9 Signs Someone's Hiding Their Feelings For You
Summary
TLDRIn this insightful video, viewers are guided through nine subtle signs that someone may be harboring feelings for them. From attentive behavior and distinct body language to frequent eye contact and acts of care, the script offers practical advice on discerning romantic interest from friendly gestures. It emphasizes the importance of direct communication to clarify intentions, suggesting that observing these cues can help avoid misunderstandings and foster meaningful connections.
Takeaways
- đ The video discusses the subtle signs that may indicate someone has romantic feelings for you, rather than just being friendly.
- đ It emphasizes the importance of communication and caution in interpreting these signs, as they are not definitive proof of romantic interest.
- đ One sign is the person paying a lot of attention to you, such as frequent invitations, calls, texts, and inquiries about you through friends.
- đ€ The video suggests observing body language for signs of comfort and openness, which may indicate trust and vulnerability around you.
- đ Attention to eye contact and non-verbal cues is highlighted, with a reference to a study by Harvard Psychologist Zick Rubin correlating eye contact and love.
- đ It mentions that showing care through actions like checking on your wellbeing or offering help can be a sign of affection.
- đ€ The script points out that curiosity about your life and asking many questions could be a way for someone to hide their feelings behind a genuine interest in you.
- đ Compliments and affection are noted as potential signs, but also cautions against assuming romantic interest solely based on compliments.
- đł Unusual behavior like nervousness or awkwardness in your presence can be counter-intuitive signs of attraction.
- đȘ The act of showing off in front of you could indicate a desire to impress you, which may be due to romantic feelings.
- đ„ Finding excuses to spend time alone with you suggests a wish to explore romantic opportunities and deepen the relationship.
Q & A
What is the main purpose of the video?
-The main purpose of the video is to provide insights into the subtle signs that someone may be hiding their romantic feelings for you.
Why is it important to understand the difference between flirting and being friendly?
-Understanding the difference is important to avoid the embarrassment of misinterpreting someone's intentions and to navigate social interactions more effectively.
What is the first sign mentioned in the video that may indicate someone has feelings for you?
-The first sign is that the person pays a lot of attention to you, such as regularly inviting you out, constantly calling and texting, and asking about you to your friends.
How can body language be an indicator of someone's feelings towards you?
-Body language, such as facing and leaning towards you, open gestures, and a relaxed posture, can indicate that the person is comfortable being vulnerable around you and trusts you.
What does the video suggest about the correlation between eye contact and romantic interest?
-The video suggests that according to Harvard Psychologist Zick Rubin's study, couples deeply in love look at each other 75% of the time while talking, which is more frequent than in other conversations.
Why might someone's behavior change when they are around someone they have feelings for?
-Their behavior might change because they are nervous, want to impress, or are trying to stand out in front of the person they are interested in.
What is the significance of someone showing care for your wellbeing?
-Showing care for your wellbeing, such as checking if you got home safe or offering help without being asked, can be a sign that the person is interested in you and cares about your well-being.
How can someone's curiosity about your life be a sign of their feelings for you?
-Their curiosity might indicate that they are trying to get to know you better, communicate in your language, and develop a deeper relationship.
What does the video suggest about the role of compliments in indicating someone's romantic interest?
-While compliments can be a sign of interest, it's important not to assume that all compliments are romantic in nature, as some people may not feel comfortable giving compliments or may not know how to do so.
Why might someone act unusually around you if they have feelings for you?
-Acting unusually, such as stumbling over words or becoming nervous, can be counter-intuitive signs of attraction, as they may be trying to manage their feelings and reactions around you.
What does the video suggest as a potential sign of romantic interest when someone shows off in front of you?
-If someone tries to stand out or impress you in a crowd, it could be a sign of romantic interest, especially if they are seeking a positive reaction from you and only behave this way around you.
How can spending time alone with someone be an indicator of their feelings for you?
-Finding excuses to spend time alone with you, such as making plans for just the two of you, can indicate that the person wants to create opportunities for a romantic relationship.
What is the final advice given in the video for someone who suspects that another person likes them?
-The final advice is to set up a date and invite the person out to see how they react and to understand their level of emotional investment.
Outlines
đ Identifying Hidden Feelings: Attention and Body Language
The first paragraph introduces the topic of recognizing subtle signs of romantic interest. It emphasizes the importance of distinguishing between friendly behavior and romantic feelings to avoid embarrassment. The instructor lists nine signs that someone may be hiding their feelings, starting with paying attention to the person and observing their body language. Attention is highlighted as a key indicator of a crush or attraction, while body language can reveal comfort and trust, suggesting a deeper interest. The paragraph also cautions against confusing shyness with romantic interest and advises observing with a clear perspective rather than just emotional intuition.
