex
doesn't isn't the for for of Forefront
of his mind whereas a guy that's got the
Swedish supermodel sex means something
to him beautiful girls mean something to
him accessing beauty is important he's
more likely to
stray so the the whole red pill movement
with um guys today feeling like they're
pulling back the curtain on how the
world really works and they're
understanding these games with women um
what do you tell them uh it's nonsense
and put it all away and it's literally a
disease that you've inserted into your
brain genuinely yeah and how do you put
it away I I've heard you say delete your
dating apps delete your because here's
the thing with the red pill you've got
to understand that men that are
successful with women don't actually
watch Red fi content this doesn't really
appeal to them men that have good
success with women who select women
wisely who have good healthy
relationships they don't actually watch
the red Bill content that much it's the
men that suffer with women are the ones
either they've been hurt or they suffer
in general they're bad at selection
they're the ones that listen to it so
what happens is it the red pill content
exaggerates their existing fears they
usually have an underlying fear or bad
or poor selection and the red pill
content will tell them exactly what to
fear how to fear it and their strategies
to avoid it but it's not actually
teaching them the skills and tools that
they need to create a good healthy
relationship it's just how to protect
yourself against the evil that is women
and so it's really dangerous to them it
actually doesn't help them overcome
their um their shortcomings it just
exaggerates them and validates them and
then makes them more fearful of women
and more weak more weak what the red
field content creates weak
men say more because what it does is it
teaches them how to select terrible
women it teaches them have lots of money
and you'll get lots of girls have a
young girl that's half your age that's
what you want these women are just there
for lifestyle of course they're can
acheve on you it treat them mean keep
them clean basically attract a broken
woman to have a woman with no standards
who loves lifestyle is a bimbo doesn't
intellectually challenge you that's the
woman you should be with what is this
nonsense how are you going to create a
marriage out of that that's what they
teach them so what if you could be the
Empress of the red pill for a year what
would we be what are some of the
lectures that we would give to try to
get them back on track like they've got
a base assumption that the woman is the
enemy yeah uh that money is going to
solve your
problems if you've ever come across a
woman that's your enemy it's because
you've had low self-esteem and poor
boundaries it's never the woman yeah
never ever there are thieves everywhere
but my house has never been broken into
because there's a lock on the door
there's drug dealers everywhere I've
never taken one because I'm not
interested in that now if you are
constantly getting played by women you
are constantly getting used by them
they're cheating on you it's because you
saw red flags and ignored them and went
forward because your low self-esteem was
driving your selection process rather
than your actual boundaries so it's
entirely an utterly your fault
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