How To Keep A Woman Interested In You | What Women Want In A Man
Summary
TLDRThe video script explores the dynamics of modern dating, highlighting the importance of self-confidence and authenticity in maintaining a woman's interest. It critiques the 'nice guy' syndrome and emphasizes the value of being a strong, masculine leader. The speaker, Justin Jay, advises against being overly available or reactive to a woman's feelings, advocating instead for a balanced approach that includes taking the lead, maintaining distance, and having a clear vision. The script challenges viewers to reflect on their dating strategies and encourages them to embrace their individuality as a means to attract and keep a woman's interest.
Takeaways
- đ The importance of communication in relationships is highlighted, where lack of a good morning text or any message can leave a person feeling unappreciated and unloved.
- đ€ It's suggested that people often spend too much time and emotional energy on someone who may not reciprocate the same level of interest or effort.
- đĄ The frustration of being in a relationship where one partner is not responsive or considerate of the other's needs, leading to feelings of being taken for granted.
- đł The realization that sometimes people are attracted to those who are not readily available or interested, possibly due to the 'chase' or a sense of challenge.
- đ The humor in misunderstandings and miscommunications during dating and flirting attempts, as illustrated by the disastrous flirting story.
- đ The emphasis on confidence as a key factor in maintaining a woman's interest, with the advice to view oneself as the best option regardless of competition.
- đź The idea that being mysterious and challenging can intrigue a woman and keep her interested, as opposed to being too accommodating or predictable.
- đ¶ââïž The advice to take the lead in relationships, suggesting plans and making decisions, rather than always seeking a woman's approval or preference.
- đș The assertion that embracing one's masculinity and being a strong leader can make a man more attractive and interesting to women, as it conveys a sense of security and stability.
- đ€·ââïž The notion that a man should not let a woman's feelings dictate his actions or decisions, maintaining his own perspective and confidence even in the face of emotional reactions.
- đĄ The importance of having a vision and a plan, both for oneself and for the relationship, as this can make a man more attractive by showing he has direction and purpose.
Q & A
Why did the speaker mention not receiving a 'good morning' text?
-The speaker mentioned not receiving a 'good morning' text to illustrate the lack of communication and attention they were receiving from someone they are interested in, suggesting a possible neglect or disinterest from the other person.
What is the significance of the speaker discussing the lack of a message that makes them feel 'loved and appreciated'?
-The significance lies in highlighting the emotional needs that are not being met, emphasizing the importance of feeling valued and cared for in a relationship or interaction.
What does the speaker mean by 'we're in the same boat'?
-The speaker is expressing a sense of shared experience, suggesting that they and others are facing similar situations of unrequited feelings or unfulfilled emotional needs.
Why does the speaker express frustration about spending '12 hours a day thinking about him'?
-The speaker is frustrated because they feel they are investing a significant amount of emotional energy into someone who does not reciprocate the same level of interest or effort, leading to a sense of imbalance and dissatisfaction.
What is the 'disastrous flirting' the speaker refers to in the script?
-The 'disastrous flirting' refers to an unsuccessful attempt at humor or charm by the speaker at a bar, which was not well-received and led to an awkward situation, illustrating a common theme of miscommunication in dating scenarios.
What advice does Justin Jay offer for keeping a woman interested?
-Justin Jay suggests several strategies, including being brutally honest, taking the lead, maintaining confidence, using distance to make the heart grow fonder, not reacting to a woman's feelings, having a vision, embracing masculinity, and being a leader.
How does Justin Jay define 'confidence' in the context of the video?
-In the context of the video, 'confidence' is defined as having the utmost belief in oneself and one's attractiveness, not being affected by a woman's potential rejection, and carrying oneself in a way that commands respect and interest.
What is the importance of 'taking the lead' according to Justin Jay?
-According to Justin Jay, 'taking the lead' is important because it demonstrates that you are not easily swayed by a woman's preferences or demands. It shows that you have a plan and are willing to stick to it, which can be attractive to women who appreciate a man with direction and assertiveness.
Why does Justin Jay emphasize the importance of 'distance' in relationships?