đ€© Signs of Attraction: Eye Contact, Care, and Curiosity
The second paragraph continues the discussion on signs of hidden feelings, focusing on eye contact, non-verbal communication, and actions that show care. It mentions a study by Harvard Psychologist Zick Rubin that correlates eye contact with love, suggesting that deep eye contact is a sign of romantic interest. The paragraph also discusses the importance of noticing if someone goes out of their way to check on the listener's wellbeing or asks questions to get to know them better. Compliments and affection are also listed as potential signs of interest, but it's noted that these should not be taken as definitive proof of romantic feelings without considering the person's overall attitude and communication style.
đł Unusual Behavior and Desire for Alone Time
The third and final paragraph in the script delves into additional signs of romantic interest, such as unusual behavior around the person of interest, including nervousness or an increase in energy levels. It also touches on the tendency of someone with romantic feelings to show off in front of the other person, possibly as a way to elicit a positive reaction. The paragraph concludes with the ninth sign, which is the person's inclination to find excuses to spend time alone with the object of their affection, indicating a desire for more intimate and potentially romantic interactions. The instructor encourages viewers to set up a date to better understand the other person's emotional investment and to decide whether to pursue a relationship.
Mindmap
Keywords
đĄflirting
đĄsubtle differences
đĄbody language
đĄeye contact
đĄnon-verbal communication
đĄcaring
đĄcuriosity
đĄcompliments
đĄaffection
đĄunusual behavior
đĄshowing off
đĄspending time alone
Highlights
The video discusses how to discern if someone has romantic feelings for you beyond just being friendly.
It emphasizes the importance of communication in understanding someone's true feelings.
Nine signs are presented that may indicate someone is hiding their feelings for you.
Paying a lot of attention to you is a key sign of potential romantic interest.
Observing body language differences around you can signal attraction.
Eye contact is correlated with romantic feelings, with a study showing couples in love look at each other 75% of the time.
Non-verbal communication, such as being extra cheerful or smiling frequently, can indicate interest.
Showing care through actions like checking if you got home safe can be a sign of feelings.
Being overly curious and asking many questions about your life may indicate a hidden crush.
Compliments and affection can be signs of romantic interest, but should not be the sole indicator.
Unusual behavior such as nervousness or awkwardness can be counter-intuitive signs of liking someone.
Showing off in front of you could be a sign of wanting to impress and indicate feelings.
Finding excuses to spend time alone with you may reveal a desire for romantic opportunities.
If you suspect someone likes you and you reciprocate, setting up a date can help understand their emotional investment.
The video encourages viewers to share their experiences and thoughts in the comments.
It concludes with a call to like, share, and subscribe for more videos on understanding human psychology.
Transcripts
- [Instructor] Hi, Psych2goers.
And welcome back to another video.
Thank you so much.
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So let's explore.
Sometimes feelings can be obvious.
Other times they may not be.
This can make you question
whether somebody has romantic feelings for you.
The old age question here is,
is this person flirting with me
because they have feelings for me,
or are they simply being friendly?
Knowing the subtle differences can save you
the dreaded embarrassment.
So how do you know when people are hiding their feelings?
Before we begin,
please note that this video is purely
for educational purposes only,
and is not designed to suggest that if people
do show these signs that they definitely
have feelings for you.
It's best to talk to the person in question,
and discuss this to make sure that you're on the same page.
After all, communication is key.
With that in mind,
here are nine signs that somebody
may be hiding their feelings for you.
Number one, they will pay you a lot of attention.
Are they regularly inviting you out,
constantly calling and texting you,
and asking your friends about you?
If the answer is yes,
then it appears that there
is already a foundational relationship
that has been established.
The best indicator of a crush, love
or attraction is attention.
What a person does and how they act around
you explains everything you need to know.
The key is to observe with your eyes,
and not just with your heart.
Number two, their body language
will be different around you.
Do you often notice them facing and leaning towards you
when they talk to you?
Are their gestures, open, relaxed, and welcoming?
You've probably heard before that the body doesn't lie.
So if you want to know how you can tell if someone likes you
or not pay close attention
to what this person's body language is telling you.
A relaxed and open body posture around you generally shows
that the person is okay with being vulnerable around you,
and trusts you enough to let you into their comfort zone.