-Justin Jay emphasizes the importance of 'distance' because it allows both parties to maintain their individuality and independence. It also creates a sense of longing and anticipation, which can enhance attraction and keep the relationship interesting.
What does Justin Jay mean by 'using women's feelings to your advantage'?
-By 'using women's feelings to your advantage', Justin Jay means not allowing a woman's emotions to dictate your actions or change your behavior. Instead, it's about maintaining your stance and letting her process her feelings, which can intrigue her and keep her interested.
How does Justin Jay view the role of 'having a vision' in attracting women?
-Justin Jay views 'having a vision' as a way to demonstrate purpose and direction, which can be very attractive to women. It shows that you have plans and goals, and that you are not aimlessly going through life, which can make you stand out as a desirable partner.
What does Justin Jay suggest about 'embracing your masculinity' in the script?
-Justin Jay suggests that embracing your masculinity, which includes being assertive, decisive, and standing firm in your beliefs, can make you more attractive to women. It implies strength and leadership, qualities that many women find appealing.
How does Justin Jay describe the impact of 'your aura' on keeping a woman interested?
-Justin Jay describes 'your aura' as a powerful, non-verbal communication tool that speaks volumes about who you are. It includes your presence, confidence, and self-assuredness. A strong, positive aura can keep a woman interested because it conveys that you are the kind of person who is comfortable with himself and in control of his life.
Why is 'being a leader' considered important for keeping a woman interested, according to the video?
-According to the video, 'being a leader' is important because it makes a woman feel safe and secure. It demonstrates that you are capable of making decisions and taking charge, which can be very attractive to women who appreciate a partner who can provide stability and direction in a relationship.
Outlines
đ Unrequited Texts and the Struggle with Emotional Investment
The paragraph discusses the frustration of not receiving affectionate or appreciative messages from a romantic interest and the emotional toll of investing time and thought into someone who doesn't reciprocate. It touches on the irony of wanting someone more when they show disinterest and questions why people are drawn to those who don't want them back. The speaker also shares personal anecdotes about feeling neglected and misunderstood in a relationship, highlighting the theme of unmet emotional needs.
đ Assertiveness and the Art of Keeping Women Interested
This paragraph focuses on the importance of assertiveness and confidence in maintaining a woman's interest. It advises men not to be overly accommodating or to take on a 'beta male' mentality, but instead to be direct, take the lead, and not be afraid to express their desires honestly. The speaker emphasizes that women are attracted to men who are self-assured and have a solid strategy in their interactions, regardless of the woman's background or preferences.
đ Confidence and the Power of Being Unbothered
The speaker delves into the concept of confidence and how it can be a key factor in attracting and keeping a woman's interest. He argues that women are drawn to men who are not easily affected by their feelings or reactions, suggesting that a man's self-assuredness and independence can be a powerful attraction. The paragraph also discusses the importance of not letting a woman's potential disinterest deter one's self-perception and the value of maintaining one's self-worth.
đ€ The Strategy of Distance and Emotional Independence
Here, the speaker talks about the benefits of creating distance and not being overly available to a woman as a strategy to keep her interested. He suggests that being busy with one's own life and not immediately responding to messages can make a woman more intrigued and invested. The paragraph also touches on the idea that women are attracted to men who have their own lives and are not solely focused on them, which can lead to a healthier dynamic in a relationship.
đȘ Embracing Masculinity and Standing Your Ground
The paragraph emphasizes the importance of embracing one's masculinity and not being swayed by a woman's attempts to change one's behavior or decisions. It argues that women are attracted to men who are strong leaders and can stand their ground, even in the face of emotional manipulation. The speaker advises men to not dumb themselves down or reject their masculinity to fit in or please a woman, as this can make them less attractive.
đ€ The Aura of Self-Assuredness and Its Impact on Attraction
This paragraph discusses the concept of personal aura and how it can significantly impact attraction. The speaker suggests that a man's self-assured aura, which includes his voice, mannerisms, fashion sense, and overall presence, can be very appealing to women. He advises men to maintain this aura consistently, even when dealing with rejection or emotional games, as it can keep a woman interested and intrigued.
đ The Role of Leadership and Vision in Attracting Women
The speaker highlights the importance of being a leader and having a vision as key attributes that can keep a woman interested. He argues that women are attracted to men who can take charge, make plans, and have a clear direction in life. The paragraph also touches on the idea that women want a man who can make decisions and provide a sense of security, which is something a strong leader can offer.
đ The Humor in Miscommunication and the Importance of Space
In a lighter note, the final paragraph presents a humorous scenario where a woman asks for space, and the man misinterprets it, leading to a breakup. It serves as a reminder of the importance of communication and understanding in relationships. The speaker uses this anecdote to illustrate the potential pitfalls of not taking the time to truly listen and understand what a partner is asking for.
Mindmap
Keywords
đĄAppreciation
đĄBusy
đĄConfidence
đĄChallenge
đĄDistance
đĄInvestment
đĄLeadership
đĄMasculinity
đĄAura
đĄBeta Male
Highlights
The importance of not expecting a 'good morning' text as a measure of interest or affection.
The paradox of spending significant time thinking about someone who gives minimal attention in return.
The realization of being in the same emotional situation as others, seeking validation from unresponsive individuals.
The frustration of not receiving any form of communication that makes one feel loved or appreciated.
The advice against wasting time on someone who can't reciprocate even a minute of attention.
The humorous anecdote of miscommunication in a relationship leading to a partner leaving instead of comforting.
The psychological question of why unavailability makes someone more attractive, challenging conventional dating norms.
The self-deception of rationalizing a lack of communication as a sign of productivity rather than disinterest.
The humorous recount of a failed flirting attempt and the importance of authentic communication.
The introduction of a video series on dating and relationship advice, focusing on keeping a woman interested.
The emphasis on confidence as a key factor in attracting and maintaining a woman's interest.
The strategy of being brutally honest as a way to pique a woman's interest and challenge her perceptions.
The advice against being overly accommodating and instead taking the lead in relationships.
The concept of using distance to increase attraction and maintain a woman's interest over time.
The argument for not reacting to a woman's feelings as a way to maintain attraction and interest.
The importance of having a vision and plan as an attractive quality to women, showing decisiveness and leadership.
The final highlight emphasizing the attractiveness of embracing one's masculinity and being a strong leader.
The closing advice on being a leader and making a woman feel safe as the ultimate way to keep her interested.
Transcripts
did you get your good morning text this
morning no oh okay he's really busy or
did he send you a nice message saying
hey like really sorry blah blah blah
blah I'm really busy at the moment just
thought I'd let you know it's not that
I'm not interested oh he didn't send you
that either oh he didn't send you any
kind of text today that made you feel
loved and appreciated he didn't send you
a message that takes 30 seconds a minute
if you want to be like really creative
in how you write it and add those emojis
so tell me tell me why are we spending
12 hours a day thinking about him and
maybe even maybe dreaming We're Dreaming
about his potential and what he might be
and then we're waking up and realizing
what our sad reality is we're in the
same boat we're in the same boat don't
worry this video is as targeted to you
as it is to me I think that we shouldn't
be wasting 12 hours a day maybe extended
sleeping time on a man who can't even
give us a minute of the
day can't can't even give us a minute of
his time to be honest even if he could
give us a minute of his time that's not
enough I want you falling at my feet I'm
pissed so me and my boyfriend doing
boyfriend girlfriend things we're
getting a little tussle and I'm like can
you just leave like I just need I I I
need a moment the audacity this man has
he
left whoosh in the wind like you're
joking you're joking he actually left I
I was at a loss of words winner man
going to finally figure out that leave
means stay and cuddle me until I feel
better I'm not such a big thank you why
are we all so messed up why why are we
so in the brains how come when someone
says like I like you but I just I can't
be with you right now why do we want to
be with them 10 times
more like don't you don't aren't you
supposed to want someone that wants you
so like is it the chase do we like the
chase like what why who taught us this
what went wrong in our childhood when my
favorite dude don't want to text me back
I just tell myself like oh my God he's
being so productive he must be working
so hard cuz that's the only reason he
wouldn't text me back because he's
working so hard and honestly that keeps
me saying even if it's not true what do
you want to be for Halloween
yours I would like to be yours okay part