It can be a sign of trust, respect,
and oftentimes even care.
Just make sure that you don't confuse romantic interest
with shyness because shyness
doesn't necessarily indicate romantic attraction.
Number three, pay attention to their eye contact,
and non-verbal communication.
Do you notice them looking at you more often?
Are they extra cheerful or smile frequently and talk more
than usual and with you.
The next time you're with the person in question,
note how often they look at you,
Harvard Psychologist, Zick Rubin,
found a correlation between eye contact and love.
In his study couples deeply in love look at one another 75%
of the time while talking,
while other people engaged in conversation,
only look at each other about 30 to 60% of the time.
If they want to leave a good, long lasting impression
by sounding enthusiastic, inquisitive, and jolly,
it's a dead giveaway that this person likes your company,
and cares about your impression of them.
So it's imperative to try and figure out
if they are putting in a lot of effort.
This could be a sign that this person is into you.
Number four, they'll do things to show that they care.
Do they text you or call you after you spend time together
to make sure you got home safe?
Do they regularly ask your friends about you?
Do they offer to help you without you asking them first?
Their interest in your wellbeing may be another sign
that they care about you and how you're doing or feeling.
However, these subtle things could easily be confused
with a caring friend as well.
But if you find that they'll go out of their way
to check in with you,
then it is possible that they have a crush on you
or have feelings for you.
Number five, they may be overly curious about you.
Do you find them asking you questions
about you and your life?
Do you find that they want to know more about you,
and what makes you who you are?
People who are trying to get to know others
may be hiding their feelings behind their burning curiosity.
It might be so that they can communicate in your language,
and talk about the things you enjoy talking about.
Asking you a lot of questions essentially intends
to encourage you to talk about yourself,
and open up about your life.
And this is a basic human technique that most of us use
on a daily basis, perhaps without even knowing it.
They would ask questions subliminally,
and often without awareness with the intention
of developing more of a relationship with you.
Number six, they may offer you compliments and affection.
Do they compliment on your looks, clothing, style, taste,
and music and so on?
Do compliments mean anything at all?
Attitude plays a huge role
in whether a person likes you or not
when it comes to relationships.
So pay close attention to how a person communicates to you.
It's important to say that we should not assume that just
because somebody compliments you
that means that they like you in a romantic way.
However, it also doesn't mean
that if somebody doesn't compliment you
that they aren't into you or that they don't like you.
Some people just don't know how to compliment
or might not feel comfortable doing so.
However, if you notice
that they may be complimenting you excessively,
that may be a sign that a person is interested in you
because they want you to feel good.
This person wants you to like them,
and give them the validation that they crave.
The person in question may be investing in you,
and wants you to feel secure and comfortable around them.
Number seven, they may act unusual around you.
Have they ever stumbled over their words or become tense
or nervous when you show up?
Do they tell awkward jokes
or even pull away suddenly and unexpectedly?
These are actually counter-intuitive signs
that someone likes you.
Dating expert Matthew Hussey states
that people will act differently around you
than they do with other people.
You may even notice that their energy levels will go up
when they're around you.
Number eight, they may show off in front of you.
Do they try and stand out in a crowd when you're together?
Another way to tell if someone secretly likes you
is to look at their behavior.
This could be down to two things, high ego,
or their feelings for you.
To find out which it is be aware
of the way this person communicates to you.
Do you get the feeling that they're eyeing you
for a positive reaction and is trying to impress you?
Are you the only person they do this to?
If yes, then the person may be interested
in wanting to get to know you romantically,
and share their feelings with you.
And number nine,
they'll find excuses to spend time alone with you.
Do they ask to make plans with you
where it's just you and them,
or do you often find them agreeing to everyday adventures
with just the two of you?
When a person has feelings for someone
they would wanna spend most of their time with them
as this could present itself with romantic opportunities.
They may suggest hanging out after school
or ask for some help with work.
So when you suspect that someone likes you,
and you like them back set up a date.
Invite them out and see what happens next.
You'll quickly understand how emotionally invested
this person is in you and decide whether
you want to pursue a relationship with them.
We hope we were able to give you insight into some
of the ways you can tell if someone likes you.
Do any of these describe your experience?
What are some of the signs you've noticed?
Leave a comment down below about your experiences.
And please feel free to share any thoughts you have as well.
If you found this video helpful,
be sure to hit the like button and share it
with those still figuring out
whether someone likes them or not.
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