one episode three of disastrous flirting
dating lack of skills so I'm at this bar
see a really cute guy I go to him try a
chat line oh CH was so well so I said to
him have you on map cuz I get lost in
your eyes he looked at me and I swear he
responded with no I don't have a map and
to be Hest I think you're lost in
General trying to be cute comes back
with or maybe you could show me
around he just said I'm not a tour guide
um good luck finding your way though and
walked off so I'm going to stick to the
day job and give up with the
professional chap lines what's good guys
it's your boy Justin Jay coming to you
with another car video video Let's cook
boys let's cook all right how to keep a
woman interested in you what women
really want in a
man a lot of dudes think that it's
impossible to keep a woman interested in
you she has all these options uh the
competition is it's just very
overwhelming she's got all these people
that want to take her out and blah blah
blah listen you can choose to think that
way but confidence is key no matter how
many options a woman has you have to
view yourself as that dude and the most
solid dopest option out there because
you're that to yourself
already women are not as
complicated as they try to make
themselves out to
be this is why Tik Tok Instagram
everything's a blessing and once you
start dealing with women you will
understand that no matter if a woman is
from here or there
they all are capable of thinking in the
ways that they think so your strategy
has to be solid no matter what woman you
deal with no matter her age anything
your strategy has to be solid so I got a
couple talking points that I want to go
over in this video so you dudes
understand that it's very easy to keep a
woman interested in you half the battle
is the mystery of who is this
guy so with that being said let's just
get straight into the video number one
being brutally honest with women makes
them want to change your mind which
keeps them interested the story is never
finished why does this man think this
way let me see if I can change his mind
even if it's a light-hearted joke oh you
like those I don't really like those
those were never a thing remember I used
to try to get into that and it was kind
of whack to me why you enjoy those she's
like wait a minute he's challenging me
okay okay okay okay okay okay okay so he
can throw jokes let's tell some
jokes all right light-hearted jokes not
being funny Kiki haaha if a woman ever
says anything to you uh like you're not
nice to me well there's always tomorrow
there's always tomorrow you can try
again just a joke challenge just be a
challenge or whenever you have a mindset
of I'm not bending I'm not budging I'm
not breaking a woman is like you know
what I should walk away
but something in me wants to change his
mind and I want to say this right now
see a lot of dudes are going to have
this defeatist or victim mindset like
well that's not going to work never
think like that oh women are not going
to go for that she's not going to like
that she's going to uh leave me right
where I stand she's going to stop
talking to me news flash she doesn't
like you so if a woman doesn't like you
there should be no attraction for her
now it's like if a woman gives you hot
and cold energy you should no longer
feel attracted to her you should no
longer want to kiss her take her out
bring her back to your spot SP nothing
because you're not compatible at that
point so just know that when you become
a challenge and you are brutally honest
with women it turns them
on see when a woman tells you oh that
took a turn lol you're moving too fast
she's not really that interested in you
so no matter how you're honest sexually
being direct about what it is that you
want to happen in the situation if she's
not coming forward to that she doesn't
want that she's looking for a beta male
or you're just not her ideal type I'll
put it to you like that cuz whenever
you're a woman's ideal type it's
something about you being honest with
them that actually excites them like
this guy's my ideal type and he's not
afraid to stand on business it keeps
women interested so I say all that to
say this right never think that you have
to beat around the bush hold your tongue
not say certain things because it's
going to piss her off remember what I
told you there there's no such thing as
a risky text uh a risky suggestion no
you say what it is number two Take the
Lead see beta males think that when you
give a woman what she wants or you try
to accommodate her she's going to be
that much more into you no it doesn't
work like that if anything she loses
attraction for you look if you say hey
let's go here tonight at
8:00 right and she goes I don't want to
do that or I'm not used to doing that
can we do this instead you should never
say yeah okay that sounds good you
should go about it in this way no we're
going to stick to my plan and if
everything goes well we'll see each
other again then we can do that and you
can pay for
that and if she doesn't want to do that
she has no interest in
you see women will actually pay for
dates there's this thing too where
everybody pretty much thinks that a man
is supposed to pay for every date yes if
you ask a woman out you should pay for
the date but if a woman is really
interested in you she's going to come
out of pocket when you go out if she
brings you something she will come out
of pocket and you need to be doing that
anyway to keep her interested in you
because when you make a woman invest
she's going to be interested she's not
doing that if she's not interested if a
woman invests in you see you're not
giving her her way but you're seeing if
she's going to return the favor the next
go around or you instruct her to do
something and she does it she's
investing in you whether it's her money
her time her attention as well she's
investing in you so she's going to stay
interested in you and in the situation
so you never have to go out of your way
to give a woman what she wants don't be
a beta male number three confidence is
key beta mes slip up when it's game
time when it's game time and it's time
to make things happen with a woman don't
get nervous confidence is key when
you're going to approach that woman that
you want to approach conf confidence is
key don't slip up and start stuttering
over your
words basically with your actions
letting her know that you don't measure
up and that you're afraid of her no
that's not going to keep her interested
see right then and there a woman knows
that oh I'm going to be able to lead
this
situation I'm going be able to change
his mind easily because he doesn't have
anything to stand on see there's a
difference between a woman wanting to
change your mind because you're not
coming off your Square as opposed to oh
I know I can change his mind see the
difference a woman is like I want to try
and change his mind as opposed to oh I
could change this guy's mind he's not a
big deal like that he's not so
confidence is key you need to always
have the utmost confidence because
that's something that women don't have
they can yap yap yap about oh I'm this
I'm that I'm career oriented I'm strong
I'm independent I'm Fierce and blah blah
blah women are self-conscious they they
have the lowest self-esteem so you need
to come in and counteract that with your
confidence when you do that a woman
looks at you and she goes I could get
used to this he has something that I
don't have he has the utmost confidence
he's rare not a lot of guys Walk Tall
like this so always have that confidence
and see here's the thing some women will
not want to deal with you because you're
that confident but when you can see
through it you can see through that
representation or that little game that
a woman tries to play when you see
through that you can see it clear when a
woman actually is interested in you in
that confidence that you have confidence
is key and there's never a reason for
you to not be confident a woman can
never be better than you bro you have to
be the best option to yourself you have
to view yourself as him because what do
I always say you are him and they are
them when a woman sees that you're
confident she can smell it off of you
the way you walk the way you talk the
way you approach the way you go about
things a woman is going going to be
interested in that so never come off as
nervous shy giddy weird creepy none of
it because it's just going to turn her
off when you're confident a woman knows
that you don't need her validation to be
confident and that's what makes her
attracted to you trust me number four
distance distance makes the heart grow
fonder okay and not only that when you
give a woman distance this is what I
mean so you might start talking to a
woman you might go out a couple times
and now you only see each other once a
week that's good even from the start
once a
week A woman has time to think about you
she stays interested see a lot of dudes
are always focused on the woman well
she's got all these options she's got
all this but see when you're confident
right when you take the lead all of that
stuff when you're away from her she's
really thinking about you well I wonder
if he's talking to other girls cuz he
can't give me his time I wonder what
he's got going on
let me call them let me text them let me
reach out and then you don't always have
to text back as soon as you see the text
if you are busy be busy see this is
opposite most dudes pretend to be busy
and then there are dudes that are
actually busy but try to fit in time to
text and do all of this stuff no if
you're genuinely busy be
busy it's conducive for your life it's
beneficial for you you have to be busy
always
work distance let the chick know you
know I had a good day today I got a lot
of work done I meant to text you but you
know it slipped my mind what are you
doing right now let's
FaceTime it's all right the number one
thing about it is right when you give a
woman distance it lets her know that
she's not the most important thing in
your life
bro and it's not a bad thing if anything
it's to help you women are going to say
this all the time I want a guy who's
obsessed with me I want a guy who puts
me first who makes me his world who
makes me as Queen it's complete
garbage they can say that but it's not
conducive for you and you're the most
important person see this video is to
teach you how to keep a woman interested
but she ain't the end all be all this is
just things that you need to know
because a lot of brothers they give a
woman all this attention in their time
thinking that it's going to do something
for them no no no no it just plays
against you you're not trying to be
something that you're not you're no you
should be busy so remember that distance
see when you see a woman once a week
she's excited to see you again you're
going to have more fun the sex is even
going to be better you guys are going to
have more to talk about but when you're
trying to do this smother game and
you're trying to be on top of her like a
wet blanket she's going to lose
attraction for you see most dudes get
upset with women when they don't
understand how the game goes you have to
let this chick have her space half the
battle bro is not having high
expectations just going with the flow
leading the situation but at the same
time knowing that it can all end
tomorrow and there's an open door
policy so if you want things to go
smoothly just give her distance give her
space it's not like you're cutting her
off for anything or reprimanding her you
just give it space so it can eventually
grow and Trust and Believe a woman is
going to be interested in you cuz it's
always going to be like can I see you on
Friday all right cool we can do
something Friday oh you think I can
swing by on Sunday no no no I'm busy
she's like wait what no I'm busy I'll
let you know she's going to stay
interested in you women like to chase
men I.E the guys who can't give them all
of their time and attention they put
distance in between them number five you
should use women's feelings to your
advantage beta male don't understand
that all right so when you're trying to
keep a woman interested in you not
really trying she's going to be because
this is just a part of who you are so if
a woman says I feel like this you're
like well I'm sorry you feel that
way oh yeah tell me
more okay cool but you never react to it
this is what that means let me elaborate
if a woman is ever telling you that she
feels a certain way because of something
that you're doing you don't react to it
that keeps her in interested in you
because it's like what the hell is wrong
with this dude now I know a lot of women
are going to tell you well no that's
actually mean and insensitive and you're
using that as a manipulation tactic no
it's not I'm not going to be affected by
what some woman feels because you know I
live in reality and I go off of the
truth and just what is if you feel a
certain way that's not the truth to me I
don't feel that way I'm not supposed to
jump off of my square because you feel a
certain type of way a woman is going to
stay interested in you and here's the
thing the more a woman invest the more
you can take her feelings into
consideration but see this video is for
dudes Who start talking to women see if
a woman tells you I feel a certain type
of way about this most beta males in the
beginning are going to jump out of the
window to accommodate this woman to be
her all you understand and that
literally kills attraction so then when
she goes with the next dude you're over
here scratching your head like well you
know what I was there when she needed me
for this and she told me this and I
thought I should have went about it like
this to try and help her with her
feelings where did it get
you got you nowhere and it's not to say
that you have to be heartless bro it's
just that you never let a woman's
feelings knock you off your Square you
use it to your advantage let her sit
with her feelings it's the same thing as
giving something distance let her sit
where her feelings they have nothing to
do with you it's going to keep her
interested number six having a vision is
very attractive to women it's going to
keep them interested no matter if it's a
vision of where you see yourself and of
course course you're not going to tell a
woman your biggest goals and your hopes
and dreams and all this stuff and be
pillow talking but when a woman knows
that you have a vision for yourself and
a vision for the night a vision for the
evening it's just something that women
are not used to they're not used to
dudes having a plan and you know women
deal with Knuckleheads but I'm telling
you they love a man with a plan so if
you have a vision and a plan it makes
you
attractive you know I want to do this
tonight and then after that we're going
to over here and then we're going to
take it back to my crib and she's like
okay so he's got everything planned out
be about it that way even if you want
her to come back to your house let her
know what you're going to do let her
know the plan for the night it's all
about having a vision when a woman knows
you have a vision you become more
attractive when you're kind of like just
going with the flow in regards like this
right oh well what do you want to do oh
you could just come over and we'll
figure everything out no no do do not
deal with women in that way you need to
be giving them instu instructions giving
them something to follow through your
vision and your planning when you do
that it makes a woman way more attracted
to you because the number one thing
women always say is I don't like guys
who don't plan anything I don't like
guys that don't have a plan that like to
ask me out on the fly so it is true it
makes you way more attractive and I'm
not telling you to go out here and spend
a bunch of money and plan an extravagant
date that's not what I'm saying at all
but just have a plan a vision for the
night a vision of even what you want to
do
her tell her from A to Z and if she
doesn't want to comply goodbye number
seven embracing your masculinity makes
you rare you are a rare guy it makes you
more attractive women are going to stay
interested I'm telling you okay the
women that are not going to like this
they want a beta meil this is why I keep
saying beta meil so you guys understand
the difference when you're masculine and
you stand on your square and you're not
being affected a lot of stuff I said in
this list for instance a woman's
feelings they don't knock you off your
Square you are masculine okay a woman
might not like that at first but in her
subconscious she understands this guy is
a strong leader this guy cannot be
affected I can feel safe with this guy
she's going to stay interested in you so
when you're masculine don't think of it
a woman might even try to shame you for
your masculinity that woman's not the
one for you bro she doesn't even like
like you like that she's not interested
so just know that when you're being a
man about your stuff and a woman is
actually appreciating it I'm telling you
she's going to stay interested because a
lot of dudes out here have a weak
mentality they're very flexible
indecisive don't know what they want but
when a woman knows that you're that dude
see some women are going to run from it
because they know they can't play you
see the women that are actually into you
are really going to appreciate that so
that's going to keep them interested and
here's the thing too even if a woman is
used to dealing with a bunch of beta
males if she's feeling you at the start
and then she needs a taste of something
more at that point in her life she's
like oh yeah definitely interested in
this guy definitely interested in this
guy cuz he ain't a
punk he's not about to go for anything I
like this I want to figure out more so
that's how you keep a woman interested
never just dumb yourself down that's a
term right dumb yourself down to fit in
with the crowd when you're literally
rejecting your masculinity to try and
get a chick you just make yourself less
attractive it's to yourself and to other
women not just this one in particular
woman that maybe you got your eyes on no
a bunch of women so don't do it stand on
your Square cuz women are going to find
that sexy they're going to like that
they're going to be attracted to that as
long as you realize the ones that are
not attracted to it you don't even need
to be dealing with them anyway the ones
that are attracted to it they're going
to stay interested in you all right
number eight your aura speaks volume
your aura speaks volumes this is why you
should never ever ever let what a woman
thinks or feels or says knock you off
your Square this is going to keep her
interested when you walk in a room you
know how people see
you when you're in a situation you know
how you feel when you look in the mirror
you know you're that dude you know that
you're him so you always have to have
that same mentality you have to have
that aura whenever you're dealing with
woman that's going to keep her
interested listen a lot of you dudes
don't even understand that when you're
attractive you walk in a room and some
women are actually going to stop turn
around look at you like who the hell is
this dude because your aura speaks so
think about
it you need to carry that same presence
that same Aura whenever you're around
the chick that you swear you like like
that the chick that you want to make
things happen with like that you never
lose confidence you never second guess
your
yourself you just play with your
strategy and let the pieces fall where
they where they may but see here's the
thing remember when I tell you dudes a
lot of guys like to throw something at
the wall and hope that it sticks that is
completely different from playing the
game with your strategy and letting the
chips fall where they fall you don't
you're not outcome dependent you don't
have high expectations out of this but
you know your strategy is strong that's
why you don't even have anything to
think
about if she likes me this is going to
work cuz it's worked so many times
before this is going to keep her
interested because my aura
speaks your voice tonality everything
your mannerisms The Way You Are The Way
You Walk Tall your fashion sense your
cologne the way you smell everything is
for
you but see one of the benefits of doing
all of that for you is it will attract a
woman that really likes you and if you
really like her I'm telling you she will
stay interested in you bro your aura
speaks never downplay it and that's
exactly how you're going to keep a woman
interested because no matter what she
does you're still that dude so if she
knows that she knows that off of how you
are acting and if you are acting that
way it's because you truly believe it
inside and what do I always say it's
about you all right number nine we're
going to close the video out on this one
being a leader makes a woman feel safe
all right and that's going to keep her
interested that's what women really
ultimately want and a man a man who is a
leader a man who can you know she can
have her say or her input but at the end
of the day it doesn't matter you're the
leader you have to be a planner
everything that I said on this list it
comes back to this when you're a leader
a woman knows that okay this is a good
choice for me this is what I said dudes
remember all those other options all
those other guys hitting her up wanting
to take her out and all this stuff it
doesn't matter at the end of the day you
have to to be the strongest option and
you know that you
are so never worry about a woman's
options or all this other stuff because
that's always going to hold you back
you're not going to want to approach
this chick you're going to be on a
dating app or something look I know a
lot of guys go through this you'll be on
a dating app and the women that you
swear out of your league you won't you
won't like you won't message you won't
say anything you'll just move on to the
easy pickings no no no no no go after
what you want so what who cares about
all those other options you're never
going to know unless you get in a game
and drop
buckets I don't want any victim mindset
guys in here and I already know it's
going to flood the comments oh yeah but
this
andah no understand that when you're a
strong leader and how you carry yourself
your vision your
plan a woman is going to be interested
in that it's going to keep her
interested this is what they really want
in a man the women that are telling you
that no that's not fair and we're equals
and we're Partners they're Goofy and
they're going to be on goofy game anyway
and you don't want to deal with that
take heed to these words brother you
know the nice guy video that video did
so well because I'm telling you the
truth the same way how I'm telling you
the truth in this video see a lot of
dudes are always thinking that it's
about looks yes you have to be
attractive at eye like when you when a
woman sees you yes you have to be
attractive but there's so many other
levels of
Attraction that's why you always have to
be the best person that you can be you
have to feel the best for you because
you're going to start moving different
talking different your actions are going
to be different and that's a part of
being attractive that's what's going to
keep a woman interested yeah she can see
you and you're a really attractive dude
but then what after that so just
remember that this is exactly why they
say uh you know women find 80% of men
unattractive it's not really their looks
yeah the guys who don't try of course
but there's always guys out there who
women consider very good-look that they
just throw them to the Wayside anyway
because their actions and behaviors are
weak when you're acting clingy and
you're acting needy and you're acting
desperate you don't have a vision you
don't have plans yeah you're
unattractive to women you have to have a
plan you have to know what you're saying
you have to know how you're moving you
have to know why there's a why to
everything you have to know why most
dudes don't know why you ask somebody
why and they're like well I got a lot of
stuff going on or uh uh I think and uh I
don't know for sure but and you're going
to hear a lot of butts no no no no no
that's not attractive to women honestly
nobody's going to take you seriously got
to be that strong dope leader women are
going to play a lot of goofy games but
with a dude who knows what he's doing
it's going nowhere it's going nowhere
and a dude that knows his value will
never get down over some chick trying to
play him out or trying to run game on
him pull the wool over his eyes so you
need to understand that as well too half
the battle is not giving a damn if it
goes in my favor it goes in my favor if
it doesn't it doesn't and that makes you
more attractive to women because they're
always attracted to guys who are like yo
this is who I am you can take it or
leave it so always remember that never
go out of your way to try and be
something that you're not but these are
things that keep a woman interested hope
you guys got a lot out of this video
it's your boy Justin J get with you boys
in the next video like comment subscribe
let's go boys let's go so I'm getting
ready for a date with my man he
literally just texted me this let's do
dinner tomorrow I need some space
let's go he's going to think this is
hilarious and he's going to understand
he's going to take me out for not only
dinner but dessert like it always was
supposed to be okay foolproof people
foolproof right what is
this well you you had text for me you
said that you wanted like that you
wanted space so this this isn't what I
meant I'm sorry okay but I put
but I
put I really thought that this was going
to work in the same you need to leave
okay yeah I'm going I'm going I'm
leaving oh my God he got his space okay
and now I'm his
ex it's fine
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